This document provides suggestions for helping middle schoolers cope with a tragic event or crisis. Parents should discuss their concerns with their child, listen to understand their emotions, and offer healthy ways for them to take action. It is important to maintain normal routines to reassure children and provide distraction, while also taking care of one's own mental health. Honesty, patience and support can help children learn to cope.
Riding in Tandem - co-regulation in actionJane mitchell
1) The author discusses how a child's emotions can influence a caregiver's emotions, known as co-regulation, where a child in an upset state can push a caregiver's buttons and cause them to also become overwhelmed.
2) Staying calm as a caregiver is important for co-regulating a child; the author provides examples of how reflecting on situations that cause stress can help develop strategies to remain in a calm state.
3) The attachment process involves cycles of rupture and repair between a child and caregiver; mistakes can be recovered from through explanation, reassurance and repairing the relationship.
Caregivers confront many transitions and challenges as they focus on meeting the needs of their loved ones. The life of a caregiver is further complicated when the person they are caring for presents difficult behaviors. Part 1 focuses on a review of the types of "difficult people" that present these challenges to their families and caregivers.
The document discusses research conducted on the "Hard-Working-Class", a group of American mothers with household incomes between $30,000-$50,000.
1) This group sees themselves as a new social class defined by their strong work ethic rather than traditional class labels.
2) They live paycheck to paycheck and are constantly balancing priorities due to financial constraints. Unexpected expenses often require borrowing or cutting back severely.
3) If the economy improved, these mothers would prioritize vacations, extra groceries, and dining out - activities they currently sacrifice due to limited budgets.
Class 3: Integrative Parenting for Attachment Traumaatcnebraska
This document provides an overview of strategies for addressing challenging behaviors in children affected by attachment trauma. It discusses identifying triggers, vulnerabilities, and negative thoughts that lead to meltdowns. There are three phases to a meltdown - acting out, acting in, and repair - and strategies are provided for managing each phase with attuned responses. Other common "scary" behaviors like lying, defiance, stealing and their underlying causes are explored. The concept of a child's "dominoes" - the chain of events, emotions and sensations that can lead to a meltdown - is introduced to help understand triggers. The goal is to stay attuned to the child's experience and needs to de-escalate behaviors with calm, reassuring and emp
Here are some resources to help parents and caregivers speak with children about the recent tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to the Newtown,CT community
1) The document provides guidance for teachers on supporting students during stressful times.
2) It advises teachers to care for their own mental health and wellbeing so they can better support students, who are all affected by stress but each in unique ways.
3) The document also recommends teachers listen to students, use relaxation strategies, seek information on stress symptoms, and limit media exposure related to traumatic events.
Riding in Tandem - co-regulation in actionJane mitchell
1) The author discusses how a child's emotions can influence a caregiver's emotions, known as co-regulation, where a child in an upset state can push a caregiver's buttons and cause them to also become overwhelmed.
2) Staying calm as a caregiver is important for co-regulating a child; the author provides examples of how reflecting on situations that cause stress can help develop strategies to remain in a calm state.
3) The attachment process involves cycles of rupture and repair between a child and caregiver; mistakes can be recovered from through explanation, reassurance and repairing the relationship.
Caregivers confront many transitions and challenges as they focus on meeting the needs of their loved ones. The life of a caregiver is further complicated when the person they are caring for presents difficult behaviors. Part 1 focuses on a review of the types of "difficult people" that present these challenges to their families and caregivers.
The document discusses research conducted on the "Hard-Working-Class", a group of American mothers with household incomes between $30,000-$50,000.
1) This group sees themselves as a new social class defined by their strong work ethic rather than traditional class labels.
2) They live paycheck to paycheck and are constantly balancing priorities due to financial constraints. Unexpected expenses often require borrowing or cutting back severely.
3) If the economy improved, these mothers would prioritize vacations, extra groceries, and dining out - activities they currently sacrifice due to limited budgets.
