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Introduction ……………………………………………………………………………….1
Chapter one
In the blessings of marriage………………………………………………………………5
Create the will of Allah………………………………………………………………… 6
Welcome to the will of the Messenger (saw)………………………………………….…18
Remain after his deat Good child meet a …………………………………………..……20
amuombee it be obligatory before his ………………..…….…………………………..21
Chapter two
Mercy on the desires of the flesh Vunjo ……………………………………..………….23
Notes …………………………………………………………………………………….34
Advice for women ………………………………………………………………………44
Chapter Three
Mercy on reducing work to a man ……………………………………………………….56
Chapter Four
Mercy on stability for wife and husband …………………………………………………61
Chapter five
Mercy on jihadi soul tending to serve ……………………………………………………66
Chapter Six
Mercy on view in terms of health and welfare ……………………………………………71
Chapter seven
Mercy on the outlook pessimistic Muj-…………………………………………………90
(Political and social)
Chapter Eight
The early days of the wedding …………………………………………………………...91
Chapter Nine
Advice for couples ……………………………………………………………………….96
Chapter Ten
Prayer bridal ……………………………………………………………………………107
Chapter Eleven
Virginity …………………………………………………………………………...…...110
Chapter two tenth
Cleanliness and decoration ……………………………………………………………..123
Chapter Thirteen
Manners during the sexual act …………………………………………………………..128
Chapter Fourteen
Ghusl and answerable to ………………………………………………………………..133

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WORD OF THE AUTHOR
Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth, the likeness of His light (he yoongozea
His servants) is like a tube, flammable, wherein is a lamp, the lamp is in invent
(chimney) The glass is like shining stars, inayowashwa (lighting ) Therefore, the oil
coming out from the blessed tree, an olive, infinite in the east or west, it became is
battered and very sunny linalopinduka and comes from, are approaching this oil shines
themselves, though no fire ujayagusa, light upon light, M / God dial example for men,
and Allah is Aware of everything. (Nuur 35)
O brother Muslims have for you this, is a light in the era spanning the kinds of sudden and
people changing good to be evil, and evil appear good, transmission ignorance and
glorified, loved by ignorance and made to be the civilization, and civilization remain with
no value and appeared to have a miserable and the opposition to progress.
Oh,you the one who were brought to the world to prepare by yourself the most delicious
life in the life after death, and enjoying a maximum of joy and all kinds of fun, but do not
know of yet, or holy fire and penalties you are able to manage your body.
Neglectful and unwilling soul feel left out and left at rest, and life, and living without
checking the details and instructions of the Creator of the Universe and Worlds. Allah has
brought the apostles at different times to warn humans to feel that there is a booking
installed, restored to him for payment.
He said the Lord Almighty:
'O mankind, Be afraid of your Lord (by keeping your duty to Him and avoiding all
evil), and fear a Day when no father can avail aught for his son, nor a son avail aught
for his father. Verily, the Promise of Allah is true, let not then this (worldly) present
life deceive you, nor let the chief deceiver (Satan) deceive you about Allah. (Lukman
33)
It would have been good enogh if after death we are left without being asked, it would
have been death to every living creature comfort, but it must be asked then for everything.
Thus, the scope of the family and marriage are among the questions needs precise and
decent answers. It is clear that there is nothing that Allah (swt) has wanted to present his
creation and then left without clear knowledge to human to its quality or evil and its
devastation. He has put on hold and more accurate verification of prudence and maximum
success in married life and build quality of the family to be accessible to the community
and building better discipline and strong nation.
Many issues that indeed needed to be given it knowledge, we either made it simply and
others after finding weight depending on their peculiar notions now failed by lost their
way. Man is left in the dark and shouted, he knows before him there is the hole that can
not cross over it, a place where he is can not continue to remain, he shouted for help to
come out, unfortunately he is calling deafs and blinds, he failed to get means to save

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himself from danger he faces, throat dried up trouble gain more strenght and he tends to
lose a life.
Community tries various ways to retain people in the shape of a better life, the life of
morals in his personality to bring him to emerge from the destruction of the lives of a wide
variety of diseases and contaminants. Public desires to be good moral direction and
stability to the hearts of his people, but it all seems be unsuccessful, since it hard cutting
the bottom (kiyale) of tree and still continues to grow.
Society and The nation is trying to adequately think, how life will be safe, and people
can use the grace of the Lord that are with them through fun and reliable and worry ensued,
but seems to fail, and all are an example of barking for dogs should beat him or leave him
he will not stop barking. Failure lasts for any notions that have no source of its success to
put the Lord Almighty is not available. Man can not be self-sufficient for thought for any
kind of life, we must rely on the Lord, the Knower and the Abundance of blessings to His
slaves, this is what brought the apostles, given the teachings and asked to discipline our
lives with all good manners and Allah has forced them to ensure they use all kinds of skills
and techniques nothing remains unless they have been enlightening us, on the contrary
they credited characterized by deficiencies, something which is impossible in praise of the
Apostles.
The Lord Almighty said:
It is not for any Prophet to take illegally a part of the booty (ghulul) and whosoever
deceives his companions as regards the booty, he shall bring forth on the Day of
Resurrection that whichhe took (illegally). Then every person shall be paid in full what
he has earned, and they shall not be dealt with unjustly. (Al-Imran 161).
Verfy, those who conceal the clear proofs, evidences and the guidance, which We
have sent down, after We have made it clear for the people in the Book, they are the
ones cursed by A ent llah and cursed by the cursers. (Bakara 156)
How many Muslims are permitting to go of their positions in the wishes and mingle
unlawful between men and women, boys and girls and indulge in a comfortable and forget
death and the last day, the day of judgement, they forget the purpose brought them to the
world, the creation of Heaven and Hell, present day accompanied by sedimentation and
became their good deeds are what to accompanied the day to leave this world.
Oh, Brother in Islam, the world has turned its back and the life hereafter across our
daily life, the point to reach before Allah for deeds clearance is at a charge with no doubt,
death seems clear, let live as instructed by the Prophet (saw) from his Lord.
We must not forget that the life of marriage is confined with fully instructions which
is available in our Islamic teachings, if we depend on to live by hunters's directives who
are evils never believe in our Lord they shall lead us astray.

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May Allah (swt) bestow abundant blessings to this text to be the light and guidance
for the devotees who were heedless and turn marriage against Channel Allah (swt). May
the Lord make the purpose well and bear nothing but to him in the well fare of Muslims.
I do request to personalize me in the goodness of the world and tomorrow when I return
to our Lord. Allah may bless the hearts of readers interested to understand their faith and
their love and devotion to their Religion, let them know that their Religion has been
completed with all the features and all need in requirements of human life.
Allah Almighty said:
'We have negleted nothing in the Book, then unto their Loard they (all) shall be
ghathered. (Al-A-naam 38)
Lord Almighty is my support for all the best, because he is the best and reliable, no subtlety
and power except from him, Allah is knowledgeable and wise.
I have tried in this article to create awareness to brothers and sisters in Islam and
general community concerning the blessings of marriage to the point that it is in account
of good needs of couples specifically when the main goal is the way to worship Allah.
The main purpose is to bring close the couples to see this specific relations that should
have mercy and favor the retention of human life, as well as to protect all the rights that
make human morality be dedicated to the development and progress in life.
I have tried my ability to pull up thinking involving Muslim presence and blessing of
marriage laws and given the level of worship to earn rewards, sponsored by Allah and
sought his pleasure. I have tried also to collect a lot that I feel will help Muslims to build
a happy life and to focus his marriage that it can be fixed, life that follow the instructions
of the Lord under the criteria of the Apostles blessings and peace upon them, as the only
way to verify fun protected by all sorts of discretion.
I pray to Allah for all the good and benefit to be understood that exceeds launch of
transparency and quality of Islam and its openness. Allah may bestow all this to my deeds.
Also I ask Allah be on my table and the table of my parents, my family and my brothers
and all my supporters face the day of his kingdom, Allah is a pride and a multitude of
blessings.

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INTRODUCTION
Utangulizi
Thanks be to Allah, who exact can not step to an arrow errors in the wonders of
creation to him, the mind will never reflet since the beginning of the creation of worlds
and the world, but will be at a surprise, not only all that he designed that favor the creation
benefit them, over them governs discretionary power necessary. And in that was not
mentioned is the creation of man, and suppose obtained through close relationship through
lawful marriage that accompaned by human desires i.e libido, creation and fulfillment this
human desires that forces naturally, then glorify thing to marry an able and made into a
cult.
Allah prohibited un illegal intercourse because of its debris that is in the act of
adultery, stating that it impudently and a bad way, Allah has to execute to make a bad
deed language appear not conduct or behavior that spoil dignity of man when performed
it de illegal. Allah has enjoined its orders and has proposed marriage to be emphasized by
the believers do.
Glory to Allah Almighty who made death must to all of us. Glory to Allah who
made human being slaves and made the sperm to be maintained in very a special place of
body organs cause to it special fertility of the seeds in moles, then gave up due to seed the
new creation. Allah through prophets educate his creatures jeolous and consequences of
evil and what is good and bad, thick and the thin, bitter and happiness, blessings and peace,
therefore upon discretion and power given to him can make a choice.
Peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad (saw) who brought to the creation act as
example of humanity, did the work of warn or tidings, blessings also float to the
Companions his noble, countless blessings and impossibilities were shown by obedience
to the Prophet (saw).
Lord Almighty has said that;
And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the
woman who has no husband) and aslo marry, the salihun (pious, fit and capable ones)
of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female) slaves). If they be poor, Allah will
enrich them out of his bouty. And Allah is All sufficient for his creatures, needs All –
Knowing (about the state of the people) (Nuur 32)
He said again:
So set you (O Muhammad (saw) your face towards the religion (of pure Islamic

