This document provides a sermon about learning to see others in relationships in a balanced way without magnifying their faults. It discusses how focusing too much on others' imperfections can damage relationships and discusses six ways to gain better perspective: 1) focus on people's strengths not weaknesses, 2) focus on what you love about them, 3) resist temptations that make you view them negatively, 4) believe the best about them, 5) gain spiritual perspective to avoid distractions, and 6) learn to forgive and move forward in a gracious way. The conclusion encourages examining where one's own magnifying glass has been pointed at wrong things in relationships.