Success In LifePositive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health,happiness and satisfac...
Watch movies that make you feel happy.        Minimize the time you listen to the news and read the papers.        Associa...
Nothing can stand in the way of absolute belief and confidence.Your inner world controls your outer world. Learn to improv...
Attaining good health, love, good relationships, promotion, status, money and possessions, andrealizing desires and ambiti...
To think negatively is like taking a weakening drug.Positive thoughts are not enough. There have to be positive feelings a...
Happy thoughts attract happy people into your life.Happy thoughts fill your life with happiness.When you change your habit...
Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure. But its only kept a secret from theperson who fails.Robert HalfNev...
Who controls who? It is the Spirit controlling the lower nature.Discipline is the rejection of instant gratification in fa...
In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was overthemselves...self-discipline with all o...
Discipline is remembering what you want.David CampbellFirst we form habits, then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or...
Nothing strengthens the judgment and quickens the conscience like individualresponsibility.Elizabeth Cady StantonNever tro...
Getting motivated is like starting the engine of a car and beginning to move.Getting motivated is one of the most importan...
Reading inspiring and motivating stories awaken the desire to take action and do things.Stories about people who have achi...
A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where theydont necessarily want to go but ought t...
A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way.John C. MaxwellThe great leaders are like the best condu...
Leaders arent born they are made. And they are made just like anything else, throughhard work. And thats the price well ha...
Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.Alexander SmithLove cures people - bo...
You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.BuddhaLove is the great miracle c...
I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are yourgreatest treasures.Lao TzuPatienc...
Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself.St. Francis de SalesMost men pursue pleasure with s...
other.John Christian MorgensternQuotes of ParentingTo bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself o...
To me parenting is all about trust. If you dont live by your words or actions how do youexpect your kids to listen to you?...
Parents: People who spend half their time wondering how their children will turn out, andthe rest of the time when they wi...
Rudeness is the weak mans imitation of strength.Eric HofferThe intoxication of anger, like that of the grape, shows us to ...
The degree of ones emotion varies inversely with ones knowledge of the facts: the lessyou know the hotter you get.Bertrand...
Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.SenecaQuotes on KindnessKindne...
Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expressionof Gods kindness: kindness in your...
Love and kindness are never wasted.Barbara DeAngelisNo one has yet realized the wealth of sympathy, the kindness and gener...
Give your brain some rest by switching off the movements of the mind.Stop your thoughts, but stay awake, and you will expe...
Do you need or enjoy fear, worries and restlessness? If you dont, then why do you keepinviting them into your mind?As the ...
We live in the present, we dream of the future, but we learn eternal truths from the past.May-lin Soong ChiangKnowing othe...
Some of the best lessons we ever learn are learned from past mistakes. The error of thepast is the wisdom and success of t...
Living your life without a plan is like watching television with someone else holding theremote control.Peter TurlaAll tim...
To do two things at once is to do neither.Publius SyrusAnything that is wasted effort represents wasted time. The best man...
The mind is like a machine that never shuts down. Does the engine of your car or yourvacuum cleaner work incessantly, twen...
inner vision.It is possible, through proper means, to teach the mind to think only when it is necessary,for the period of ...
If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnectyourself from what you truly want, and ...
An executive is a person who always decides; sometimes he decides correctly, but healways decides.John H. PattersonIts in ...
When you have to make a choice and dont make it, that is in itself a choice.William JamesThere is a time when we must firm...
It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy.Your thoughts and worries hide away your happiness.If you smile whi...
Choose happiness, concentrate on happiness and you will find it everywhere.Let the joy in your heart overflow and water ev...
Most of us serve our ideals by fits and starts. The person who makes a success of living isone who sees his goal steadily ...
There are those who travel and those who are going somewhere. They are different andyet they are the same. The success has...
Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappearand obstacles vanish into air.John Qu...
Conscience is the root of all true courage; if a man would be brave let him obey hisconscience.James Freeman ClarkeWith co...
Self confidence is the power that makes you dare, try and do.Remez SassonWhether you think you can or think you cant, your...
First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, I believe.Norman Vincent PealeHappiness and self-confidence come ...
The natural flights of the human mind are not from pleasure to pleasure but from hope tohope.Samuel JohnsonThere is no med...
You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true. Youmay have to work for it, however.Ri...
Spending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itself and createorder.Susan TaylorInner peace can be re...
