God's character is defined by love, not anger or a desire to punish. He demonstrates his love through sending his son Jesus to die for humanity's sins. As Christians, we can develop an understanding of God's loving personality by studying the Bible, following godly teachings, and having a personal relationship with him. While God disciplines those he loves, the discipline is meant to guide us closer to him, not destroy us due to anger. God wants us to know and experience his love and grace.