Pertemuan keenam psikologi_keluarga

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Pertemuan keenam psikologi_keluarga

  1. 1. Pertemuan Keenam Family Traditions Tuliskan sebanyak mungkin aktivitas-aktivitas atau peristiwa-peristiwa yang berlangsung secara teratur dan memiliki arti spesial bagi keluarga Anda
  2. 2. Family Traditions Berita tanda bintang () untuk tradisi yang ingin Anda lebih sering melakukannya dan beri tanda silang (x) untuk tradisi yang ingin dibatasi, bahkan dihilangkan
  3. 3. Family Traditions Tuliskan tradisi baru yang belum pernah dilakukan dalam keluarga saat ini, ingin Anda miliki dan kembangkan dalam keluarga yang akan Anda bina
  4. 4. Pertemuan Keenam Family Commitment Irwan Nuryana Kurniawan Program Studi Psikologi Universitas Islam Indonesia
  5. 5. Family Commitment • Members of strong families generally show a strong commitment to one another, investing time and energy in family activities, and not letting their work or other priorities take too much time away from family interaction
  6. 6. Family Commitment • “My wife and kids are the most important part of my life” ; • “What we have as a family is a treasure” ; • “We give each other the freedom and encouragement to pursue individual goals” ; • “Yet either of us would cut activities or goals that threatened our time together”
  7. 7. Family Commitment • Commitment includes sexual fidelity. “Being faithful to each other sexually is just a part of being honest with each other. • Commitment to the sexual relationship within marriage is a very important aspect of marital strength.
  8. 8. Family Commitment • Commitment is a continual growing of a relationship, involving the willingness and ability to work together. • Commitment involves give-and-take in order to be together and nurture the marriage relationship.
  9. 9. Family Commitment • Commitment involves the promotion of growth of other family members: • Commitment to success is an essential component in the formation of strong marriages and strong families.
  10. 10. Family Commitment ? • Commitment to the family involves the participation of family members in a worldview that encompasses more than only self-centered interest.
  11. 11. Family Commitment ? • Menempatkan (keutuhan/ kesatuan) keluarga sebagai prioritas utama • Pengorbanan: kemampuan menempatkan kepentingan orang lain di atas kepentingan sendiri
  12. 12. The Advantage of Family Commitment • Menciptakan suasana (rasa) aman, nyaman dan percaya • Membantu setiap orang dalam keluarga merasa berharga, dekat dan hangat: setiap orang menjadi bagian dari keluarga dan setiap bagian itu berharga
  13. 13. What is a Marriage ? • The emotional and legal commitment of two people • To share emotional and physical intimacy, various tasks, and economic resources
  14. 14. What is a Family ? Two or more persons who share resources, responsibility for decisions, values and goals, and commit to one another over time 1
  15. 15. CLASS ASSIGNMENT DISKUSIKAN DALAM KELOMPOK • Bagaimana perspektif Islam melihat komitmen terhadap pernikahan dan keluarga? • Bagaimana usaha-usaha untuk meningkatkan dan memelihara komitmen terhadap pernikahan keluarga?
  16. 16. Family Tree Buatlah silsilah keluarga • Berasal dari daerah mana nenek moyang (keluarga besar) Anda • Bagaimana kehidupan mereka (pekerjaan, gaya hidup, dll) • Cari di buku, majalah, tape, film atau gambar tentang hal-hal yang berhubungan dengan daerah asal nenek moyang Anda

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