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POISE NIGERIA
…making great executives
NETWORKING SKILLS
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Course Objectives
•Using communication skills to build networks
•Developing the right attitude towards networking
•Choosing contacts in a clever and objective manner
•Maintaining relationships over a period of time
•Leveraging the benefits of networking
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WHAT YOU KNOW
WHO YOU KNOW
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Networking: definitions…
•A supportive system of sharing information and services
among individuals and groups having a common interest.
Networking depends on credibility and relationships
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"Networking is about doing what
your mother told you to never do . .
.
Talk to Strangers
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Networking
• Make friends with influential people before you
need them
• 70% of all jobs are found through networking
• 2% by sending out resumes
• 10 – 12 through classified ads
• 4% - create their own jobs
• Dig your well before you are thirsty
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One simple rule
•Greet each new acquaintance with an
openness to learn more about that person, a
willingness to help, and an offer to stay in
touch.”
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How big is your network?
People you have
known in the past
People you know
now
People you will
know in the future
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3 reasons for networking
Operational
• People who can help you get your
work done
• Often internal & current-focused
Personal
• People who can help you
grow personally &
professionally
• Usually external & share
common interests
Strategic
• People who can help you shape your
future goals & direction
• May be internal or external & are
future-oriented
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Professional
& Social Groups
Volunteer
Secondary
Contacts
Primary
Contacts
Developmental
Programmes
Building Your Network
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Networking Musts
Rolodex File
• Easy to make friends
• Easy to start a conversation
People skills
Able to communicate
Has confidence
Be a rain maker
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•There are no dead-end jobs. There are only dead
people. If you build a network, you will have a bridge to
wherever you want to go.
•In networking, you’re only as good as what you give
away.
•If everyone in your network is the same as you, it isn’t a
network, its an anthill.
Network Phobia
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Rules of Networking
Reciprocity (or
give and take).
Show a genuine
interest
• Always follow up
when you say you
will do something
Share ideas,
skills, ability
and experience
6 or less away
from your goal
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The BRAIN is the Source of:
• Who we are
• What we do
• How we do it
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HBDI (Herrmmann Brain Dominance Instrument)
People are
capable of
thinking in 4
dimensions.
Their thinking
affects their
social skills
Understanding
yourself helps
you to connect
with people
better
The Four Selves
Feeling
Safekeeping
Experiential
Rational
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Our Four Selves
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Rational Self Etiquette
•Logical
•There must be a reason for meeting and greeting
•Very focused - Lets get it over and done with
•Economical with words – small talk is rare
•Uses logic to justify every action
Caution
•Don’t take the back seat
•Take initiative – seek out others
•Don’t rush out of the event
•Give out many cards
•Everyone is useful at one time or the other
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Experiential self Etiquette
•Impetuous and Curious
•Will meet and greet for the fun of it
•Easily breaks the rules of etiquette
•Social connector
•Can be insensitive
•In your face kind of person
Caution
•Watch out for saying insensitive things
•People don’t take kindly to faux pas
•Be emotionally intelligent to avoid
embarrassment
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Safekeeping Self Etiquette
•Loyal and committed friend
•Finds it difficult to make new friends
•Serious – rarely smiles
•Frowns at faux pas
Remedy
•Loosen up – make friends
•Practice smiling more – open & friendly
•Overlook perceived indiscretions
•Give yourself a target to meet & greet
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Feeling Self Etiquette
•Sensitive to others
•Kind and willing to share
•Good at making small talk
•Easy going and fun to be with
•Can get easily offended
Advice
•Don’t wait to be sought out
•Ignore perceived slights
•Be less emotional
•Talk less, Listen more
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Not all network contacts are equal
•Networks contain a small number of people that
have proportionately more influence over the
network than others
•This 5-10 per cent of individuals are called
critical connectors
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Networking made easy (easier)
•Attend events
•Participate in events with activities
•Speak at events
•Volunteer to help organise events
•Host an event
•The “One minute talk” or “Ice-breaker
conversation” is required for all the above
Passive
Active
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The one minute talk
• This is your response to anyone asking who
you are and what you do
• At a conference, seminar, event
• Over lunch, coffee, drinks
• It needs to be clear, concise and interesting
• Reverse it to start a conversation with
someone
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The one minute talk should answer
four questions…
•Who are you?
•What do you do?
•Why are you here?
•Why should the person you are
speaking to care?
It’s about them, not about you!
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Other offline opportunities
•Telephone calls
•Video and Teleconferences
N.B. Increasingly,
these are being
supported by
web-based screen/ desktop-
sharing
• Conferencing Tips & Etiquette…
• Test the kit first!
• One person to chair
• Make introductions at start
• One person speaking at a time
• Speak in your normal voice, don’t
shout
• Include the person’s name when
asking a question
• Turn off mobiles & mute PCs
• Don’t rustle papers or tap pens
• Avoid side conversations
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Your action plan…
See it
Say it
Write it
Do it
Review it
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