Learn silence. With the quiet serenity of a meditative mind, listen, absorb, transcribe, andtransform.PythagorasThe real s...
There are times when silence has the loudest voice.Leroy BrownlowThere are some virtues to not saying what you think all t...
We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friendof silence. See how nature-trees, ...
Life isnt about keeping score.Its not about how many friends you haveOr how accepted you are.Not about if you have plans t...
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action that one repeats again and again. This creates a groove in the unconsciousmind and forms an unconscious habit. Unco...
body and then affects the mind, but sex originates in the mind and then is expressedthrough the body. If our mind is balan...
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  1. 1. Success In LifePositive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health,happiness and satisfaction. It also helps the daily affairs of life move more smoothly, andmakes life look bright and promising.Positive thinking is contagious. People around you pick your mental moods and areaffected accordingly. Think about happiness, good health and success, and you will causepeople to like you and desire to help you, because they enjoy the vibrations that a positivemind emits.In order to make positive thinking yield results, you need to develop a positive attitudetoward life, expect a successful outcome of whatever you do, but also take any necessaryactions to ensure your success.Effective positive thinking that brings results is much more than just repeating a fewpositive words, or telling yourself that everything is going to be all right. It has to be yourpredominant mental attitude. It is not enough to think positively for a few moments, andthen letting fears and lack of belief enter your mind. Some effort and inner work arenecessary.Are you willing to make a real inner change?Are you willing to change the way you think?Are you willing to develop a mental power that can positively affect you, yourenvironment and the people around you?Here are a few actions and tips to help you develop the power of positivethinking: Always use only positive words while thinking and while talking. Use words such as, I can, I am able, it is possible, it can be done, etc. Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success. Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Refuse to think such thoughts, and substitute them with constructive happy thoughts. In your conversation use words that evoke feelings and mental images of strength, happiness and success. Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in your mind its successful outcome. If you visualize with concentration and faith, you will be amazed at the results. Read at least one page of inspiring book every day.
  2. 2. Watch movies that make you feel happy. Minimize the time you listen to the news and read the papers. Associate yourself with people who think positively. Always sit and walk with your back straight. This will strengthen your confidence and inner strength. Walk, swim or engage in some other physical activity. This helps to develop a more positive attitude.Think positive and expect only favorable results and situations, even if your currentcircumstances are not as you wish them to be. In time, your mental attitude will affectyour life and circumstances and change them accordingly.Success QuotesWhen the mind thinks of success, the outside world mirrors these thoughts.Success is the outcome of thinking, visualizing, planning and taking action.Your mind is the generator of failure, and also the generator of success.What you think today is what you live tomorrow.Happy thoughts make your life happy. Miserable thoughts make your life miserable.The image you have of yourself is responsible for the way people see and treat you.Choose your thoughts carefully; they are the builders of your life.Success manifests also in small daily events, not only in the accomplishment of great ambitions.The mental movie in your mind is the cause of everything that happens to you.Nurturing a feeling of success attracts it into your life.
  3. 3. Nothing can stand in the way of absolute belief and confidence.Your inner world controls your outer world. Learn to improve your inner world, and your outerworld would be affected too.The mental movie that you play in your mind is the life that you will live tomorrow.When you rehearse failure in your mind, you meet failure.When you rehearse success in your mind, you experience it in your life.Thoughts fuelled by desire and motivation make things happen.What you get is determined by the scope of your thoughts.Success is not only more money, promotion and social status. It is also more happiness,harmonious relationships and spiritual growth.Change the mental movie that you keep viewing in your mind to one that you like. Keep playingit in your mind, and before you know it, the movie turns into reality.Do not undervalue the importance of success in small matters. It proves to you that withpersistence, greater success is possible too.Play a movie of success in the projection room of your mind, and soon this movie will turn intoreality.Your mental movies are the trailers of the future.Your thoughts and mental images create your circumstances. Master your thoughts and mentalimages, and you gain power over your circumstances.Attaining peace of mind, happiness, satisfaction, inner strength, spiritual enlightenment andrealizing the inner self is spiritual success.