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Monotheism) Hanif (worship none but Allah Alone). Allah's Fitrah (i.e. Allah's
Islamic Monotheism) with which He has created mankind. No change let there be in
Khalq-illah (i.e. the religion of Allah Isalamic Monotheism): that is the straight
religion, but most of men know not. (Rum 30).
These are the words of the Creator, has called the existence of the marriage and said
it is genetic of the people, and say with certainty that there will be no change in what he
have chosen. Muslims must see the truth of those which removes control of power
capacity should be in our nature and understand that it is right from the Lord as it is right
that we talk. Our Prophet (saw) did not stop to encourage the issue of marriage, has said
that it is in his behavior and conduct of all prophets, who love to have the same trend.
He says:
'Marriage is in my way, then a liking for my conduct and I do what I do.
And also said:
Marriage is in my way with my conduct certainly hated will have hated me.
This issue should not be heavy for the believers, believers, we should expect all the best
and quicker. Our Lord loves those who rely on him, and whoever marries, has said he will
enrich him in his virtues. For ugliness and filth of adultery Lord has exhorted his servants
to be patient until they enable them to do so.
He says:
And those who are not able to marry yet, they have to preserve themselves and
drains until enriches them of His bounty.
Oh, my dear Muslim brothers and sisters, world has been created sweet, Allah made
mankind calipha (a leader) so as God is good watching what he did. Our Prophet (peace
be upon him) warned us and bid us to be pious and fear of women, if Bani Israil they
were divided by the women, the Prophet (saw) did not stop to ask his Lord to lead him to
be feared, have a heart calm, be weary of himself, all because is burden to human
misfortunes.
Man if he has no power of devotion, the heart is restless, and he lacks the richness of be
weary and see women are the most he can eliminate in this world, so find themselves
going as well or similar water flow from the hills, Should appreciate the effort in any need
of a woman to a man and vice versa is equally, hungry stomach is returning at all, it is

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equally thirsty throats does not end, it is the same as the tongue can tired on tasting flavors
or no eye exhausted by check or is just saying so is the body with what it needs is not
finished until the day of incorporation grave. End of movement for example of the attitude
of adultery is low and humiliating his dignity and even dogs sneering. They fool the
ignorant.
It is beautified for men is the love of things they covet, Man has been fashioned in
his position to have sex with women, to love children and property (in gold and silver),
but was placed on the legislation in order to bring safe for life in sexual intercourse, So
set these world leading to indulge a passion for acquiring what is and the shape of the
fullness of life hereafter fixed, because the world is only examples. Allah said between
the natures of mankind in beutified that will in our souls for women is a test for the
hereafter a great reward for the man who had succeeded.
He says:
Beautified for men is the love of things they covet: women, children, much of gold
and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is
pleasure of the present world's life: But Allah has the excellent return (Paradise with
flowing rivers) with Him. (Al-Imran 14)
He created the patience and has set columns to query tithes to build endurance in
human nature to those women when they became legitimate when it is in his name and on
set. Cluster prayer and zakat is to be all things through legislation. This is a way to meet
the same sexual intercourse similar the animals act.
Community faces hardship, it lacks fairness and suffer humiliation and unrest, when
mankind are living without following direction from their Lord. To have sexual
intercourse outside of marriage is not that destroys their souls for a wide variety of
diseases and behavior, but also loses nutrients to the soil, rain preventable illness and
various problems flourish community healthy and economical, the community remains
shaky similar to the Ark torn by storm severe, is a way to have sexual intercourse
comparable to animals.
This Muslims, our Prophet has warned us to be very calm, tolerant and be weary and
avoid disaster, discord and much set not the soul be calm, be it through sexual intercourse
and conduct complete. Marriage is set to be the only way to correct genetic the joy of sex
to satisfy the taste of which is the power of non-genetic riches for himself. Contrary to the
way marriage is sedition.
The prophet Muhammad (saw) said:
"The world is a sweet fruit, and certainly Allah made you calipha in his residence,
so watching over you, then fear the world, fear the women surely mislead the beginning
for the people of Bani-Israel was attributable to women." (Reported by Bukhari)

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Muslim marriage is the only way to avoid debris and all enormities. Marriage has
ample blessings and is a perfect way to hint that in our nature, mankind must have a joy
of sex in accordance with the instructions of our religion. Doing so is going to throw the
Lord what forbid us here on earth and after debris being washed clean, lovely by hearts,
Lord, is eternal abode. And Allah is ever seen deeds of His servants.
Allah Almighty says:
Say: "Shall I inform you of things far better than those? For Al-Muttaqun (the
pious) there are Gardens (Paradise) with their Lord, underneath which rivers flow.
Therin (is their) eternal (home) and Azwajun Mutahharatun (purified mates or wives).
And Allah will be pleased with them. And Allah is All-Seer of the (His) slaves"

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CHAPTER ONE
GRACE OF MARRIAGE
Word of blessings of marriage
Dear Muslim marriage has its blessings through all aspects of human life, for the
individual, society and the nation at large, which is why a marriage became front rank of
society, the nation and the people. Muslims see the blessings of marriage that it can be
strengthened in our faith and create more love in our religion.
Certainly marriage and scope of our world is a matter of nature, consisting of great
importance and wisdom of extending them convincing in the lives of human beings in all
its aspects. Allah is rich in mercy and superior, exalted and is well versed in everything.
He created humans and animals in pairs for all species, and placed married for His creation
made it a command to create a life of growing and expanding Universe, including the goal
of growing and sustaining life for species available in world. Allah has created the human
world of women and men, and men put their wives from a single soul and made of them
gently and will come from husband to wife, and comes from the husband to the wife. It
also has made blessings for the couple lived kindly two sides for stability. This is a gesture
to show his power, abundance of knowledge and wisdom, the bulk of it.
Allah Almighty said in the holly Quran:
And among His Signs is this,that He created for you wives from among yourselves,
that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affectiion and mercy.
Verly, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect. (Rum 21)
He also said again:
It is He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), and (then) He has
created from him his wife (Hawwa (Eve) in order that he might enjoy the pleasure of
living with her. When he (polytheist from Adam's offspring, had sexual relation with
(the polytheist'swife), she became pregnat and she carried it abount lightly. Then when
it beacame heavy, they both invoked Allah, their Lord (saying): if you give us a Salih
(good in every aspect) child, we shall indeed be among the grateful. (Al-Araf 189)
Grace of marriage appears in the following components:
Amazing creation of our Lord and how the transition of his wisdom, including the
reappearance ability and completeness of the wonders of his creation.
To be found for the development of children remain in the world and generation
(NASLU).
Eliminating the desire of the flesh, which is based on the relationship between a
woman and a man. It is also important to work with the responsibility of developing
cervical and remain the world.

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Care homes, promote familiar with jihadi soul to be able to administer them both.
Concessions for woman and man in getting back together, relaxed person to flirt
with joy of heart.
Caring for the health of humans and good direction for the community.
Compassion attitude toward the society and politics.
Amazing creation of our Lord and how the transition of his wisdom, including the
reappearance ability and completeness of the wonders of his creation.
Get the kids, with the advent of the wonders of our Lord in His creation. These include a
clear transition of his wisdom, which is the essence of the existence of marriage as the only
way to retain generation of mankind. This has four important benefits emerging which is
the source for the marriage to be emphasized. Marriage turns sure sense of the power of
the body and sweeping joy of sex in force to meet the man and woman and the marriage
bond. They also tend Muslim loathing for tomorrow to meet his Lord, Day of Judgement
widowed.
These four benefits are as follows:
 Building will of Allah by working hard to bear a child, and the endeavor of
the Lord Almighty in continuing the human race.
 Welcome to the will of the Prophet (saw) to do the bulk and size of the crowd
for the Day of Judgment.
 Meet an obligatory (death) before it may be his intercessor
 After his death remain good son pray for him.
 BENEFITS ONE
BUILDING WILL OF ALLAH
Create the will of Allah, the side with more power and burn consciousness of many
scholars, the side with the power to have eyes you see the same, to be able to identify the
signs of the creation of our Lord, the boundaries of the transitions of the wisdom of it in
creation of two, female and male, inserted human made sperm, nurtured in moles of
reproduction and made mixture of seeds to be at a specific time and again after the meet
that sperm inserted into the nature of his nature as the power of discretion on the one hand
and the power of must on the other. These forces make compasory the life of couples
regardess their wealth or dignity for all between husband and wife, and all that joy of sex
that they wished to have the possibility of having a child, if it is complete joy of their
marriage and their family.
This is the power of Allah appearance in the nature of man, his wisdom and
experience in their lives. It is noteworthy facts and see the glory of our Lord God's will
come to do whatever he likes, and is usually specially adapted for humans to perform her