Class 3: Integrative Parenting for Attachment Traumaatcnebraska
This document provides an overview of strategies for addressing challenging behaviors in children affected by attachment trauma. It discusses identifying triggers, vulnerabilities, and negative thoughts that lead to meltdowns. There are three phases to a meltdown - acting out, acting in, and repair - and strategies are provided for managing each phase with attuned responses. Other common "scary" behaviors like lying, defiance, stealing and their underlying causes are explored. The concept of a child's "dominoes" - the chain of events, emotions and sensations that can lead to a meltdown - is introduced to help understand triggers. The goal is to stay attuned to the child's experience and needs to de-escalate behaviors with calm, reassuring and emp
Here are some resources to help parents and caregivers speak with children about the recent tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to the Newtown,CT community
1) The document provides guidance for teachers on supporting students during stressful times.
2) It advises teachers to care for their own mental health and wellbeing so they can better support students, who are all affected by stress but each in unique ways.
3) The document also recommends teachers listen to students, use relaxation strategies, seek information on stress symptoms, and limit media exposure related to traumatic events.
1) The document provides guidance for teachers on supporting students during stressful times.
2) It recommends that teachers care for their own mental health and wellbeing so they are able to support students.
3) While all children will be affected by stress, the impact will be unique for each child depending on their individual resilience and prior experiences. Teachers should acknowledge students' emotions but not attempt counseling.
This booklet offers parents, caregivers, and other adults suggestions on how to help children cope with the effects of disaster, as well as how to be prepared before a disaster strikes.
USES POSITIVE INTERVENTIONS MEASURES TO HELP CHILDREN CONTROL THEIR INAAPROPR...Cristy Melloso
This document discusses positive intervention measures to help children control inappropriate behavior. It recommends accepting children's negative feelings, helping children verbalize feelings through books and activities, redirecting behavior through soothing activities, using conflict conversations instead of punishment, focusing attention on desirable behavior, addressing injured children first after conflicts, and modeling appropriate behavior and self-control.
This document discusses back to school preparations and the inclusion of hand sanitizer on many school supply lists. It provides recommendations for choosing an effective hand sanitizer, including that it contain at least 60% ethyl alcohol. Using hand sanitizer appropriately can reduce illness and increase school attendance. The CEO's corner discusses the organization's mission to increase disease awareness and promote healthy behaviors in children. It also discusses the challenges of dealing with children's food allergies.
This document outlines a school project aimed at helping students coping with single-parenting due to the loss of a parent. The project involved conducting counseling sessions for 21 students from grades 6 and 7 who had lost a parent. Through these sessions, the students were able to openly express their emotions and better understand and accept their situation. The school also provided financial assistance to some students and worked to boost their self-confidence. As a result, the students' socialization, self-esteem, and ability to accept reality improved. The school plans to continue supporting these students.
suggestions for parents - staying patient with your teensGenZandu
Staying patient with your teens can be challenging, but it's crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Set realistic expectations, communicate openly, and actively listen to their concerns. Choose your battles wisely and avoid unnecessary power struggles. Foster mutual respect by acknowledging their perspectives and validating their emotions. Practice empathy and understanding, remembering your own experiences as a teenager. Celebrate their achievements and support them through their struggles. By staying patient and empathetic, you can strengthen your bond with your teens and guide them effectively through adolescence.
Helping Children Cope with Violence and Disasters....What Parents Can DoCALearning
This document provides guidance for parents on helping children cope with trauma from violence or disasters. It discusses the effects of trauma on children of different ages and recommends that parents identify their own feelings, explain what happened to their children, allow children to express emotions, and maintain normal routines to the extent possible. It also identifies signs that a child may need professional help and provides additional resources on trauma and mental health.
