It sounds so obvious, perhaps even tongue in cheek, but it also seems to be forgotten enough that it needs to be said aloud again: Investors are human too. They, like the entrepreneurs they back, can ride the rollercoaster of emotions that often come with starting a company. In this episode Jerry Colonna is joined by Bijan Sabet of Spark Capital and they explore some of the tensions that often arise between investors and entrepreneurs, the emotional perspective of the investor, and the importance of purpose and artistry. As a bonus, it includes Jerry reading a blessing at the end.

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“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” – Leo Tolstoy.
It sounds so obvious, perhaps even tongue-in-cheek, but it also seems to be forgotten enough that
it needs to be said aloud again. Investors are human too. They, like the entrepreneurs they back,
can ride the rollercoaster of emotions that often come with starting a company; anxieties, fears,
excitement, the temptation to merge sense of self with success or failure. What challenges and
problems can these emotions create? What tensions can arise between entrepreneurs and
investors? What’s the opportunity for entrepreneurs and investors in recognizing and addressing
them? We’re very excited to have only our second investor on the podcast, the wonderful Bijan
Sabet. Bijan is a partner at Spark Capital, a Boston-based VC firm that has backed 108
companies including ones we all use and love, such as Twitter, Trello and Tumblr.
In this discussion, Bijan and Jerry explore some of the tensions that often arise between investors
and entrepreneurs, the emotional perspective of the investor, and the importance of purpose in
artistry. As a bonus, it includes Jerry reading a blessing at the end, so stick around for that; for
full links, notes, quotes and more, head on over to reboot.io/podcast. Now, enjoy their
conversation.
Jerry Colonna: Hey Bijan, it’s good to see you again; it’s been a long time.

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Bijan Sabet: Great to see you; hi Jerry.
Jerry: Yeah, and thank you for coming on the podcast. Now as I was saying before we
started recording, you are actually only the second investor I’ve had on. So, it’s
actually kind of fun and as a former investor and someone – we’ve been friends
for a while, I’ve been interested in really exploring more of that relationship
between investors and entrepreneurs, and I really appreciate your coming on to
spend some time talking about that, and to really talk about, perhaps some of the
areas where you’ve seen some problems, and some of the areas where you’ve
seen where it works well. But before I jump in on that, I just wonder what your
reaction would be to this notion that the tension that can exist between investors
and entrepreneurs is really a problem; am I seeing that correctly?
Bijan: Yeah, I mean, it certainly exists for sure. You know, it’s funny, this week, this
very week is our tenth year anniversary as a venture capital firm at Spark.
Jerry: Oh congratulations.
Bijan: Tomorrow, actually the 15th is our ten year. So it’s a moment for me to kinda
reflect on the whole bunch of experiences and all that and yeah, the tension can be
real and sometimes it’s even there before this relationship starts. There’s this
thing in the blogosphere, or on other things where it’s like, hey, you know, be
weary of the VC or you just kinda have this dynamic that is sometimes set up in a
funky way.
Jerry: So, even before the relationship starts to unfold, and what I’m hearing you say is
that there’s an almost fear that steps into that; am I naming that correctly?
Bijan: I think so. I mean you have – and obviously there’s fear on both sides but you
know, there are some examples where these relationships start with an open mind
and a positive you know, disposition I guess, or frame of mind. But there’s
somewhere you can kinda feel this guarded world where it’s like, ‘Hey I’m
raising capital, I’m gonna wrap this up in the next ten days and you know, we’re
having our meeting this week and we’re accepting term sheets next week’ and
you just feel this wall where you know, little bit of fear, concern, you know, all
the stuff and it just creates a very tough dynamic to break through. At least from
my standpoint, it creates – it’s very hard to engage that way. As you know, these
are very long-term relationships, and if it starts that way, how’s it gonna last?
Jerry: Yeah. What do you think the root of that is? Where does that come from?
