This newsletter from Families & Friends of Murder Victims provides information about their upcoming support group meeting and resources for grieving families. It acknowledges donations received and love gifts given in memory of lost loved ones. It also shares updates on the inmate locator website and upcoming conferences for grieving families. Throughout, it offers words of support and memorializes victims who were killed in July.

1. FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF
MURDER VICTIMS, Inc.
(FFMV)
Newsletter JULY 2023
Thank-you:
*Crosswalk Church – Tim Gillespie (Pastor)
Redlands
* Family of Beatrice Hatfield
* Ellie Rossi – Mother of David and Lisa
In Loving Memory of
Michele Necochea Flores
6/10/70 – 7/15/96
Join FFMV Colton Chapter
Support group meeting
Thursday July 6, 2023
6:30pm – 8:00pm
Crosswalk Church
10421 Corporate Drive
Redlands, CA 92373
You will see address on building that we
meet.
(Cross street Redlands Blvd)
909-754-6969
Look for PINK signs
Hope to see you
Need Someone to Talk To?
* Bertha Flores - Parent - Spanish speaking
(909) 200-5499 (after 3pm)
*Rose Madsen – Parent (909) 798-4803 (after 4pm)
Redlands CA
*Donna Lozano - Parent – 760-660-9054
* Palm Springs/Coachella Valley 10am-9pm
*Linda Rodriguez -Parent – 951-369-0010-Home –
951-732-3255 - Riverside
* Ellie Rossi - Parent - 909-810-8133 Yucaipa CA
* Richard McVoy – Adult Sibling –
909-503-5456 – Grand Terrace CA
* Tanya Powell - Parent – 760-596-2292-
Families & Friends of Murder Victims:
A non-profit organization
Dedicated to providing information, support, and
friendship to persons who have experienced the
death of a loved one through the violent act of
murder
Share Sorrow…..
Share Strength
Mission: To restore a sense of hope and to
provide a pathway to well-being to those who
have lost a loved one to murder and to those who
are victims of attempted murder.
Love Gifts
Love gifts are a specific tax deductible donation made
to the memory of a loved one’s birthday, anniversary
of a death, holiday, or just because which are posted
in newsletter. They are also made by caring
professionals, organizations to help in the work that
FFMV does with victims/survivors. These gifts help
with the expenses incurred in reaching out to others
and operating expenses. When making out a check,
please make payable to FFMV and note Love Gift on
check or envelope.
Love Gifts can be mailed to FFMV-
P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. - 92423-1222
In Memory of
Bradley Seth Cunningham
5/24/97 – 7/1/18

2. In Loving Memory of
Tommy Pagent
7/28/89 – 11/21/10
Inmate Locator, Department of Corrections is
now making it easier for people to locate
prison inmates; it’s a free online search and
is open to the general public.
http://inmatelocator.cdcr.ca.gov
There has been many new laws … so there
changes to website … make sure you check
on your offender and make sure your contact
information is updated. You can make
changes and additions online.
“And once the storm is over, you
won’t remember how you made it
through, how you managed to
survive. You won’t even be sure,
whether the storm is really over.
But one thing is certain. When you
come out of the storm, you won’t
be the same person who walked
in.
That’s what this storm’s all about.”
-Haruki Murakami
FFMV Fundraisers
Office Depot - Staples – Office Max
If you shop at Office Depot or Staples please
use FFMV’s Rewards Number for Office Depot
which is 1139461170 Office Max – 650756207,
Staples- or use just give them 909-798-4803
for all three. We get reward points that help
defray the cost of printing, ink cartridges and
office supplies.
PLEASE….Don‘t throw away your old ink
cartridges! Continue to bring them to us, or take
them to Office Max, Staples or Office Depot and
give them 909-798-4803
It’s an easy way to help
FFMV purchase office supplies.
I Never Got To...
© Emilee Reynolds
I never got to give you a hug
before an angel took your hand
and gave you a tug
I never got to give you a kiss
before you made your final wish
I never got to tell you I love you
before you disappeared into the sky so blue
I never got to tell you Goodbye
before you got your wings and learned to fly
all these things I wish I did whether by choice
or fate
I was too late...