  4. 4. Attaining good health, love, good relationships, promotion, status, money and possessions, andrealizing desires and ambitions is material success.Your outer circumstances are the mirror of your inner world. Change your inner world, and youchange your outer world.Ambition is the fuel the feed your thoughts, visualization and actions.Willpower, persistence, patience and work bring your desires into manifestation.Visualize your goals clearly, add desire and faith, and you will surely achieve them.Positive Thinking QuotesThe difference between can and cannot are only three letters. Three letters that determineyour lifes direction.Being positive or negative are habits of thoughts that have a very strong influence on life.Positive and negative are directions. Which direction do you choose?Positive thinking is expecting, talking and visualizing with certainty what you want toachieve, as an accomplished fact.Riches, mediocrity and poverty begin in the mind.Reality is the mirror of your thoughts. Choose well what you put in front of the mirror.The mind is the decisive factor in your life, but who decides for the mind?A positive attitude brings strength, energy and initiative.
  5. 5. To think negatively is like taking a weakening drug.Positive thoughts are not enough. There have to be positive feelings and positive actions.When you say, "I cant" and expect the worst, you become weak and unhappy.When you say "I can", and expect success, you fill yourself with confidence andhappiness.Being resolute, decisive and courageous in small matters and in big ones is beingpositive.You can close the windows and darken your room, and you can open the windows and letlight in. It is a matter of choice. Your mind is your room. Do you darken it or do you fillit with light?Positive thinking and negative thinking are attitudes. They are points of view, and showthe way people handle their affairs.Suppose you stand at a crossroads, one way leads to a desert and the other one to lushmeadows, which way do you choose?Clear thoughts produce clear results.Positive thinking evokes more energy, more initiative and more happiness.Visualize and AchieveLearn how to visualize and achieve your dreams and goals!Train your mind to think in terms of possible and can be done.When you have control over your thoughts, you have control over your life.
  6. 6. Happy thoughts attract happy people into your life.Happy thoughts fill your life with happiness.When you change your habitual thoughts, it is like changing the direction of a train.Affirm the positive, visualize the positive and expect the positive, and your life willchange accordingly.When there are difficulties and you feel down, this is the time to visualize, think andexpect the positive.Do not let circumstances influence your thoughts and moods. By rising over themmentally, you will eventually rise over them materially.Fill your mind with light, happiness, hope, feelings of security and strength, and soonyour life will reflect these qualities.Reading inspiring quotes uplifts the mind.Repeating inspiring quotes during the day, helps to better cope with every situation thatarises.The power of positive thinking is like a car with a powerful engine that can take you tothe summit of a mountain.Quotes On LazinessKnow the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, nolaziness, no procrastination: never put off till to-morrow what you can do to-day.Lord Chesterfield
  7. 7. Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure. But its only kept a secret from theperson who fails.Robert HalfNever be entirely idle; but either be reading, or writing, or praying or meditating orendeavoring something for the public good.Thomas a KempisPeriods of wholesome laziness, after days of energetic effort, will wonderfully tone upthe mind and body.Grenville KleiserWhen we hold back out of laziness, that is when we tie ourselves into knots of boredom.Walter AnnenbergWhenever there is a hard job to be done I assign it to a lazy man; he is sure to find aneasy way of doing it.Walter ChryslerThe time will come when winter will ask you what you were doing all summer.Henry ClayThe idle man does not know what it is to enjoy rest.Albert EinsteinShun idleness. It is a rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals.VoltaireA lazy person, whatever the talents with which he starts out, have condemned himself tosecond-rate thoughts, and to second-rate friends.Cyril ConnollyQuotes On Self-ControlSelf control is the rejection of anger, intolerance and impulsiveness.Whoever is able to rise above anger, gets closer to inner peace.Self control ultimately leads to detachment and peace of mind.