Bijan: You know, I think that in all of these things, there’s some curls of truth to this
stuff; I mean, there’s plenty of examples of relationships, business relationships,
investment experiences that didn’t go well and so people try to learn from those
lessons and pass them on, but I think as they get cherry-picked these lessons, and
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lesson can be like, ‘Hey you got to focus on your business, don’t waste time with
investors’, you know, there’s some merit to that and to be thoughtful about it, and
to be mindful of your time but then taken to its extreme, you can get a version of
that that’s not awesome. I think probably a lot of this is based on – there’s like a
lot of good lessons then it just gets kinda messed up along the way.
Jerry: And what if you learned – I mean I guess ten years – and Spark is your first
Venture Capital firm; is that right?
Bijan: Yes, I really enjoyed your chat with Fred where you know, you had all these
different experiences over different history; yeah but for me, this is it. This is all
I’ve known.
Jerry: So looking back over those last ten years, you know, we didn’t plan for this to be
a moment of reflection but great, fantastic. So looking back at those last ten years,
what are some things that you might have done to contribute to some of that fear
in that relationship?
Bijan: Yeah, well look, I mean the beginning – actually Fred told me this early on; I met
Fred Wilson before there was Spark Capital. We had a mutual friend, Steve Cain,
who introduced Fred when he –
Jerry: Sure, and let’s be fair, I introduced Steve to Fred.
Bijan: That’s right, there’s a real connection here and Fred I met, he was in Boston
raising money for his first USV fund and before that fund organized, I met him
and we stayed in touch but after I became a venture capitalist and we had our fund
up and running, I remember he said something to me in passing about like, you
know, one of the worst things is a VC who had operating experience, who has no
board seats and no venture experience. Like that was a lethal comment or some
version that – I’m probably getting the exact quote wrong, but basically he was
talking about me. Maybe intentionally or unintentionally, but you know, an
investor with no other board responsibilities, loads of time at his or her disposal,
but yet has a track record and an operating experience, that creates a scenario that
can be very tough for investors, new investors were you suddenly want to add
value, care about these investments, you care about your firm, you care about all
these different voices that are coming at you. And you know, I’m sure I know I’ve
learnt a lot in the last ten years, but in the beginning I’m sure I was just like, you
know, much more kinda hasty about things than I hopefully am today.
Jerry: So was there something about having been an operator that made you more hasty?
Bijan: I think the natural thing, at least my own experience, and that I’ve seen is that you
– it’s a very you know, different job, and so when you no longer have an
operating role in these companies but you kinda feel this closeness to the
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know how to fix that thing’ and that can be a really tough situation because then
you’ve gone from, you know, a partner to an unwanted guest in the house.
Jerry: Yeah, you know, I’m recalling a similar experience I had when I first became a
VC, it was probably my first year with Fred at Flatiron, and I had made – one of
our first investments was an investment I made in a company called Mainspring.
The co-investors there, the lead co-investors were Bill Kaiser from Greylock and
Paul Maeder from Highland, two pros, gentlemen, thoughtful people who taught
me so much about being a good investor. And I remember I came out of an
operating background, I had an editorial background, and our first business model
at Mainspring was basically an information service in the IT space, and I made
the mistake of – a really rookie mistake of saying, I’m gonna help – and I’m using
that term loosely – by jumping in and I’ll go up there one day a week and I’ll be
the, sort of, quasi-editorial person there. And it’s so great you know, doing this
and John Connelly, who is an incredibly effective and thoughtful CEO, someone I
have learned a lot from as well welcomed that. He welcomed the additional
thoughts; I mean, I didn’t feel like an unwelcome guest, but maybe I wasn’t
always as conscious of the feeling. But I remember Bill Kaiser pulling me aside at
the end of a board meeting one time and he said to me, “What the hell are you
doing? Like you actually have to choose; are you gonna be an operator or are you
gonna be an investor? You could be a really good operator, but as long as you
hold that chair, as long as you take that role, you’re actually preventing the
company from filling that role.” And it was a shock and I was really grateful for
that lesson because I could see, if I had let my ego go forward, ‘cause really what
– for me what I was going through was, this venture business, this is scary and I
don’t really know what I’m doing, shhh, don’t tell anybody.
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: But this other thing, this operating role, that I know stone-cold.