3. July 2023
Birthdays & Memories

4. July 2023 Birthdays
Aaron Luis Angulo Aslemarie Torres Camacho
Angela Lynn Merth Andre J. Davis
Anthony Perez Bella Villapando
Brian Douglas Kischell Bryan O’Meara
Brian L.V. King BryonSchletewitz
Carlos Angelo Centino Cesario Valdez
Clasten Jr. Vaughn Cynthia Tammy Hernandez
Daniel Perez Jr. Daniel Dwayne Jones
David Allen Parrish Devon Michael Williams
Dominic Andrew Ortega Elmer Benson
Edwinta Hereford “Winnie” Frankie Cayetano
Fernando Ortiz Josslyn Dinso-Brooks
James Walke Jerrick “J-Jay” Richardson
Jimmy Juarez Jonathan Andrew Marquez Dizon
Laura Sanchez Mauro Valle
Michael Ree Jr. Miranda Daly
Norma Gates Paul Griego
Ralph Santiago Raymond Moreno
Rebecca R. Andrews Reginald Reese
Renee Smith Bradley Robert Michael Ruiz
Ruben Anthony De La Paz Ryan Blakeslee
Scott Campbell Stephanie Dzikowski
Thomas Pagent Jr. Victor Anthony Perez
Victor Bernard White

5. July 2022Memories
Aslemarie Torres Camacho Andres Garced Jr.
Bradley Cunningham Chelsea Buckley
Cecil Scott Curtis Justin Hixson
Daniel Svoboda Daniel Martinez
David Charles Nystrom Debbie Paulsen
Dillon Ray Keyes
Dominic Ortega Don J. Burt
Elsie Redmond Frank Salinas
Flores Family: Richard, Richie, Matthew & Nena
Greselda Gonzalez James Robert De La Cruz
Jerald Eugene Svec Jonathan Michael Smith
Joshua Chambers Jose Alfredo Carrillo
Joyce Nelson Kristhopher Flores
Manuel Rodriguez Michael Alexander Corrales
Michael Hernandez Michael Grier
Michael Baker Michele Lynette Baily
Michelle Miers Michele Rene Neochea Flores
Otillia Burton Paul Griego
Pedro Vasquez Rene Tejada Reyes Prieto
Roberto Valencia Roberto “Junior” Grijalva
Ryan Blakeslee Roghie (Ruhie) Ebrahimpour
Stephan M. Sanchez Stephanie Dzikowski
TimothyGaines
Tom Meyers Victoria Lee Castro
“Gone But Not
Forgotten”

6. LOVE GIFTS
In Loving Memory In Loving Memory In Loving Memory
Elmer Benson Joyce Nelson Kris Flores
7/8/1916 – 2/11/96 8/3/24 – 7-7-85 10/10/77 – 7/24/96
27 yrs. Still Unsolved
In Loving Memory David Charles Nystrom – 2/21/64 – 7/27/98 & Lisa Cummings – 11/13/66 – 3/12/11
Brother and Sister in Heaven ….. now together watching over their Mom (Ellie Rossi)
--------------------------------------------------------------Love Gift----------------------------------------------------------------
Name (please print):_________________________________________________________________
Address____________________________________City/St.________________________Zip__________
Email address: __________________________________________________________
Your Phone # ( ) ____________________Relationship to Victim: _____________________________
Name of Victim: _________________________________________________________________
Date of Birth: Date of Death: ______________________
Please post my loved ones message and/or picture(s) for the month of: ___________
# of pictures enclosed/attached ______ Use picture on file______ Donation $ _________

7. From Rose Madsen, Editor/Chair/co-founder of the
Colton Chapter of FFMV
In Memory of my daughter Jennifer LeAnne Balber
12/02/73 – 11/10/94
A 20yr. old SoCal Gas Co. Meter Reader,
Fatally Shot in the Line of Service in Rialto, CA
This year is passing quickly, it’s hard to believe July is here…
So many shootings …so many victims
My beautiful Jen…. I can no longer…See you with my eyes…Touch you with my hands…
But I will feel you in my heart….Forever…Love, Mom
FFMV Executive Board
Rose Madsen – Chair, Mother of Jennifer LeAnne Balber
Dawn Hall– Vice Chair, Mother of Joshua Rexford
Rita Marin – Secretary, Aunt of Jennifer LeAnne Balber
Bertha Flores – Treasurer, Mother of Kristopher Flores
FFMV is a non-profit organization dedicated to serving survivors of murder victims & victims of attempted murder. Our main purpose is to offer grief
support for those victim/survivors. All assistance provided to victims is given free of charge by volunteers. Contributions and/or questions regarding the
policies of FFMV may be addressed to: FFMV Executive Board at P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. 92423-1222, e-mailed to
mail4fffmv@yahoo.com or phoned to 909-754-6969
FFMV is a tax-exempt organization under the Section 501 (c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Service.
Our Organization depends largely upon private donations which will cover operational expenses, Our Annual Family Christmas Memorial
Luncheon, and Our Annual Victims’ Rights Week Memorial. We are seeking a sponsor (s) for our events. Please contact FFMV at the above e-
mail or phone if you are interested. Tax ID #68-0299211 All Contributions Are Tax Deductible
Keep continued prayers for families that are in the court process trying to get the
JUSTICE they Deserve!!
Chris Martinez - 10years still waiting for JUSTICE, Jonathan Michael Smith, Santos
Bonilla, Chris Martinez- 10yrs, waiting for JUSTICE - & Jesus Oseguera (Beto)Jesus
(Beto) Osegvera,
Bradley Cunningham, Elmer and Gladys Benson & Julian Kilgore
And for ALL families dealing with the injustice of UNSOLVED Murders!
Email me updates on your case so I can post in newsletter.

