The document discusses strategies for coping with difficult situations using a "tool box" approach rather than a "strainer" approach. The tool box includes techniques like self-acceptance, using a mental shield to not take others' words personally, coping skills, and addressing issues through preferences rather than demands. Specific tools mentioned are using a dollar bill and pizza as metaphors, avoiding "awfulizing" situations, and focusing on preferences that allow rational problem solving rather than demands that close off thinking.