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What is it?
Jonathan Sampson Chua
What
is itexactly?
Is it simply about affections or is there moreto it than
meets the eye?
Stop.
Pause.
Think about it.
Because
You’re important.
And what you give.. YOUR
Love is definitely worth
MUCH MORE
Tip 1: Treasure love.
The Question Now
When can we say that the
love we have is real?
Three Things To
Remember
Loving Oneself
Loving Oneself
Purity
Loving Oneself
Purity
Commitment
Loving Oneself.
Importance of Loving Oneself
To safeguard yourself against
Insecurities
“I look ugly” “I am worthless”
“Everyone dislikes me”
These are never
Something you should NEVER say to
yourself.
Because you have value that is
irreplaceable.
An imperfection that is a gift
we should value
Personal Story.
Purity.
Restriction vs. Value
Why can’t I give everything to that
one girl I love- for that one girl- on
my wedding day?
Wouldn’t you want to make your
spouse feel REALLY SPECIAL on
that special day?
Intimacy
Commitment.
Meaningful
Saying YES to the GOOD of the other for the sake of
the other
Good Selfless Act.
Do you think all these are
Unreachable or Reachable?
It is Reachable
Struggle?
Yes
No Pain, No Gain
Believe.
Have the right mindset!
Love endlessly.
Thank you.

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Love? What is it?

Editor's Notes

  1. When we can’t love ourselves
  2. When we can’t love ourselves
  3. I’ve often had a rough time when I was younger. I was transferred to school to school and my last high school was a co-ed school as I have always been in a male-oriented school. There was this girl that I fell for. I found her pretty, really sweet, cute, kind of sexy.. And let’s just say I confessed the week after.. Cause I mean.. You know.. As a ‘boy’, I found her really hot. I’ll admit that.. And we went out- we did have a great time- break up and getting back together almost every month or every other month.. It was tiring.. Hectic.. But you know- suspense, thrill.. The usual thing we all want in life.. Then, I told her after about a month that I love her.. I told her “I love you” during the time that I had no friends, I had no specific hobby.. I wasn’t necessarily a bad kid.. I was just bored with my life and you know she was the party girl type.. Full of suspense, adventure.. In short, and this I’ll admit.. I have my issues.. My insecurities.. I didn’t fit in well with people.. And so, since a friend of mine told me beforehand.. Hey.. She likes you.. I kind of went for her.. As I got to know her.. I just found more and more attractive.. The suspense just thrilled me.. And I couldn’t stop wanting her.. As if I couldn’t live without her.. The thing is.. I couldn’t live WITHOUT her.. What is that? When you love someone, be it for better or for worse- you’d give that person the best they deserve in life because YOU LOVE THEM.. I’ll admit.. I never loved her. It’s only now as I grew older that I truly now know the real value of love.. I simply saw her as a means for my insecurity.. I was lonely.. I was depressed.. I need someone to fill me up.. I chose her. And that’s something I regret…
  4. I came from a Catholic school- all my life- and my parents and the Catholics there would always say “don’t do this, don’t do that, just don’t do it.. It’s bad, etc”.. So, I didn’t OUT OF FEAR.. Yet.. Somehow.. I was always tempted to do the things all the people were doing those days.. My friends always asked me.. Did you do it yet? Are you still a virgin? I was like yeah.. I’m still a virgin.. Aren’t you? They were like “No… virgins suck”.. I never understood that.. Until I said.. Why can’t I just lose my virginity to someone and you know be cool like everyone else? Why can’t we? I mean, RIGHT? Why can’t we? Let’s just lose our virginity since you know it’s just a restriction so that we won’t have cancer, aids, all those diseases.. I say.. It’s not a restriction.. It’s a value and it’s up to you on whether you want to take up this stand or not.. It is a value BECAUSE WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO VALUE PURITY- YOU ARE CHOOSING YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE THAT ONE SPOUSE YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE TO HAVE EVERYTHING.. And I want her to have everything.. Because when we love, there shouldn’t be restrictions to the love that we give.. It is freely given, freely taken- without conditions.. When you choose to value your purity- you’re choosing your wife over and over again. You’re choosing to place her at the height of your relationship. You’re making her you’re number 1 priority, and you’re respecting the value of a lady’s worth.
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