This document provides information about ADHD and resources for teaching students with ADHD. It summarizes that approximately 9.5% of children have been diagnosed with ADHD as of 2007, representing a 22% increase over four years. From 1998 to 2009, ADHD prevalence increased to 10% in some US regions and for children living below the poverty level. The document discusses challenges students with ADHD face in school and strategies teachers can use to help these students succeed, including treating each student as an individual, understanding their perceptions, and having high expectations.
Naître et grandir - Special Edition - Parenting tips from A to ZNaitre etgrandir
This document provides parenting tips and advice for issues faced by parents today. It discusses topics from A to Z, with 3 sentences or less summarizing each letter's topic. The document encourages parents to be informed about child development but not feel pressure to be perfect, as every child and relationship is unique. It emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents and accessing available resources for support when needed. The goal is to better understand children's behaviors and needs.
Monday earthquake presentation for facultyadamclark_yis
This document provides guidance for teachers and staff on supporting students returning to school after an earthquake and tsunami. It recommends acknowledging students' experiences, normalizing their feelings, and emphasizing resilience. Teachers should provide opportunities for students to discuss their experiences in a safe environment. It also stresses the importance of taking care of one's own needs to better help students, and outlines potential signs of emotional difficulty in students.
68 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
EXCHANGE SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2010
In 1980, Karen Stephens became director
of Illinois State University Child Care Center
and instructor in child development for ISU
Family and Consumer Sciences. She is
author of the electronic parent newsletter,
“Parenting Exchange” located at
www.ChildCareExchange.com.
Fostering resilience in children
exposed to domestic violence
Practical strategies EC staff can put into action
by Karen Stephens
Whether staff realizes it or not, early
childhood programs are not just fun and
engaging places for children to play and
learn. For some children, our programs
are bonafide daytime havens from
turmoil. I’m speaking specifically about
those children who find themselves in
the cross-fire of violence between the
people they love most in the world —
their own family members. The vio-
lence might be verbal intimidation and
humiliation, or a combination of verbal
and physical attack. Either way, it’s terri-
fying for the children witnessing assault
behind closed doors. Whether violent
episodes in the home are a one-time
occurrence — or a long time, repeated
pattern of family dysfunction — the
fallout of violence leaves a mark on
children’s emotional spirit and overall
development, including typical brain
development.
Children enmeshed in violence don’t
experience a relaxed, predictable, or
trusting home life. In fact, children
exposed to home violence often experi-
ence symptoms of post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD) just as adults do after
enduring violence. Domestic violence
robs children of their childhood. And
while early childhood staff can’t erase
the effects of violence on children’s
individual make-up, they can become
a positive mediating factor. By nurtur-
ing children’s ability to rebound from
challenges, early childhood profession-
als can help children become resilient,
despite their early experiences with
trauma.
To become an effective ‘resilience factor’
for children, we must be aware of the
effects of violence on children. Early
childhood staff — especially classroom
teachers and caregivers — need to be
alert to symptoms that suggest children
may feel under siege in their own home.
With that knowledge, we can make
specific adjustments in our classrooms
and programs to increase children’s re-
silience. If we do so with intentional and
consistent effort, we can help trauma-
tized children feel more trusting, safe,
secure, and hopeful about life, despite
their personal experience with family
violence. We can be an intervention to
show children an alternative view of
human interaction that is characterized
by dignified interactions and respectful
conflict resolution. It’s another side of
life they desperately need to believe in.
Children’s behavioral clues
indicating trauma due to
domestic violence
Following are some symptoms early
childhood staff might observe. A cluster
of behaviors should be considered a ‘re.
This document summarizes a presentation on promoting family resilience when parenting a child with a chronic illness. It discusses common challenges families face, including loss of control, anxiety, and financial concerns. It emphasizes the importance of open communication between family members, maintaining routines, and finding time for self-care. The presentation provides advice directly from parents and children on maintaining relationships, social support systems, and a positive attitude during difficult times.
