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The Way You See Others
Chapter 7
The Way You See Others
THE GOOD FINDERS
• Seeing the good in other people – and in every
situation
• Life is an echo, what you send out comes back
• You treat people exactly like you see them –
Universal rule
The Way You See Others
DON’T TAKE THE MOON DOWN
• Many times people see the good and then keep it
a secret
• Give sincere appreciation – it builds enthusiasm
The Way You See Others
YOU ARE A BUSINESSMAN
“A lot of people have gone further than they
thought they could because someone else
thought they could”
The greatest good we can do for anyone is not to
share our wealth with them, but rather to reveal
their own wealth to them.
The Way You See Others
THE BANKERS SAID NO
Success story of Mary Crowley – Home Interiors & Gifts
“one person with a belief is equal to
a force of 99 who have only an
interest”
She believed in the enormous
potential of everyone
The Way You See Others
RATS
Different treatment brings on different results
The Way You See Others
KIDS-SALESMEN-EMPLOYEES-MATES
“the way you see “them” is the way you treat them,
and the way you treat them is the way they often
become.”
“if you take a man as he is, you make him worse as
he was, but if you see him as being the best
person possible, then he in fact , becomes the
best person possible.”
The Way You See Others
YOU ARE A LOUSY
FOOTBALL
PLAYER
Jerry Kramer
Vince Lombardi –
Green Bay Packers
The Way You See Others
LITTLE ANNIE STORY
Helen Keller - Educator, Journalist (1880–1968)
with teacher Ann Sullivan
ACLU - Founder
The Way You See Others
“I looked into their eyes
and could see no
love, and knew in my
own heart it would
be useless to ask for
a ride, but when I
looked into your
eyes, I saw
compassion, love
and the willingness
to help. I knew you
would be glad to give
me the ride across
the river.”
-Thomas Jefferson
Harvey Firestone –
“You get the best out
of others when you
give the best out of
yourself.”
THE EYES HAVE
IT!
The Way You See Others
Tupperware Story
YOU SEE A NEED AND FILL IT
The Way You See Others
FEED OTHERS – EAT WELL YOURSELF

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The way you see others

  • 1. The Way You See Others Chapter 7
  • 2. The Way You See Others THE GOOD FINDERS • Seeing the good in other people – and in every situation • Life is an echo, what you send out comes back • You treat people exactly like you see them – Universal rule
  • 3. The Way You See Others DON’T TAKE THE MOON DOWN • Many times people see the good and then keep it a secret • Give sincere appreciation – it builds enthusiasm
  • 4. The Way You See Others YOU ARE A BUSINESSMAN “A lot of people have gone further than they thought they could because someone else thought they could” The greatest good we can do for anyone is not to share our wealth with them, but rather to reveal their own wealth to them.
  • 5. The Way You See Others THE BANKERS SAID NO Success story of Mary Crowley – Home Interiors & Gifts “one person with a belief is equal to a force of 99 who have only an interest” She believed in the enormous potential of everyone
  • 6. The Way You See Others RATS Different treatment brings on different results
  • 7. The Way You See Others KIDS-SALESMEN-EMPLOYEES-MATES “the way you see “them” is the way you treat them, and the way you treat them is the way they often become.” “if you take a man as he is, you make him worse as he was, but if you see him as being the best person possible, then he in fact , becomes the best person possible.”
  • 8. The Way You See Others YOU ARE A LOUSY FOOTBALL PLAYER Jerry Kramer Vince Lombardi – Green Bay Packers
  • 9. The Way You See Others LITTLE ANNIE STORY Helen Keller - Educator, Journalist (1880–1968) with teacher Ann Sullivan ACLU - Founder
  • 10. The Way You See Others “I looked into their eyes and could see no love, and knew in my own heart it would be useless to ask for a ride, but when I looked into your eyes, I saw compassion, love and the willingness to help. I knew you would be glad to give me the ride across the river.” -Thomas Jefferson Harvey Firestone – “You get the best out of others when you give the best out of yourself.” THE EYES HAVE IT!
  • 11. The Way You See Others Tupperware Story YOU SEE A NEED AND FILL IT
  • 12. The Way You See Others FEED OTHERS – EAT WELL YOURSELF