1. July 27, 2013
Most couples, as time goes on, seem to find each other an ʻirritantʼ, and
a coupling that endures because of fear of being alone. Strangely,
couples become anesthetized against any love but from minds memory.
In the world of ʻproducts for saleʼ, there is a term called ʻrebateʼ, or a
return of part of the original payment for service or merchandise
previously acquired.
More and more people in freer societies are ʻloning itʼ, and not by preference, but after
one or more failed relationships leaving ʻoff springsʼ with a confusing description of who
is their parent, and who is the new non biological one, or ones.
Recently I met a very wonderful young middle age female Iʼll call Emily, who when I
asked about her parents, she just took a deep sigh. Emilyʼs mother and father
separated years ago. Mother married another man when Emily was a teenager. She
regards him as her father. He several years later divorced her mother because of
incompatibility - married another woman meaning the step father she refers to as her
dad now has a step mother who is ten years older than Emily. Emily
has a boy and girl in their twenties from a father who she divorced
years ago. That father is an alcoholic. My friends two kids
have graduated from college and are so far electing to
remain single. Iʼve simplified the above, itʼs even more
complicated!
Clinging to memories of ʻstart-upʼ loving romances, and
maintaining security through fears while lacking upward,
inner evolvements seems to be the standard since the
freer ʻindependentʼ movement of the 1970ʼs and ʼ80ʼs. Food spoils, as
well as love thatʼs not ʻdeep with mutual surrender and communicationʼ
spoils without being refreshed. Most love is like a movie trailer, pretty good on the
highlights, but who knows what the content will be from beginning to end?
Love often ends before it really has begun ... sadly! Want to find out who you are? Get a
romantic partner and live together. What you see is a mirror reflection of who you are!
Marriage is a ʻmirroringʼ! When it doesnʼt work, itʼs existence trying to tell you to wake
up, be in your heart, and find out whoʼs living inside your body instead of everyone
elseʼs opinion, and yours! There is no ʻcouplitisʼ when two people independently love
themselves ... apart from looking in the mirror of course. There is no end, and the
beginning hasnʼt started until the ego and itʼs games is let go of to make space for self
love!
# Yesss Self Love Center
# ArhataOsho.com
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