Because the journey can be just as important as the destination. Understanding how emotional impediments affect conflict resolution.

1. “A NEW HOPE” – OCTOBER 27TH, 2017

2. A NEW WAY
REMOVING EMOTIONAL IMPEDIMENTS ON YOUR WAY TO CONFLICT RESOLUTION

3. UNDERSTAND
▪Conflict management
▪Change management

4. CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
ACCOMMODATE, AVOID, COMPETE, COMPROMISE OR COLLABORATE

6. WE RESOLVE CONFLICT USING DIFFERENT
CONFLICT SKILLS FOR DIFFERENT SITUATIONS

7. CHANGE MANAGEMENT
HOW EMOTIONS AFFECT YOUR ABILITY TO RESOLVE CONFLICT

8. IT MAY BE OBVIOUS TO EVERYONE ELSE…..
▪ It’s the individuals
journey that
matters. They
need emotional
closure, you don’t!

9. GRIEF
▪“ I don’t care what
it costs – I want
this divorce to hurt
my spouse – they
left, I didn’t’”

10. GRIEF – SIX MONTHS LATER
▪I don’t know why
our divorce was so
complicated.
▪I guess my ex will
forgive me for all
those things I said
about them in
court……

11. LETS TALK ABOUT GRIEF

13. GRIEF
▪If grief affects your
ability to be
cooperative and
engage – it affects
your ability to
resolve conflict!

14. THE NEED FOR DISCERNMENT
COUNSELING…..
▪I promise that I
will not cooperate
with the divorce
process, ever!
▪See you in court
on the 8th motion
for temporary
orders!

15. A NEW WAY
TAKING YOUR PARENT FACILITATOR TO YOUR MEDIATION

16. ADDITIONAL OBSTACLES
▪
▪Immaturity
▪Is there a Alpha in the house
▪Lack of Options to solve problem

17. ▪ IF THE GOAL IS TO help parents listen,
understand and respond to one
another….
▪ WHY LEAVE THE PARENT FACILITATOR
OUT OF THE ROOM?

18. A NEW HOPE – OCTOBER 27TH, 2017
KIDS FIRST PARENTS SECOND