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: So rather than actually thinking about what’s in the best interest of the company, I
was trying to manage and massage my own fears by getting all involved, and
thinking well about myself by telling myself that I was helping.
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: Does this resonate at all?
Bijan: Oh yeah, it’s such a great point; I mean, if I were to contrast Fred’s comment
about the worst thing as an idol – former operating - now turned investor, my
worst nightmare is a VC on the board with me that has a situation where the rest
of their portfolio is on fire and this is the shiny company because then you are
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put on to this company for reasons that have nothing to do with the company. But
you see it and VCs are humans and they get stressed and nervous like anybody
else and when the rest of the portfolio is on fire and you have this one great
company, and all of a sudden they have this unnatural expectations on this
company, and –
Jerry: So it’s almost like their whole reputation as an investor, if not actually the return
on investment on the fund –
Bijan: And sometimes those are completely intertwined.
Jerry: Right. And so then there’s this intense focus on – as a company, and you said
you’ve seen that and I won’t ask you to name names of course, but what happens
in the boardroom when that kind of – or what happens in that dialogue when that
kind of pressure is involved? What happens for the CEO, or for the entrepreneur?
Bijan: Well, you know, it’s a very tough situation because all of a sudden, the patience
level in the boardroom get’s very thin, the fuse gets very short; I mean, these
startups, very few, I mean, you know, we’ve backed 108 companies in ten years
and you know, I’m very proud of our track record, but like you know, most don’t
work out as you would hoped and then once that you work out require a lot of
time and patience. And when the patience is gone, you know, it creates a very,
very problematic situation. So that’s the thing I see in this scenario where a VC is
on the board, that company is doing, you know, well or reasonably well given all
the challenges in front of them, but yet they have all this, you know, angst put on
them because of what the investor – you know, the baggage that comes along and
that’s very hard. I mean, I don’t have a quick little one-liner on how to deal with
that but I do – I have seen it and I think when that dynamic gets all messed up,
everything gets harder.
Jerry: Yeah, I relate to that; I both remember it when I sat on so many boards but also
really working as a coach now with entrepreneurs and often times, they are
surprised when I say something that you just said which is that remember the
investor is human. And what I mean by that is of course everybody knows we are
human, but what is surprising is they don’t necessarily realize, the entrepreneur
doesn’t necessarily realize that the investor is just as subject to anxiety as they
are. And that they too have investors, they too have expectations and sometimes, I
think it’s easy to forget that because the power dynamic that exists creates a
license in effect to be aggressive.
Bijan: Right. I think that’s right, that’s a great point, and I think the part that becomes
non-obvious potentially to people that haven’t been in this role – and look VCs,
there’s a lot of very nice things about the life of a venture capitalist but I think it’s
– there’s a hard way or – I don’t want to say unfair, but there’s this way of
looking at a VC and like, they’ve got a portfolio. If this company doesn’t work
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they have because you know, that portfolio that that fund has, is separate and
distinct but safe from that individual who maybe only has as few investments, and
they feel like their ego and their reputations is intertwined with the success of this
outcome; you know, what I’m saying.
Jerry: Mm-hmm.
Bijan: I think it can easily be chalked up to be like the VC you know, why do they have
to be nervous, they have a bunch of other companies, you know, and that’s not
how real humans interact with these.
Jerry: Well, you know, I think you hit upon another important point which I often
experience when working with clients, you know, we spent a lot of time working
with clients and talking about the emotional rollercoaster that they often ride
where the highs are abnormally high and the lows are abnormally low. And I
often attributed to this phenomena of merging a sense of self-worth with the
success of the enterprise and you know, I’m a Buddhist and one of the things that
we always sort of seek is the kind of equanimity where we are separate from the
action, where our sense of purpose or our sense of being is separated from that.