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partner what she likes, marriage and generation are the things that Allah likes the best to
the extent to be a guarantor for a do.
Man was created to dilute heavy water to transgress as a result of integrating sex organs,
namely to meet the wife and husband to meet their physical sexual joy. The wonders of
human creation in the various parts of its organs appear, and considering how active
ingredients efficiently at all times. Examples is clear in human nature, we look at how
food when chewed and digested, purified and accessible energy obtained for building up
the body, the delicate function of the eye to receive light, ears could potentially receive
sound waves far away, the tongue can form words, to be able to distinguish the taste of
different varieties, throat stop sounds interesting, intelligent man works wonders, the
human heart you can afford the work of the blood supply and repair the body to use, you
can store food gastrointestinal again with no stopper (barrier) at the end of his.
By considering all the functions of the body that happens we will see extraordinary skill.
Now working with the appropriate skills is beginning to consider the human origin.
Water was a shared human urges to 'SWALBU' (penis / penis) that is the male sex organ)
and 'TARAIBU' (vagina) that is the woman's sex organ.
He said the Lord Almighty:
So let man see from what he is created! He is created from a water gushind forth,
proceeding from between the backborne (male organs) and the ribs (female organs)
(Twariq 5-6-7)
Before enough research done are of biology they described as sperm that comes from
the backbone of a man, and a woman from the part of her breast, now these ideas have
been proved to be untrue, and stated that these are part the sex organs of a man, 'SWALBU'
which refers to (Sexual area) and the woman is 'TARAIB'. Here it seems that education
research made correction and cancel his statement to follow Allah's statement being the
only proper education.
Humans must check that power potential of our Lord, his knowledge, the abundance
of wisdom, his focus on the human, beginnings his life in this atmosphere of the World is
an issue upon returning in the firm conviction of the word 'LA ILAHA ILA LWAH
AND MUHAMMAD RASUL LWAH 'and argue about the authenticity of the Quran
and his education.
Reproduction is stated in the Quran to be instructive to see the blessing of our Lord
and be thankful servants, slaves to obey all his commands. Allah requested us to
understand this in order to understand the nature of man to be challenging in honor and
obey his commands, so that we can reach the point to acquire what is expected in the
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In the body of a woman it has been appointed particular chamber fromwhich female
eggs is originated and stored somewhere special which is planned to be half and half way
to achieving part of a circle of menstruation 'Mestural cycle' only one sperm is needed to
fertilize the egg, but it must be reached by ten million of sperms by the one time. Water
supplied from teslicle (male organ) and they require the existence of this water in order
the work fertilization of egg then executed. Female reproduction area of the woman has
two tubes and two pouches of infertility. Thus female egg is initiated in every month by
turns. When the female egg reaches that particular place in time and cooked in the heat
became known, the dumbness of male eggs 'Sperm' and run it into the moles 'UTERUS',
this seems moles and many wonders there when seem to be smooth muscles which is a
great way to allow the sperm to enter. Also may surprising you when this door open
completely when the time of delivery that enables the child to pass.
Glands in the brain called 'pituitary gland' is running all the work of an egg to ripen.
The special shelter of the eggs themselves making the 'Estrogen' which stimulates growth
achieved smooth skin of the womb, the uterus itself becomes the 'Gland' that prepares
'Mucus', the eggs when drops 'Progesterone' which inhibits egg not to ripe in the other
side, also raise body temperature restores skin's womb to receive a zygote.
Groups associate with of birth control made pills with these types of hormon ie estrogen
to supplement the body exceeds the required level, to avoid the female egg not reaching
ripen stage and gotten caught up with egg male 'sperm'. Also, formulate the hormon
known 'progestron' do more heavy mucus to sperm to stuck in its way to fertilize the
female egg. These types of hormonal contracep-tion prevents 'pituitary gland' not work
to make estrogen to ripen an egg.
For brevity of words professional looks how Lord has prepared a woman's reproductive
organs had already received a pregnancy. Experts see a lot more content and are amazed
by the order of moles of reproduction is doing wonderful work under hormon incentives,
and the doors are surprised how the woman is? Including the egg of a woman in a woman's
body in the cave of the pelvic bones from birth.
The planting of moles of the egg into a woman's fertility is the result of the
manufacture of the seed inside testicle (male organ). 'Testicles' is a collection of two
ovaries, which also exist in two other seeds which is manufactured on large kernels then
inserted into testicles for ripened. Squeezed of water in testicle those manufactured seed,
'gland' responsible for the work called 'Male genital gland', are hymns associated with
providing reproductive cells have long tails that swims in water 'sero fluid liquid' is then
sent to the tubes stored in its warehouse professional specialty that is known to be a
'seminal vesicles'. The seeds are mixed with water from the hymns contained within the
bladder, known by the name of 'prostate gland' that it is water poured out during sex joy.
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Great job of the gland that is so accessible in sex jow to bring power to pour into the
vagina or out in the same way by the use of the penis (male organ). Hymns also 'the
prostate gland' offers a fluid which is doing the sperm should be special fluid situation,
with special colors and fragrances.
Indicated existence gland urethra, gland known as 'cooper' (Cooper's or Mery's gland ')
which provides heavy fluid, and exist gland 'littre's glands' provides 'Mucus' squeezing
of these types of waters are known to be the interaction the sailors 'mangled liquids'
becomes as stocks sperm from harm until he came to lay a female egg and it is meant to
A mixture of water mentioned in the Quran about human creation.
More such works were considered to be the great wonders professionals 'seed subject
of 'egg theory" made under multiple hormons that are produced in the body only
ingredients then circulated through the bloodstream. It happens all the work release water
made 'sperm' is made under the protection of the thyroid contained in the brain called
'putuitary gland'
This is fair to say that this plantation of egg is equivalent to planting the seed in the
ground. The male egg (sperm) penetrates into the egg of a woman to receive food and
seed requirements necessary to promote it, and it is for that seed stocks in moles until the
baby is born.
Scientific Scholars (biologists) today's era have been able to prove that the egg of the
male reproductive sown in mice and is one turns to child, the female egg is left to build
up and facilitate its fertility. Islam understood this fact and declared that the child belonged
to the man (ie a family male) and was set discipline inheritance to pay the mother's
necessities, such was forced man to give woman (his wife) all requirements while
breastfeeding her baby, as well as intimate entitled 'mastership' that paternal side. Source
own child tends likewise, so no arguments to discuss why the clan 'nasabu' or family
name for the father to be alone and not be mothers.
The Art of the Lord in human creation, mankinds are originated from the one seed 'i.e.
sperm' it can be observable that is creditable ability and a great miraculously with no
force of human knowledge to be able to question and see the detail skills, be a parody to
the extent anything. Wonders also appear in his creation was put there to be the final goal
of the act of marriage is found generation, not to want to take its human nature and basic.
Through all of life has made human nature may not abstain from sex, has made
relations with wife and husband to be necessary, and to make someone miss humanity if
it cares religious grounds what they say, human concerning marriage and the worship of
angels, for here it is nonsense, man is carried away and forget his position and done it in
sex joy and stuff in it without looking back his high profile (class) in the society, and
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he is thirsty or when he is hungry and suching for finding some food to end his hunger,
or the necessity to go inhalation sustaining life, and all that man has voluntarily it.
Something to question ourselves, through all such as these conditions, what exactly
not follow the orders of our Lord in our inferiority complex situation like this?
In the sex organs made 'sexual area' Lord, put them in a manner that meets the
requirements for each side depending on the fate of a generation happening. For male
sperm are made with the skill of a high standard and he set aside special place stored and
prepared for the task that the new generation drained off.
Lord has made these waters to be from a specific model human that lead to forget
what so ever, again to taste all the hardships and tribulations of life or forgotten disease
and pain, which you maintain it senses that the new body will add energy and life to the
world served motivation. The woman is made to care for pain, the risks involved in
childbirth, and state why he does not abhor sex.
Lord has done all visible to humans and pulled the mind and consciousness of men
they remember and recognize the rights of their Lord, they see where they came from and
assess their nature and the power of the Lord, they work in such nature, See, was made
man, he rises from his mother's womb come around. To day becomes insolent person and
repulsive rebellion of any kind, does not care, does not see, not hear. Remember, O
Muslim Quran says!
He said the Lord Almighty
O man! What has made you careless about your Lord, the Most generous, Who
created you, fashioned you perfectly, and gave you due proportion, In whatever form
He willed, He put you together.
He said again:
And also in your ownselves. Will you not then see? Dhariyat 21
Moles of a woman's fertility is made with skill in receiving seed and bringing up until
birth. Wonders of moles of reproduction has been able to test for various scholars, they
receive concentrates from seed, keep it from being a complete organism. Park he gets the
child is of its kind in the stomach, gazing wall soaked stomach 'abnominal wall' moles of
reproduction itself 'UTERUS' and what covers the child as his protection, i.e. 'placenta'
ambroyonic membranes, and 'amniotic fluid' this occurred as our Lord wishes it, and it
worked in a very great skills, he narrated in the Quran that we can think positive and his
blessings to his slaves that occur beginning from the womb of their parents.
He says:
'He created you (all) from a single person (Adam): then made from him his wife
(Hawwa) (Eve). And He has sent down for you of cattle eight pairs (of the sheep, two,

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male and female: of the goats, two, male and female: of the oxen, two, male and female)
He creates you in the wombs of your mothers: creation after creation in three veils of
darknes. Such is Allah your Lord. His is the kingdom. La ilaha illa Huwa (none has
the right to be worshipped but He. How then are turned away?
Allah Almighty said:
Verily, We have created man from nutfa (drops) of mixed semen (sexual
discharge of man), in order to try him: so We made him hearer and seer. (Twariq 6)
He said again:
"We created man from nutfa drops' Insan 2
* Nutfa smaller proportion of 'sperm' has filtered from the interaction of many
waters.
He said as well:
Was he not a Nutfah (mixed male and female sexual distcharge of semen emitted
(poured forth?) Qiyama 37
Then he became an Alaqah (a clot): then (Allah) shaped and fashioned (him) in
due proportion. And made of him twa sexes, male and female. (Qiyama 37-38-39)
He has created man from Nutfah (mixed drops of male discharge), then behold,
this same (man becomes an open opponent. (Nahli 4)
Human how he saw the wonders of his creation, he told his nature highly focused
on dwellings, while the maternal womb moles, the belief in and worship of Lord
accordingly. But except for man of understanding.
Lord said:
Is indeed, granted abundant good. But none remember (will receive admonition)
except men of understanding. (Bakara 269)
Also said:
Who made everythingHe has created good and He began the creation of man from
clay. Then He made his offspring from semen of despised water(male sexual discharge)
(Sajda 7-8).
Considering that human speech is made to the water humiliated, regulate the great
wonders. Sperms and its power to reach an egg, to penetrate and durable settlement, also
we see that which shaped the 'sperm' kind how it drop, or to consider all that is involved
with this work to take place without the fault or failure, is qualified and fit for those who
do magnified and obeyed.
Lord said:

