Family:
Marriage
What is Marriage?
"A special contract of a permanent union
between a man and a woman entered into in
accordance with law for the establishment of
conjugal and family life."
-New Family Code of the Philippines(1998)
"A socially recognized union between two or
more individuals that typically involves sexual
and economic rights."
-Light and Keller(1985)
MATE SELECTION:
FACTORS TO CONSIDER:
• Age
• Education
• Social Class
• Race
Endogamy
-specifies that its members
must marry within their group.
Exogamy
-specify that people must
marry outside their group
TYPES OF MARRIAGES
• MONOGAMY
Marriage of one man to one woman
• POLYGAMY
Marriage of one male or female to more than
one person at a time
Polygyny- one man to many wives
Polyandry- one woman to many husbands
Meaning of Marriage and Family Issue
• Traditional Social Norm
-views marriage as a sacred phenomenon;
-a divine institution maintained by God.
-approved social pattern.
• Second Traditional Norm
-a social obligation
SAME- SEX MARRIAGE
• Berdache, a ceremony of some Native American tribes in
which a man or woman who wanted to be a member of the
opposite sex was officially declared to have his or her sex
changed. The “new” man or woman put on the clothing of
the opposite sex, performed the tasks associated with his
or her new sex, and was allowed to marry.
• In the 1980's and 1990's, several
European countries legalized
same-sex marriage.
• Sociologists Philip Blumstein and
Pepper Schwartz (1985), who
interviewed samesex couples,
found their main struggles to be
housework, money, careers,
problems with relatives, and
sexual adjustment.
SEPARATION OF MARRIAGES:
• ANNULMENT
refers to the legal process of
filing a petition in the
appropriate court seeking a
judicial declaration of making a
marriage null and void from the
beginning as if no marriage took
place
• LEGAL SEPARATION
refers to a legal process by which
a married couple may formalize a
de facto separation while
remaining legally married. A
legal separation is granted in the
form of a court order.
SEPARATION OF MARRIAGES:
• DIVORCE
refers to the is the termination of a
marriage or marital union, the
canceling and/or reorganizing of the
legal duties and responsibilities of
marriage, thus dissolving the bonds
of matrimony between a married
couple under the rule of law of the
particular country and/or state
 Fault Divorce-one spouse’s
behavior leads to irreparable
damage to the relationship
 No-Fault Divorce-both partners
accept their share of blame and
recognize the marriage simply is
not working
TRADITIONS OF PHILIPPINE WEDDINGS
• Before a Filipino groom proposes, he would go with his parents
to the house of the bride’s family and bring a gift, as well some
food as a gesture to ask for their permission to let him marry
their daughter.
• 1st sponsors are close friends or family to the bride and groom
and would be similar to the best-man and the maid of honor,
these sponsors are chosen by the family of the
couple.2nd sponsors are generally three couples, who are
similar to the bridesmaids and groomsmen. These sponsors
each have their own duty at the wedding. One pair are chosen to
light the wedding candles during the ceremony, another handle
the veil and the third wrap the cord around the couple.
• After the ceremony, the bride should walk ahead of her groom or
step on his foot in order to prevent being dominated by him
throughout the marriage.
TRADITIONS TO OTHER COUNTRIES:
• China
-Brides pick not one wedding dress, but three. First, there's the
traditional qipao or cheongsam, an embroidered, slim-fitting frock
that's usually made red for weddings, because red is a strong,
lucky color in Chinese culture. Next, the bride might swap into a
white poufed ball gown that wouldn't look out of place at an
American wedding — a bridal nod to the popularity of Western
trends. Finally, the bride ducks out of the reception to change into
a third dress, this one a gown of her color choice or a cocktail
dress
• India
-Before an Indian bride gets married, she and her female friends and
family decorate their hands and feet with elaborate designs called
menhdi.
• Jewish
- The groom crushes a glass under his foot at the end of the
ceremony, is a tradition with murky roots.
Marriage is a business partnership as
much as a romantic fairytale; it
involves compromises, division of
labor;specialization,financial
arrangement and communication
system.

N9 Family

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  • 3.
    What is Marriage? "Aspecial contract of a permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life." -New Family Code of the Philippines(1998) "A socially recognized union between two or more individuals that typically involves sexual and economic rights." -Light and Keller(1985)
  • 4.
    MATE SELECTION: FACTORS TOCONSIDER: • Age • Education • Social Class • Race Endogamy -specifies that its members must marry within their group. Exogamy -specify that people must marry outside their group
  • 5.
    TYPES OF MARRIAGES •MONOGAMY Marriage of one man to one woman • POLYGAMY Marriage of one male or female to more than one person at a time Polygyny- one man to many wives Polyandry- one woman to many husbands
  • 7.
    Meaning of Marriageand Family Issue • Traditional Social Norm -views marriage as a sacred phenomenon; -a divine institution maintained by God. -approved social pattern. • Second Traditional Norm -a social obligation
  • 10.
    SAME- SEX MARRIAGE •Berdache, a ceremony of some Native American tribes in which a man or woman who wanted to be a member of the opposite sex was officially declared to have his or her sex changed. The “new” man or woman put on the clothing of the opposite sex, performed the tasks associated with his or her new sex, and was allowed to marry. • In the 1980's and 1990's, several European countries legalized same-sex marriage. • Sociologists Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz (1985), who interviewed samesex couples, found their main struggles to be housework, money, careers, problems with relatives, and sexual adjustment.
  • 11.
    SEPARATION OF MARRIAGES: •ANNULMENT refers to the legal process of filing a petition in the appropriate court seeking a judicial declaration of making a marriage null and void from the beginning as if no marriage took place • LEGAL SEPARATION refers to a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a de facto separation while remaining legally married. A legal separation is granted in the form of a court order.
  • 12.
    SEPARATION OF MARRIAGES: •DIVORCE refers to the is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling and/or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country and/or state  Fault Divorce-one spouse’s behavior leads to irreparable damage to the relationship  No-Fault Divorce-both partners accept their share of blame and recognize the marriage simply is not working
  • 13.
    TRADITIONS OF PHILIPPINEWEDDINGS • Before a Filipino groom proposes, he would go with his parents to the house of the bride’s family and bring a gift, as well some food as a gesture to ask for their permission to let him marry their daughter. • 1st sponsors are close friends or family to the bride and groom and would be similar to the best-man and the maid of honor, these sponsors are chosen by the family of the couple.2nd sponsors are generally three couples, who are similar to the bridesmaids and groomsmen. These sponsors each have their own duty at the wedding. One pair are chosen to light the wedding candles during the ceremony, another handle the veil and the third wrap the cord around the couple. • After the ceremony, the bride should walk ahead of her groom or step on his foot in order to prevent being dominated by him throughout the marriage.
  • 14.
    TRADITIONS TO OTHERCOUNTRIES: • China -Brides pick not one wedding dress, but three. First, there's the traditional qipao or cheongsam, an embroidered, slim-fitting frock that's usually made red for weddings, because red is a strong, lucky color in Chinese culture. Next, the bride might swap into a white poufed ball gown that wouldn't look out of place at an American wedding — a bridal nod to the popularity of Western trends. Finally, the bride ducks out of the reception to change into a third dress, this one a gown of her color choice or a cocktail dress • India -Before an Indian bride gets married, she and her female friends and family decorate their hands and feet with elaborate designs called menhdi. • Jewish - The groom crushes a glass under his foot at the end of the ceremony, is a tradition with murky roots.
  • 15.
    Marriage is abusiness partnership as much as a romantic fairytale; it involves compromises, division of labor;specialization,financial arrangement and communication system.