5. Positive vs Negative
A Positive Perfectionist:
●
●
takes one step at a time
●
with a Positive outlook
●
adding self-talk of “maybe”, “I might”,
“I think I can”, “I can”, “I will”
●
and travels up the
6. Positive vs Negative
●
The positive perfectionists readily takes risks,
risks
● make mistakes and correct accordingly
●
while increasing self-esteem.
self-esteem
7. Positive vs Negative
Negative Perfectionists
also reach for the same perfection
● But due to a fear of making mistakes,
● the negative perfectionist avoids taking
risks,
● and quits before beginning.
8. Positive vs Negative
Negative Perfectionists feel blah,
blah
saying
● “No Fun”,
● “I’m Bored”,
● “I Can’t”,
● “I Won’t”
● then heads
● down the
● Slippery Slope
● to Dullsville.
9. Positive vs Negative
The Negative Perfectionist
fears making changes and
enters the Distraction, “Sameville”
11. S tress
Other Stress is from school itself,
when one is unable to do what others can do,
such as:
in math
in reading
with writing
in sitting still
in staying focused
16. Distractions
Percent Out of 10 Self-Talk
100.00% 10 Success
90.00% 9 I Will
80.00% 8 I Can
70.00% 7 I Think I Can
60.00% 6 I Might
50.00% 5 Maybe
40.00% 4 Blah
30.00% 3 No Fun
20.00% 2 Bored
10.00% 1 I Can't
0.00% 0 I Won't
18. Distractions
Sameville:
“I like the way I do it.”
“I don't want to make
any changes.”
“I feel nice and safe in
this loop.”
19. Distractions
When Baddayville
causes distractions,
each bad experience
(gong) adds to the
next
until you have no
mental energy
remaining to deal with
school.
22. Distractions
When one is given a
paper to write and
has no idea how to
begin, In the
Beginning
causes stress!
Writing halts.
Some entitle In the Beginning as a dysfunction;
however strategies exist to travel past the stress.
23. Distractions
Of the 29 distractions in the
Mind's Eye of Learning,
students usually have between four to six
weaknesses.
weaknesses
However an
equal number of the
distractions
are actually students'
strengths.
strengths
24. Patterns
Once the student
understands his/her distractions,
distractions
s/he begins
to recognize
his/her own
patterns.
25. C ontrol
With strategies in hand
plus knowing the
signs of one's eminent stress,
stress
the student
begins to
gain control of
his/her
distractions.
distractions
26. C ontrol
The student
eliminates the stress
and Big Black
Cloud
before the negative
gains control.
control