This document summarizes George Shultz's reflections on trust and relationships after turning 100 years old. Some of the key lessons he learned over his century-long life are that trust is essential for positive outcomes, as seen through his experiences with family, teachers, colleagues, and in the military and government. He discusses how earning trust through integrity, competence, caring about others, and enabling participation helped him succeed in challenging situations over his career.
Trust and Relationships: Lessons from 100 Years of Life and Learning
1. Life and Learning
after
One Hundred Years
Trust Is the Coin of the Realm
Reflections on Trust and Effective Relationships
across a New Hinge of History
George P. Shultz
December 13, 2020
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I
just turned one hundred years young. And I have been ruminating, as
encouraged by my wife, Charlotte, on the
things that I learned over the
course of them. Looking back, I’m struck that
there is one lesson that
I learned early and have relearned over and over for a
century. Put simply:
“Trust is the coin of the realm.” When trust was in the room, what
ever room
that was—
the
family room, the schoolroom, the coach’s room, the office
room, the government room, or the military room—
good
things happened.
When trust was not in the room, good things did not happen. Everything else
is details.
I first saw this concept in action at home by observing how my parents
treated one another and their friends and
children. I was a lucky kid. One
hundred years
later, I still remember and know that my parents loved each
other and loved me—
every day of my life. And that is where you first learn
the power and value of trust. My
mother was an excellent cook and made our
home comfortable and welcoming. My
father took me on all sorts of jaunts.
He brought me with him to Wall Street on Saturday mornings, treated me to
BLTs at a sandwich shop near his office, and took me to Columbia University
football games. When he was asked to help organize the stock exchange in San
Francisco, he took me along. For a boy of eight years of age, the cross-country
train trip was a thrill. I swam in the
Great Salt Lake, I marveled at the
Grand
Canyon, and my father and I rode the cable cars and went to Kezar Stadium in
San Francisco. The experiences of that trip in my early boyhood underlined
the joy of family closeness and the powerful bonds of trust that creates.
Dov Seidman, the business and ethics phi
los
o
pher who wrote the book
HOW: Why HOW We Do Anything Means Every
thing, has a saying: “Trust is
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the only
legal performance-
enhancing drug.” Boy, is that ever true. I saw that
over and over.
I had wonderful K–12 teachers. Two who stand out in my memory are
Mr. Beaumont, who taught math, and Mr. Metzger, who taught En
glish and
history. I remember turning in a paper one day to Mr. Metzger, who said, “I
suppose you think that
because you got a good grade on your paper, that’s
good enough. Well, good is not good enough!” I learned from those teachers
how impor
tant it is to have—
and to maintain—
high standards. If you
don’t
set high standards, you will never do the best you can do. You will be labeling
yourself as someone who is satisfied with mediocrity. How many people trust
mediocre leaders or want to emulate them?
When I was a gradu
ate student at MIT, I worked with Joe Scanlon, who
hadbeenrecruitedfromhisjobasresearchdirectorfortheUnitedSteelworkers
union. He would visit steel plants where costs
were out of control and re
arrangetheirpracticesbygivingworkersachancetoparticipateinthewaytheir
jobs
were set up and, in most cases, get a share of the increased productivity
as a bonus. Some plant managers weren’t happy, but plants usually had a 20 to
40
percent improvement in productivity and in many cases
were saved from
bankruptcy. The arrangement later became known as the Scanlon Plan.
I had the privilege of
going along with Joe to some of the plants and
observing as he listened to workers. I drew many lessons from my work with
him and from watching him operate. The experience taught me how impor
tant it is for the
people you work with to be involved in what is
going on
and to make contributions to, and share in, the success of the organization.
Also, pay attention to the
people working for you. They know
things about
the work that you may not know. If
there is a bond of trust between you and
your workers, they
will often reveal impor
tant
things to you that are never
written down in any books.
The summer before my se
nior year at Prince
ton, I trained rigorously so
that by the time I arrived at practice in the fall, I was in the best physical condi-
tion of my life. I thought to myself, “This will be my year on the football field.”
But in an early scrimmage, I was clipped and my left knee was badly
injured. I was out for the season. Since I knew the system, I was asked to coach
the backfield of the freshman team. That was my first teaching job, and I tried
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to teach every
thing I knew. But then I realized that
these freshmen
were not
getting it. I learned that no
matter what I “taught,” the only
thing that mat-
tered was what they learned. So, I had to reorganize the way I approached my
job and create an atmosphere in which they trusted me—
trusted my exper-
tise, trusted that I had their interests at heart—and then we were on our way.
That lesson served me well throughout my career as I tried to manage people
by inspiring them—once I had earned their trust.
