In the beginning, when my husband was undergoing brain surgery, I was the epitome of an “average” Canadian: I had no experience or education in the medical realm. I trusted, without question, that our health care system would always take care of him; would always do everything possible for his well being; would always keep him safe. But none of this was my experience. Suddenly I was thrust into a new role: advocate for my husband as we encountered problems, crises, errors, and roadblocks. It was not my intention, in writing my book, "The Fight of Our Life", to castigate the entire health care system but rather to point out some of the areas in which communication fails and mistakes are made (accidentally and frequently), all of which will require your own attention, caution, and persistence should you or a loved one face a medical crisis. Had I known more about the flaws in the system, the lessons I learned (so often too late) could have changed much of our story. Who speaks for you if something happens and you can not speak for yourself. Even if you are conscious, do you know what you need to know to be your own patient advocate? It is something you need to think about, because what you don't know CAN hurt you. For more information about Catherine Hawley and the book, please go to: http://thefightofourlife.ca Catherine is available for speaking engagements. Please contact her to request details at thefightofourlife@gmail.com