This document discusses the journey of discovering and embracing one's identity while living with lupus. It describes attending a lupus support group where the advice was to plan for death, but realizing that was not necessary. Once flares were managed, a passion for advocacy emerged. This led to raising lupus awareness through social media, events with politicians, and embracing one's style regardless of health status. The message is about finding balance and understanding within one's body and sharing one's experience to help others.