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So let man see from what he is created! He is created from a water gushing
forth. (Twariq 6)
And he said again:
Did We not create you from a distilled water (semen). (Mursalat 20)
Word distilled means, from the 'sperm' alone from mingle of many waters have the
intention to fertilize the egg.
And he said also;
Verily We created man from Nutfah (drops) of mixed semen (In-san 1)
Word mixed confirmed that it is the mingled of water (Mictures or Mingled
liquids’).
Scientist (Biologist) thought that this combination is the female egg and the male
sperm, the matter will now study reproductive health education have found out that the
baby is egg male only, and the mixture is water 'sperm' originating zygote.
Islam has stated this fact earlier, that a woman is only the caretaker, similar to the one
sowing the ground. This is the meaning of the verse:
Your wives are a tilth for you, so o to your tilth when or how you will, and send
(good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring for your ownselves
beforehand. (Bakara 223)
'Women are your fields'' for planting.
For the combinations Lord has said:
Verily We created man from Nutfah (drops) of mixed semen. (In-san 1)
From the distilled water squeezed derived a good mankind from the special reserve.
As shown in the thyroid 'glands' differences until emptied out for the gland promulgator
of sex joy. This meant filtered 'sperm' in the water tragic coincidence. Here signs indicate
also be grown in eggs in a woman's reproductive organs, we must consider plantation and
those contained in genital warts among preparations.
Lord said:
O mankind! If you are indoubt about theResurrection, thenverily We have created
you (i.e. Adam) from dust, then from a Nutfah (mixed drops of male sexual discharge
i.e. the offspring of Adam) the from clot (a piace of thick coagulated blood) then from
a little lump of flesh some formed and some unformed (as in the case of miscarriage)
that We may make it clear to you (i.e. to show you Our Power and Ability to do what We
will). And We cause whom We will to remain in the wombs (Hajj - 5)
And Allah said again:

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He has created man from a clot (a piece of thick coagulated blood). (Alaq - 3)
* (Clot), something hanging
He said as well:
We have created you (i.e. Adam) from dust, then from a Nutfah (mixed drops of
male sexual discharge i.e. the offspring of Adam) the from clot (a piace of thick
coagulated blood)
* Clot something hanging.
He said again:
Was he not a Nutfah (mixed male sexual discharge) of semen emmitted (poured
forth)? Then he became an Alaqah (clot): then (Allah) shaped and fashioned (him) in
due proportion. And made of him two sexes, male and female. (Qiyama 37-39)
After this egg to grow enough then it chances to a clot, then made the bones, then
filled with beef bones, then after it is introduced the topic being spirits, and many are made
before they reach a woman giving birth. That becomes all about the protection of the
Almighty, Allah and His blessings pass until her delivery. The most remarkable one seed
that the 'sperm' enjoys the creature to be a female and male.
Lord said:
And that He (Allah) creates the pairs, male and female, from Nutfah (drops of
semen (male discharges) when it is emitted. (Najmi 46)
He said again:
And indeed We created man (Adam) out of an extract of clay (water and earth).
Thereafter We made him (the offspring of Adam) as a Nutfah (mixed drops of the male
sexual dischare and lodged it) in a safe lodging (womb of the woman). Then We made
the Nutfah into a clot (a piece of thick coagulated blood), then We made the clot into a
little lump of flesh bones, then We brought it forth as another creation. So Blessed is
Allah, the only creator. (Muuminina 12).
He said again:
And Allah did create you Adam from dust, then from Nutfah (male discharge
semen drop) i.e. Adam's offspring), then He made you pairs (male and female). And no
female conceives or gives birth but with His knowledge. And no aged man is granted a
length of life nor is a part cut off from his life (or another man's life), but is in a Book
(Allah Al Mahfuz) Surely, that is easy for Allah. (Fatir 11).
And he suppose from the seed 'sperm' creation of two types, male and female.
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how to keep that sperm is the only lodge of its abode, the Lord said, then became
something 'cling'
These routes Allah has mentioned that it is a step in showing Qudra (Power) it, and
indeed the potential is great, let's look at humans and their division and how their tribes,
their languages their colors a lot in watching one human and his differences with the other,
as in love, disgust, sadness, and being happy all the conflicting elements, their nature and
measures were originated in their creation.
He said the Lord Almighty:
While He has created you in (different) stages (i.e. first Nutfah, then "Alaqah and
then Mudghah. (Nuuh -14)
Human after seeing Qudra (Power) of his Lord works in our nature, what made us careless
about our Lord and make us obey not, we do not become servants fully to Him, humble
in His laws, and Allah is not insinuate in telling us that, but he tells us that we may restore
our minds on the right to consent to it.
He said the Lord Almighty:
O Man! What has made you careless about your Lord, the Most Generous? Who
created you, fashioned you perfectly, and gave you due proportion, In whatever form
He willed, He put you together. (Infitar 6-8)
Let us not deceive humanity and of our Lord and be disobedience. More has been
made only to be the usual way, which the Lord hath for growing organic life on earth, but
its capacity is observed for everything because he has created the bride's Eve in the
presence of a man Prophet Adam alone and has created Prophet Issa a.s in the presence of
a woman alone. All of this is the advent of his knowledge, his wisdom, and his blessings
on the world. Us humans be thankful.
Has there not been over man a period of time, when he was not a thing worth
mentioning? Verily, We have created man from Nutfah (drops) of mixed semen (sexual
discharge of man) in order to try him: so We made him hearer and seer, Verily, We
showed him the way, whether he be grateful or ungrateful. (Dahari 1-3)
This canselling is from Allah, the Lord, We receive it, impliment so to be true
believers in all our aspects. Marriage has made it all the way to find them, to see them for
His mercy, has called the Lord that he loves exist, making it kumuitikia his commands
and show obedience and love, and to tell him to do his will place you in your will. He
promises to love the Lord and his life to help him carry out his will that thou rouse
accomplish this goal of marriage be welcomed by your Lord, and welcome to his will and
he loves the honest wedlock, and has said he will enrich his bounty.
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And marry those among you who are single(i.e. a man who has no wife and woman
who has no husband) and (also marry the Salihun (pious, fit and capable ones) of your
(male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allahwill enrichthem
out of His Bounty. And Allah is All-Sufficent for His creatures'needs, All-Knowing
(about the state of the people). "(Nuur 32)
This verse read through the proposal and order, so to do againts restrain married with
no underlying causes are a protest harvest and the undermining human nature and rights
of the body, is likely to be told you have betrayal yourself and of nature and his Lord
between sexual organ equipped for these purposes, and are a waste of intention to sexual
organ. What is obvious, is unpleasant, unloved and unlovable to Almighty Allah nor to
the society, who left to execute this Lord command as it is in the interest of mankind and
society. It is lack of faith and intelligence to stop complying with your Lord and became
reject positivism was created for.
To be disobey is a matter of distaste or hatred in front of Allah (swt) as is the
difference of life and death, something that Allah want to continue whenever it is seen to
continue his glory. According to the above seems settings Allah decision and the decision
is voluntary and must, if it is in his creation. Found generation to the existence of natural
forces of interaction between organisms of the same type or same species, it is the
resourcefulness of the Creator and His glory. This happens to all living creatures'
accourding to the way ordered by Blessed Lord and wisdom in everything.
Scholars in the field of education of creatures 'Scientists' are surprised and they say
to themselves the nature of the human being and the power of sex jow of intercourse the
existence of a sexual act, the answer never reached.
They question themselfs; but why sex?
Scientist are perplexed, Educators are at loss, and Thelogians are fumble for an
answer, just why sex exist? By Clasy Ston Steenp. Plain truth.
Scientists puzzled, academics failed to explain, they thelogians fumbled to find out
and understand why the existence of sexual intercourse?
What complicate to be understood in science education is to find a convincing answer
for why the existence of the necessity of the act of marriage, the matter has been heavy
for them. With their faith strong that human being was created without any ties to meet
the two sexes, and they are surprised why there's soul being the earliest after adapted only
creature else their bodies attracted in a state of wanting to commit a sexual act, what
persuading them both to do the act of marriage.
The all comfusion is how powerful it tempts people to assemble sexually. What
influences and disturbing their reflections, what forces this contact physicaly between
mankind? They have done researches and found that the capability of giving birth without
sexual intercourse exists, although it also said, it must be earned sperm and inserted on
the shores of reproductive womb and through the competition, a new study conducted to

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grow sperm known as cloning, which also considers it to have a limited success and has
trouble with abundant human side.
With all these reflect both setting up new generation fulfilled. A big surprise is that,
since it obliges found two same-sex 'same species' and meet once at the specified time,
the intersection of the internal link 'ferj' work long and heavy, requiring vocational
preparation. Also wondering how to moles of reproductive seeds prepared in keeping it
up to being a complete fulfillment, they wonder about the size of the creature inside and
its door the way out to the world.
All of this concepts can not be in any of surprise to those who read Quran a book of
all details about the great work and skills and knowledge regarding mankind, his sexual
relationship, and above all the major purpose worship not but Allah alone. Scientific
scholars have made many attempts of different types, being able to grow a sperm out of
moles of reproduction but they failed, irrespective all their efforts. In a matter like this all
their trials will end up defeated and they will not succeed to reach any solution with a
maximum of light, they will remain the eternal blindness and ignorance of things and
without the arrogance of the answer.
Unable to get the correct answer but to believe Islam and the Almighty Lord who did
all this. All these wonders are aiming to reflect and see the signs of the existence of Allah
and the advent of glory in his creation. Of course, it is to restore human faith to the Lord
Almighty who created and cleansing in its creation and infinite knowledge and proverbs.
Let's look together statements that show Allah for all his skills, his ability to create and
manipulate in the world.
He says:
And in your creation, and what He scattered (through the earth) of moving (living)
creatures are signs for people who have Faith with certainty. (Jathia 4)
And he said again
And Allah has brought you out from the wombs of your mothers while you know
nothing. And He gave you hearing, sight,and hearts that you might give thanks (Allah)
(Nahli 78).
He said as well:
'Allah is He Who created you in (state of) weakness, then gave you strength after
weakness then after strength gave (you) weakness and grey hair. He creates what He
wills. And it is He Who is the All-Knowing, the AllPowerful (i.e. Able to do all things.)
He also said:
'He it is Who shapes you in the wombs as He wills. (La ilaha illa Huwa) none has
right to be worshipped but He), the all Mighty, the All-Wise (Al-Imran 6)

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And he says in another verse:
And Allah has created you from the sand and then a drop of sperm and make women
and men and one not conceive except by His Knowledge.
And he said:
It is We, Who has created you (Adam) from dust, then from a Nutfah (mixed semen of
male discharge) i.e. Adam's offspring) then from a clot (piece coagulated blood), then
brings you forth as an infant, then (makes yougrow) to reach the age of full strength,
and afterwards to be old (men and women) though some among you die before, and
that you reach an appointed term in order that you may understand. (Ghafir 67).
And he said:
And indeed We created man (Adam) out of an extract of clay (water and earth),
Thereafter We made him (the offspring of Adam) as a Nutfah (mixed drops of the male
discharge) and lodged it in a safe lodging (womb of the woman), then We made the
Nutfah into a clot (a piece of thick coagulated blood), then We made the clot into a little
lump of flesh, then We made out of that little lump of flesh, then We made out of that
little lump of flesh bones, then We clothed the bones with flesh, and then We brought it
forth as another creation. So Blessed is Allah, the Best of creators. (Muuminina 12-
14)
And he said:
Do you disbelieve in Him Who created you out of dust (i.e. your father Adam), then
out of Nutfah (mixed semen drops of male discharge), then fashioned you into a man?
(Kahf 37)
That and it was explanation of our Lord, how human was made, all about spirit (ruuh)
and the power of sex jow and this will influence not only be comfortable but for human
development and its community but getting answer to every question they need the answer
through out their life. This is to make each of us seeking a different kind of feel he needs
it and found it very comforting to do what he knows in his soul in desiring and wanting
different things or different need.
Similarly, mankind is forced to see life in a special way to develop that Allah has the
power to dictate everything in human life span. And He the only Almighty Allah decides
on how grow the number of population in this wold and the hereafter. He the Allah
Almighty has the power of human development in different spheres of life regarding the
world and society. It also suggests the creation of the discipline of the Lord Almighty, and
put them knowledge of those principles that humans have failed to change them. Muslims
see the entirety of our religion and the consistency of its legislation with lighter stocks of
human and society. Allah gave mankind a little of knowlede.

