This document discusses topics related to "equallyoked" couples, including reasons for pursuing an equallyoked lifestyle based on logic, morals, and feelings of intimacy. It outlines considerations for choosing a partner and maintaining a healthy equallyoked relationship through communication, compatibility, and socializing. The document asserts that equallyoked coupleships can provide fulfillment through honesty, respect, self-esteem, and other positive relationship attributes. Pursuing an equallyoked coupleship is presented as a means to face fewer difficulties in society, have relationship security and public status, and find lifetime commitment and intimacy. The document concludes by suggesting colleges to study topics like sociology, social psychology, civil rights, and marriage/family issues in the context of advanced

1. Equallyoked CouplesEquallyoked Couples
Results from Analysis of
“Equallyoked” Couples
About ‘Why Equallyoked’?About ‘Why Equallyoked’?
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2. ““Wishing for AnWishing for An
Equallyoked Lifestyle?”Equallyoked Lifestyle?”
• LogicLogic
– A logical reasoning: extended family lineage
• MoralsMorals
– Beliefs about the right thing to do in society
• Feeling GoodFeeling Good about Reasons
– It really feels good to be with someone of the
same ‘civil identity’ of the opposite sex.
– The intimacy feels right and romance feels so
good that it may be that sex should feel…
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3. ““A Quick Choice to BecomeA Quick Choice to Become
An Equallyoked Couple”An Equallyoked Couple”
• Makes a ChoiceChoice Easier
– Knowing just ‘who’ to choose in general
– Yet a specific choice must be independent
• The Nuts and Bolts of a ‘true’ anda ‘true’ and
‘workable’ relationship‘workable’ relationship
– Communication
– Compatibility
– Socializing
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4. ““Just Like OtherJust Like Other
Equallyoked Couples”Equallyoked Couples”
• The “Equallyoked Couple MindsetMindset”
– A positive mental attitude about being
‘equallyoked’ anytime while out in society
• Admiration for other Equallyoked Couples
– ComplimentingComplimenting your friends who are also
‘equallyoked’ for that fact is supportive
• Happiness, Financial Stability, Good Sex
– Sharing personal thingsSharing personal things with other ‘couples’:
about the ‘equallyoked’ experience
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5. ““A Need to Fulfill in AnA Need to Fulfill in An
Equallyoked CoupleshipEquallyoked Coupleship
• A few fulfiling features of an ‘equallyoked’
coupleship:
– honesty, vulnerability, mutual respect for
boundaries, a full range of emotions,
constructive ambition, sharing of personal
philosophy of life, full expression of love,
admiration, and respect, high level self-
esteem, excellent communication, true
bonding, fun times together, really healthyreally healthy
sexsex, negotiation with supportiveness, variety,
commitment, ‘seeing’ the best in one another
for the best outcome, true love, etc….
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6. ““Being A ModernBeing A Modern
Equallyoked Couple”Equallyoked Couple”
• The BestThe Best Quality Relationship
– Being “In Love” is a powerful motivating force
– Is based upon consistency in ‘compatibility’
– Acceptance of mutuality/mutual sympathymutuality/mutual sympathy
– Best for growing and developing a coupleship
– Navigating about society with a truly
admirable relationship and social dynamics
– Surviving, enjoying, and/or thriving financially
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7. ““A ReallyA Really GreatGreat
Equallyoked Coupleship”Equallyoked Coupleship”
• BetterBetter can mean really Great!
– Good communication with excellent secret
‘cues’ for being out in society, sharing in the
passion and ambition for mutual goals, being
totally comfortable with each othertotally comfortable with each other while
navigating socially, understanding the value of
expressing ‘true’ intimacy, exemplary ways to
project love and yet keep boundaries any
time/anyplace, etc
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8. ““Becoming Equallyoked MayBecoming Equallyoked May
Mean Fewer Difficulties”Mean Fewer Difficulties”
• A SimplierSimplier Relationship
– In a complex multicultural society
– Individualized and personal motives
– At large in the local community
• Crystal ClearCrystal Clear Understanding
– Self understanding
– Self image and
– Self esteem
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9. ““An Equallyoked Couple hasAn Equallyoked Couple has
Relationship Security”Relationship Security”
• An Ideal/OutstandingOutstanding Coupleship
– The ‘right’ relationship to pursue
– Understood to be an ‘ideal’ relationship
– Inherent in the pursuit of happiness
• A Natural DesireNatural Desire for Coupling Up
– As near ‘perfect’ as humanly possible
– Human nature and desire for intimacy
– Potential for optimal sexual ecstasy
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10. ““An Equallyoked Couples haveAn Equallyoked Couples have
Good Public Status”Good Public Status”
• Self Respect = Social Appeal
– Family, Friends, Community
– Public/political image
– Reflects-comfort & fulfillment
• Still Unique and IndividualizedUnique and Individualized
– Own individuality
– Positive personality/
– Uniqueness of character
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11. ““An Equallyoked CoupleshipAn Equallyoked Coupleship
for a Lifetime”for a Lifetime”
• A ‘Certain TimeCertain Time’ in Life
– A commitment for the rest of our lives
– The ‘right’ time in life to ‘mate’……
– Future goals secured
• A LifetimeLifetime Proposition
– To be together until the end of life
– Religious beliefs and eternal life
– End stages of a complete life
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12. College StudiesCollege Studies
Some Suggested Schools:
SociologySociology
Oakwood University, Grinnell College, Occidental College, Shaw
University, Gallaudet University, Central State University,
Social PsychologySocial Psychology
Kentucky State University, Livingstone College, Claremont McKenna
College, Reed College, Swarthmore College, Cheyney University of
Pennsylvania,
Civil Rights and/or Community HealthCivil Rights and/or Community Health
East Texas Baptist University, Presbyterian College, Franklin College,
Sewanee-University of the South, Inter American University of Puerto
Rico-Barranquit, Benedict College,
Marriage Family and Child PsychologyMarriage Family and Child Psychology
Hampshire College, Pomona College, Hiram College, Oregon Health &
Science University, Wilmington College, Saint Augustine’s University,
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