Intervention with child victims of trauma Sara Dawod
The document discusses intervention strategies for helping child victims of trauma in a school setting. It recommends establishing a crisis response team to provide support and plan interventions. The team should receive training and be able to facilitate group meetings and discussions. Large group assemblies can be held to provide information and support, while smaller targeted groups allow for more individualized assistance. The goal is to help students process their experiences and emotions, educate them on trauma responses, and provide coping strategies to prevent long-term issues.
This document provides advice for families on bullying at school. It discusses:
1. What bullying is, its effects on victims, and the importance of schools, families, and students working together to address it.
2. Steps families can take if they suspect their child is being bullied, such as contacting the school and being persistent until speaking to someone, as well as signs to look out for and ways to support their child's self-esteem.
3. Challenges families may face, such as children not wanting their parents to contact the school or get involved, and the importance of listening to children and gaining their trust and understanding while also taking action if concerned.
Reducing violence and promoting peace prek and kdrdouglasbell
This document discusses strategies for reducing violence and promoting peace in pre-K and kindergarten classrooms. It notes that young children are exposed to a lot of violence and lack social-emotional skills like empathy, emotion regulation, and conflict resolution. The solution is to teach these skills through purposeful activities and adjusting the classroom environment, schedule, and teacher interactions to focus on social-emotional development and creating a caring atmosphere. Specific strategies mentioned include using soft materials, role playing problem solving, reading social stories, teaching calming techniques like breathing, and celebrating students' small successes in resolving conflicts positively.
The document discusses challenges faced by gifted adolescents. It notes that adolescence brings new issues as gifted children experience personality changes including strong competitiveness that can damage self-image. It also discusses the "impostor syndrome" where gifted children doubt their abilities. Other issues include impatience, risk-taking behaviors, and difficulty choosing careers. The document advises parents to keep open communication with their gifted children and seek counseling if problems become too complex.
This document provides tips for parents on helping children cope with stress and anxiety during the COVID-19 pandemic. It recommends that parents stay calm, listen to children's concerns, and offer reassurance. It also suggests maintaining routines, focusing on family bonding activities, connecting with teachers about virtual schooling, practicing good hygiene, and being open about feelings with children. The goal is to help children feel informed and in control while reducing fear through open communication and support.
This document provides guidance for supporting children and youth with social-emotional needs. It discusses understanding social-emotional development and how experiences shape it. It also explores emotions and the brain, noting how emotions can impact rational thinking and problem-solving. The document advocates modeling control of emotions and reactions for children and youth to learn from. It offers tips for program supports and accommodations, including following consistent routines, addressing conflicts constructively, and allowing partial participation in activities for children who struggle with stress.
1) The document provides guidance for teachers on supporting students during stressful times.
2) It recommends that teachers care for their own mental health and wellbeing so they are able to support students.
3) While all children will be affected by stress, the impact will be unique for each child depending on their individual resilience and prior experiences. Teachers should acknowledge students' emotions but not attempt counseling.
This booklet offers parents, caregivers, and other adults suggestions on how to help children cope with the effects of disaster, as well as how to be prepared before a disaster strikes.
USES POSITIVE INTERVENTIONS MEASURES TO HELP CHILDREN CONTROL THEIR INAAPROPR...Cristy Melloso
This document discusses positive intervention measures to help children control inappropriate behavior. It recommends accepting children's negative feelings, helping children verbalize feelings through books and activities, redirecting behavior through soothing activities, using conflict conversations instead of punishment, focusing attention on desirable behavior, addressing injured children first after conflicts, and modeling appropriate behavior and self-control.
This document discusses back to school preparations and the inclusion of hand sanitizer on many school supply lists. It provides recommendations for choosing an effective hand sanitizer, including that it contain at least 60% ethyl alcohol. Using hand sanitizer appropriately can reduce illness and increase school attendance. The CEO's corner discusses the organization's mission to increase disease awareness and promote healthy behaviors in children. It also discusses the challenges of dealing with children's food allergies.