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'And they ask you (O Muhammad (saw) concerning theRuh (the spirit):Say: "The
Ruh (Spirit) is one of the things, the knowledge of which is only with my Lord. And of
knowledge, you (mankind have been given only a little. (Israa 85)
Also said:
Do they not look in the dominion of the heavens and the earth and all things that Allah
has created: and that it may be that the end of their livesis near? In what message after
this will they then believe?
BENEFIT TWO
Welcome to the will of the Prophet (saw) to do the bulk and size of the crowd for the Day
of Judgment.
It is narrated from our Prophet Muhammad (saw) to emphasize the reputation of marriage
and the abundant benefits to enjoy for those they marry.
He said (saw):
O, you in teen's age, who is capable to get Mahr (obligatory bridal-money given by the
husband to his wife at the time of marriage.) Reward to marry then marry.
He said again:
'Marriage is in my conduct who he love me then follow my conduct.
Marriage is in the course of all prophets. And our Prophet (saw) did not leave it unless
it is to preoccupy him he will be proud to have a multitude population (umma) Day of
Judgement. Marriage is a great base to build community expectations, new generation is
the most worth results to be achieved and is particularly required for a Muslim to have a
commitment to it, and make it his first mission, and it is strategically placed to marriage.
the Prophet And M / God has raised you in the wombs of your mothers state that you
know nothing and has kujalieni ears and eyes and hearts to be grateful '. (Ahlul 87)
He says:
Marry a wemon with sexuality and stability'
And received by the Abdallah Ibn Omar said, Verily the Messenger (saw) said:
'Marry mothers with offspring (who by the nature of generation) Doubtless I am proud
of the crowd in a Day of Judgement. (Narrated by Bukhari)
And similarly received from Ibn Yasir Muakal:

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"He came the Prophet (saw) said, I am in love with a woman who is of best tribe and
financialy but not able to give birth, can I marry her? The prophet (saw) prohibited me,
and he (saw) no. Then came another with the same but also he declined, then came
another and said 'marry beauties and for the generation I am a proud the day for you
with a huge crowd of Judgement.
Marriage conduct welcomes to the will of the Prophet (saw) and that in the rituals of
Islam. It is forbidden to restrain from marriage and the holy prophet (saw) declared that
who banned himself a marriage will certainly detached in his behavior and he will not be
with the owner to do so.
He says:
'All-hating my conduct will not be with me. (Ameipokeya Bukhari and Muslim)
And received from Anas that:
There were the companions of the Prophet (saw) some of them bunned themselves
a marriage and, some said I will only pray all the times without sleep, others said I'll
involve my self in fasting without canceling the day, it had then erupted to the Prophet
(saw) said: What the matter with them, and what direction they want to follow? Groups
of people who said such previously, I scored and stop some day, I pray and I sleep, and
I married women, who hated my conduct will not be with me. (Imepokelewana Bukhari
and Muslim)
Also received from Saad Ibn Abu Uqasw (r.a)
Prophet (saw) Forbidden Ibnu Madh-uum Othman, who bunned himself from a
marriage, he said, if it would be permitted then we would do so.
Muslims should convince others to marry their peers, and this was done Ibn Abass and
scholar of interpretation, said to Ibnu Said:
Are you married, he answered no, he said, marry then, a respectable person in
this umma is one with more than one wife. (Ahmad na Bukhar)
This is a good custom, and the behaviour of the prophets, says the Lord Almighty:
And indeed We sent Messengers before you (O Muhammad saw) and We made for
them wives and offspring. And it was not for a Messenger to bring a sign except by
Alla's leave. (For) every matter there is a Decree (from Allah).
Dear Muslims, getting married is the only approach to show your love for our Prophet
and a partner of his conduct, and all that is in tending generation. Wisdom is evident that
open marriage with the intention of having a baby if they got in his exhortations, this is
also an indication of progress for all his herd and was the course of conduct of the Prophet
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Narrated from Omar (r.a), He was marrying frequently because of the offspring.
Also narrated:
A woman that can bring offspring is more prefarable than the woman who is beauty
but can not give birth.
He said again:
Its better missing the beauty of the woman then being not able to be a parent.

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BENEFITS THREE
 Meet an obligatory (death) before it may be his intercessor
After his death remain moral son pray for him after his death.
It is explained by Prophet Companions that, deeds of mankind reach end point to be
reserved in his account of good deeds in here in this world, except three, it was mentioned,
having good child remaining after your death, then pray for you or of goo character and
deeds that add parents account.
These unavoidable for the child, he is a plant with a parent, and generation there will
make the trunk and hard formation, these lacks, and this is expected to considerably parent
to hasten the formation and stretch characteristics of the child to be praised, and direction
to be kind. Prospects for any parent is to make the direction of His goodness, and this is
expected to have a dedicated child and the trunk of his elder advisors petition and that he
prayed for mercy.
It is narrated that: be sure supplication is sent to deceased in light intensity.
'Dua is referred to the dead by the power of light'.
And the word of the speaker in the expression of the good of the child and the
expression of the goodness of his parents is a believer in big profits. Islam wants to have
a child and it is a blessing to the desire of promoting the good of his parents, said the
muslims schoolars whether to be good or be bad child but having pray for his parent, his
petition is received by his good works is an excess of kindness to his parents. Never be
accounted for his crimes.
Then the goodness of Islam has intensified to clarify and say that they will be good
tomorrow kapozidiwa parents for the day of judgment, they will be promoted to grade for
the good of their children.
He said that Allah (swt):
'And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith: to them shall
We join their offspring, and We shall not decrease thereward of theirdeeds in anything.
Every person is a pledge for that which he has earned. (Al-Tuur 21)

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BENEFIT FOUR
A child die before parents, in the life hereafter be obligatory to be parent’s
compassion
The Prophet (saw) noted that:
'Parents lost three children in their childhood, Allah Almighty will forgive them,
be a cause for his parents enter the Paradise for theglory of the mercy of theirchildren,
ask companions of Prophet Muhammad, if pased away two of them only, The prophet
(saw) answered his companions, by saying and two as well.
It has been explained by some 'Swalaf' that:
One of the moral person asked to marry but he refused, navigating between his age
arose from sleep one night and said, please marry me!, They married him and then was
asked the reason of his act, he said, Allah may blessed me with a child and die early and
had my introduction Day of Judgement. Then he said:
'When I felt a sleep I saw that,A day of Resurrectionand I are in total mass on standing,
I became very drowsy and thirsty approaching to destroy my life, my soul suffered and
anxiety,and in such a stateof distress and trouble were children passed between us with
Scarf gold coloured and carring some water, individually and in a group, and I pulled
the hand of one of those kids and I said 'Give me water, in stressful situations like
Atonement asked me, do you have a childbetween us, because we wateredour ancestors,
we are among Muslim children who died before their elders.
That information is in the proper sense of the word of Allah:
Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth, when or how you will, and send
(good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) for your ownselves
beforehand. (Bakara 223)
I hope this will be clear to you that the purpose of marriage is for a mission to find the
child and the other benefits becomes a surplus harvest.

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CHAPTER TWO
SEXUAL ENJOYMENT AND REALISING THE BODY FROM STRESS
It has narrated from Prophet Companion honorable Ally ibnu Abi Talib to have said:
'Have a joy at least once, certainly when soul (Ruuh) hatreds deteriorates.
And received by Imam Ibn Majah, from Abi Ummah said, The prophet (saw) said:
No worthy nor a benefit, for the believer after piety, the best thing for him as a
good wife, its lookingis pleasing and acceptable,when he swears tohim, she avoids and
the oath, and her husband is far from her he enjoy the conservation of its assets to
himself. (Ameipokeya Nisai and Ibn Majah)
In another verse He said:
The world is joyful, quality and enjoyment of it, was that good woman, assist him
to his grave. (Nisai)
In fulfillment of this, the Lord has laid down rules for the existence of marriage, he
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Holly Quran enlightened good things between husband and wife, how they will
benefit from the grace of Allah Almighty in their lives. Live two is the nature of all living
things, and human beings have begun to appear since our father Adam (as) he after
creation and inclusion topics of sex joy, Allah Almighty recreated his wife in his left side,
the mother desires, to sit with ease to all types of comfortable and favors were given by
their Lord, if it is slavery and orders them to follow his orders and also to show that their
appetite will be in accordance with the instructions of their Lord, and that is to walk the
desire to protect what he forbids Allah. Our fathers (Adam and Eve) were shown the best
example being the comfortable servants will not be available completely free to follow
the law and obey the Lord, for He will commands. (Reason plugged in Paradise) created
woman from the rib of man has been made to be a big secret but the earliest reasonable
shape in mind is the necessity for the account of the marriages. And effectiveness of word
of our Prophet (saw) said that:
'Women are relatives of men.
The Prophet (saw) said that women are relatives (brother) of men and are definitely
showed that each side has adhered or adapted to other side all the times, it is meant to be,
one will be incomplete without the other side, as it is the creation of brother of one
stomach. It is nature and physical characteristics since the start of life in the face of this
world, this is to protect precise nature of gentle souls, sharing, caring and protecting each
other and rescue the parties is something within the nature as it happens within the
siblings.
According to this fact in the human life, it is impossible for man or woman to live
single without depending the Carousing and romancing of the other side. None can be
rich in the issue pining a man or woman, it is the cause of trying to deceive the party as
the separation of the two sides is difficult and contradictory nature. With the wisdom of
the marriage that is intent on having a baby but occurs utmost importance to be protected
and preserved human from conspiracy Satan (devil) to expel people into the deep debris
of the mutiny, to confine from the force and counterweight to the power of the involving
in sexual intercorse thoughtlessly, it is the cause in preserving eyes and looking unlawful,
reserve sexual organ of mankind from the variety of devastating diseases, it is the cause
to protect human dignity and humanity in society as a statement of the Messenger (saw)
points towards it.
He says:
'Who enter in a marriage has fulfilled half of his religion then he obligatory to fulfill
the order of his Lord in the remaining half.
'Oh, it is upon you to have a portion of bounty, who is not capable then approach, as