  8. 8. Who controls who? It is the Spirit controlling the lower nature.Discipline is the rejection of instant gratification in favor of something better and higher.Controlling the lower nature is of great importance to anyone desiring to have goodrelationships.Letting anger and impatience run riot create trouble, unpleasant situations and the loss offriends.You dont control negative habits with force. You do so by developing new, good habits.Transform your negative habits into positive ones, through affirmations, visualization andpositive behavior.Impatience leads to regret and unhappiness.Patience and perseverance lead to success and achieving your goals.Self control saves you of mistakes, embarrassment and loss.Quotes on Self-DisciplineTalent without discipline is like an octopus on roller skates. Theres plenty of movement,but you never know if its going to be forward, backwards, or sideways.H. Jackson Brown, Jr.Self-discipline is crucial to a simpler, more contented life.Tenzin Gyatso
  9. 9. In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was overthemselves...self-discipline with all of them came first.Harry S TrumanDiscipline really means our ability to get ourselves to do things when we dont want.Arden MahlbergBy constant self-discipline and self-control you can develop greatness of character.Grenville KleiserIt is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. Itcannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.BuddhaSelf-discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you dont control what youthink, you cant control what you do. Simply, self-discipline enables you to think first andact afterward.Napolean HillIf youre not willing to accept your own discipline, youre not going to accomplish twopercent of what you could - and youre going to miss out on 98% of the good things youcould have.Tom HopkinsOne half of life is luck; the other half is discipline - and thats the important half, forwithout discipline you wouldnt know what to do with your luck.Carl ZuckmayerSelf-respect is the root of discipline: The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say noto oneself.Abraham JoshuaYour mental attitude is something you can control outright and you must use selfdiscipline until you create a positive mental attitude - your mental attitude attracts to youeverything that makes you what you are.Napoleon HillSome form of self-discipline is necessary to transmute material desires into spiritualaspirations.Paramahansa YoganandaMental toughness is many things and rather difficult to explain. Its qualities are sacrificeand self-denial. Also, most importantly, it is combined with a perfectly disciplined willthat refuses to give in. Its a state of mind-you could call it character in action.Vince Lombar
  10. 10. Discipline is remembering what you want.David CampbellFirst we form habits, then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or theyll eventuallyconquer.Rob GilbertSelf-discipline is a form of freedom. Freedom from laziness and lethargy, freedom fromthe expectations and demands of others, freedom from weakness and fear-and doubt.Self-discipline allows a pitcher to feel his individuality, his inner strength, his talent. Heis master of, rather than a slave to, his thoughts and emotions.H.A. DorfmanQuotes on ResponsibiltyStay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.Tom RobbinsYou must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, theseasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.Jim RohnThe willingness to accept responsibility for ones own life is the source from which self-respect springs.Joan DidionIt is easy to dodge our responsibilities, but we cannot dodge the consequences of dodgingour responsibilities.Josiah Charles StampTake your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.Erica JongFreedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves.Friedrich Nietzsche
  11. 11. Nothing strengthens the judgment and quickens the conscience like individualresponsibility.Elizabeth Cady StantonNever trouble another for what you can do for yourself.Thomas JeffersonRank does not confer privilege or give power. It imposes responsibility.Louis ArmstrongNo man is fit to command another that cannot command himself.William PennThe price of greatness is responsibility.Winston ChurchillA true gentleman makes demands upon himself but not upon others.ConfuciusTo know what is right and not do it is the worst cowardice.ConfuciusKnowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others isstrength; mastering yourself is true power.Lao-TzuQuotes on MotivationMotivation awakens excitement, happiness, positive expectations and energy.
  12. 12. Getting motivated is like starting the engine of a car and beginning to move.Getting motivated is one of the most important steps toward getting what you want.A persistent strong desire pushes your goal into manifestation.Success requires that you have a motivating inner power to push you forward.Motivation, backed by good planning and correct action leads to success.It is important that you motivate yourself only towards worthy and positive goals that willbenefit you and others.Motivation is the electrical power that activates the engine of success.Emotions, feelings and desires are the powers that push people to take action.Both positive and negative emotions lead to action and fulfillment. Choose positiveemotions and be wary of the negative ones.The power of ambition is the power behind every achievement, big and small.Laziness, indifference and lack of ambition are the results of lack of motivation.Focusing your whole attention on your goal, moves you steadily toward achieving it.Put your goal constantly before you, and you will always have the energy to dosomething about it.Your inner focus, intent and faith lead you to the accomplishment your desire.
