This document discusses different perspectives on the relationship between knowledge and love from medieval theologians Thomas Aquinas and Bonaventure, as well as more modern views. The key points made are: 1) Thomas Aquinas viewed truth as the highest category, while Bonaventure viewed goodness as highest, but both saw truth and goodness as inherently linked. 2) From a phenomenological perspective, Western Christianity is formed around intersubjective relationships, but many remain developmentally stalled in dualistic thinking rather than a nondual, relational approach. 3) Knowledge of God must go beyond logic or empirics to a deeper relational intimacy, analogous to knowledge of a spouse, in order