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fasting restrict from rubbish deeds by breaking the extra power and the desire of the sex
joy.
And he said also:
Who rewarded by Allah the Almighty, good wife, Has helped him to the half of his
religion has to fear the Lord for the remaining half.
A great scholar with knowledge of the relationship of organisms (Psychologist)
Aflatoon expressed:
"Surely man is in the maze of always stress and the continyed pains, hold the second
part to mix earlier part at the paragraph beginning, the passage that connected to a portion
of the second side, it is removed of the two sides, one for another, if you are in a marriage
and if the marriage has plentiful blessing and cheesy, maze and pains are gone or greatly
diminished, when couple associate with joy, will them tend comfort plump for problems
of any kind to detached and controlled is easy because it does not behoove removes their
happiness.
The word of this scholar is quite true, and this is entirely consistent with its look to
what Saidna Ally Ibnu Abi Talib heard from one woman when she was Aggrievin the
absence of her husband, how he missed to a lot of his legends and love stories, and his
Carousing so turned and sing showing her feelings:
Oh, this night be prolonged,
And I had to stay close at his side,
I lost the will to sleep,
Where my husband to have mammoth hug in him,
I swear to none but Allah my Lord,
I had to step down from this bed
I should not be close to it,
But No! I can't, For fear of my Lord,
And how shame this will be,
Also my gratitude to Alliy to catch what he is around for.
Sex joy is something with a special secrect taste to every creature, and acted upon it
has it sweetness and a thrill can not be compared to the rate of anything, it is a delicious
taste of heart pain, it gives each organ of the body its happiness and provide reliefs for both
partners and satisfaction when done to its maximum, it serves gloomy in terms that can
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it be long or be limited, by intelligent thinking must lead them to see skills displays unique
creation of Allah their Lord.
Reflect to the taste of enjoyment of sexual intercourse, what forces mesmerize you to
it, where one learns to practice it, who is poor or rith to act to it, what have you come out
of the skill and mercy, then see popping up being the life of the two faces, the inner frame
and outer frame. Life on the outward appearance is a man who lives by seeing the
outstanding generation of its kind (extract it) and the inner life is a lesson of life after death,
life of hereafter. In fact this taste or sweetness derived from it displays a light to a mankind
and give him a challenge to prepare the tastes of their courses for ever in the life after.
Revealed to devotees of this community to prepare for the taste for self-destruction or
permanently inserted in the damp earth and Getting Ready to be destroyed before the
lodging of Allah. Comfortable here should not be a slave to desires as opposed to on a
permanent basis hereafter.
sex joy test benefit servant and quicker access to remove what linked and grace of the
heart with something bearing rest for two to the man between living cells outside and
within two to it, these are particles of the wonders of the Kingdom of Heaven and the
ground, including the advent of his skill, and the weight of jurdge wonders in her mind.
Idealism see themselves fail to understand this, because these are seen by the ones
purified heart with doubt and find the light of knowledge to the brightness of the
characteristics of the believers.
To curb the habit of involment to the act of sexual intercourse is not the authentic nature
of all creatures, since it distort the body ordinarily creation, the strength of the desire of
the sexual intercourse comes with a force that shocked, without the power of piety plunge
into the abyss of rebellion.
Infatuation of the world without consideration then change human group endowed
with the quality of his glory, turning the animal to be duped. Marriage is the only way to
bring stocks into the body removes wishes, is to blame and maintain imperfectly human
dignity and society. Meanwhile a trial, it is forced by society can not observe many
hardships and troubles multiplied.
The Prophet (saw) said:
'When comes to you who satisfies your wishes and content with his religion and his
character and his honesty marry him, if you do not do it (marry off) your children will be
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The world of today after leaving the grounds of Allah has been found to the situation.
What has spoken Lord Almighty and seek us tusende against the commands of our
Prophet.
He says:
And let those who oppose the Messenger's Muhammad (saw) commandments (his
Sunnah – legal ways, orders, acts of worship,statements) (among the sects) beware, lest
some Finah (disbelief, trials, afflictions, earthquakes, killing overpowered by a tyrant)
should befall them or a painful torment be inflicted on them. (Nuur 63)
Society today after deviating from these orders is now of full soreness all kinds of trials
and tomorrow we do not know our stuff before the Lord.
Although young generation requested in committing themselves to piety, even if it
may easir to protect them from injury and response of sexual interaction, to lay down their
eyes, preserving the heart from the anxiety of thought or to protect themselves from sin,
but not be able to shelter from the power of sexual intercourse, as it is in human potential,
natural forces will never stop the soul by storytelling aspects of the fulfillment of sex joy,
nor forsake devil (Satan) calling and convice all about the sweetness and flavor inside the
body to feel query to enter into a pilot and that is to do the dirt, and not easy to do once.
Due to the nature of the nature of the soul to responde to the his desire, Allah who
knows his creatures by nature, he is the one who understands what is the human heart as
it is in his rights, as the tongue is in the rights of slaves has set and strengthen marriage
and again by exhortations all to society obstruct its action nor ruled by dirt, this after
appearing to be with the power of devotion and the passage but still cells of the body and
combinations that stimulate body desires will never be burned, since fasting is terminating
the subject of human desire of sex, only it undermined physical strength and bring
weakness to combinations of food that it is added to the excess of power that also stimulate
sexual desire of the body.
The Significant path for Muslims, is connected with the details of Quran. Allah
Almighty has proposed marriage in order to control sexual interaction illegal. Law
prohibits looking women, to do it made to be wrong and sin, it is forbidden to men to mix
with women, proving their inner part when dress, wear clothes that reflect their beauties,
show their decoration, and similar to those that cause the heretic, and losing a tremendous
nature and inserted Muslim in destructive elements.
Allah Almighty has proposed and ordered marriage according to its quality to rank
Muslim with dignity, persistence and stability. Allah the Lord Guarantee and offered
assuarance of help and made it easy for his creatures that carry out his command.
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And marry those among you who are single(i.e. a man who has no wife and woman
who has no husband) and (also marry the Salihun (pious, fit and capable ones) of your
(male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allahwill enrichthem
out of His Bounty. And Allah is All-Sufficent for His creatures'needs, All-Knowing
(about the state of the people). (Nuur 32)
He said again:
And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves
chaste, until Allah enriches them of His Bounty. (Nuur 33)
Our Prophet (saw) has insisted and ranked to the level of worship if wife and husband
are intended to get tranquility, stability and complying with their Lord, preserve their
chastity and drains to protect their community, this kind of enjoyment turn to be worship
and be rewarded. For believers it benefit them with two flavors, a hint of body and flavor
of faith, estimate of Allah for a permanent life hereafter. These two flavors derived from
married life in one soul results to calmness and pleasure to the degree that no one can
imagine. This is because these are the ones seen purified and doubtless in the light of
knowledge of holly teachings to the brightness of the characteristics of the believers.
Regarding to these two delicious our Prophet has said:
Three are eligible for Allah's help, he cited them as a fight for their Lord, (jihad)
with the responsibility of writing (a writer in the issue of evidence between to in
agreement) who performed with integrity, and a marriage with the purpose not involve
in illegal sexual intercourse so protect his manner towards the religion.
Islam Insight appeared in such features, a quantity of good deeds filled with the
goodness of Muslim Day of Judgement, the blessings of our Lord are numerous. The
Prophet Muhammad (saw) in elevation comfortable marriage that level of worship. When
asked by his companions.
'O Messenger of Almighty Allah (saw) have left people of ages in past and their
reward is great, and they pray like we pray, they fasting like we do, they were offered
charity as we are giving, but they provide more charity for the bulk of their assets, the
Prophet (saw) responded, Dont you have to offer charity more than they did, saying
'Subhanallwah' is the charity, when he said 'Alwahu-Akbar' (Allah is great) is charity
and saying 'Lailaha- llwah' (there is no worship then Allah) is charity, and the act of
sexual intercourse to your legal wife is charity, The Prophet companions then asked, O
Messenger of Allah, having sexual intercorse with our wifes is charity and it paid
rewards). Prophet (saw) what do you thinkstretched sexual intercourse illegal becomes
dirt and sin, they answered Yes, The prophet (peace be upon him) is likewisealegitimate
act be rewarded, and he mentioned something charity. Then concluded, it is enough to
charge all these, for two Rakaa of Dhuha prayer. (Ameipokea Moslem and Nisai)

