I dream a home, full of grace and peace. A home where angry words are scarce, but gracious words freely flow. I dream of hurrying home each day not out of obligation, but to be with my sweet spouse who welcomes me with a smile and kiss to relieve my stress. I dream of coming home to find my kneeling spouse interceding for our family and others, not nagging. I need a tender, mild, submissive woman who discusses her views respectfully rather than arguing, a virtuous woman like Esther or Abigail. I plead with God to give me this ideal spouse who pleases me.