This PowerPoint Presentation was developed by Jonathan Sampson Chua, a Professionally Trained Coach, Motivational Speaker, and Financial Enthusiast, whose core values revolve around educating and empowering others on character and value formation.
This presentation was in line with a Talk done by Jonathan Sampson Chua for Enderun Colleges' Zonta Club.
I’ve often had a rough time when I was younger. I was transferred to school to school and my last high school was a co-ed school as I have always been in a male-oriented school. There was this girl that I fell for. I found her pretty, really sweet, cute, kind of sexy.. And let’s just say I confessed the week after.. Cause I mean.. You know.. As a ‘boy’, I found her really hot. I’ll admit that.. And we went out- we did have a great time- break up and getting back together almost every month or every other month.. It was tiring.. Hectic.. But you know- suspense, thrill.. The usual thing we all want in life.. Then, I told her after about a month that I love her.. I told her “I love you” during the time that I had no friends, I had no specific hobby.. I wasn’t necessarily a bad kid.. I was just bored with my life and you know she was the party girl type.. Full of suspense, adventure.. In short, and this I’ll admit.. I have my issues.. My insecurities.. I didn’t fit in well with people.. And so, since a friend of mine told me beforehand.. Hey.. She likes you.. I kind of went for her..
As I got to know her.. I just found more and more attractive.. The suspense just thrilled me.. And I couldn’t stop wanting her.. As if I couldn’t live without her.. The thing is.. I couldn’t live WITHOUT her.. What is that? When you love someone, be it for better or for worse- you’d give that person the best they deserve in life because YOU LOVE THEM..
I’ll admit.. I never loved her. It’s only now as I grew older that I truly now know the real value of love.. I simply saw her as a means for my insecurity.. I was lonely.. I was depressed.. I need someone to fill me up.. I chose her. And that’s something I regret…
I came from a Catholic school- all my life- and my parents and the Catholics there would always say “don’t do this, don’t do that, just don’t do it.. It’s bad, etc”.. So, I didn’t OUT OF FEAR.. Yet.. Somehow.. I was always tempted to do the things all the people were doing those days..
My friends always asked me.. Did you do it yet? Are you still a virgin? I was like yeah.. I’m still a virgin.. Aren’t you? They were like “No… virgins suck”.. I never understood that.. Until I said.. Why can’t I just lose my virginity to someone and you know be cool like everyone else?
Why can’t we? I mean, RIGHT? Why can’t we?
Let’s just lose our virginity since you know it’s just a restriction so that we won’t have cancer, aids, all those diseases.. I say.. It’s not a restriction.. It’s a value and it’s up to you on whether you want to take up this stand or not..
It is a value BECAUSE WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO VALUE PURITY- YOU ARE CHOOSING YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE THAT ONE SPOUSE YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE TO HAVE EVERYTHING.. And I want her to have everything.. Because when we love, there shouldn’t be restrictions to the love that we give.. It is freely given, freely taken- without conditions..
When you choose to value your purity- you’re choosing your wife over and over again. You’re choosing to place her at the height of your relationship. You’re making her you’re number 1 priority, and you’re respecting the value of a lady’s worth.