AtMarineCorpsbootcamp,mydrillsergeanthandedmemyrifleandsaid
to me, “Shultz, take good care of this
rifle. It’s your best friend. And remem-
ber, never point this rifle at anybody unless you are willing to pull the trigger.
No empty threats.” Put another way, be a person who does what he says he’s
going to do. If you say that something is unacceptable but you are unwilling
to impose consequences when it happens, your words lose their meaning and
you
will lose credibility. But if you are known to deliver on promises, then
people will trust you and be willing to deal with you.
Beyond the unacceptability of empty threats, as taught by my drill ser-
geant in boot camp, I learned a
great deal more about trust in the Marine
Corps. Early on during my ser
vice in the South Pacific, I was on an island
swarming with Marines with our boats gathered in the harbor. We were going
to undertake a major operation, which turned out to be on Tarawa. One after
noon, I was tapped on the shoulder and told: “
You’re
going to take your pla-
toon, get on that destroyer, go to Nanumea, which
we’re
going to turn into a
medivac location. You’ll land before dawn, surprise the Japa
nese, and take
the island.”
So we boarded the destroyer and arrived at the island in darkness. As it
happened, the tide was out, so we had to wade in carefully over coral reefs.
By the time we reached shore, it was daylight. I saw a native on the beach in a
white robe who looked like a leader, so I went up to him and, in my best Poly-
nesian, said “Talofa sole.” He responded in precise En
glish, “Good morning,
Lieutenant. We have been expecting you. The Japanese left yesterday.”
But the Japa
nese soon returned, bombing and strafing.
There was one
substantial structure on the island, which was a church. Someone yelled,
“Head for the church!” I shouted, “Disperse!” The Marines dispersed, and
the Japanese dropped a bomb in the dead center of the church. I learned two
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lessons from this episode: one, never underestimate your adversary; and two,
don’t do what your adversary expects you to do.
One memory of combat particularly sticks with me. There was a sergeant
named Palat in my outfit who was a wonderful
human being. I had tremen-
dous respect and admiration for him. One day during an action, I ran over to
where I thought Palat would be and yelled, “Where the hell is Palat?”
After
a brief pause came the answer: “Palat’s dead, sir.” The real
ity of war hit me
hard. Wonderful
people get injured and killed. I often thought about Palat
when I was in a position to advise President Reagan on the use of force. Be
careful. Be sure the mission is a good one. Be sure your forces are equipped
and staffed to win.
These
were all impor
tant lessons to take with me when I went into gov-
ernment and
rose through the ranks to assume dif
fer
ent cabinet posts. I am
reminded of first coming to Washington, when the brilliant congressional
strategist Bryce Harlow told me, “Never agree to do something
unless you
know that you can do it. If you give your word, then you’d better deliver. That
way
people
will deal with you
because they know they can trust you.” And
that concept of trust has resonated throughout my life as I have dealt with
friends, family, and colleagues in the workplace.
•••
As I reflect on the turmoil we’ve seen across the country in this, my hundredth
year, I am reminded of how
these princi
ples of trust, and the relationships it
enables, have served us through tough times in the past.
In the early 1960s, I served as cochair of the Armour Automation Com-
mittee with Clark Kerr, then president of the University of California and a
good friend of mine. The meatpacking industry at that time was undergoing
a transformation. The large, traditional meatpacking plants to which animals
would be driven a long way
were being replaced by smaller plants closer to
the ranges, thereby having animals arrive for slaughter with more weight as a
result of less travel. The Armour Automation Committee was to investigate
and report on changes in the industry, including plant closings and layoffs.
Most impor
tant, it ended up helping the workers and management solve
problems they experienced.
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Through this experience, I learned about the power of the moral high
ground. Law and morality are not the same. Morality reaches beyond the
strictly legal. Today’s problem is that a contest has turned into a war in which
contending moralists vie to display themselves as “more moral than thou” by
asserting the moral wrongdoing of
others, usually in some marginal expres-
sion deemed po
liti
cally incorrect. But in the 1960s my experiences working
in the field of
labor economics had a major impact on my attitude
toward
racial discrimination and in thinking through and coming to realize how to
deal with that subject. I knew racial discrimination was a serious prob
lem,
but I witnessed it firsthand when our team went to Fort Worth to see what
we could do to help the workers who had been displaced by the closing of the
Armour plant there.
Our team of four flew to Fort Worth, and before we went to the plant
we
stopped to check in at the
hotel. I registered along with my friend Arnie
Weber, and the clerk said, “We have a nice suite for each of you.” Then the
management representative registered without a problem.
