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Managing Self
SKILLED FACILITATION
Core values are:
     Transparency
     Curiosity
     Accountability
     Informed choice
     Compassion


Ground rules are:
     State views and ask questions
     Test inferences and assumptions
     Jointly suggest next steps
CREATING A SUPPORTIVE CLIMATE
Counsellors aspire to provide core conditions (Rogers)
  o Genuineness
  o Respect
  o Empathy
  o Confidentiality



What can you DO to demonstrate that you provide these?
Do these behaviours come naturally?
IS FACILITATION EMOTIONAL LABOUR?
If the required behaviours don’t come naturally, is this emotional labour?

Emotional Labour = display of emotion for wages

Oppressive outcomes emotional dissonance leading to:
  emotional numbness, self-estrangement, feeling “phoney”,
  effort to maintain self-esteem, physical illness, guilt, burnout
Liberating outcomes task effectiveness, creativity, self-expression,
   better interaction with delegates, enjoying your own performance

Aim eventually to create personal behaviour that:
   o Expresses your distinct identity AND
   o Creates a supportive climate for delegates


What can we do to achieve liberating outcomes?
COPING WITH EMOTIONAL LABOUR
What can we do to achieve liberating outcomes?
o   Use limited dissonance to practice behaviours
    Repeat, until you feel these behaviours more genuinely
o   Air genuine concerns to the group, constructively
o   Think up better strategies for next time,
o   Review events in the role of altruistic service provider
o   ‘Blow off’ in confidence but beware of reinforcing critical attitudes
o   Use supervision or an action learning set
o   Do the left-hand column tutorial
o   If problematic emotions persist try:
                                     yoga / meditation / counselling
PROFESSIONAL SUPERVISION
Other professions make similar demands on a practitioner
                                     Clinicians, psychotherapists, counsellor …
They often require supervision - someone to talk to:
 Offload frustrations, identify sources of stress
 Think through dilemmas, consider ethical issues
 Evaluate interventions, devise action plans
 Interpret unusual situations
 Plan CPD, keep up to date with developments
 Interpret policy, devise new approaches

Your professional supervisor should not be your line manager
                                        Any evaluation role is incompatible
Ideally they won’t even work for the same organisation
Professional supervision is expensive, but it is a true luxury
ACTION LEARNING SETS (Revans)
Action learning sets seem to be cheaper than supervision
An action learning set:
o Is a group of 4-7 people
o Has no leader but may call in an expert to help with a particular issue
o Meets regularly to support members in their professional learning
o Reflects on real work issues to create better responses
o Reflects on the experience of members to apply new ideas
o Shares how things are done elsewhere to build on good practice
o May (exceptionally) do everything that supervision does
o May (exceptionally) use an external facilitator
o Benefits from a senior sponsor
o May attempt to apply learning theories
WITHIN AN ACTION LEARNING MEETING
Each member in turn:
o Describes the outcome of any actions planned last time
o Presents a new issue from their work experience
Colleagues ask questions (never give advice)
  to explore perspectives / assumptions / barriers
The issues-owner decides on next actions

The group reflects on what has been learned this time
The group may also reflect on their learning process
An individual may also (separately) suggest some reading
  or anything else that may be generally useful
The group may agree to request action from management
FEEDBACK
You need feedback from workshop delegates.
Use a democracy wall to get feedback.
How did this meeting go?
How did I do, as a facilitator?

Invite people to write comments on the wall
Provide 5 sheets with headings:
     I discovered that …
     I noticed that …
     I felt that …
     I learned that …
     I would like to suggest that …
CAPABILITY MATURITY
You need your own benchmarks to aim for.
Capability maturity models track improvement
What CMM will you use to evaluate your CPD?
CAPABILITY MATURITY
You need your own benchmarks to aim for.
Capability maturity models track improvement
What CMM will you use to evaluate your CPD?
You might adapt an old CMM for systems analysts:
CAPABILITY MATURITY
Stage 1: Denial
Developers were unaware of human issues. If human
  issues got in the way, they denied all responsibility. They
  claimed that people should not question the system and
  should do what the system tells them.

Stage 2: Angst
Some developers accepted responsibility for human issues.
  Whenever a problem arose, they felt responsible for
  solving it. They had no confidence in their ability and felt
  bad about it.
CAPABILITY MATURITY
Stage 3: Confidence
Some developers found confidence in a systems approach.
  They saw more complexity and problems than before. They
  were exasperated when colleagues declined to use their
  new ideas. They were popular with customers but their
  managers questioned their loyalty.

Stage 4: Balancing
Some software developers knew that confidence was an issue
  and aimed to be assertive rather than unduly diffident or
  over-confident. The effort of maintaining this balance made it
  difficult for them to concentrate on the task at hand.
CAPABILITY MATURITY
Stage 5: Holistic
The best developers focused on the task at hand and felt
  responsible for human issues. Their sense of responsibility
  showed as quiet assertiveness. If people ignored them, they
  were progressively more insistent, until they controlled the
  situation.

