Mark Bristow, The Financial Healer, outlines why money beliefs are important and how they are formed. Mark explains through examples how beliefs about wealth and money can determine how wealthy you become.
And he outlines what you can do about it, or in his words, how to change your self worth to change your net worth.
5. I’m thinking essentially I will never be
successful and that belief was created
by some event that sets that off.
Event Belief
6. It might be for
example, my
belief was
created because
when I was four
years old I lost a
running race and
I should have
won.
7. Maybe I tripped over but maybe
somebody came along and said
something about my 'failure' and at
that time I created this belief that I
won’t be successful.
8. And then certain things will come
along that our take on it would be well
my belief that I’ve created is “I won’t
be successful, so if I come second in
something else that means I’m not
successful because I wasn’t first”.
9. Whereas somebody else will look at it
and their take on it would be “You’ve
come second, you’ve done really well”.
11. I think the
interesting thing is
that often they
don’t think that
they’ve got
negative beliefs
until we dig a bit
deeper.
12. For some people it can be on a
conscious level like “Money doesn’t
grow on trees...”
13. ...and you had parents that were saying
“I’m not made of money” then they
might be able to say this back to you
fairly quickly and it will become obvious.
14. For other people whose beliefs may
take a lot longer to hunt out.
15. One of my
clients had
this belief
that:
"Money
will always
be taken
away from
me."
25. I’ve got another
client where she
was told that rich
people are horrible
people because her
uncle happened to
be fairly rich but
wasn’t the nicest
person.
26. So she’s gone through life now thinking
that all rich people are horrible people...