And listening to you describe it, it feels evocative of the same phenomena which
is you know – and this is hard because the perception of VCs is that they have so
much money or that they have so much power that they’re not necessarily – they
don’t necessarily warrant sympathy or empathy, and yet they’re just as subject to
the vicissitudes of marrying their sense of self-esteem and self-worth to
achievement of some sort of goal. And one of my favorite quotes comes from
William James, and I’ll paraphrase it now, and what he said was, ‘We’re not
annihilated by failure. We are only annihilated when we merge a sense of self-
esteem and self-worth with the attainment of the goal and then fail to achieve the
goal.’ It’s not failure itself, it’s not the loss in the portfolio, it’s not the loss of this
particular company or a bad investment, or an investment gone bad; it’s when my
whole sense of my own being is tied to that achievement.
Bijan: Right, that’s exactly right, yeah.
Jerry: So you resonate with that.
Bijan: I do, I have experienced it firsthand, I’ve seen it firsthand with others, it’s a real
challenge and I don’t know if this has always been the case so you know, as a
relative newcomer to this field, ten years, you know, we know plenty of people
have practiced this work for longer, but in today’s world, where everything is
public and talked about, and discussed, and ranked, and so much public theater
around you know, VC and you know, this whole business we are in, I feel like
that constant shining a light on, you know, people’s work performance, I know
why it easily gets caught into the personal sense of worth, you know, when the
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are incredibly high and the lows are incredibly low, and if you aren’t able to be
mindful about this, you can get lost, you can really get turned around.
Jerry: So without going into any specifics or giving you the latitude to talk about that,
you know, I think one of the challenges is that when you have a high-profile
portfolio company that has really examined, and explored, and investigated by a
media that quite frankly is kind of prurient in its fixation on the inner workings of,
what one person I know calls, ‘Every single shit-show called an entrepreneurial
startup’, right?
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: There’s this exacerbating effect of like ‘Oh, you come out of a board meeting and
you find out that the contents of that board meetings are now in TechCrunch.
Bijan: Yeah, yeah, right.
Jerry: And you know, you are trying to experience that. I imagine you’ve had your own
experiences with that.
Bijan: I have and you know, I got to tell you, I think there’s some areas that I’m very
happy that I feel like I have gained a healthier perspective on all of this, things
that we’re talking about, in terms of patience and perspective and you know, kind
of not – treating each particular startup that I work with has its own unique thing.
I mean, there’s a lot of examples there where I’ve seen people try to replicate
what works in one company into another and it doesn’t work that way. But the
one thing that I still struggle with is like you know, having a thick skin
consistently, you know, about some of these things. I mean, you know, when
you’re working with a high-profile company, or a set of companies and you know
people turn on you as it often can be the case, I mean, look at Dick Costolo, I
mean, he went from hero – I mean, when he took the company public, literally the
press was saying, this was the anti-Facebook IPO. It was this masterful thing he
did, he built the business model out of nothing, he took the company public in a
way that allowed public investors to get appreciation on the value, and it was
masterful. Three quarters later, you couldn’t find one piece of good news about
him. It’s just really intense and I know Dick and I know he – it probably infected
and hit him really hard, and you try to develop a thick skin about these things and
keep a healthy perspective, but I’ll tell you, when they go after you it takes a
special person to be able to withstand those blows.
Jerry: It’s enormously difficult and I remember just thinking about Dick, I’ve only met
him a few times and thoroughly enjoyed him each time, and this is not even a
dialogue about his performance but it’s really about the phenomena of not really –
I’m a former reporter so sometimes I can be hard on my journalist friends; I will
say this again about myself, I’m embarrassed by the way I wrote as a journalist in
my twenties because I thought I actually understood business, and I would opine,

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and I would say things that had no basis in reality because that’s the expectation.
And so I am empathetic to the challenge that they have, and yet sometimes I do
wish that people would, you know, use that old adage of walk a mile in
someone’s shoes before they are really willing to criticize. What is it truly like to
sit on the board of directors of a publically traded company? What is it truly like –
especially if you’re not a sociopath; and there are sociopaths in the world, there’s
no question about that, right? There are people who are so disconnected from
values and morals and things like that –
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: – but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to understand that there are far few
sociopaths in the world than I used to think. So maybe I’ve become a little wiser,
right, and there’s so many people who are just subject to this – to quote
Shakespeare, to the “Slings and arrows of outrageous fortune.” It’s just one day
you are a hero, the next day you’re a goat; and the fact of the matter is you’re
never really quite the hero and you never really quite the goat.