  13. 13. Reading inspiring and motivating stories awaken the desire to take action and do things.Stories about people who have achieved their goals, material or spiritual, evoke the desireto do the same.The moods and mental states of energetic, highly motivated people, are contagious. Theycan awaken in you the desire to be like them.Association with energetic, highly motivated people, awaken dormant energies andpowers in the people who associate with them.Visualizing your desire as already accomplished and enjoying the feelings ofaccomplishment, awaken in you energies that drive you to do whatever it takes to makeyour desire come true.Affirmations awaken the power of your subconscious mind into action.First motivate yourself, and then it will be easier to motivate others.Motivation is important, but you need persistence and self discipline to get to the finishline.Reading a few quotes on motivation in the morning is like drinking a good cup of coffeethat awakens and energizes you.Quotes on LeadershipIf your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, youare a leader.John Quincy AdamsGood leaders must first become good servants.Robert Greenleaf
  14. 14. A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where theydont necessarily want to go but ought to be.Rosalynn CarterI cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure:which is: Try to please everybody.Herbert B. SwopeThe very essence of leadership is that you have to have vision. You cant blow anuncertain trumpet.Theodore M. HesburghThe art of leadership is saying no, not saying yes. It is very easy to say yes.Tony BlairThe task of leadership is not to put greatness into humanity, but to elicit it, for thegreatness is already there.John BuchanIf you do not look at things on a large scale, it will be difficult to master strategy.Miyamoto MursashiLeadership is action, not position.Donald H. McGannonTo be able to lead others, a man must be willing to go forward alone.Harry TrumanThe word impossible is not in my dictionary.Napoleon Bonapart
  15. 15. A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way.John C. MaxwellThe great leaders are like the best conductors - they reach beyond the notes to reach themagic in the players.Blaine LeeA leader is most effective when people barely know he exists. When his work is done, hisaim fulfilled, his troops will feel they did it themselves.Lao TzuWe must become the change we wish to see in the world.Mahatma GhandhiIf you go through life convinced that your way is always best, all the new ideas in theworld will pass you by.Morita AkioControl is not leadership; management is not leadership; leadership is leadership. If youseek to lead, invest at least 50% of your time in leading yourself - your own purpose,ethics, principles, motivation, conduct. Invest at least 20% leading those with authorityover you and 15% leading your peers.Dee HockPeople ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the bossdrives.Theodore Roosevelt
  16. 16. Leaders arent born they are made. And they are made just like anything else, throughhard work. And thats the price well have to pay to achieve that goal, or any goal.Vince LombardiQuotes on LoveIf you judge people, you have no time to love them.Mother TeresaA blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom wecan trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all ourfaults.Charles KingsleyThe ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.Alexandra PenneyLove is the only thing you get more of by giving it away.Tom WilsonLove is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination.VoltaireWhere there is love, there is God also.Leo TolstoyPeople need love even when they dont deserve it.Nikki LedbetterThe love we give away is the only love we keep.Elbert Hubbard
  17. 17. Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.Alexander SmithLove cures people - both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.Dr. Karl MenningerWhere there is love there is life.GandhiLove sought is good, but given unsought, is better.William ShakespeareOnly love can be divided endlessly and still not diminish.Anne Morrow LindberghThe Grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, andsomething to hope for.Allan K. ChalmersLove and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the onewho receives them, and they bless you, the giver.Barbara De AngelisWhatever we are waiting for - peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness ofsimple abundance - it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive itwith an open and grateful heart.Sarah Ban Breathnach
  18. 18. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.BuddhaLove is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives.Louise HayLove is like a river, always changing, but always finding you again somewhere down theroad.Kelly ElaineQuotes of PatienceA man who is a master of patience is master of everything else.George SavileYou can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.Franklin P. JonesAdopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.Ralph Waldo EmersonPatience is something you admire in the driver behind you and scorn in the one ahead.Mac McClearyA wise man is superior to any insults which can be put upon him, and the best reply tounseemly behavior is patience and moderation.MoliereHow can a society that exists on instant mashed potatoes, packaged cake mixes, frozendinners, and instant cameras teach patience to its young?Paul Sweeney
