1. Pertemuan Keenam
Family Traditions
Tuliskan sebanyak mungkin
aktivitas-aktivitas atau
peristiwa-peristiwa yang
berlangsung secara teratur
dan memiliki arti spesial
bagi keluarga Anda
2. Family Traditions
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tradisi yang ingin Anda lebih
sering melakukannya dan beri
tanda silang (x) untuk tradisi
yang ingin dibatasi, bahkan
dihilangkan
3. Family Traditions
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pernah dilakukan dalam
keluarga saat ini, ingin Anda
miliki dan kembangkan dalam
keluarga yang akan Anda bina
5. Family Commitment
• Members of strong families generally
show a strong commitment to one
another, investing time and energy
in family activities, and not letting
their work or other priorities take
too much time away from family
interaction
6. Family Commitment
• “My wife and kids are the most
important part of my life” ;
• “What we have as a family is a
treasure” ;
• “We give each other the freedom and
encouragement to pursue individual
goals” ;
• “Yet either of us would cut activities
or goals that threatened our time
together”
7. Family Commitment
• Commitment includes sexual fidelity.
“Being faithful to each other sexually is
just a part of being honest with each
other.
• Commitment to the sexual relationship
within marriage is a very important
aspect of marital strength.
8. Family Commitment
• Commitment is a continual growing of a
relationship, involving the willingness and
ability to work together.
• Commitment involves give-and-take in order
to be together and nurture the marriage
relationship.
9. Family Commitment
• Commitment involves the promotion of
growth of other family members:
• Commitment to success is an essential
component in the formation of strong
marriages and strong families.
10. Family Commitment ?
• Commitment to the family involves the
participation of family members in a
worldview that encompasses more
than only self-centered interest.
11. Family Commitment ?
• Menempatkan (keutuhan/ kesatuan)
keluarga sebagai prioritas utama
• Pengorbanan:
kemampuan
menempatkan kepentingan orang lain
di atas kepentingan sendiri
12. The Advantage of Family
Commitment
• Menciptakan
suasana
(rasa)
aman, nyaman dan percaya
• Membantu setiap orang dalam keluarga
merasa berharga, dekat dan hangat: setiap
orang menjadi bagian dari keluarga dan setiap
bagian itu berharga
13. What is a Marriage ?
• The emotional and legal commitment of two people
• To share emotional and physical intimacy, various
tasks, and economic resources
14. What is a Family ?
Two or more persons who share
resources, responsibility for
decisions, values and goals, and
commit to one another over time
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15. CLASS ASSIGNMENT
DISKUSIKAN DALAM KELOMPOK
• Bagaimana perspektif Islam melihat
komitmen terhadap pernikahan dan
keluarga?
• Bagaimana
usaha-usaha
untuk
meningkatkan dan memelihara komitmen
terhadap pernikahan keluarga?
16. Family Tree
Buatlah silsilah keluarga
• Berasal dari daerah mana nenek moyang
(keluarga besar) Anda
• Bagaimana
kehidupan
mereka
(pekerjaan, gaya hidup, dll)
• Cari di buku, majalah, tape, film atau
gambar
tentang
hal-hal
yang
berhubungan dengan daerah asal nenek
moyang Anda