Plot your journey to capability maturity.
Start from the beginning (some time ago).
Where are you on the journey? Celebrate your progress so far.
Plan developments, but (being agile) keep your plans fluid.

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Managing self

  • 2. SKILLED FACILITATION Core values are:  Transparency  Curiosity  Accountability  Informed choice  Compassion Ground rules are:  State views and ask questions  Test inferences and assumptions  Jointly suggest next steps
  • 3. CREATING A SUPPORTIVE CLIMATE Counsellors aspire to provide core conditions (Rogers) o Genuineness o Respect o Empathy o Confidentiality What can you DO to demonstrate that you provide these? Do these behaviours come naturally?
  • 4. IS FACILITATION EMOTIONAL LABOUR? If the required behaviours don’t come naturally, is this emotional labour? Emotional Labour = display of emotion for wages Oppressive outcomes emotional dissonance leading to: emotional numbness, self-estrangement, feeling “phoney”, effort to maintain self-esteem, physical illness, guilt, burnout Liberating outcomes task effectiveness, creativity, self-expression, better interaction with delegates, enjoying your own performance Aim eventually to create personal behaviour that: o Expresses your distinct identity AND o Creates a supportive climate for delegates What can we do to achieve liberating outcomes?
  • 5. COPING WITH EMOTIONAL LABOUR What can we do to achieve liberating outcomes? o Use limited dissonance to practice behaviours Repeat, until you feel these behaviours more genuinely o Air genuine concerns to the group, constructively o Think up better strategies for next time, o Review events in the role of altruistic service provider o ‘Blow off’ in confidence but beware of reinforcing critical attitudes o Use supervision or an action learning set o Do the left-hand column tutorial o If problematic emotions persist try: yoga / meditation / counselling
  • 6. PROFESSIONAL SUPERVISION Other professions make similar demands on a practitioner Clinicians, psychotherapists, counsellor … They often require supervision - someone to talk to:  Offload frustrations, identify sources of stress  Think through dilemmas, consider ethical issues  Evaluate interventions, devise action plans  Interpret unusual situations  Plan CPD, keep up to date with developments  Interpret policy, devise new approaches Your professional supervisor should not be your line manager Any evaluation role is incompatible Ideally they won’t even work for the same organisation Professional supervision is expensive, but it is a true luxury
  • 7. ACTION LEARNING SETS (Revans) Action learning sets seem to be cheaper than supervision An action learning set: o Is a group of 4-7 people o Has no leader but may call in an expert to help with a particular issue o Meets regularly to support members in their professional learning o Reflects on real work issues to create better responses o Reflects on the experience of members to apply new ideas o Shares how things are done elsewhere to build on good practice o May (exceptionally) do everything that supervision does o May (exceptionally) use an external facilitator o Benefits from a senior sponsor o May attempt to apply learning theories
  • 8. WITHIN AN ACTION LEARNING MEETING Each member in turn: o Describes the outcome of any actions planned last time o Presents a new issue from their work experience Colleagues ask questions (never give advice) to explore perspectives / assumptions / barriers The issues-owner decides on next actions The group reflects on what has been learned this time The group may also reflect on their learning process An individual may also (separately) suggest some reading or anything else that may be generally useful The group may agree to request action from management
  • 9. FEEDBACK You need feedback from workshop delegates. Use a democracy wall to get feedback. How did this meeting go? How did I do, as a facilitator? Invite people to write comments on the wall Provide 5 sheets with headings:  I discovered that …  I noticed that …  I felt that …  I learned that …  I would like to suggest that …
  • 10. CAPABILITY MATURITY You need your own benchmarks to aim for. Capability maturity models track improvement What CMM will you use to evaluate your CPD?
  • 11. CAPABILITY MATURITY You need your own benchmarks to aim for. Capability maturity models track improvement What CMM will you use to evaluate your CPD? You might adapt an old CMM for systems analysts:
  • 12. CAPABILITY MATURITY Stage 1: Denial Developers were unaware of human issues. If human issues got in the way, they denied all responsibility. They claimed that people should not question the system and should do what the system tells them. Stage 2: Angst Some developers accepted responsibility for human issues. Whenever a problem arose, they felt responsible for solving it. They had no confidence in their ability and felt bad about it.
  • 13. CAPABILITY MATURITY Stage 3: Confidence Some developers found confidence in a systems approach. They saw more complexity and problems than before. They were exasperated when colleagues declined to use their new ideas. They were popular with customers but their managers questioned their loyalty. Stage 4: Balancing Some software developers knew that confidence was an issue and aimed to be assertive rather than unduly diffident or over-confident. The effort of maintaining this balance made it difficult for them to concentrate on the task at hand.
  • 14. CAPABILITY MATURITY Stage 5: Holistic The best developers focused on the task at hand and felt responsible for human issues. Their sense of responsibility showed as quiet assertiveness. If people ignored them, they were progressively more insistent, until they controlled the situation. Plot your journey to capability maturity. Start from the beginning (some time ago). Where are you on the journey? Celebrate your progress so far. Plan developments, but (being agile) keep your plans fluid.

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