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Why I Loved, Then Loathed And Finally Learned From Facebook
a real story
5. I used to enjoy seeing what
others did or posting what I did,
9. I could say many things that I
couldn’t say on their face and
yet go scot free…
18. In real world and when I met
real people, a false sense of
familiarity overpowered the
distance
20. I saw that people’s opinions
about ‘me’ was not about me
25. And I was getting increasingly
uncomfortable with such
notions
26. I was getting distant with
myself, unable to accept that
reality
27. Many a time, I saw them as
intruding into my private life
30. I felt let down just because 299
‘friends’ wished on birthday.
(I have all of 943 friends)
35. I started getting confused with
my innate introversion and
supposed exuberant
extroversion.
37. My many roles merged into one
completely and a confused
personality for all to see
40. When I have nothing to write
that day, I felt melancholic
41. No ‘like’ in 4 hours was a
misery, just as the wait for the
next like or next comment was
excruciating
44. And took a short Facebook
Sabbath. I deactivated
Facebook
52. It was not how others saw me. It
was how I thought they saw me.
53. They did not ignore me. They
had placed importance to
themselves.
54. Not that they didn’t ‘like’ me, they
just took care of themselves.
58. There was a lot to learn and a
lot more to unlearn.
60. I slashed my friends’ list.
All those not regularly adding value or making make
me laugh had to go - unfollow or hidden.
61. I set a max limits on people.
Less people, less content, less gossip, more time
62. I found a good reader app
I use Flipboard to consolidate news and browse
once a day for just 20 min.
63. I time boxed my online presence.
I check Facebook only during breakfast, taxis or if I am
waiting for some one.
64. I minimized the number devices
Now my devices now serve specific functions
65. I deleted my phone app
Just the way we remove junk food from the fridge
to stick to a diet.
66. I turned to reliable content sources
I followed useful content from professionals only on
twitter, LinkedIn and tech blogs.
67. I use apps like Klout and Buffer
to schedule sharing
and wolfram alpha , retweet lab tell me on the good
times to post.
71. I was easy to love and loathe, it
was arduous to step back,
breathe in and to look at one
self in the mirror.
73. Love, Loathe And Learn
Why I Loved, Then Loathed And Finally Learned From Facebook
74. By a President aspirant, amateur author, doting dad, experimental
entrepreneur, passionate photographer, social media evangelist, tireless
traveler, happenstance humanoid
- Rajesh Soundararajan | @rajeshsound