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BUILDING THE HOME




  A Series of Lessons
BUILDING THE HOME
Consult the Architect
Bricks for Wives
Bricks for Husbands
Termites in your Troth
Cracks in the Mortar
Imitation Bricks - Husbands
1 PETER 3:7-9
7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with
  understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the
  weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the
  grace of life, that your prayers may not be
  hindered.
8 Finally, all of you be of one mind, having
  compassion for one another; love as brothers, be
  tenderhearted, be courteous;
9 not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but
  on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were
  called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
INTRODUCTION
Previous lessons – Bricks for Husbands / Wives
Today – Imitation Bricks for Husbands / Wives
These lessons are a warning.
In building your home – don't accept or use cheap
  substitutes
Menu in a restaurant - “No Substitutes”
Provide a Living / Share a Life
1 Timothy 5:8 But if anyone does not provide for
  his own, and especially for those of his
  household, he has denied the faith and is worse
  than an unbeliever.
MEN – She did not marry your paycheck
Husband at wife's grave - “I gave her everything
 except myself.”
Provide a Living / Share a Life
Some Suggestions – Give Her:


Time
Attention
Dates
Understanding
Time Off
Demand / Manage
Many have a “macho” image of manhood
I rule the roost.
Man is the head of the house.
Boss at work – shout, bully, command, threaten,
 hot-shot, bark orders
Boss at home – manager, understanding partner
The rise in domestic violence, battered wives, and
 abused children – a matter of self-control.
Demand / Manage
The husband's job is to manage his family. That is
 the best translation of the word “proistemi”. The
 idea is “to preside over.” The picture is of one
 who has control but does not do everything by
 himself. As the elder is to a manager of a
 congregation, so the husband is to be a
 manager of his home. A good manager knows
 how to develop, and use the gifts of others. That
 is what a manager is and that is what a husband
 is to be.
Jay Adams, Christian Living in the Home, p. 76-77
Smothering / Honoring
Honor? YES                 Smother? NO
Honor                      Smother
  Appreciate                 Place on shelf,
  Allow room, give space     Worship, adore, protect
  Seek advice and help
                           She is not an
                            untouchable china doll
Add to the list
      1 Peter 3:8-9           Hypocrisy / Harmony
8 Finally, all of you be of   Self-centered /
  one mind, having             Compassionate
  compassion for one          Enemy / Love
  another; love as
  brothers, be                Pride / Humble
  tenderhearted, be           Curt / Courteous
  courteous;
                              Vengeance / Forgive
9 not returning evil for
  evil or reviling for        Fuss / Be a blessing
  reviling, but on the
  contrary blessing,
CONCLUSION
Ecstasy can become agony.


Stop being phony, imitation


Be the “real” man of the house.

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Build 6 imi husband

  • 1. BUILDING THE HOME A Series of Lessons
  • 2. BUILDING THE HOME Consult the Architect Bricks for Wives Bricks for Husbands Termites in your Troth Cracks in the Mortar Imitation Bricks - Husbands
  • 3. 1 PETER 3:7-9 7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. 8 Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous; 9 not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
  • 4. INTRODUCTION Previous lessons – Bricks for Husbands / Wives Today – Imitation Bricks for Husbands / Wives These lessons are a warning. In building your home – don't accept or use cheap substitutes Menu in a restaurant - “No Substitutes”
  • 5. Provide a Living / Share a Life 1 Timothy 5:8 But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. MEN – She did not marry your paycheck Husband at wife's grave - “I gave her everything except myself.”
  • 6. Provide a Living / Share a Life Some Suggestions – Give Her: Time Attention Dates Understanding Time Off
  • 7. Demand / Manage Many have a “macho” image of manhood I rule the roost. Man is the head of the house. Boss at work – shout, bully, command, threaten, hot-shot, bark orders Boss at home – manager, understanding partner The rise in domestic violence, battered wives, and abused children – a matter of self-control.
  • 8. Demand / Manage The husband's job is to manage his family. That is the best translation of the word “proistemi”. The idea is “to preside over.” The picture is of one who has control but does not do everything by himself. As the elder is to a manager of a congregation, so the husband is to be a manager of his home. A good manager knows how to develop, and use the gifts of others. That is what a manager is and that is what a husband is to be. Jay Adams, Christian Living in the Home, p. 76-77
  • 9. Smothering / Honoring Honor? YES Smother? NO Honor Smother Appreciate Place on shelf, Allow room, give space Worship, adore, protect Seek advice and help She is not an untouchable china doll
  • 10. Add to the list 1 Peter 3:8-9 Hypocrisy / Harmony 8 Finally, all of you be of Self-centered / one mind, having Compassionate compassion for one Enemy / Love another; love as brothers, be Pride / Humble tenderhearted, be Curt / Courteous courteous; Vengeance / Forgive 9 not returning evil for evil or reviling for Fuss / Be a blessing reviling, but on the contrary blessing,
  • 11. CONCLUSION Ecstasy can become agony. Stop being phony, imitation Be the “real” man of the house.