Males don't understand a female's sensitivity

1. Elephant in the Woman
November 19, 2013
Millenniums of male testosterone abuse of the mother of all humanity is
not erased over night! All living life has the so called DNA of their
predecessors imprinted. When a child is born, and grows up under conditions that partially ʻmirrorʼ the
negative predisposition of those who came before, discord meets discord. Donʼt be fooled by all the
unbelievable technical manifestations as well as higher learning institutions at this time. Strip away the
ʻouterʼ, youʼll find mostly the same inner of humans that existed thousands of years ago. Humans, unlike
all other animal life though, have an innate ability to change. They are flexible, and have the abilities to
step out of the past into a revolution of the heart, mind, and consciousness.
A popular expression to use when there is something that is a problem which no one wants to take the
risk of discussing, but is obvious as a factor influencing everything is, the ʻʻelephant in the roomʼʼ. The
expression is a metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is usually ignored to the disadvantage of
truth.
The ʻelephant in the room with womenʼ is usually dismissed when males donʼt
understand ʻthingsʼ that donʼt equate to ʻmale thinkingʼ, and just chalk it up to some
sort of denigrating the female. Women, even in so called ʻadvanced
societiesʼ are the victims of abuse more than is commonly known.
Women Iʼve asked say 50-75% of them have had sexual abuse and/
or some type of violence perpetrated on them, and thatʼs in addition
to whatʼs buried in their subconscious passed on from generations
before.
A balanced, centered male treats the opposite sex as he would want
to be treated with the greatest empathy and sensitivity. Unfortunately,
there is very much ʻa line of fearʼ that most males cross with a woman
if she chooses to be friendly and open. Consequently, she withdraws in a close personal
relationship as well as socially with males. Both males and females become strangers with an occasional
smile, and very limited conversation. Both experience a different kind of frustration.
Both at this open and free time in history of exploring friendships have an incredible opening for each to
evolve in all ways. Stay in your heart with lightness, friendliness as well as sensitive humor thrown in.
Know and trust yourself to increase your chances of attracting likewise. Let go of all but practical fears.
Move your energy upward through the heart rather than ʻsit onʼ past hurts, and less than positive
experiences and opinions. Men and their testosterone insensitivity may be the primary problem for
females experience of males, but females need to raise their energy, and learn how to deal with males
who donʼt ʻget itʼ with a lightness of being, and a strength of being centered. Repelling and not seeing the
small minority of males who are sensitive, is to diminish the females chance of moving beyond negative
conditioning. Time to move beyond having the ʻelephant in the roomʼ of yourself, and enjoy a more
relaxed and loving life. After all, thatʼs why youʼre here!
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