The first kiss with a romantic partner represents a treasured moment of love that should be cherished as a gift. True love is based on understanding, mutual trust, respect, and balance between partners rather than transient emotions. Seeing relationships as based on being trustees of love for one another sets people free from grasping or guarding the other person and encourages treating them with dignity. Real love is a continual flowing force like a river rather than a closed relationship like a pond, and the feeling of love can continue even after particular relationships end.

1. Love Trustee
May 29, 2020
The kiss on the lips for the first time of someone you will share love with is
one of the treasured moments of life, and love. It is a ‘fire of love’ that
always needs to be treasured as a gift from the divine. Who knows what love
lurks behind that first kiss. What starts out as magic and filled with more
can always be with awareness, empathy and compassion for the other. And,
of course, it’s always a good thing to look in the mirror, but mostly for being
honest with what you see inside, and for your own love of self. Don’t always
assume you know what love is as it’s an unlimited growth experience to heights unimaginable and
unlimited.
The idea of possession lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Instead choose the relationship of a trustee.
Everything comes to us in trust, for us to use and then to set it free. The love consciousness of a trustee (and first that
trustee is within you) sets us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see ourselves as trustees of everything
that we receive, including our bodies, encourages our innate capacity to ‘care for with
dignity’.
It is a much more relaxing way of relating to the things which we are
privileged to receive in life. Love is a powerful force. It can take us to great
heights and leave us feeling light and airy. Yet it has been the most abused and
misused force. Many degraded things pass for love. Real love is not a ‘yo yo’
that comes and goes, at least that is not the love you should accept as anything
other that ‘love that is not a trustee’.
True love is based on understanding, mutual trust and respect and not simply on transient emotions.
Love is being in balance, that is, in harmony with the self, God and each other. Love dwells in the
soul. We must allow this love to flow out and around us. Without love, all of life’s treasures are locked
away from our vision and experiences, for indeed ‘Love is the key.’ Harmonious Positioning with
yourself and with others is love vibrating.
Relationship actually, from one point of view, means something complete, finished, and closed. Love is more than a
relationship, but relating. It is a verb and is ‘relating’ and like a river, always flowing and unending. Relationship is
like a pond, non moving. In love the honeymoon begins and is never ending. Lovers end, the love continues. I have
loved many, and the feeling continues. Love really is a special life magic. Everything, including the planets and stars
are in a constant harmony with each other. We love the moon always coming, hence the ‘honeymoon’. Love is
always a trustee of a ‘honeymoon’.
Arhata~