2. • Can you identify a time /place or experience
today in which you felt power?
• Any powerful epiphanies about your
characters or scripts?
• Did you explore the creation of a new story?

6. YANG YIN
• Activating • Responding
• Rising (High) • Falling (Low)
• Elements: Air and Fire • Elements: Earth and
• Assertive, direct, penetrati Water
ng
• Receptive, indirect, enclosi
• Solar ng
• Courageous, bold, fierce,
passionate, proud • Lunar
• Archetypes: • Yielding, vulnerable, nurt
Warrior, Leader, Adventu uring, humble
rer, King/Queen • Archetypes:
Maiden, Mother, Servant
Yang Spectrum: Yin Spectrum:
Assertive <-> Aggressive Passive <-> Receptive

7. TEACHINGS
 Equanimity/Balance
 Seeding Power in the
Opposite
 Extremes become their
Opposite
 Integration of
opposites=wholeness

8.  How would you describe
the one in the dominant role?
 What are some ways in
which the dominant one has
power?

9. • How would you
describe the one in the
submissive role?
• What are some ways
in which the
submissive one has
power?

10. With conscious expression,
dominance and
submission are equally
powerful

11.  Introduce yourselves
 Discuss:
(1) In what ways do you find pleasure in
expressing dominance in your life?
(2) In what ways do you find pleasure in
expressing submission in you life?
(3) What dominant or submissive energies do you
express in daily life that you could give
expression to in your sexual or fantasy life?

12.  Express a lesser known
part of the self
 Projection onto partner:
Recognizing and
reclaiming personal
power

13. EXPRESS A LESSER KNOWN PART OF THE SELF

14. POWER PROJECTION: RECOGNIZING AND
RECLAIMING DISOWNED ASPECTS OF SELF

15. Bondage and Discipline
Domination and Submission
Sadomasochism

16.  Introduce yourselves
 Discuss:
1. What are your projections of power?
2. What would be possible if you reclaimed this
power in your sexuality?

17. • Working with sexual characters and
gatekeepers
• Postures of Power
• Yin/ Yang
• Dominance and Submission
• Claiming Personal Power
• Projection of Power
• Possibilities of Power

18.  Awareness
 Working with Sexual Characters
 Dominant and Submissive
 Unclaimed Power
 Projection of Power
 Choice
 Conscious Expression
 Playful Expression
 Action
 Have the Naysayer work for you
 Integrate with the opposition

19.  Journaling: Interview one of your Naysayers or
Gatekeepers.
Questions to ask: What do you call yourself? How do you help
me? What do you need from me? What else do you want me
to know about you? Are you willing to take a vacation? If
so, where is a comfortable place for you to be, while other
parts of me are being sexual? Is there a creative way for you
to come on board with my sexual expression?
 Integrate with the Opposition
Play out the opposite role from the one you are
accustomed to playing. You can do this with a partner
or receive a guided self-pleasuring exercise. Please
email Rebecca at interbeinghealing@gmail.com for the
exercise.

21. Is Power a Dirty Word?
Part I http://www.soulvisionconsulting.com/blog/is-power-a-dirty-
word/
Is Power a Dirty Word? Part II
http://www.soulvisionconsulting.com/blog/is-power-a-dirty-
word-part-ii/
Fifty Shades of Grey, by E. L. James
Online list of BDSM resources:
http://www.crsh.com/bdsm_resources/

22. REBECCA CHAPLIN, MA SAJITGREENE, MA
Somatic Sexologist and Gerontologist Relationship Coach and Astrologer
Sajit worked for 20+ years as a body-
Rebecca has an MA in Gerontology from centered psychotherapist, with a
Naropa University and is certified as a focus on sexuality, creativity, and
SexologicalBodyworker, by the spirituality. She now offers
Advanced Institute for Human coaching services for individuals and
Sexuality. Rebecca is also a Reiki couples who are seeking
Master and Cranial Sacral empowerment, deeper intimacy, and
therapist. “It is my great passion to spiritual growth. Using insights from
facilitate awakening to our inherent
astrology, Sajit helps each client
illuminate their unique soul journey.
excellence through these Her coaching process includes
modalities.” Rebecca lives and works working with inner
in Asheville, NC and offers educational characters, through Voice Dialogue
programs internationally. Process. She also uses “The Work”
of Byron Katie, body-awareness
www.interbeing.me practices, and expressive arts.
www.Sajit.net