1. If you live in a remote area where there are only
small towns nearby, then it only stands to reason
that your chances of meeting someone special
are not as good as someone else who lives in a
large metropolitan area. The added comfort and
support of a partner can be invaluable should you
have difficulties at work or go through a
particularly tough time. There is also the matter of
financial security, knowing that you're not on your
own should anything go wrong.
2. One of the standard way to meet someone of the opposite sex is to go to a
singles party If you're very attractive it's easy to walk away with a date What
many people notice when they go is how hard it is to meet someone at such
an event If you're single and have had difficulty in the past meeting other
singles you are not alone The obvious meeting places may not be the best
places to meet single people unless you are only looking for a one-night stand
Bars and other meat markets may be a great place to meet someone for a
discrete encounter but rarely do these meetings between singles ever develop
beyond that encounter Events for Active Singles: If you are an active single
you may consider an event-based service
3. There are several matchmaker services that sponsor hiking, bicycling, rafting,
and other activities as a way to spend time with other single people These
methods are a great way to spend time with other singles Speed Dating:
Speed dating has grown in popularity in recent years as a safe and fun way to
meet single people This type of matchmaker service spawns a good selection
of potential dates People that you meet in a Speed Dating event are from your
city and state Most event planners attempt to group singles by demographics
such as age, sexual orientation, and social background
4. Online Dating and Online Matchmaker services: Online dating services and
online matchmaker services provide a further extension of those safe methods
of meeting other single people Some online dating services offer off-line
venues such as the ones mentioned above Combining event-sponsored
activities, speed dating and online methods of meeting like-minded singles is
the best mixture for being successful in your dating pursuits Take advantage
of all the services available for singles Avoid the pitfalls of blind dates, and
one night stands Your best online dating services will offer dating and
matchmaking beyond the online experience so select a service which offers
more than a profile and a picture
5. Most people are creatures of habit They go to work the same way every day
They sit in the same seats in their classes They associate with the same
people in singles groups They spend their free time the same way week in
and week out If you're not meeting people, or the right people, it's time to not
only look at becoming more assertive, but also at changing up some of your
routines, and bringing a change of environment, attitude, and approach into
your life, which will make a huge difference and provide some fresh
opportunities to meet someone
6. Everyone needs to feel loved and supported-especially as we grow older As
we age, friends truly can be lifesavers The friend who brings the chicken soup
makes as much difference in feeling better faster as the soup itself
Conversation, sharing, being in touch with others who have active, involved
lives gives living a purpose Sharing with friends helps multiply the joys and
divide the sorrows