  19. 19. I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are yourgreatest treasures.Lao TzuPatience is the companion of wisdom.Saint AugustineIf we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking.Buddhist ProverbEndurance is patience concentrated.Thomas CarlyleEverything comes gradually and at its appointed hour.OvidNothing great is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig. If you tellme that you desire a fig. I answer you that there must be time. Let it first blossom, thenbear fruit, then ripen.EpictetusTo know how to wait. It is the great secret of success.Joseph De MaistrePatience is the best remedy for every trouble.Titus Maccius Plautus
  20. 20. Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself.St. Francis de SalesMost men pursue pleasure with such breathless haste that they hurry past it.Soren KierkegaardIt is by attempting to reach the top in a single leap that so much misery is produced in theworld.William CobbettOne moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience mayruin a whole life.Chinese ProverbPatience serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you puton more clothes as the cold increases, it will have no power to hurt you. So in likemanner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will thenbe powerless to vex your mind.Leonardo da VinciThe keys to patience are acceptance and faith. Accept things as they are, and lookrealistically at the world around you. Have faith in yourself and in the direction you havechosen.Ralph MarstonThere is no road too long to the man who advances deliberately and without undue haste;there are no honors too distant to the man who prepares himself for them with patience.Jean De La BruyereConsider the hour-glass; there is nothing to be accomplished by rattling or shaking; youhave to wait patiently until the sand, grain by grain, has run from one funnel into the
  21. 21. other.John Christian MorgensternQuotes of ParentingTo bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once in a while.Josh BillingsSome authority on parenting once said, "Hold them very close and then let them go."This is the hardest truth for a father to learn: that his children are continuously growingup and moving away from him (until, of course, they move back in).Bill CosbyIf you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on theirshoulders.Abigail Van BurenChildren have more need of models than of critics.Carolyn CoatsAffirming words from moms and dads are like light switches. Speak a word ofaffirmation at the right moment in a childs life and its like lighting up a whole roomfulof possibilities.Gary SmalleyLife affords no greater responsibility, no greater privilege, than the raising of the nextgeneration.C. Everett KoopLove and respect are the most important aspects of parenting, and of all relationships.Jodie Foster
  22. 22. To me parenting is all about trust. If you dont live by your words or actions how do youexpect your kids to listen to you?Kevin HeathParents need to listen as much to their kids as they do to them: "The first duty of love isto listen.Paul TillichA person soon learns how little he knows when a child begins to ask questions.Richard L. EvansThe voice of parents is the voice of gods, for to their children they are heavenslieutenants.ShakespeareA child enters your home and for the next twenty years makes so much noise you canhardly stand it. The child departs, leaving the house so silent you think you are goingmad.John Andrew HolmesSome are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same.Pearl BuckThere is no friendship, no love, like that of the parent for the child.Henry Ward BeecherStop trying to perfect your child, but keep trying to perfect your relationship with him.Dr. Henker
  23. 23. Parents: People who spend half their time wondering how their children will turn out, andthe rest of the time when they will turn in.Eleanor Graham VanceParenting tip: complement your child on something well done when they dont think youare looking!Kevin HeathWhen you have children yourself, you begin to understand what you owe your parents.Japanese QuoteParenting is an important job. Parents are providers, teachers, supervisers, friends,protectors, referees and enterntainers.Remez SassonWe never know the love of the parent till we become parents ourselves.Henry Ward BeecherQuotes on AngerHe who angers you conquers you.Elizabeth KennyAnger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.Cherie Carter-ScottHolding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and asore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and thelightness in your life.Joan LundenHolding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someoneelse; you are the one getting burned.Buddha
  24. 24. Rudeness is the weak mans imitation of strength.Eric HofferThe intoxication of anger, like that of the grape, shows us to others, but hides us fromourselves.John DrydenThe thought manifests as the word. The word manifests as the deed. The deed developsinto habit. And the habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways withcare. And let it spring from love, born out of concern for all beings.BuddhaAnger will never disappear so long as thoughts of resentment are cherished in the mind.Anger will disappear just as soon as thoughts of resentment are forgotten.BuddhaWe boil at different degrees.Ralph Waldo EmersonConsider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from thosevery things for which you are angry and grieved.Marcus Antonius.If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit; give it nothing which maytend to its increase.EpictetusNever get angry. Never make a threat. Reason with people.Mario Puzo
