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Testing Yourself
     Getting to know me!
What do I ask the person in the mirror?
There comes a point in your life when the best
way to figure out how you’re doing is to step
back and ask yourself a few questions.
Having all the answers is less important than
knowing what to ask.
Vision and Priorities

In the press of day-to-day activities, we
often fail to adequately communicate our
vision to the people around us, and in
particular, we don’t communicate it in a way
that helps friends, family, and associates
understand the focus of or efforts.
Vision and Priorities
• Do I have a vision for my career, life, family?
• Have I identified and communicated three to
  five key priorities or steps to achieve my
  vision?
• If asked, would my
  family, friends, coworkers, and classmates
  be able to articulate what my vision and
  priorities are?
• If ask could I state why my priorities are key
  to achieving my vision?
Compass and Clock
• What do I value?
  – Most
  – Least
• What are my core principles?
  – What is the source of my value system?
  – When faced with moral conflict who or
    what do I turn to for resolution?
• What does my life timeline look like?
• What will I do if I can not keep my timeline?
Managing Time


Leaders need to know how they’re spending
their time. They also need to ensure that
their time allocation matches their key
priorities.
Managing Time
• How am I spending my time?
  – Do I develop my mind, body and spirit?
• How do I influence the way
  subordinates, team members, and family
  members invest their time?
• Does my use of time match the key
  priorities I have for my life?
Feedback

Leaders often fail to coach those around them
in a direct and timely fashion and, instead, we
wait until a crisis situation arises. This
approach may lead to unpleasant surprises and
can undermine our effectiveness, delay what
we hope to achieve, and slow or stop our
development. Just as important, we must try
to cultivate people who can give us advice and
feedback.
Feedback
• Have I developed the ability to give people
  around me open, honest feedback?
  – Straight Talk
• Do I have or can I develop one or two close
  friends who will be comfortable telling me
  things I do not want to hear?
Planning
When we fail to actively plan for
succession, and we do not delegate
sufficiently, we may become decision-
making bottlenecks. Key employees often
may leave organizations if they are not
actively groomed and challenged.
Planning
• Am I a decision making bottleneck in
  organizations I lead?
• Are my plans well developed and do they
  allow for success without my active
  participation?
• Am I coaching and developing the leaders
  around me?
Evaluation and Alignment
Am I attuned to changes in the environment
that would require a change in the way I
organize and run my life?
Evaluation and Alignment
• Is my plan still aligned with the key success
  factors for my future?
• If I had to design my plan with a clean sheet
  of paper, how would I design it?
• How would it differ from my current plan?
• Should I set down with family, friends, and
  associates to answer these questions and
  make recommendations to alter my plan?
Leading Under Pressure
A leader’s actions in times of stress are
watched closely by everyone and have a
profound impact on the culture of the
organizations’ behavior. Successful leaders
need to be aware of their own stress triggers
and consciously modulate their behavior
during these periods to make sure they are
acting in ways that are consistent with their
stated beliefs and core values.
Leading Under Pressure
• What types of events create pressure for me?
• How do I behave under pressure?
• What signals am I sending my
  friends, family, and associates?
• Are these signals helpful, or are they
  undermining the success of my plan for the
  future?
Staying True to Yourself
 Successful people develop leadership
 styles that fit the needs of their
 organization but also fit their own beliefs
 and personality.

WHY?
Staying True to Yourself
• Is my leadership style comfortable?
• Does it reflect who I truly am?
• Do I assert myself sufficiently, or have I
  become tentative?
• Am I too politically correct?
• Does worry about my next promotion or
  bonus cause me to pull punches or hesitate
  to express my views?
Staying True to Yourself
1) Successful people develop leadership styles
   that fit the needs of their organization but
   also fit their own beliefs and personality.
2) A career is a marathon, not a sprint, and if
   you aren’t true to yourself, eventually you’re
   going to wear down.
3) Successful people often struggle during
   stretches of their careers. To get back on
   track, they must devise techniques for
   stepping back, getting perspective, and
   developing a new game plan.

