How to have a one night stand in 5 easy steps

How To Have a
One Night
Stand in 5 Easy
Steps

A wise man once stated, “Amateurs
study tactics. Professionals study
logistics.”
Truer words have never been spoken.
Let‟s discuss, right now, what we believe
to be the most important factor in the E-
Phase‟s (Evaluate, Extract & Escalate)
portion on “How To Have a One Night
Stand”: Logistics.

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In our PUA bootcamps, we do a very
simple exercise designed to both
facilitate the pull and to illustrate how
simple the pickup process is. For the
sake of time (and the human attention
span), let‟s do a condensed version of
that exercise to help you achieve your
first one night stand RIGHT AWAY.
This is not the full exercise that we do in
our PUA bootcamps, but it‟s the super
simple version. I‟m going to break your
night down into 5 steps.

Before we get to the actual process, I
want you to imagine yourself at home, in
bed, just having slept with a new girl you
just met at a club for a one night stand.
You guys had several hours of
crazy, passionate, animalistic, SAFE sex
and now you‟re lying in a puddle of lusty
lovejuices, her arm draped restfully
across your chest, feeling your heartbeat
in a romantic trance (in other words, a
whole lot of the F-Phase (Future: Fun! or
Fake?!).

From this scene of serenity and
accomplishment, we‟re going to work
BACKWARDS. We are going to
REVERSE ENGINEER SUCCESS!
Much like the life of Merlin the magician
(nerd alert!), we‟re going to go back in
time, observing all our movements with
this girl. Keep in mind, this is not a
hypnotic exercise; this is designed to iron
out the most important element of your
logistics.

Step 1) How did you get the girl into
your bedroom?
You‟ve just slept with her but, of
course, you needed to get her into your
bedroom in some way (sure, you could
go at it on the couch or in the hot-tub or
on the kitchen counter, if you‟re
frisky, but let‟s just go with the basics).


What was your excuse or method? This
could be anything from, “Hey, let’s go in
my room so we don’t wake up my
roommate” to simply picking her up and
carrying her in. Either way, figure out a
method and write it down.
And the MOST important element of any
real man‟s Game is… Where‟s your
condom(s)?


Put them in your nightstand, under the
lamp, or (my favorite) taped behind the
head board. But
ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS have
condoms handy! It‟s not only for her
protection but also YOURS.

There‟s never any good excuse to have
unprotected sex no matter how attractive
and wonderful a stranger she is.


Step 2) How did you make the girl
comfortable in your apartment?
A girl stepping into your apartment after
the club for a one night stand is always
going to be on edge; it‟s instinct.
Therefore, it‟s our duty as men to make
her comfortable. When she‟s
comfy, she‟ll be more willing to open up
and let things happen. Being both
Dominant and then Disqualifying to put
her at ease is a great start to the D-
Phase (Dominance, Direct Intent &
Disqualify).

If she‟s using her logical mind, she‟s
going to be wary of any kind of advances
and is much less likely to „go with the
flow‟. Whether it be a glass of wine or
some fun, upbeat music, figure out your
method and write it down.
And for the love of all that is good and
holy, make sure your bathroom is
CLEAN!


Step 3) How did you bounce the girl
to your apartment from the club?
Transportation is the biggest hang-up of
same night lays and one night stands, so
let‟s get it on lock before even going out.


You‟ve already been with this girl, so how
did you get to your place from the bar?
Did you drive?
If so, did you drink (DON’T DRINK AND
DRIVE)?
Do you have cab money?
How far away is it?


We can‟t rely on her driving your ass, so
be prepared in advance. Along with
writing down your mode of
transport, make sure you make a note to
find out her situation, as well, she may
have driven her friends or herself, so it
might behoove you to figure out the
parking situation for either of your cars.


Step 4) How did you isolate the girl
in the club?
We‟re certainly not going to do the
majority of gaming in front of her
friends, so we‟re going to need to isolate
her if we‟re going to pursue the one night
stand. Remember that you‟ve already
brought this girl home and had success
with her, so you‟re simply answering the
question of „How did you isolate her?„ in
order to put it down on the list.

My favorite is the standard, “My feet
hurt, let’s go sit over there?” but you can
choose any way you‟d like. Write that
down, too.


But basically, the key component of any
solid C-Game (Compliance, Comfort &
Connect) is your ability to consistently
and always ISOLATE a girl.
After all, if you can‟t approach a girl and
move her 20 feet to an isolated
couch, how are you going to drive her
home 5 miles away? Learn to always
scope our your tactical club logistics, find
your isolation zone, and isolate her!


Step 5) How did you open the girl?
This is the final step of the exercise and
the LEAST important part of the
interaction. You‟ve already isolated this
girl, taken her home, made her
comfortable in your apartment and had a
little How‟s Your Father, but what did you
say that started the ball rolling?


Like I said, we‟re not a company of „lines
to get you laid„, so I‟ll let you decide
what to say to make this all possible.
For more information on sticking your
approaches, read about the A-Phase
(Attitude, Attract then Approach). If
you‟re having trouble bantering or you‟re
constantly getting stuck inside your
head, check out the B-Phase (Be In The
Moment, Banter & Buying Temperature).


That‟s it, folks; five easy steps to getting
you laid without micromanaging lines or
routines or gambits or games.

This plan will allow you to incorporate
any style of game you run and all of your
field-tested tactics into the framework
that will make it all possible.


Not only is this a fun and simple exercise
you can do to plot out the roadmap of
your one night stand, it‟s also a perfect
representation of what the ABCs Of
Attraction stands for; getting YOU laid as
simply as possible without compromising
who YOU are as a person.


You see, there are hundreds and
hundreds of
websites, articles, books, videos, and
CDs out there designed to get you laid.
Most of these products focus on your
„Inner Game‟ and a huge percentage of
the others teach you what to say and
when to say it.


Since you‟ve been following the ABCs Of
Attraction, you know that we teach a
holistic style of game that focuses not on
what to say or how to say it, but on
where we want to physically and
emotionally take a woman.
This is why our students make such solid
progress so quickly and it is why, after a
weekend with us, our students are
approaching beautiful women and
hooking them with a smile and the age-
old opener “Hi”.

This is Individual Power, not the
power of lines or routines.
That being said, there are still specifics
which must be calculated in order to
achieve the goal of taking a woman
home. Other companies teach the
routines to incorporate while working
towards this goal, but miss the biggest
part of the successful execution of the
act of bringing a girl home.


When YOU are ready to step up to the
plate, sign up for one of our bootcamps
in your city and join the growing elite
fraternity of ABCs graduates!
Good luck!

http://www.abcsofattraction.com/


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