1. Me, You and Them— Designing Interactions for Healthy
Relationships
Fawn Ellis Fawn@adaptivepath.com#KillerRobot
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2. Extensions of Body
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3. EfficientExtensions of Body
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4. EfficientExtensions of Body Docile Servant
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6. Docile Servant
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7. Mobile partnerDocile Servant
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8. Mobile partnerDocile Servant Mobile partner
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9. Relationship Model
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10. References
Steve Duck
Ruthellen Josselson
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11. Long-term meaningful relationship
Personal/Social Order Alignment
Autonomy
Timing
Communication
Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
C
ontribute
Disclose
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Ev
olve&
Realign
Share E
xperience
DeeperDisclosure
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12. Alignment is Key
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13. Social Order
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14. Social Order Personal Order
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15. Social Order
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16. Social Order Personal Order
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17. Identity/Relatedness
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18. Identity/Relatedness
Body
language
Context
Fashion
Slang
Body
language
Fashion
Slang
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19. Identity/Relatedness
Body
language
Context
Fashion
Slang
Context
Fashion
Slang
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20. Identity/Relatedness
Body
language
Context
Fashion
Slang
Context
Slang
Body
language
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21. Identity/Relatedness
Body
language
Context
Fashion
Slang
Context
Body
language
Fashion
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24. Disclosure
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25. Share
intimate
info
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26. Disclosure
Disclose
to align
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27. Balance
disclosure
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28. Disclosure
Too Fast,
Too soon
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29. Balance
disclosure
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30. Balance
disclosure
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31. Balance
disclosure
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32. Balance
disclosure
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33. Balance
disclosure
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34. Too fast, Too Soon
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38. Friday, September 6, 13

39. Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
C
ontribute
Disclose
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Ev
olve&
Realign
Share E
xperience
DeeperDisclosure
Long-term meaningful relationship
Personal/Social Order Alignment
Autonomy
Timing
Communication
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40. Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
C
ontribute
Disclose
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Ev
olve&
Realign
Share E
xperience
DeeperDisclosure
Long-term meaningful relationship
Personal/Social Order Alignment
Autonomy
Timing
Communication
What
Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
C
ontribute
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Ev
olve&
Realign
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
Disclose
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
DeeperDisclosure
Share E
xperience
Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
C
ontribute
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Ev
olve&
Realign
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
Disclose
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Share E
xperience
C
ontribute
Ev
olve&
Realign
DeeperDisclosure
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41. Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
C
ontribute
Disclose
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Ev
olve&
Realign
Share E
xperience
DeeperDisclosure
Long-term meaningful relationship
Personal/Social Order Alignment
Autonomy
Timing
Communication
What Why
Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
C
ontribute
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Ev
olve&
Realign
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
Disclose
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
DeeperDisclosure
Share E
xperience
Identify/ relate
Disclose
Disclose
C
ontribute
Discover
alignment
Short-termrelationsh
ip
Discover
alignment
Ev
olve&
Realign
Personal
Growth
Share Experience
Disclose
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Build Trust
Tend
Care
Anticipate
Understand Meaning syste
m
Share E
xperience
C
ontribute
Ev
olve&
Realign
DeeperDisclosure
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42. Share Experiences
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43. Share Experience
Past Stories
Equivalent
Knowledge
Participate
Synchronous/
Asynchronous
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44. Share Experience
Past Stories
Equivalent
Knowledge
Participate
Synchronous/
Asynchronous
Past Stories
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45. Share Experience
Past Stories
Equivalent
Knowledge
Participate
Synchronous/
Asynchronous
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46. Share Experience
Past Stories
Equivalent
Knowledge
Participate
Synchronous/
Asynchronous
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47. Share Experience
Past Stories
Equivalent
Knowledge
Participate
Synchronous/
Asynchronous
Equivalent
Knowledge
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48. Equivalent Knowledge
Past Stories
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49. Past Stories
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50. Past Stories
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51. Past Stories
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52. Synchronous
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53. Synchronous
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54. Asynchronous
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55. Asynchronous
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56. Equivalent Knowledge
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57. Equivalent Knowledge
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58. Participate in
each others
experience
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59. Contributions
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60. Collaborative
Effort
Tokens of
Commitment
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61. Collaborative
Effort
Tokens of
Commitment
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62. Collaborative
Effort
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63. Collaborative
Effort
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64. Tokens of
Commitment
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65. Tokens of
Commitment
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66. Growth
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67. Growth
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68. Growth
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69. Understanding
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70. UnderstandingUnderstanding
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71. Tend & Care
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72. Tend & Care
Tend, Care,
Anticipate
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73. Evolve and Realign
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74. Evolve &
Realign
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75. Thank you
Fawn Ellis Fawn@adaptivepath.com#KillerRobot
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