The
union member of our team, who was Black, then approached the
counter. The clerk said, “I’m sorry. We don’t have any rooms.” The union man
pulled out of his pocket a reservation confirmation, something the rest of us
did not have and
hadn’t been asked for. So the clerk took the confirmation
slip to the back room, returned, and said, “We don’t have any rooms.”
By this time, my blood was boiling. I said, “You do have a room. You gave
me a suite. Put a cot in it and register him.” The clerk was so startled that he
did it. It was the first time a Black person had been a guest at that hotel.
So, if you are on moral high ground, stay
there. If you speak firmly and
with authority, sometimes
people
will do what they should even if they are
not authorized to do so.
This period also taught me the goodness of the American
people and
their personal relations when given the chance to work together, as individu-
als, to solve a problem.
Later on, Armour decided to build a plant in the little town of Worthing-
ton, Minnesota. As it turned out,
there
were no Black
people at that time in
Worthington.Theplantwastakingshapewhensuddenlythecompanyclosed
its plant in Kansas City in 1965. Most of the employees at the Kansas City
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plant
were Black. We realized they had bumping rights—
the right of se
nior
workers to displace
those less se
nior—
into this new plant in Worthington. So
we went to Worthington and started talking to the town fathers. The governor
of Minnesota sent his human rights expert to ask Clark and me to stop the
pro
cess, but we de
cided that the Kansas City workers had contractual rights
and we should help them if we could.
The Black families started making scouting trips to Worthington to see
what it was like. In
those days,
there
were so-
called race riots all over the
country, but in this little town, the leaders took a different point of view. They
said, “In
these big cities,
people
don’t know how to get along with
people.
We’re a little town. We know how to do it, so we’re going to try.”
One local response was, “Well,
we’re building this new development in
town. They can all live
there.” But the town
fathers insisted, “No,
we’re not
going to create a Black ghetto. We want them to live all around the town.”
And when the Black families came up, it appeared that many of them had
traditionally tithed to their churches, so the churches in Worthington began
to compete for them. When I heard this, I said to Clark, “We just turned a cor-
ner.” In the end, quite a few Black families moved in and the transfer worked.
A. H.Raskin,aNewYorkTimesjournalist,wenttoWorthingtonandwrotea
glowing front-page story on what he observed. He revealed that something was
working in the midst of the mayhem that was so evident in much of the coun-
try. Tele
vi
sion
people picked up the story and wanted to make a documentary
about the success in Worthington. Documentary makers are usually looking for
controversy, but the
people of Worthington would have none of it. They did
not want publicity, and they did not want television reporters trying to stir divi-
sions where there were none, so the documentary makers left without a story.
Later, as secretary of
labor, I worried about discrimination in the work-
place.AgainstthebackgroundofmyexperienceswiththeArmourAutomation
Committee, I worked hard to prevent this discrimination. In Philadelphia, we
found that discrimination was rampant in the skilled building trades. Despite
the existence of well-
qualified Black workers,
there
were none in the hiring
halls of the skilled construction
unions. I set out to change this situation by
insisting that unions set an objective for hiring more Black workers and create
a timetable for attaining that objective.
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This effort came to be called the Philadelphia Plan, and it immediately
became controversial. It took the form of a bill for which hearings
were held
and a vote taken in the Senate. During those hearings, I was verbally assaulted
for trying to establish a quota system. “No,” I replied, “I am trying to obliter-
ate one.
There has been a quota system in place for a long time; the number
is zero.”
Eventually the issue went to the Senate floor.
After the vote, Senator Hugh
Scott of Pennsylvania, the Republican leader in the Senate, gave me his
tally sheet. It showed we had won by a margin of ten. It was another example
of standing up for what was right and succeeding.
•••
There is more to this power of human relationships in gradually building the
trust that you need to work through difficult problems.
In 1970, President Nixon saw that schools in seven Southern states
were
still segregated. This was more than a
century
after the Civil War ended and
sixteen years
after the Supreme Court declared school desegregation uncon-
stitutional in Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka.
Nixon formed a cabinet committee to tackle the prob
lem, making
Vice President Agnew its chair and naming me vice chair. Agnew wanted no
part of this effort and declined to participate, so I wound up as the de facto
chair. Our prob
lem was to manage the transition to desegregated schools in
the seven affected states.
I had strong help in this effort from Presidential Counselor Pat Moynihan,
Special Counsel Len Garment, and Ed Morgan, a savvy former advance
man for the president. We formed biracial committees in each of the seven
states. We determined, with the president’s agreement, that politics should
have nothing to do with the selection of the people for these committees. We
wanted
people, in equal numbers of Black and White, who
were truly repre-
sentative of their constituencies.