This document outlines a school project aimed at helping students coping with single-parenting due to the loss of a parent. The project involved conducting counseling sessions for 21 students from grades 6 and 7 who had lost a parent. Through these sessions, the students were able to openly express their emotions and better understand and accept their situation. The school also provided financial assistance to some students and worked to boost their self-confidence. As a result, the students' socialization, self-esteem, and ability to accept reality improved. The school plans to continue supporting these students.
suggestions for parents - staying patient with your teensGenZandu
Staying patient with your teens can be challenging, but it's crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Set realistic expectations, communicate openly, and actively listen to their concerns. Choose your battles wisely and avoid unnecessary power struggles. Foster mutual respect by acknowledging their perspectives and validating their emotions. Practice empathy and understanding, remembering your own experiences as a teenager. Celebrate their achievements and support them through their struggles. By staying patient and empathetic, you can strengthen your bond with your teens and guide them effectively through adolescence.
Helping Children Cope with Violence and Disasters....What Parents Can DoCALearning
This document provides guidance for parents on helping children cope with trauma from violence or disasters. It discusses the effects of trauma on children of different ages and recommends that parents identify their own feelings, explain what happened to their children, allow children to express emotions, and maintain normal routines to the extent possible. It also identifies signs that a child may need professional help and provides additional resources on trauma and mental health.
This document provides information about ADHD and resources for teaching students with ADHD. It summarizes that approximately 9.5% of children have been diagnosed with ADHD as of 2007, representing a 22% increase over four years. From 1998 to 2009, ADHD prevalence increased to 10% in some US regions and for children living below the poverty level. The document discusses challenges students with ADHD face in school and strategies teachers can use to help these students succeed, including treating each student as an individual, understanding their perceptions, and having high expectations.
Naître et grandir - Special Edition - Parenting tips from A to ZNaitre etgrandir
This document provides parenting tips and advice for issues faced by parents today. It discusses topics from A to Z, with 3 sentences or less summarizing each letter's topic. The document encourages parents to be informed about child development but not feel pressure to be perfect, as every child and relationship is unique. It emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents and accessing available resources for support when needed. The goal is to better understand children's behaviors and needs.
Monday earthquake presentation for facultyadamclark_yis
This document provides guidance for teachers and staff on supporting students returning to school after an earthquake and tsunami. It recommends acknowledging students' experiences, normalizing their feelings, and emphasizing resilience. Teachers should provide opportunities for students to discuss their experiences in a safe environment. It also stresses the importance of taking care of one's own needs to better help students, and outlines potential signs of emotional difficulty in students.
68 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
EXCHANGE SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2010
In 1980, Karen Stephens became director
of Illinois State University Child Care Center
and instructor in child development for ISU
Family and Consumer Sciences. She is
author of the electronic parent newsletter,
“Parenting Exchange” located at
www.ChildCareExchange.com.
Fostering resilience in children
exposed to domestic violence
Practical strategies EC staff can put into action
by Karen Stephens
Whether staff realizes it or not, early
childhood programs are not just fun and
engaging places for children to play and
learn. For some children, our programs
are bonafide daytime havens from
turmoil. I’m speaking specifically about
those children who find themselves in
the cross-fire of violence between the
people they love most in the world —
their own family members. The vio-
lence might be verbal intimidation and
humiliation, or a combination of verbal
and physical attack. Either way, it’s terri-
fying for the children witnessing assault
behind closed doors. Whether violent
episodes in the home are a one-time
occurrence — or a long time, repeated
pattern of family dysfunction — the
fallout of violence leaves a mark on
children’s emotional spirit and overall
development, including typical brain
development.
Children enmeshed in violence don’t
experience a relaxed, predictable, or
trusting home life. In fact, children
exposed to home violence often experi-
ence symptoms of post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD) just as adults do after
enduring violence. Domestic violence
robs children of their childhood. And
while early childhood staff can’t erase
the effects of violence on children’s
individual make-up, they can become
a positive mediating factor. By nurtur-
ing children’s ability to rebound from
challenges, early childhood profession-
als can help children become resilient,
despite their early experiences with
trauma.