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Allah Almighty has ordained marriage because it is only means of the fullness of the
experience of sexual intercourse. Marriage eradicate dirty acts of dirt, and it is to protect
human health.
One writer has described in his the book about the successful married life in case sexual
enjoymen is in related to Islamic law, he says:
Adulterer begins sexual intercourse while in his mind knows that he is conducting
an act of a devil sinner, religiously, cultural and social trends, it is a shame to bring
hostilities to a family (older) as they understand it, so consider doing dirt and devilry,
certainly got the impression he meets sex joy while makes the bad thing, he
embarrassing for his dignity and humiliating his property, he may lose his dignity, and
therefore does not feel the taste perfectly with this kind of state. When this continues
concerns abound two rises, when bans himself completely, which is contrary to the
nature or just sinking directly regardless of any evil or destructive disease.
That is what has blowout in cities following non islamic mechanism, always evil does
can not halt their contries and diseases growing very first and worry becomes greater of
susceptibility to disease, they turned to consider the woman to them as evil, empty, and
especially when they compared the expression that the bride's Eve he collaborated with
the devil betrayed father Adam to execute the command of his Lord when he is tempted
bride Hawaa eating the fruit that was forbidden, and he impressed with father Adam ate
the fruit, which lead to offense that stripped the respect of their gender and reveal their
shame. Non-Muslims have fillings that to be near to a woman is to welcome evil which
has no blessed to you, they approached the woman while they feel to approach the devil.
Muslims proclaim openly this matter was concerned, it was for both to Adam and
Hawaa, and these have been explained by the Lord Almighty in His Glorious Book.
Then Devil (Shaitan) (Satan) whispered suggestions to them both in order to uncover
that which was hidden from them of their private parts (before): he said: "Your Lord
did not forbid you this tree save that you should become angels or become of the
immortals"And he (Shaitan (Satan) swore by Allah to them both (saying) Verily, I am
one of the sincere well-wishers for you both. So he misled them with deception. Then
when they tasted of the tree, that which was hidden from them of their shame (private
parts) became manifest to them and they began to cover themselves with the leaves of
Paradise (in order to cover their shame). And their Lord called out to them (saying):
Did I not forbid you that tree and tell you: Verily, Shaitan (Satan) is an open enemy
unto you?
The story continues to be told:
They said: Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You forgive us not, and
bestoe not upon us Your Mercy, we shall certainly be of the losers" Allah said: "Get