The first group came to the White House from Mississippi, and we took
them to the Roo
se
velt Room, directly across from the Oval Office. The dis-
cussion was civil, but deep divisions
were evident. The Blacks argued that
desegregation of the schools would be good for education and that it was
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essential. The Whites resisted. Both sides were tough, and we let them argue
and get it out of their systems.
ThenIfeltitwastimetoshiftgears.Byarrangement, AttorneyGeneral John
Mitchell was standing by. He was known throughout the South as a tough guy
and on the
whole was regarded by Whites as “their” man. I asked Mitchell
what he planned to do as far as the schools
were concerned. “I am the attor-
ney general and I will enforce the law,” he growled in his gruff, pipe-smoking
voice. Then he left. No nonsense. Both Blacks and Whites were impressed.
This message from the attorney general changed the playing field. It
allowed us to move our discussion forward from “
whether” to “how”—to
managerial and administration topics. It was another illustration of how
people who dig in their heels over princi
ples can make pro
gress if they con-
vert their argument into one about problems. In fact, desegregation was going
to happen. The only questions for
these outstanding community leaders
were: How would it work? How would it affect their local school systems and
local economies?
We took the group from Mississippi to the diplomatic reception rooms
at the State Department, where we
were surrounded by artifacts of colonial
Amer
i
ca, including the desk designed by Thomas Jefferson on which he
wrote portions of the Declaration of Independence, “dedicated to the propo-
sition that all men are created equal.” I told the two men whom I wanted to
cochair the Mississippi advisory committee of their invitation and argued
that the committee would have great credibility with both Blacks and Whites
if they accepted. I saw I was making headway, so I left them alone to talk.
After lunch,
these two respected leaders shook hands and agreed to cochair
the committee.
After returning to the White House, the
whole group came around and
people started to make suggestions about how to
handle potential prob
lems.
Again by prearrangement, I let President Nixon know the group was ready for
him. We walked into the Oval Office, where the president met each member
of the group. He said, “Here we are in the Oval Office. Think of the decisions
that have been made
here that have affected the health and security of our
country. But remember, too, that we live in a great democracy where authority
and responsibility are shared. Just as decisions are made
here in this office,
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decisions are made throughout the states and communities in our country.
You are leaders in
those communities, and this is a time when we all have to
step up to our responsibilities. I have made my decisions, and I count on you
to make yours. Together, we can make this work.”
By the time they left, the group was enthusiastic about making the school
openings go forward as smoothly and constructively as possible. We met with
del
e
ga
tions from other states before the school year was to start and
those
meetings went well, too.
The last state to meet with was Louisiana. By then we
were confident we
could bring about a constructive result. I suggested to the president that we
hold the meeting in New Orleans—in the South, where the action would
take place. I would do my part in the morning and the president would do his
part at the end of the morning meeting. Then we would invite the cochairs of
each of the seven states to join the president and me for an overall discussion
of the school openings.
These gatherings
were like revival meetings, with
everyone exchanging ideas about problems and solutions.
Planningforthismeeting,therewasadiscussionintheOvalOfficeduring
which Vice President Agnew warned the president not to go to New Orleans.
Hesaid,“Thereyouwillbeinthatroom.Half thepeoplewillbeBlack, half will
be White. The schools
will soon be opening.
There
will be blood
running
throughout the streets of the South, and if you go,
there
will be blood on
your hands.”
President Nixon asked me what I thought. I said, “Mr. President, I
can’t
predict what will happen, but whatever happens is on your watch. You are the
president of all the people, and you and I have seen some very strong and rea-
sonable
people come up
here. They have been working hard, and we should
do every
thing we can to see that the schools open and operate peacefully
and well.”
The president decided to go ahead with our plan, and we all went to New
Orleans, with the exception of the vice president.
Pat Moynihan, Len Garment, and I started the meeting with the biracial
Louisiana group in the morning. The
going was much tougher than with the
other states. President Nixon was due to arrive at noon to put on the final
touch. As noon approached, we had made progress but had not achieved the
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degree of agreement I had usually secured by the time the president met with
the group. We took a recess and I told the president, “I’m sorry to tell you that
I
haven’t got this group to the point you usually find when you meet with
them. This time you’re going to have to finish the job yourself.”
Nixon came in, listened, and talked. He raised every
one’s sights, and he
stepped up to the problem. He brought the whole committee on board.
That afternoon, Nixon talked eloquently with the group about the impor-
tance of what was
going to happen when the schools opened and the stake
everyone had in seeing it go smoothly.