  25. 25. The degree of ones emotion varies inversely with ones knowledge of the facts: the lessyou know the hotter you get.Bertrand RussellWhen anger rises, think of the consequences.ConfuciusBe not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot makeyourself as you wish to be.Thomas a KempisIf your heart is a volcano, how shall you expect flowers to bloom?Khalil GibranWhen angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred.Thomas JeffersonAnger always comes from frustrated expectations.Elliott LarsonA man cant eat anger for breakfast and sleep with it at night and not suffer damage to hissoul.Garrison KeillorFor every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.Ralph Waldo EmersonIf you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.Chinese Proverb
  26. 26. Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.SenecaQuotes on KindnessKindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundnessKindness in giving creates love.Lao-TzuConstant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causesmisunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.Albert SchweitzerEven if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my appletree.Martin LutherGiving connects two people, the giver and the receiver, and this connection gives birth toa new sense of belonging.Deepak ChopraIts so easy to laugh. Its so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind.Stephen MorrisseyKind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.Mother TeresaKind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.Blaise Pascal
  27. 27. Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expressionof Gods kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.Mother TeresaWhether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not,there isnt anyone who doesnt appreciate kindness and compassion.The Dalai LamaWhen we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved andcared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.The Dalai LamaYou cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.Ralph Waldo EmersonToo often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, anhonest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn alife around.Leo BuscagliaWhen you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as thoughsomething inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel.Harold KushnerYou give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourselfthat you truly give.Kahlil GibranThousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle willnot be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.Buddha
  28. 28. Love and kindness are never wasted.Barbara DeAngelisNo one has yet realized the wealth of sympathy, the kindness and generosity hidden inthe soul of a child. The effort of every true education should be to unlock that treasure.Emma GoldmanQuotes on Peace of MindPeace of mind is experienced when the stormy waves of the mind quell down.Real peace of mind is the companion of the silence of the mind.You get peace of mind not by thinking about it or imagining it, but by quietening andrelaxing the restless mind.Your nature is absolute peace. You are not the mind. Silence your mind throughconcentration and meditation, and you will discover the peace of the Spirit that you are,and have always been.The mind is like a TV screen. There is always movement and action there. As you canswitch off your TV, so you can switch off the TV screen of your mind.When you sleep, you entertain no visitors at your house, and your windows and doors areclosed. When you want to enjoy peace of mind you have to let your thoughts go, andclose the windows and doors of your mind.You switch off the engine of your car, so why dont you switch off the engine of yourmind?Inner peace creates outer peace.The mind is like a room that is always full with all sorts of stuff. There is no free spacethere. When it is emptied, it becomes filled with peace of mind.
  29. 29. Give your brain some rest by switching off the movements of the mind.Stop your thoughts, but stay awake, and you will experience the great ocean of peacebeyond the mind.You are the consciousness beyond the mind. By stilling the mind you realize this fact.Then peace of mind will be always be with you.True peace of mind is not dependent on circumstances. It comes from the inside.The wind causes waves to arise at the sea. Restless thoughts are the winds that bringwaves and storms into the mind.Learn to calm down the winds of your mind, and you will enjoy great inner peace.Worries, fears, desires, restlessness, nervousness drive peace of mind away.When you sleep deeply, nothing worries you. You enjoy peace. You can enjoy this samepeace while awake and active.Through concentration and meditation, you become the boss of your mind, and gain theability to tell it when to be active and when to stay silent.Constant meditation awakens the ability to enjoy peace of mind while talking, eating,walking, working and throughout any other activity.Negative feelings and negative thoughts keep peace of mind away.The presence of a true spiritual teacher, reading inspiring words and letting in inspiringthoughts, tend to make the mind peaceful.Meditate regularly, think only positively, aspire to find the consciousness beyond themind, and peace of mind will be yours.
