5. The Connection Confession
Said by the Togetherland host at the beginning of a workshop:
All are welcome in Togetherland.
As humans, we are built for connection. Science and common sense show that we need each
other on a one to one, community to community basis. The crisis of isolation is an epidemic at
an international level, and people are literally dying to have connection.
We believe we can eradicate this epidemic, one connection at a time.
The first connection is within ourselves, recognizing that it is completely natural and human to
feel lonely.
The second connection is with others, where we will work to remove the stigma of mental
illness and ignorance around isolation to embrace the massive opportunity and moral
imperative to foster community, togetherness, and joy.
For all.
For all time.
6. Consciousness Concert
There's an African proverb that says, "the Spirit shall not descend
without song." By featuring live music, dance or
art, Togetherland helps attendees shift their consciousness from
using only their rational mind to their full relational self.
15. Inspiration
In the scientific literature, I found confirmation of what I was hearing.
In recent years, about one-in-two adults in America reported experiencing
loneliness.1-3 And that was before the COVID-19 pandemic cut off so
many of us from friends, loved ones, and support systems, exacerbating
loneliness and isolation.
Loneliness is far more than just a bad feeling—it harms both individual
and societal health. It is associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease,
dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and premature death. The mortality
impact of being socially disconnected is similar to that caused by smoking up to
15 cigarettes a day, and even greater than that associated with obesity and
physical inactivity. And the harmful consequences of a society that lacks social
connection can be felt in our schools, workplaces, and civic organizations,
where performance, productivity, and engagement are diminished.
Given the profound consequences of loneliness and isolation, we have an
opportunity, and an obligation, to make the same investments in addressing
social connection that we have made in addressing tobacco use, obesity, and the
addiction crisis.
This Surgeon General’s Advisory shows us how to build more connected lives and
a more connected society. If we fail to do so, we will pay an ever-increasing price
in the form of our individual and collective health and well-being. And we will
continue to splinter and divide until we can no longer stand as a community or a
country. Instead of coming together to take on the great challenges before us, we
will further retreat to our corners—angry, sick, and alone.
25. https://www.aa.org/sites/default/files/literature/assets/p-55_twelvestepsillustrated.pdf
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS® is a fellowship of men and women who share their
experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common
problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no
dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own
contributions.
A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution;
does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any
causes.
Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.
Togetherland is a fellowship of people who share their experience, strength and
hope with each other that they may solve their common problem of isolation and
help others find lasting connection.
The only requirement for membership is to attend Workshops and consider being a
Kindness Connector. There are no dues or fees for Togetherland membership; we
are self-supporting through our own contributions.
Togetherland is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or
institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor
opposes any causes.
Our primary purpose is to stay connected and help others to do the same.
“Are you wealthy?” “What are you worth?” “What’s your value?”
“Are you wealthy?” “What is your worth?” “Are you happy?” To move Beyond GDP, we have to think about measuring intangible assets. Or things that have been intangible in the past.