As the schools opened, we worried about how the news would be cov-
ered on tele
vi
sion. Len Garment went around to the leading networks and
urged them to report the facts. He said, “Suppose a hundred schools open,
and there’s violence at one of them. What is the story? I think the story is that
the schools opened peacefully.”
The schools opened and all went peacefully. The community leaders had
done a fine job. They stood up to their responsibilities.
From this episode, I learned that if you are to give legitimacy to an effort,
involve
people who truly represent their constituencies. Another major les-
son has to do with the development of
human relationships among
those
involved. Deep hatreds do exist, but personal rapport and re
spect may still
be nurtured. In our desegregation effort, we had succeeded by using the
Worthington principles: deep consultation and common sense. Most impor
tant is leadership from the top, but always there is the necessity to build trust.
That is the coin of the realm. President Nixon stepped up to a tough decision.
Recognizing the importance of managing the implementation pro
cess well,
he set the process in motion and took part himself at critical moments.
•••
I remember the day when, as secretary of state, I brought a draft foreign pol-
icy speech to the Oval Office for President Reagan to review. Reagan read
through the speech and said, “That’s fine.” Then he picked it up again and
began marking it up in places. At one spot, he wrote “story” in the margin.
I asked what he meant, and he said, “That’s the most impor
tant point. Your
speech is good, but to engage your listeners, it always helps to tell a relevant
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story they can relate to. That way, you’ll appeal not only to their minds but
to their emotions.” Reagan understood that you could make a point or you
could tell a story. Always tell a story to make your point whenever you can.
It penetrates in a way no abstract point can—and it therefore forges an emo-
tional bond, and emotional bonds build trust.
Genuine empathy like this helps to create sound relationships across
countries, even when cultures seem far apart and when times are tough. Our
country
will face fresh challenges in an emerging new world: new pandem-
ics, new technologies, new weapons, environmental change, demographic
change, and the ever-
renewing charge to effectively govern over diversity. A
shared understanding, and a
human connection,
will help us navigate
these
unsettled waters.
I went to the Soviet Union for the first time in 1973. During my visit,
Nikolai Patolichev, the Soviet minister of foreign trade, insisted that I accom-
pany him to Leningrad. He made it clear that the first official event
there
would be a visit to the Leningrad cemetery. We entered and looked down
upon a long path between huge mounds where tens of thousands of Soviet
citizens who died in the Siege of Leningrad
were buried. I carried a wreath
and we walked slowly down the path
toward a memorial as funereal
music
played. As we walked, Patolichev described the fighting and the numbers
of
people who
were killed. “
Every Rus
sian
family has some member who
fought, died, or suffered as a result of the Siege of Leningrad,” he told me. As
he spoke, I noticed that the Soviet interpreter was openly sobbing and this
tough old guy, Patolichev, had tears streaming down his cheeks. When we
were about to leave the cemetery, I said to him, “I, too, fought in World War II
and had friends killed beside me.” Then I went to the
middle of the terrace
above the cemetery, raised my hand in a long salute, dropped it smartly, as an
old marine, turned about-
face, and left. Patolichev said to me, “Thank you,
George. That shows respect.”
This idea carried over into Cold War adversarial relations. I found that when
you give credit where credit is due, as with that sign of re
spect in Leningrad,
then your criticisms end up carry
ing more weight; you are seen as someone
who is fair, someone who can be dealt with. President Reagan and General
Secretary Gorbachev similarly developed a feeling of trust that ultimately
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helped to eliminate intermediate-
range nuclear weapons. The agreement
was: trust, but fortify that trust with verification. So verification led to trust,
and trust promoted verification.
•••
“In God we trust.” Yes, and when we are at our best, also in one another.
Trust is fundamental, reciprocal, and pervasive. If it is pre
sent, anything is
pos
si
ble. If it is absent, nothing is pos
si
ble. Most of every
thing we know
comes to us from someone
else; we
either believe it or not. As a leader,
teacher, commander, coach, or boss,
others must believe that what you say
can be trusted—or else all is lost. Reagan was a great communicator, first and
foremost, because people trusted him. They did not just hear his words, they
absorbed them. If, as a leader, you want
people to be trustworthy, then let
them know that you trust them. The best leaders trust their followers with
the truth, and do you know what happens then? Their followers trust them
back. And next? With that bond between them, they can do big, hard
things
together. And
doing big, hard
things together is how you change the world
for the better. But it
doesn’t happen without that foundational cement of
trust.
So, that’s the big lesson that I learned these first one hundred years. I can’t
wait to see what the big lesson will be from my next one hundred. We are on a
hinge of history, and the future will not be like the past. But I know that trust
will be part of it. It’s the coin of the realm.