Bijan: Right, that’s right. Yeah, I saw David Karp – you know, we backed David Karp
when he was 19 years old –
Jerry: David Karp from Tumblr?
Bijan: From Tumblr and you know, he was –
Jerry: 19?
Bijan: 19 yeah, and you know, he publically – you know, they’re saying he’s God or a
goat on any given day and he’s 20-22; I mean, can you imagine trying to deal
with this? I give him so much credit for the strength that he has to have a vision,
build a company, you know, run the company, and then you know, manage it and
with all this going on, you know, with all sorts of critics. And you know, it just
takes a tremendous amount of personal strength and character. I think it’s easier to
overlook just how strong these people are. I know I haven’t lived up to my own
expectations in those areas and it can be really tough.
Jerry: I just want to call attention to something; the fact that you are sitting here saying
these things conveys a kind of empathetic understanding that to me speaks to the
carefulness with which you hold your authority and hold your responsibility.
Yeah, ‘cause a lot of those 19-year-old kids, they end up on my couch or they end
up on the couch of another coach.
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: And I will tell you, you know, there are hearts hurt.

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Bijan: Right.
Jerry: And so the thick skin may be there, but on the inside too, they are really feeling it.
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: They are really feeling it.
Bijan: In fact, I’ve emailed you twice in the last two weeks I think about two – so I’m a
big advocate for founders getting, you know, a personal coach and somebody that
really is connecting with them in a way that’s most helpful. I mean, it’s just so
important and it feels like – I don’t know if it’s just where I am right now or
whatever probably, I’m sure you see it, it’s just, I feel like there is an acceptance
of this level of assistance that maybe wasn’t the case ten years ago or something
like that.
Jerry: It definitely feels that way and I think that there’s been a consistency from the
elders in the community; myself, you, Brad Feld, Fred. Many of the people who
have come on the podcast say this, you know, when there’s a kind of leadership,
when people are willing to talk about the challenges that they go through, there’s
a beautiful byproduct which is – oh wait, it normalizes the fact that this is really
difficult, and then it makes it possible for people to then share amongst
themselves because you know, I think it’s great the amount of interest that’s in
coaching right now. I think it’s fantastic, and there aren’t enough coaches in the
world.
Bijan: That’s right.
Jerry: And so one of the things that – and we’re doing this at Reboot where we have
these facilitative peer support groups, but Spark can do it within its own portfolio.
You know, people do this in a variety of ways; God damnit, talk to each other!
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: Actually, if David Karp could speak to Dick Costolo, or if Dick Costolo could
speak to David Karp, to name two of the folks –
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: – and just go, ‘Damn, that was hard.’ ‘Yup, that was hard, that’s hard.’ ‘Okay,
great.’ Then we move forward.
Bijan: Right.
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Bijan: Right.
Jerry: One of the wishes I have, and I’ve been talking to Brad Feld about doing this, is
to actually do a bootcamp for investors. Not so much in the same kind of any of
the training, but to really dive deep into the ways in which you know, what
lessons we’ve learned and how can we serve better. Because I really believe in
that servant model that you know, when you take a board seat and you hold that
seat, you’re in service, often times to the community that’s built up around the
product –
Bijan: That’s right.
Jerry: – as much as it is around the company you are in service too.
Bijan: Right. Yeah, I think that perspective is so important and not intuitive thing
initially, you know, you feel like you know, who am I supposed to – like what’s
the most important thing I should be doing right now as an investor, as a board
member, and thinking through the community as part of the answer to that
question is really impactful because you know, sometimes you just get caught into
this like founder versus VC thing, or ‘Is this the right CEO for the position’ but
like, you got to kinda – there’s many, many more factors involved in these things
and I think, thinking about the community as an integral part of that decision-
making is just so important.
Jerry: I think that when we hold a sense of service, it kinda breaks down the ego
attachment that’s really behind marrying my self-esteem to the success of the
investment. So we’ve discussed like the problem that occurs when my self-esteem
and the self-perception is tied to the success of this one company, or this multiple
investments or something like that, the problems that grow from that are
enormous.