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down, one of you is an enemy to the other (i.e. Adam, Hawwa (Eve), and Shaitan
(Satan). On earth will be a dwelling – place for you and an enjoyment for a time"
According to this explanation is to say that a disturbance was both a woman and a man,
all have elements of worship according to the good or for the aggressive and grade of
charge. And their Lord pardon them.
He said: "Then Adam received from his Lord Words. And his Lord pardoned him
(accepted his repentance). Verily,He is the One Who forgives (accepts repentance), the
Most Merciful.
After after accepting their repentance Allah Almighty said:
"We said Get down all of you from this place (Paradise), then whenever there
comes to you Guidance from Me, and whoever follows My Guidance, there shall be no
fear on them, nor shall they grieve. (Bakara 38)
When Muslim goes to his wife to satisfy his love, feels to face noble and neat woman,
no deficiencies in the enjoyment of his life, there is no illusion of himself or his position,
begins with his enjoyment of food or their drinks and share with him the whole day, from
tea in the morning, then parting to go in search of life, after the fatigue of work are sitting
together for lunch and life keeps them happy all the time, the life initiated with passion
and escorted of fullness and desire to bring a smile to the will of the body. Unlike non
Muslim when face his wife feels that she is an evil devil with her doing something dirty
and unpleasant, it only influenced by natural forces and has no ability to to restrain himself
from it.
The difference between the two situations, marriages in the Islamic system is the
fullness of taste and courtesy between the two partners, which are paid back, incurred the
disapproval of the soul and removes thoughts and evil thoughts, giving stability and
Justified of faith and overthrow in the maze and erosion mental and physical rewards,
synonymous relationships and transactions pleasant and interactive and spiritual life of
the family. And it is through health care to the community.
Love in the discipline of Islam and the principles of Allah becomes a good focus and
Assurance to satisfying zeal or enthusiasm to earn rewards, then tend flavor that is not
obtained through other ways with nothing can be compared and especially when couples
reach to the point of orgasm. At this point married life get Incentives, fun and joy
extraordinarily.
This can be achieved only when every part of body get a chance to share in the taste,
the heart to be pleased with the way the sex joy fulfillment, all the members can see them
not excluded in the way of taste which end up with abundance of rewards by Allah
Almighty. In the eye finds pleasure and taste of lust besides his wife, generating inspiring
with tongue absorb lips to taste the honey of his wife, creating and making ear enjoy the
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will and perform the newly- day are still fresh in his early married days (honey-moon) for
this his noise will not stop feel more comfortable and to be satisfied by the taste and scent
that is a challenge for the whole purpose of relief for a bitter taste or problems from any
kind of diseases.
This should be complete in order the taste of sexual intercourse is to be full of joy. Lips
of husband touching lips of wife and step to the tongue, ended a tasting special mixes with
intimate love within the lips and tongue, which gives throat settle off its thirst of stuffiness
in the life of sex, also lips feel be weary by kissing cheeks and various parts of the lover,
the hand found it very comforting to make a visit to grope all parts of the body, in fact they
require the effort of giving all parts of the body its right to taste, and the heart is more, be
satisfied to see all these be addressed in his deeds and his earnings with his Lord tomorrow
at the day of Judgement.
Human spirit (soul) feels discomfort in the act of adultery, and sense its evil even before
Generous Lord Almighty the day he shall stand in judgment of his evil time. Muslim
exaltation to look at the rate of marriage as a set to earn rewards the before Lord at the Day
of Judgment. Marriage is great and a husband have a dignity and respectable image in
front of the family and entire society.
Ibnu Qayum said, every taste is an introduction to the taste of the life hereafter, and be
a good wife reputed by his Lord that he may have taste of both sides, the world and the
hereafter. On thrive on stability of an eye and taste end up to remove pain, regret, dishonor,
to be among the ignorant and vile conduct, when a mankind does not see the filth of
adultery and consider it a serious matter, will never understand a pride of being a human
as he missed to realize why he has made from these particles of sand and worshiped by
angels, shall remains never cross to his mind of his glory his Lord wanted to be with him
and in reverse will remain the same beast or more then of the animal as he Allah Alimighty
said:
And surely, We have created many of the jinn and mankind for Hell. They have
hearts wherewith they understand not, and they have eyes wherewith they see not, and
they have ears wherewith they hear not (the truth). They are like cattle, nay even more
astray; those~ They are the heedless ones. (A-araaf 179).
And he said again:
Or do you think that most of them hear or undestand? They are only like cattle –
nay, they are even farther astray from the Path (i.e. even worse than cattle). (Furqan
44).
He said again:
But if they answer you not (i.e. do not bring the Book nor believe in your doctrine
of Islamic Monotheism), then know that they only follow their own lusts. And who is
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Allah guides not the people who are Zalimun (wrong-doers, disobedient to Allah and
polytheists). (Qaswas 50)
And he said:
Say; "Tell me, if it (the Quran) is from Allah,and you disbelievein it?Who is more
astray than one who is in ipposition far away (from Allah's Right Path and His
obedience?)
Islam have loved human desires to be good among people, and who do so are among
the servants loved by Allah.
.He says:
"And those who say: Our Lord bestow on us from our wives and our offsrping the
comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders of the Muttqun (the pious.) (Furkani 94)
When passionate sex be intended for the two lovers, their lives tend to be worship
and they become slaves to it. That is a why beautiful Islam warned not to rush to woman
because of his beauty and class of her family by declaring that is not in quality enough for
the election of good wife, and it was said to be the beauty of the character of the remaining
ones, is recommended to be satisfied with the richness of life and the quality of religion.
The Prophet said (saw):
'Marry not a wife because of theirbeauty, their beauty may arise, and do not marry
because of their property they may lost and finish, but marry them for the quality of
their religion, and the maid who swear allegiance to religion is better.
And he said also:
Who marry a wife wife because of his class, (tribe) Allah does not bless that man
except humiliation, and who marry because of financial position (assets) Allah may not
bless except poverty, and who marry because of its beautiful Allah Almighty does not
bless it except malice, and who marry does not want anything except to lower his eyes
and preserved shame (sexual area) had blessed by Almight Allah and has blessed his
marriage to the woman. (Ameipokeya Tibrany)
Islam tending to all that joy fulfilled, and helped aspects of life choices for wanting
the marriage to be permanent.
He said (saw):
Make a good choice where to plant your seeds, certainly blood is inherited.
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'Certainly blood mixes'.
What should be very clear, Islam must not experience what is perceived in other
religion which disgrace the woman and recognize that she is only an evil, and they
consider that the connections with woman in marriage is in trouble and distracting
ourselves with annoyance that can never get to an end. Muslim consider a marriage as
ordered to worship and the Lord rewards towards it, and is measured that it is the only
way to chosen by his Lord and it is the only way avoid debris.
Muslim be a good choice in complying with the marriage, you have a wife that is a
support for your hereafter. Yes good gift for your life hereafter. See our Prophet (saw)
said:
'The world is gratification, and the quality of his gratification is to have a good
wife to help her husband in his life hereafter.
Woman should be the one that will help her husband for their future life hereafter,
and this is who she is obligated to her religion, not the one who is from noble family,
marry to follow her property, it is better to regard her conduct and her religion that will
make you safe and eject you from destruction in your life in the world hereafter.
He said (saw):
'A woman is married of the four elements, its beauty, its class (tribe), habits and
religion, and a religion on your characteristics, not to harm your hands.
Also narrated:
A woman is married for four reasons: her wealth,her family. Her beau ty, and her piety:
do your best to win the pious one, May your hand be soiled with dirt. (The last phrase is
used as a form of affection).
AWARENESS ABOUT SEXUAL STIMULATION
With all the good things stated, consciously obliged from both sides to end with a
maximum satisfaction and fairness in sex. In fact when couples reach at a point of climax
then they understand the wisdom to be created by particles of sand. Marriage shall be at
the maximum level if each of the two partners will reach a maximum of satisfaction in the
joy of sex, there must be a consideration from both partners in order to successfully be
uniform and universal in reaching at climax, a work that should result to every partner to
see the glory of his Lord the create mankind via soil.
No that does not need to learn, and we learn through the use of illustrious of our
scholars of religion, are highly trained to enhance performance of sex. Learning must be
brought to the intentions of the teachings of our Prophet (saw), who teach us to fulfill all
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for all worlds, he educates on achieving this, based on the protection and stability of our
marriage.
He said (saw):
'Do not go into your wives (for sex joy) like animal, there should be between the two a
messenger, then asked (saw) who is that messenger, The Prophet (saw)' love kisses and
love conversation'.
And in another narration, The Prophet (saw) asked one of his companions if he
marriaged a virgin woman, he said:
'O Jabir are you married a virgin or non virgin '(a woman who has ever married)
jabir answered, 'Thaiba' (ever married) The Prophet (saw) responded that, It is good
that you marry a virgin to affectionate her with your passion, and affectionate you with
her amorousness, and addition of Liabi-Beida, to be accustomed to her and be
accustomed to you. (by her poses and Adoring).
Also narrated:
'It is better you marry a virgin woman to give you her passionate and give her your
loving and reminded her about the past.
Hadithi mbili hizi zinaoneshakufundishajambo ambalo ni muhimu kwa watu wa ndoa kuwa mtindo
wa maisha yao, na kuwa desturi kabla ya ndoa kamili (jimai) kwa maisha yao ya jinsia, kumchezea mtu
mpenzi wake na kumbashiriya kabla ya kumuingilia ni kuleta furaha kwa upande wake na kumuingiza
katika duara la kushiriki sawa kwa sawa katika ladha ya mwili wakena kumfanya asiwena uchukivu wakati
wa kadhiya hii kwa kuona hapati kinachotarajiwa katika hisia,na kujikisiakuwa yeye ni mtumishi tu kwa
starehe ya mume na anachoambuliya ni maumivu.
These two Hadeeth by the Prophet (Peace Be upon Him) communicate something
that is important for married people to be their lifestyle, and become accustomed before
full (intercourse) for their sex survival, a man caresses his wife and delight her before
intervening is to bring joy to her side and inserted in a circle to share equally in the taste
of her body and should not arouse loathing when the account does not get this to see what
is expected in a sense, and feels that she only serves to comfort the husband and in return
receive only pain.
Instructions given in the word of Prophet (Peace be upon Him) preceding it because
the power of a woman's body fading away, which is why the Prophet (Peace be upon
Him) said that it is rational to draw woman's desire, men touches all sensitive parties of
the body of their wives before intercourse, he needs to wake up more arousal the feelings,
its loosening body and cause her to be able to share in the taste of her nature.
Toching and caresses in fact is everything before intercourse, and it is good
preparation for any work needed to conclude to have good success. These are not only for
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They say sex Researchers, sex energy is equivalent to the power of any kind, and it
has strong flavors and the utmost delicious when stored for future release, or rather the
appointed time.
In this word of our Prophet (Peace be upon Him) has shortcut explanation according
to his rank, and it is hard to describe, or incorporate real examples in drama in practice, in
all, is leaving the wire each use mental abilities and his knowledge to absorb them and
bring success that work long in the form of life.
And we try at least what was said by our scholars, we are trying to give more chance
clearer understanding this work in the context of the researchers of the characteristics of
human nature.
It is explained in bringing the flavor and prepare your partner before intercourse is
kissing her cheeks, absorb her lips, touching her chest and shoulders give generously kiss
on her navel and show your affection, and rename generous her thighs, stimulate all her
parts without stop any cupping your hands or your lips, you can hug her colored contact
area and hold her to your chest, Swig the sweet flavor of her saliva to show your love for
her. Exist to exchange words of love between each other with praise and colleague give
her courage by appraising her beauty and deeds and her cleverness you have seen.
The woman who asked reported that, it is scared overlooking the importance of this
work, and lose the taste for sex, but, if there is intentions with regard the joy of this good
work to give joy and be released from soul hurts, married life is sweet.
The husband should consider how to act effectively to success. It is required to be
close to your wife, caress and have proximity to hug while giving sperm, kisses, caressed
and exploit the lips of wife smoked his sense of taste and his body to arouse her and love
your work. Also the husband should not miss tasting the saliva of her wife, drinking sweet
saliva that brings effect will produce comfortable with love and appreciation.
Contrary to the same performance good, you need to craft dexterously body and the
shape of your wife, you make your wife have a difficult situation to achieve what they
need in her married life and the rest of his body, thing or things that can impact and cause
loathing sex act.
The scholars of this field say, when you see a woman her eyes sunk, her lips closes
half, playing in an unusual situation, she is not in the right manner, his lips has ruddy, and
he failed touch you even inevitably love then understands that the time of intercourse has
come.
And they laid the foundation for the sages say:
'She is very similar to the fruit,
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Its sweetness, until you peel it,
And with your hands, See,
Sweet basil if you did not crumble,
Withers just the palm,
Reflet not any odor.
It applies to wife, without encirclement and turn her to unusual look then you will not
benefit from the reality of her nature. That could be seen by examining her body changes.
Caress your wife until she finds it his body temperature come up well, and see softness in
her vagina, her cervic mucus has been become heavy, this also will give you a taste of
your heart and rich sweetness. When you sense to emerge the sunk of her eyes, and say
words without specific reality, keep in mind as an indication of her desire.
Professionals reported:
Depressed eyes provides ramp of the heart,
And kisses provide information from the heart to the shame (vagina),
Then considered to be a unifyingimportant point of intercourse,
And sweet kisses is the fluid derived on the lips and tongue
That subsequent offers mixed saliva with sweet taste
Of fresh and pleasant honey.
A nice poet noted to the point:
You may think that under her tongue
A weapon produces from it bewitch
You may think that resuming of her story,
Is like a censored pasture of flower
In order for these signs to emerge should be solely not less than thirty minutes or
more as a preparation for the beginning of first phase and remain enter phase two and
three and four, which is important for a husband to be patient and stop inserting the penis
into a vagina, if a husband feels to have not a mental self-control for premature ejaculation,
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and near to ejaculate can settle for a few moments to breathe and give it more time for a
desire to ejaculate when intended.
After a wife dropping down adequately and a great sign approches a husband can insert his
penis into a vagina, but continue to caresses the parts that he can access them easily, and
he must stop not to taste the tongue's flavor of his wife, he also must jig slowly her clitoris
and a wife lead her husband to do so, a husband also has obligation to jigger her wife thighs,
suck her ears, swipe the back of her knee, to have been slow exploit her cheeks, it is
necessary to play slowly in order to inhibit seed not to come out before before his wife, a
husband has to wait for his wife to start or release together, and a husband may observe at
the time to suck her breast, he must act with several techniques and need to be creative and
naughty with all his mind to ensure excitement of her wife. Your wife must be satisfied
and admits that you are her husband and her lover, the blessings of your home will grow
adequately. This is the assuarance not to be blamed and lack of integrity.
These kinds of romantic excitement it makes a husband to prove his colleague, not
only as the wife but in different circumstances, it is an assignment of his life with a wife
who eroded from problems next a lot of difficulties. At this point, a husband elect his
wife as a sole partner in the entire struggle to earn and spend what is obtained for a living,
and do also is be build faith to be the guardian of his children. When a husband reaches
a decision for such things he may extent a decision to carry her and hug her and pleasing
her on his hands for real happiness and lovely kisses.
Na mume akitekeleza wajibu wake ipasavyo na kumkifu mke kwa kumkinaisha kijinsia ndio pale
mwanamke anapokuonyesha heshima yote, kukuridhia kwa kila jambo katika maisha, na kukujaliya sio tu
mume wake, lakini msiri wake, rafiki yake,na vutio la burudisho la mais ha yake na moyo wake, hukuweka
katika mfumo maridadi na nadhifu,safi mfano wakemb’aa la mwezi,jambo ambalo Mola hufurahiana kutia
baraka wakati wako wote. Mola huwapa mapenzi watu wa aina hiyo yenye utulivu na huwachagua kuwa
kati ya waja wake anaowapenda, ikiwa awatunzia amali zao njema mahali maalum sawa na amali za
Mujahidina. Kama itavyojitokeza katikarehma inayofatiana maelezo ya kisa chaIbnu Mash-uum,kwa hivyo
huwa chanzo cha mafanikio yaliyoandaliwa kesho akhera.
When a husband performing his duties appropriately and telling her wife his
satisfaction in sex her wife in return will demonstrate all her respect. She will be ready for
everything in life, and pleasing him not only her husband, but his confidante, his friend,
and temptations of the refreshment of his life and his heart, she will puts her husband in
the form stylish and neat, clean like moon light. This is a kind of life which the Lord
delights and bless it all of aspects of couple's life time. The Lord will give such couple a
stable and being among His servants whom He loves. Their good deeds will stored in
special room similar to the deeds of Mujahideen. This will be clearly explained in the
story of Ibnu Mash-uum in the following chapter.
Allah the Lord has said in the hadeeth Qudsi:

42. 42
I am three to two but when there are cooperate with one another, but when a fraud
is given a room I exclude between them. (by blessing them not) (only remain un-ended
deficiencies and harassment).
Blessings of Allah remain when couple cooperates and impartiality maintained.
These are factors to yield wonderful love until who knows not relates it to herbs.
Poet denied it and says:
'Heart ordained with love have cure not,
Not amulet not bond
Neither the hug without intercourse,
Not only intercourse without kisses
And not with kisess without sex,
And not only intercourse without the kisses,
Or only kisses without intercourse.
Accessible cooperation results a husband to bind her wife and wife to bind her
husband. This is reflected by another poet who had followed the law and the principles of
love, realized the truth, and find him in trouble then inconvenience when he misses his
wife even for a few minutes. He remains inadequate, he sang with such resentment in
poetry praising his situation he had found his wife and her reactions even for a few
minutes.
Certainly, love close securely
Between my heart and her heart,
Nothing dilutes it,
I do not get a taste of live,
Save me I'm at her side,
I never lose hour pass,
Nor have I seen a female teenager,
Be courteous, courage
But calm and grace,
I've found has been completed.
These are aggressive is for a person who filled with love, reaching seem to think that
she is the his rib in particular which came from the creation of his beloved, for the anguish