8. 2023 Participant /Photo Release Form for slide show & picture boards
Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC (FFMV)
Circle one: New Participant ~ Update my information ~ Agency/Non Victim
Please Print Clearly
Date________________ Relationship to Victim_______________________
Victim’s First Name______________________________________________
Victim’s Last Name______________________________________________
Date of Birth _____________ Date of Death__________ Solved: Yes ( ) No ( )
Was this: DUI Yes ( ) No ( ) Domestic Violence Yes ( ) No ( )
Gun Violence Yes ( ) N0 ( ) Drug induced homicide Yes ( ) N0 ( )
Permission to use photo(s): Yes ( ) No ( ) Just add me to e-mail/mailing list to receive
monthly newsletter and event information
I grant to Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. (FFMV), the right to use photograph(s) of
the above-identified subject. I authorize FFMV to use and publish the same in print and/or
electronically. I agree that FFMV may use such photographs with or without his/her name and
for any lawful purpose, including for example such purposes as publicity, illustration, advertising,
and Web content.
I have read and understand the above.
Signature_________________________________________________________
Print Full Name _______________________________________________________
Print Last Name ______________________________________________________
Address_____________________________________________________________
City_________________________________________________________________
Zip Code _______________Contact Phone(s) with area code____________________
E-mail ____________________________________________________________
Mail or e-mail participant/release form to: ffmvmail@yahoo.com
~ FFMV ~ PO Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA ~ 92423-1222
I have included a picture ( ) Yes ( ) No use the one on file

9. "Survivors of Violent Loss Program"
and
"Violent Loss Solutions"
Connie had a stroke on March 16, 2023 and passed away
at home under Hospice care on June 5, 2023.
Ms. Saindon has provided clinical training and supervision
on violent death trauma for over twenty years. Her training
programs have included online courses, one- and two-day
trainings for professionals and advocates. She is a frequent
presenter at national conferences.
Connie Saindon is an award-winning author
(Murder Survivors Handbook and The Journey, Learning to
Live with Violent Death) and researcher on this specialized
topic.
The old website www.svlp.org will be going off line on July
27, 2023 and the new website www.vloss.org will be going
off line August 19, 2023.
I attended two sessions and was taught by Connie to
facilitate The Restorative Retelling Model.
Connie kept up with me as I was going thru my cancer
journey, she will be missed!!

10. POMC 37th Annual National Conference
Date: July 20-23, 2023
Hilton Atlanta Airport
1031 Virginia Avenue
Atlanta, GA 30354
1-800-445-8667 (Hilton)
POMC.org
Hilton Hotel Link
Room Rates: $119.00 plus tax per night
Download 2023 Conference Brochure
Conference Registration
Frequently Asked Questions for the conference
The Compassionate Friends (TCF) 46th Annual National Conference in Denver!
July 7 -8am – July 9 – 5pm TCF's National Conference is an enriching and supportive
event for many newer and long-time bereaved parents, grandparents, and siblings.
Attendees come and find renewed hope and support, as well as strategies for coping
with grief, all while making friendships with other bereaved people who truly
understand the heartbreaking loss of a child, sibling, or grandchild. Lifelong
friendships are often formed and rekindled each year at TCF conferences.
Unique and cherished highlights of our conference include our heartfelt Saturday
evening Candle Lighting Program, Sharing Sessions, Keynote Addresses, Healing
Haven, Butterfly Boutique, Crafty Corner, and Silent Auction. Our weekend of
inspiration, sharing, and learning is followed by the Walk to Remember on Sunday
morning.
This year’s conference will be held at the Sheraton Denver Downtown. Reservations
can now be made online at TCF’s dedicated reservation link. Our discounted room rate
with the Sheraton is $159 per night plus tax. Please note that each attendee can reserve
a maximum of two rooms. Many attendees arrive on Thursday since the conference
begins early on Friday morning. We also have pre-conference activities that are offered
on Thursday evening, that attendees find beneficial.