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Getting to know me s

  • 1. Testing Yourself Getting to know me! What do I ask the person in the mirror?
  • 2. There comes a point in your life when the best way to figure out how you’re doing is to step back and ask yourself a few questions. Having all the answers is less important than knowing what to ask.
  • 3. Vision and Priorities In the press of day-to-day activities, we often fail to adequately communicate our vision to the people around us, and in particular, we don’t communicate it in a way that helps friends, family, and associates understand the focus of or efforts.
  • 4. Vision and Priorities • Do I have a vision for my career, life, family? • Have I identified and communicated three to five key priorities or steps to achieve my vision? • If asked, would my family, friends, coworkers, and classmates be able to articulate what my vision and priorities are? • If ask could I state why my priorities are key to achieving my vision?
  • 5. Compass and Clock • What do I value? – Most – Least • What are my core principles? – What is the source of my value system? – When faced with moral conflict who or what do I turn to for resolution? • What does my life timeline look like? • What will I do if I can not keep my timeline?
  • 6. Managing Time Leaders need to know how they’re spending their time. They also need to ensure that their time allocation matches their key priorities.
  • 7. Managing Time • How am I spending my time? – Do I develop my mind, body and spirit? • How do I influence the way subordinates, team members, and family members invest their time? • Does my use of time match the key priorities I have for my life?
  • 8. Feedback Leaders often fail to coach those around them in a direct and timely fashion and, instead, we wait until a crisis situation arises. This approach may lead to unpleasant surprises and can undermine our effectiveness, delay what we hope to achieve, and slow or stop our development. Just as important, we must try to cultivate people who can give us advice and feedback.
  • 9. Feedback • Have I developed the ability to give people around me open, honest feedback? – Straight Talk • Do I have or can I develop one or two close friends who will be comfortable telling me things I do not want to hear?
  • 10. Planning When we fail to actively plan for succession, and we do not delegate sufficiently, we may become decision- making bottlenecks. Key employees often may leave organizations if they are not actively groomed and challenged.
  • 11. Planning • Am I a decision making bottleneck in organizations I lead? • Are my plans well developed and do they allow for success without my active participation? • Am I coaching and developing the leaders around me?
  • 12. Evaluation and Alignment Am I attuned to changes in the environment that would require a change in the way I organize and run my life?
  • 13. Evaluation and Alignment • Is my plan still aligned with the key success factors for my future? • If I had to design my plan with a clean sheet of paper, how would I design it? • How would it differ from my current plan? • Should I set down with family, friends, and associates to answer these questions and make recommendations to alter my plan?
  • 14. Leading Under Pressure A leader’s actions in times of stress are watched closely by everyone and have a profound impact on the culture of the organizations’ behavior. Successful leaders need to be aware of their own stress triggers and consciously modulate their behavior during these periods to make sure they are acting in ways that are consistent with their stated beliefs and core values.
  • 15. Leading Under Pressure • What types of events create pressure for me? • How do I behave under pressure? • What signals am I sending my friends, family, and associates? • Are these signals helpful, or are they undermining the success of my plan for the future?
  • 16. Staying True to Yourself Successful people develop leadership styles that fit the needs of their organization but also fit their own beliefs and personality. WHY?
  • 17. Staying True to Yourself • Is my leadership style comfortable? • Does it reflect who I truly am? • Do I assert myself sufficiently, or have I become tentative? • Am I too politically correct? • Does worry about my next promotion or bonus cause me to pull punches or hesitate to express my views?
  • 18. Staying True to Yourself 1) Successful people develop leadership styles that fit the needs of their organization but also fit their own beliefs and personality. 2) A career is a marathon, not a sprint, and if you aren’t true to yourself, eventually you’re going to wear down. 3) Successful people often struggle during stretches of their careers. To get back on track, they must devise techniques for stepping back, getting perspective, and developing a new game plan.

Editor's Notes

  1. What do we say about people who pass this test? What do we call those who waver?