Based on Book :Dawae Shafi by Imam Qayyam Ibn Al jawzi

1. Dawae Shafi
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser
Chapter 1-7

2. “I am in great trouble. Lost hope in
everything and this depression is killing
me inside. It feels like I am looser in this
life and also in hereafter. I have taken
every possible step to cure my
heartache. I simply can’t forget her. She
rules my heart and day in and day out, I
only dream of her…. Even after
breakup!!!
In this effort, I have been to many experts
for treatment. Is there any hope for me?
Is there any cure for my aching heart?
You are my last hope….
May Allah have mercy on me and save
everyone from this kind of misery...
Ameen!!”

3. 114 chapters

4. َ‫ر‬ َ‫و‬ ٌ‫ء‬‫ا‬َ‫ف‬ِ‫ش‬ َ‫و‬ُ‫ه‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬ ِ‫آن‬ ْ‫ر‬ُ‫ق‬ْ‫ال‬ َ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ ُ‫ل‬ِِّ
‫َز‬‫ن‬ُ‫ن‬ َ‫و‬
ْ‫ؤ‬ُ‫م‬ْ‫ل‬ِِّ‫ل‬ ٌ‫ة‬َ‫م‬ْ‫ح‬
َ‫ين‬ِ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬
َ‫ي‬ َ
‫َل‬ َ‫و‬ ۙ
ُ‫د‬‫ي‬ ِ
‫ز‬
‫ا‬ً‫ار‬َ‫س‬َ‫خ‬ َّ
‫َل‬ِ‫إ‬ َ‫ين‬ِ‫م‬ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َّ‫الظ‬
We send down (stage by stage) in the Qur'an that which is a
healing and a mercy to those who believe: to the unjust it
causes nothing but loss after loss.
(Al-Israa:82)

5. Prophet (‫)ﷺ‬ said: “There is no disease that Allah
has sent down except that He also has sent
down its treatment.”
(Bukhari: 5678)

6. Dua Most Effective
Treatment
Weapon of Believer; Defensive Mechanism

7. The Messenger of Allah, ‫ﷺ‬ said, "Only supplication
averts the decree, only kindness prolongs life, and a
man is deprived of provision for a fault he commits.”
( Ibn Majah: 4022)

8. “Nothing can change the Divine decree except dua”.
(Musnad Ahmad, 5/677; Ibn Majah, 90; Jami` Al-Tirmidhi, 139)

9. Basic Dua Rules
1. Dua Issue: Problem solved
2. Dua Issue: Some benefit
3. Dua = Issue: Compete each other

10. Impact of Dua
Present
Future

11. Pour Your Heart Out….

12. Analyze Our Tears
• Basal tears keep our eyes from drying out
completely.
• Reflex tears protect the human eye from harsh
irritants.
• Emotional tears. It all starts in the cerebrum
where sadness is registered.

13. “If one does not ask Allah, He will get angry with him.”
(At Tirmidhi:3383)

14. Anas reported Allah's Messenger (‫)ﷺ‬ as saying:
When one of you makes supplication, he should supplicate
with a will and should not say: O Allah, confer upon me if
You like, for there is none to coerce(force) Allah.
(Muslim 2678 )

16. Dua till…...
No time frame

17. Jabir narrated that :the Messenger of Allah‫ﷺ‬ said: “There is none
who utters a supplication, except that Allah gives him what he asked,
or prevents evil from him that is equal to it – as long as he does not
supplicate for something evil, or the cutting of ties of the womb.”
(At-Tirmidhi 3381)

18. Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (‫)ﷺ‬ as saying:
The supplication of the servant is granted in case he does not supplicate for sin or
for severing the ties of blood, or he does not become impatient. It was said: Allah's
Messenger, what does:" If he does not grow impatient" imply? He said: That he
should say like this: I supplicated and I supplicated but I did not find it being
responded. and then he becomes frustrated and abandons supplication.
(Muslim 2735 c)

19. Ijabat –e -Dua
Checklist for acceptance

20. Times of Response
1. Last 1/3rd of night
2. Time of adhan
3. After performing wudhu'.
4. Between the adhan and iqaamah
5. After the salah
6. Friday Jummah
7. When the rain falls
8. After good deed (sadiqah)

21. ِ‫ب‬ ُ‫ه‬‫و‬ُ‫ع‬ْ‫د‬‫ا‬َ‫ف‬ ٰ
‫َى‬‫ن‬ْ‫س‬ُ‫ح‬ْ‫ال‬ ُ‫ء‬‫ا‬َ‫م‬ْ‫س‬َ ْ
‫اْل‬ ِ َّ ِ
‫ّلِل‬ َ‫و‬
‫ا‬َ‫ه‬ …
The most beautiful names belong to Allah: so call on him by
them;
(Al-A’raaf:180)

23. ُ‫ت‬ْ‫ن‬ُ‫ك‬ ‫ي‬ِِّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬ َ‫َك‬‫ن‬‫ا‬َ‫ح‬ْ‫ب‬ُ‫س‬ َ‫ت‬ْ‫ن‬َ‫أ‬ َّ‫َل‬ِ‫إ‬ َ‫ه‬َ‫ل‬ِ‫إ‬ َ‫َل‬
ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َّ‫الظ‬ َ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬
َ‫ين‬ِ‫م‬
Ibrahim bin Muhammad bin Sa`d narrated from his father, from Sa`d that
the Messenger of Allah (‫)ﷺ‬ said: “The supplication of Dhun-Nun (Prophet
Yunus) when he supplicated, while in the belly of the whale was: ‘There is
none worthy of worship except You, Glory to You, Indeed, I have been of
the transgressors. So indeed, no Muslim man supplicates with it for
anything, ever, except Allah responds to him.” (At-Tirmdhi:3505)

24. Attitudes When in Stress
• Irritated
• Talking to everyone around
• Out of senses
• More depressed
• Drugs/music/Haram activities
• Mood off

25. Impact of Dua
What happens to dua?

26. Dua is ALWAYS accepted!
• Granted immediately
• Calamity postponed
• Given at later appropriate time
• Saved for Hereafter

27. Our Doubts
• Useless to make dua
• Destiny
• Efforts
• Self-Contradiction
• Lives and does things on ‘chance’

30. When Duas not
Answered…
Think Hard….

31. Make a Checklist
• My Intention
• Intensity of Dua
• Halal/Haram
• All essentials for dua

32. Appropriate words
Conscious heart
No blocks

33. What to Understand
Picking right, Avoiding wrong

34. All Looks PERFECT in Love
• Falling in love for wrong reasons and with
wrong people
• Falling in love is a powerful emotion, as all
looks perfect
• Brought to earth with challenges

35. Deadly Myths
• True love conquers all
• If it’s true love, I would know right away
• There is only one true love for you out there
• The perfect partner would fulfil you
completely
• Powerful sexual chemistry must be love

36. Consequences
• Beat yourself up emotionally in the
relationship
• Dwell on chemistry and addicted to flashy
relationship
• Prevent from opening to new relationship
• Live with excuses to carry on with relationship

37. Reality Check
• Make list of negative qualities
• See repetitive patterns
• Face the truth
• Fact: It’s not luck/coincidence/ by stars but
you made this choice, based on set of belief
• Emotional programing is 95% subconscious
but if we work on conscious 5%, we can
change a lot

38. To get in touch…..
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser/ Hamaray Bachchay
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser @ HamarayBachchay
hbheadoffice@gmail.com