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BY AMY CHUA
Quotes from Battle Hymn of theTiger Mother
Chinese parents can do things that would seem unimaginable —
even legally actionable — toWesterners. Chinese mothers can
say to their daughters, "Hey fatty — lose some weight." By
contrast, Western parents have to tiptoe around the issue,
talking in terms of "health" and never ever mentioning the f-
word, and their kids still end up in therapy for eating disorders
and negative self-image. ...Western parents are concerned
about their children's psyches. Chinese parents aren't.They
assume strength, not fragility, and as a result they behave very
differently.
Here are some things my daughters, Sophia and Louisa,
were never allowed to do:
- attend a sleepover
- have a playdate
- be in a school play
- complain about not being in a school play
- watchTV or play computer games
- choose their own extracurricular activities
- get any grade less than an A
- not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and
drama
- play any instrument other than the piano or violin
- not play the piano or violin.
This brings me to my final point. Some might think that the
American sports parent is an analog to the Chinese mother.This
is so wrong. Unlike your typicalWestern over-scheduling soccer
mom, the Chinese mother believes that (1) schoolwork always
comes first; (2) an A-minus is a bad grade; (3) your children must
be two years ahead of their classmates in math; (4) you must
never compliment your children in public; (5) if your child ever
disagrees with a teacher or coach, you must always take the
side of the teacher or coach; (6) the only activities your children
should be permitted to do are those in which they can
eventually win a medal; and (7) that medal must be gold.
Exercise (group work)
■ Discuss the ways in whichAn-Mei Hsu is a subject to traditional patriarchal roles
according to the essay, “Feminist Criticism” by LoisTyson. Find quotes from the article
and quotes from The Joy Luck Club. Write down page numbers. And be ready to
discuss.
■ How doWaverly Jong and Rose Hsu Jordan support points made in Fran Scoble’s
“Mothers and Daughters:Giving the Lie?” Find quotes to support your points and
write down page numbers.
■ How is An-Mei Hsu’s mother caught in the complicated web of intersectionality? Refer
to the article “What is Patriarchy?” by Malise Rosbech. How does she fall at the
bottom of the complicated web of hierarchies within the patriarchy?
Homework:
■ Prepare for midterm. TheWorksheet is listed on the website.
■ The test will contain the names/ methods of criticism on the website
and you will use them to fill in the blanks. You do not need to memorize
the names. Just understand what they mean or how they appear in our
readings.

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Chinese mothers and daughters

  • 2. Quotes from Battle Hymn of theTiger Mother Chinese parents can do things that would seem unimaginable — even legally actionable — toWesterners. Chinese mothers can say to their daughters, "Hey fatty — lose some weight." By contrast, Western parents have to tiptoe around the issue, talking in terms of "health" and never ever mentioning the f- word, and their kids still end up in therapy for eating disorders and negative self-image. ...Western parents are concerned about their children's psyches. Chinese parents aren't.They assume strength, not fragility, and as a result they behave very differently.
  • 3. Here are some things my daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were never allowed to do: - attend a sleepover - have a playdate - be in a school play - complain about not being in a school play - watchTV or play computer games - choose their own extracurricular activities - get any grade less than an A - not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama - play any instrument other than the piano or violin - not play the piano or violin.
  • 4. This brings me to my final point. Some might think that the American sports parent is an analog to the Chinese mother.This is so wrong. Unlike your typicalWestern over-scheduling soccer mom, the Chinese mother believes that (1) schoolwork always comes first; (2) an A-minus is a bad grade; (3) your children must be two years ahead of their classmates in math; (4) you must never compliment your children in public; (5) if your child ever disagrees with a teacher or coach, you must always take the side of the teacher or coach; (6) the only activities your children should be permitted to do are those in which they can eventually win a medal; and (7) that medal must be gold.
  • 5. Exercise (group work) ■ Discuss the ways in whichAn-Mei Hsu is a subject to traditional patriarchal roles according to the essay, “Feminist Criticism” by LoisTyson. Find quotes from the article and quotes from The Joy Luck Club. Write down page numbers. And be ready to discuss. ■ How doWaverly Jong and Rose Hsu Jordan support points made in Fran Scoble’s “Mothers and Daughters:Giving the Lie?” Find quotes to support your points and write down page numbers. ■ How is An-Mei Hsu’s mother caught in the complicated web of intersectionality? Refer to the article “What is Patriarchy?” by Malise Rosbech. How does she fall at the bottom of the complicated web of hierarchies within the patriarchy?
  • 6. Homework: ■ Prepare for midterm. TheWorksheet is listed on the website. ■ The test will contain the names/ methods of criticism on the website and you will use them to fill in the blanks. You do not need to memorize the names. Just understand what they mean or how they appear in our readings.