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: And so what’s the antidote to that? Well, the antidote in some ways, I think is to
really focus on the larger purpose, the larger mission and we often – I don’t often
hear about investors thinking about say, ‘larger purpose’. What’s the goal here,
beyond return on investment? But really you know, I think of our mutual friend
Brad and his commitment to startup communities –
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: – and his commitment to the notion of entrepreneurialism as a way for economic
development, which means personal achievement; it means making a difference
in the lives of individuals. This is a larger issue which is, since we are all
members of the ecosystem, my little company Reboot as well, we are all members
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Because there’s something very precious around these kinds of companies that we
are building; you know, Twitter was an important – ask the people in Iran if
Twitter is important.
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: Or Tunisia; right?
Bijan: Right.
Jerry: Ask those people and that’s – ask the people if Facebook is important.
Bijan: Right. Yeah, look I totally agree, I mean when Wall Street talks about, you know,
monthly active users and add impressions and all this stuff, what gets lost is when
people like Dick talk about, with utmost sincerity, that he wants Twitter to be the
free-speech wing or the free-speech party. He means that not as a cool, little
sound-bite but like that he really believes in like power to the user, and like
fighting back against governments including our own that are asking for
unwarranted information and things like that. That has nothing to do with, you
know, “shareholder value” or hitting your quarter but you know, when you think
about its importance and significance, those things, you know, you really have to
cherish and celebrate.
Jerry: So when you think about that, and you know, from my lips to God’s ears, you’re
not retiring any time soon, and you got another few years maybe five, maybe ten,
maybe twenty, whatever you’ve got as an investor, what do you want to take
forward?
Bijan: Take forward in terms of bring to this community or –
Jerry: Yeah. I mean, you spent the first few years learning how to do this job, and you
do it pretty well I might add, and so here you are.
Bijan: Right. Well, yeah, no matter what, I don’t feel like my service to entrepreneurs is
going to fade away. I hope to be doing this for – in whatever shape or form, it
happens for a very long time. And for me, you know, one thing I’ve been thinking
about lately is like you know, if you think about the founder and the entrepreneur
as an artist, like literally as an artist, then a bunch of things become like almost
kinda clear, which is like, you know, their importance to the community is one
thing, the idea that like this is my latest thing to jump up and down about but like
you know, when you see one company excel at a certain way, there’s this
tendency to be like ‘Hey, this is how they did it, we should do it this way too for
the next company.’ And ‘This company brought in a world-class COO so we
should do that here’ or ‘This person you know, upgraded the CEO – the founder
to an operating executive –’ or something; and when you start having that
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really think about founders and artists, the idea they are just making these changes
and exporting “best practices” suddenly becomes important because you can’t just
do an organ transplant with an artist. Like, they are an artist, you know, so I kinda
feel like if we can kind of remind each other that we are not dealing with just
Computer Science for the sake of Computer Science, we are dealing with people
that are creating things out of whole cloth and then if that’s the mental model,
then I just feel like our approach to how we interact with each other, how we
conduct ourselves, how we gain a different level of empathy, I just feel like a lot
of understanding starts to – has a chance to breathe a bit. You know what I mean?
I don’t know if this makes any sense but –
Jerry: I think it makes a ton of sense and I have to say you know, as a lot of listeners
know, I’m recording this over Skype so I get to see your face as we’re talking
even though we are stripping out the audio; and I’m looking over your shoulder,
two beautiful photographs which – and I know you, and know you probably took
those photos, is that right?
Bijan: These two, no, I don’t hang my own because I just like to celebrate other people’s
work but yeah.
Jerry: But you have an appreciation for photography as art, as an expression, and I know
there’s a hashtag you often use on Twitter which is something around film, right?
Bijan: Yeah, ‘believe in film’, yeah.
Jerry: ‘Believe in film’, yeah and there’s a belief that you have in that –
Bijan: Yeah.
Jerry: – and so that part of you – and like I wish everybody could see your face right
now ‘cause you just lit up; there’s an artist in you, my friend.
