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Dr. Jan Hoistad Partners
Keys to Unlock a
Long-Lasting Relationship
These mindset, tools and
skills of the Big Picture
Partnering approach will
benefit you for a lifetime.
Go farther, faster. Learn more about the Big Picture Partnering approach.
Get started with a complimentary consultation.
Dr. Jan Hoistad Partners
drjanhoistadpartners.com (952) 922.9430
6
What style of relationship
do you have now?
Assess the style of relationship
you have now. Put aside
anything that’s not working while
you learn a new way.
1. Style
Increase the positive
to stay happy
Keep your emotional savings
account overflowing in good
times and when confronted with
challenges.
2. Positive
Take Turns Listening to
One Another
It’s not about “fixing” things.
Create a thread of meaningful
communication that sustains
you at all times, especially
during busy or stressful times.
3. Listening
Practice being
a Teammate
It’s not 50 - 50. It’s 200%. Giving
your 100%, 100% of the time. Be
accountable. Stand still when
stressed. Show up and stay
connected.
4. Practice
Work for Win/Win
Solutions Together
It’s not how much you fight or
differ. It’s about being effective.
Practice mutual ways to listen
and identify what’s important to
each of you. Then agree on win/
win solutions you act on.
5. Solutions
Work Toward
Dreams Together
Working together you will clean
up whatever is not working in
your relationship, then focus on
what’s most important to you—
your Big Picture Dreams!
6. Dreams

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  • 1. Dr. Jan Hoistad Partners Keys to Unlock a Long-Lasting Relationship These mindset, tools and skills of the Big Picture Partnering approach will benefit you for a lifetime. Go farther, faster. Learn more about the Big Picture Partnering approach. Get started with a complimentary consultation. Dr. Jan Hoistad Partners drjanhoistadpartners.com (952) 922.9430 6 What style of relationship do you have now? Assess the style of relationship you have now. Put aside anything that’s not working while you learn a new way. 1. Style Increase the positive to stay happy Keep your emotional savings account overflowing in good times and when confronted with challenges. 2. Positive Take Turns Listening to One Another It’s not about “fixing” things. Create a thread of meaningful communication that sustains you at all times, especially during busy or stressful times. 3. Listening Practice being a Teammate It’s not 50 - 50. It’s 200%. Giving your 100%, 100% of the time. Be accountable. Stand still when stressed. Show up and stay connected. 4. Practice Work for Win/Win Solutions Together It’s not how much you fight or differ. It’s about being effective. Practice mutual ways to listen and identify what’s important to each of you. Then agree on win/ win solutions you act on. 5. Solutions Work Toward Dreams Together Working together you will clean up whatever is not working in your relationship, then focus on what’s most important to you— your Big Picture Dreams! 6. Dreams