Applying 7 habits for Teens

1. IN LIFE
7 SURVIVAL HABITS

2. WHY DO WE NEED TO
SURVIVE?
•I’m not doing too well in
school right now.
•If I don’t get my grades up, I’ll
never get into college.
•Someone else is
smarter/prettier/ more
popular.

3. WHAT ARE HABITS?
Sow a thought & you reap an
act
Sow an act & you reap a habit
Sow a habit & your reap a
character
Sow a character & you reap a
destiny

4. HABITS
•Are things that you do REPEATEDLY
•Are things which we are hardly
aware of
•Are things which react with
autopilot mode
•But, WE are STRONGER than our
HABITS

5. 3 IMPORTANT ELEMENTS
•Others
•Your self
•Your
personal
values
• “Penyebab 90% Orang
GAGAL dalam
KEHIDUPAN adalah
kegagalan dalam
membina HUBUNGAN
BAIK dengan orang” –
Les Giblin
• “SUKA atau TIDAK, tetap
ada ORANG LAIN
DISINI” – Les Giblin

6. THE 7 HABITS
1. Be Proactive
2. Begin with the END
in mind
3. Put First Things First
4. Think Win Win
5. Seek First to
Understand, then
to be Understood
6. Synergize
7. Sharpen the saw

7. 1. BE PROACTIVE
•Take initiative.
•Manage
change.
•Take
responsibility for
your life.

8. PROACTIVE
How about YOU?

9. PROACTIVE
Bahasa Reaktif Bahasa Proaktif
Nggak ada yang dapat
gue Lakukan
Memang Begitulah gue
Dia membuat gue Marah
Mereka nggak ngasih Izin
Gue Terpaksa melakukan itu
Ada Alternatif lain nggak
Ya?
Gue bisa berubah
Gue bisa ngendaliin
Perasaan gue
Gue akan negosiasi lagi
Gue akan milih tindakan
yang tepat

10. PROACTIVE
As a student & Teacher
1. 2 times Student Achievement Award
2. Initiate new student activity programs
3. Take the chance as leader
4. Initiate 4 programs in a year
5. Willingness to do menial work
6. Teaching students in/outside the class

11. 2. BEGIN WITH THE END
IN MIND
•Define Mission & Goals in
life.
•Set measurable goals.
•Align goals to priorities.
•Focus on desired outcomes.

12. BEGIN WITH THE END IN
MIND
How about YOU?

13. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND
As a student & Teacher
•Write goals for each subject
•Set measurable Grade for courses
•Write my yearly work objectives
•Write my objectives for my
students
•Evaluate my goals & its visibility

14. 3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST
•Prioritize.
•Focus on important activities.
•Apply effective planning and
prioritization skills.
•Use planning tools effectively.

15. FIRST THING FIRST
HOW ABOUT YOU?

16. PRIORITIZE OR PERISH
•Step 1: Identify your BIG
ROCKS
•Step 2: Block out Time for
your BIG ROCKS
•Step 3: Schedule Everything
Else

17. PUT FIRST THING FIRST
As a student & teacher
•Make monthly plan/agenda
•Prioritize assignment & make time
table
•Write my daily plan every morning
•The first 10 minutes in life everyday
will affect the entire day

18. 4. THINK WIN-WIN
•Don’t directly
JUDGE
•Have an
everyone-can-
win attitude

19. THINK WIN-WIN
WHAT DO YOU THINK?

20. THINK WIN-WIN
• When leading others,
think of their needs
• RULE: “You pass the
subject, I pay the
Tuition”
• Help friends with
expecting nothing in
return
• When teaching
students: “Respect
need to be gained”

21. 5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND,
THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD
•Listen with your eyes, heart, &
ears – beyond the surface
•Stand in their shoes
•Apply effective interpersonal
communication.

22. UNDERSTAND -
UNDERSTOOD
How will we do it?

23. UNDERSTAND & THEN TO BE
UNDERSTOOD
•Really listen to your friends
ideas
•Giving critics using SANDWICH
•Communicate viewpoints
effectively “YOU”
attitude/positive methods

24. 6. SYNERGIZE
•Work together to achieve
more.
•Value differences.
•Build on divergent strengths

25. SYNERGIZE
How can you apply it?

26. SYNERGIZE
•When you work together (i.e.
Doing assignments) – Participate
Actively and support others
•Respect others (believe/values)
•Listen – evaluate ideas – combine
•None of us is as good as US

27. 7. SHARPEN THE SAW
•Achieve life balance.
•Take Time for Time out.
•Caring for your Body
•You are what you EAT.
•Trust in GOD.

28. SHARPEN THE SAW
What is your method?

29. SHARPEN THE SAW
•Physical
•Mental
•Emotional
•Spiritual

30. THE 8TH HABIT
Find your Voice
& Inspire Others
to find Theirs