Bijan: Well, thanks; I don’t know about that but I have a lot of respect for these artists
that we get to work with; right?
Jerry: Yeah, and so it might be safe to say that as you go forward, respecting that artist
is something that perhaps you are stepping into even more so now.
Bijan: Yeah, I think that’s right. It becomes much more – it has bigger importance than,
you know, everything. Everything else kinda just finds its place when you kind of
think about that in those terms, you know, it’s not about you know, just about
shareholder value. I mean, you know, I think you get lost in these – the other
thing that I think gets lost is like – and I really – I’m mindful of your time but like
– have you ever heard people cite fiduciary responsibility like an act to do
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Jerry: Yes.
Bijan: It’s like, ‘Hey, I have a fiduciary responsibility to treat you like shit –’ or –
Jerry: Right.
Bijan: – like you know, it’s like I feel this fiduciary is a way just to protect, you know,
try to convince yourself of like you’re not connecting with the situation at hand,
you’re just wielding a weapon.
Jerry: Right.
Bijan: And I just feel like we have to somehow, like you know, remember what we are
doing here, like what is our job here? And the way you described as service is,
you know, I’m stumbling around this a bit, but like that’s exactly the way, that’s
the organizing principle and then things just you know, find their place. The
community service to the artist, the service to the – that’s what we are doing.
Jerry: I think that’s beautiful and hearing you say that calms me because I’ve been
thinking about reading something to you for a while now, and I wasn’t sure
because it’s a little bit odd, but it’s Jerry and they are used to it, and so here it
goes. There’s an Irish poet and a former Catholic priest named John O’ Donahue,
and lately I’ve been reading a number of his blessings. He collected a series of
blessings – he passed away in 2008 and he wrote a series of blessings in a book
called, ‘To Bless the Space Between Us’ and lately I’ve been reading, ‘For a
Leader’ to a number of clients, and the folks who came to our co-founder
bootcamp just a few weeks ago but this is one I was actually thinking of reading
to you as an investor.
Bijan: Okay.
Jerry: And this blessing is called, ‘For One Who Holds Power’.
“May the gift of leadership awaken in you as a vocation,
Keep you mindful of the providence that calls you to serve.
As high over the mountains the eagle spreads its wings,
May your perspective be larger than the view from the foothills.
When the way is flat and dull in times of gray endurance,
May your imagination continue to evoke horizons.
When thirst burns in times of drought,
May you be blessed to find the wells.
May you have the wisdom to read time clearly

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And know when the seed of change will flourish.
In your heart, may there be a sanctuary
For the stillness where clarity is born.
May your work be infused with passion and creativity
And have the wisdom to balance compassion and challenge.
May your soul find the graciousness
To rise above the fester of small mediocrities.
May your power never become a shell
Wherein your heart would silently atrophy.
May you welcome your own vulnerability
As the ground where healing and truth join.
May integrity of soul be your first ideal,
The source that will guide and bless your work.
For one who holds power.”
Bijan: Wow, that’s quite powerful. I hope you link to it in your show notes or your
podcast notes.
Jerry: We will. You know, one of the things I like about this is that it speaks implicitly
about the responsibility for one who holds power. To lead from a soul, and to –
you know, I was thinking about this when you were talking about, you know,
entrepreneurs as artists, and allowing the passion and creativity to go into work.
So –
Bijan: That’s great.
Jerry: – that’s my blessing for you my friend.
Bijan: I will take it, thank you.
Jerry: Well, thank you so much for joining us in this, it was – it’s been a blast and it’s
always fun to see you and talk with you.
Bijan: Same here.
Jerry: Thank you for coming on the show.
Bijan: Thank you so much.
Jerry: All right.

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Bijan: See you soon.
Jerry: Be well.
So that’s it for our conversation today. You know, a lot was covered in this episode from links,
to books, to quotes, to images. So we went ahead and compiled all that, and put it on our site at
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[Singing]
“How long till my soul gets it right?
Did any human being ever reach that kind of light?
I call on the resting soul of Galileo,
King of night-vision, King of insight.”
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