To become an effective ‘resilience factor’
for children, we must be aware of the
effects of violence on children. Early
childhood staff — especially classroom
teachers and caregivers — need to be
alert to symptoms that suggest children
may feel under siege in their own home.
With that knowledge, we can make
specific adjustments in our classrooms
and programs to increase children’s re-
silience. If we do so with intentional and
consistent effort, we can help trauma-
tized children feel more trusting, safe,
secure, and hopeful about life, despite
their personal experience with family
violence. We can be an intervention to
show children an alternative view of
human interaction that is characterized
by dignified interactions and respectful
conflict resolution. It’s another side of
life they desperately need to believe in.
Children’s behavioral clues
indicating trauma due to
domestic violence
Following are some symptoms early
childhood staff might observe. A cluster
of behaviors should be considered a ‘re.
This document summarizes a presentation on promoting family resilience when parenting a child with a chronic illness. It discusses common challenges families face, including loss of control, anxiety, and financial concerns. It emphasizes the importance of open communication between family members, maintaining routines, and finding time for self-care. The presentation provides advice directly from parents and children on maintaining relationships, social support systems, and a positive attitude during difficult times.
Intervention with child victims of trauma Sara Dawod
The document discusses intervention strategies for helping child victims of trauma in a school setting. It recommends establishing a crisis response team to provide support and plan interventions. The team should receive training and be able to facilitate group meetings and discussions. Large group assemblies can be held to provide information and support, while smaller targeted groups allow for more individualized assistance. The goal is to help students process their experiences and emotions, educate them on trauma responses, and provide coping strategies to prevent long-term issues.
This document provides advice for families on bullying at school. It discusses:
1. What bullying is, its effects on victims, and the importance of schools, families, and students working together to address it.
2. Steps families can take if they suspect their child is being bullied, such as contacting the school and being persistent until speaking to someone, as well as signs to look out for and ways to support their child's self-esteem.
3. Challenges families may face, such as children not wanting their parents to contact the school or get involved, and the importance of listening to children and gaining their trust and understanding while also taking action if concerned.
Reducing violence and promoting peace prek and kdrdouglasbell
This document discusses strategies for reducing violence and promoting peace in pre-K and kindergarten classrooms. It notes that young children are exposed to a lot of violence and lack social-emotional skills like empathy, emotion regulation, and conflict resolution. The solution is to teach these skills through purposeful activities and adjusting the classroom environment, schedule, and teacher interactions to focus on social-emotional development and creating a caring atmosphere. Specific strategies mentioned include using soft materials, role playing problem solving, reading social stories, teaching calming techniques like breathing, and celebrating students' small successes in resolving conflicts positively.
The document discusses challenges faced by gifted adolescents. It notes that adolescence brings new issues as gifted children experience personality changes including strong competitiveness that can damage self-image. It also discusses the "impostor syndrome" where gifted children doubt their abilities. Other issues include impatience, risk-taking behaviors, and difficulty choosing careers. The document advises parents to keep open communication with their gifted children and seek counseling if problems become too complex.
This document provides tips for parents on helping children cope with stress and anxiety during the COVID-19 pandemic. It recommends that parents stay calm, listen to children's concerns, and offer reassurance. It also suggests maintaining routines, focusing on family bonding activities, connecting with teachers about virtual schooling, practicing good hygiene, and being open about feelings with children. The goal is to help children feel informed and in control while reducing fear through open communication and support.
This document provides guidance for supporting children and youth with social-emotional needs. It discusses understanding social-emotional development and how experiences shape it. It also explores emotions and the brain, noting how emotions can impact rational thinking and problem-solving. The document advocates modeling control of emotions and reactions for children and youth to learn from. It offers tips for program supports and accommodations, including following consistent routines, addressing conflicts constructively, and allowing partial participation in activities for children who struggle with stress.