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Life skills
SKILLS
• Literary skills. write, read
• Language skills.speech,language
• Functional skills.ticket,appl.fix tap
• Vocational skills.tailoring,handicrafts
• Cultural skills.singing,dancing,arts
• Sports skills.running,sports
• Recreation skills.games,music
And What ?
LIFE SKILLS
Need of Life Skills
Life skills
Social skills Thinking skills Emotional skills
SELF AWARENESS
JOHARI WINDOW
OPEN HIDDEN
BLIND UNDISCOVERED
KNOWN UNKNOWN
KNOWN
UNKNOWN
OTHERS
S
E
L
F
Looking Glass Self
1.What others think about you?
2.What do you think that others think
about you?
3.What are you actually?
LOOK BEYOND...
DISCOVER YOURSELF
No one is perfect…
we all have positive and
negative qualities
EMPATHY
Ability to understand a problem
from some one else’s point of
view
‘Step in another persons
shoe’ temporarily so that we
are able to look at a
situation the way they look
at it and feel the way they
feel in that situation.
Effective communication
• Verbal
• Non verbal
• listening
LEARNER’S / STUDENT’S
ABILITY TO RETAIN
• 10 % OF WHAT THEY READ
• 20 % OF WHAT THEY HEAR
• 30 % OF WHAT THEY SEE
LEARNERS / STUDENTS
ABILITY TO RETAIN
• 50 % OF WHAT THEY
SEE + HEAR
• 70 % OF WHAT THEY
SAY + TALK
• 90 % OF WHAT THEY DO
Communication :
Effectiveness
• Study by ILO
Among “Common Man”
(Average)
• Ears = 20%
• Eyes = 30 %
Communication :
Effectiveness
Study by ILO
• Ear + Eyes = 50%
• E+E+ Discussion = 70%
• E+E+D+ Application = 90%
Inter personal relation
TACTFUL CONVERSATIONS
T = Think before you speak
A = Apologize quickly when you blunder
(Accept people)
C = Converse, don’t compete
T = Time your comments
F = Focus on behaviour – not personality
U = Uncover hidden feelings
L = Listen to feedback
The six most important words
I
admit
I made
a mistake
The five most important words
You
did a
good job
The four most important words
What
is your
opinion?
The three most important words
If
you
please
The two most important words
Thank
you
The one most important word
we
The least important word
I
Creative thinking
and
critical thinking
M T W T - S -
ATTITUDE THAT
BLOCKSCREATIVITY
• Underestimating the problem
• Negative thinking
• Feeling that I have no role
• Feeling that I am not creative
• Thinking activities as childish
• Fear that others will feel badly
• Fear of failure
• Mental blocks:
Prejudice, functional fixation, learned
helplessness
Decision making
and
problem solving
WE MAKE DECISIONS AND OUR
DICISONS TURN AROUND AND MAKE US
F.W.BOREHAM
POWER
Problem
Options
Weigh
Elect and enact
Review and reflect
How do you make decisions
Some one else makes it for you
Decide suddenly
Wait for someone else
Do what an older person says
Don’t take any decisions at all
Think through the choices and
then choose
FEAR OF FAILURE
RISK
DELAYING TACTICS
DIFFICULTY TO CHOOSE
WHY DON’T DECIDE
How to say ‘NO’
• Polite refusal
• Give reason
• Be firm
• Walk away
• Cold shoulder
• Give alternative
• Reverse pressure
• Avoid situation
• Own your feeling
• No thanks
• I don’t like beer
• No
• No and walk away
• You did not hear
• You like to…..
• “I just told you”
• Avoid
• It makes me
unhappy
Coping with emotion
and
stress
Five skills for E.M
• Self awareness
• Self regulation
• Motivation
• Empathy
• Social skills
It’s OK
STRES
S
• Our internal
response to a
( difficult )
situation we find
hard to manage
• stimulates our
level of alertness
• Response to
pressure
• Interaction of an
individual with
environment
Stress management
• Take deep breath
• Talk it out
• Take a minute break
• Move
• Laugh it out
• Keep in mind your limits before reacting
• Cry it out
• Look at good things around you
• Talk to a friend
• Listen to music
Thank You
Sajithpaleri@gmail.com
NSS resource person

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