  30. 30. Do you need or enjoy fear, worries and restlessness? If you dont, then why do you keepinviting them into your mind?As the house is cleaned, so the mind can be cleaned. As you enjoy a clean house, you willenjoy a clean and uncluttered mind.When you unclutter your mind, you enjoy peace of mind.Quotes on WisdomGod helps them that help themselves.Benjamin FranklinHe who knows others is learned; he who knows himself is wise.Lao-TzeThe state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind.Wayne DyerReflective thinking turns experience into insight.John MaxwellTo be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be fortyyears old.Oliver Wendell HolmesEnlightenment is the "quiet acceptance of what is" I believe the truly enlightened beingsare those who refuse to allow themselves to be distressed over things that simply are theway they are.Wayne Dyer
  31. 31. We live in the present, we dream of the future, but we learn eternal truths from the past.May-lin Soong ChiangKnowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment.Lao TzuIf you wish to travel far and fast, travel light. Take off all your envies, jealousies,unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears.Glenn ClarkKnowledge is a process of piling up facts; wisdom lies in their simplification.Martin FischerIt is unwise to be too sure of ones own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that thestrongest might weaken and the wisest might err.Mohandas K. GandhiAnything truly revolutionary is created by a few who see what is true and are willing tolive according to that truth; but to discover what is true demands freedom from tradition,which means freedom from all fears.KrishnamurtiCommon sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom.Samuel ColeridgeWhenever you have truth it must be given with love, or the message and the messengerwill be rejected.Mahatma Ghandhi
  32. 32. Some of the best lessons we ever learn are learned from past mistakes. The error of thepast is the wisdom and success of the future.Dale E. TurnerWise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to saysomething.PlatoWisdom is not a product of schooling but of the lifelong attempt to acquire it.Albert EinsteinWe dont receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no onecan take for us or spare us.Marcel ProustIt is a thousand times better to have common sense without education than to haveeducation without common sense.Robert Green IngersollThe state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind.Wayne DyerQuotes on Time-ManagementThis time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it.Ralph Waldo EmersonUntil you value yourself, you will not value your time. Until you value your time, youwill not do anything with it.M. Scott Peck
  33. 33. Living your life without a plan is like watching television with someone else holding theremote control.Peter TurlaAll time management begins with planning.Tom GreeningTime is what we want most, but what we use worst.William PennLots of folks confuse bad management with destiny.Kin HubbardThe time to relax is when you dont have time for it.Sydney J. HarrisGood management is the art of making problems so interesting and their solutions soconstructive that everyone wants to get to work and deal with them.Paul HawkenThose who make the worst of their time most complain about its shortness.La BruyereThe surest way to be late is to have plenty of time.Leo KennedyTime is the scarcest resource; and unless it is managed, nothing else can be managed.Peter F. Drucker
  34. 34. To do two things at once is to do neither.Publius SyrusAnything that is wasted effort represents wasted time. The best management of our timethus becomes linked inseparably with the best utilization of our efforts.Ted W. EngstromNothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs.Henry FordDont wait. The time will never be just right.Napoleon HillDo not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the presentmoment.BuddhaBetter three hours too soon, than one minute too late.William ShakespeareThe time for action is now. Its never too late to do something.Antoine de Saint-ExuperyBeing rich is having money; being wealthy is having time.Margaret BonnanoEffective management always means asking the right question.Robert HellerQuotes on Mind and conciousness
  35. 35. The mind is like a machine that never shuts down. Does the engine of your car or yourvacuum cleaner work incessantly, twenty four hours a day? Why does your mind workthis way?Learn to be aware and conscious of your consciousness, and you will find who you reallyare.Concentration is the ability to focus the mind on one point.There is consciousness of the ego and the world around you, and there is consciousnessof the Real Self, the Real You.Stop your agitated thoughts, and find out who it is that stops them.Concentration and meditation lead to the ability to be without thoughts, but yet retain fullconsciousness.In full calmness and peace you experience the unchanging, eternal pure being that youare.You, the real you, are eternal, not the ego, body, feelings or thoughts, but the spiritbeyond them.You are the consciousness and awareness beyond words and thoughts.Upon Self-Realization, you will burst into laughter. You will be amazed how simple anddifferent it is from what you have thought it is.To realize your inner self is pure simplicity. You do not have to do anything; yet youhave to work hard to get it. It may seem a paradox, but it is not.Freedom is won by throwing away your mental illusions and attachments.Thoughts are not a necessity; most of the time they are just distractions that obstruct your
  36. 36. inner vision.It is possible, through proper means, to teach the mind to think only when it is necessary,for the period of time you decide.Without incessant thinking, you become more conscious and alive.Peoples experience of the no-thinking state is limited to times of deep sleep orunconsciousness, as in a swoon or under anesthetics.Being fully conscious, yet without thoughts, is like sleep, but yet being awake.To understand what inner freedom means, imagine the state of the happiness, calmness,relaxation and peace of mind of deep sleep, but combined with full awakening andawareness.The waves of the mind lose their power to disturb and distract you, when you still themind and rise above its desires and whims.To use the mind when needed, and to switch it off afterwards, is a great art and science.Cleanse your mind with the soap of concentration, and wash it with the water ofmeditation.Consciousness of your real nature dawns, as you start gaining the ability to still yourmind.Quotes on Decision MakingIt does not take much strength to do things, but it requires great strength to decide onwhat to do.Elbert Hubbard
  37. 37. If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnectyourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise.Robert FritzAs a man thinketh, so is he, and as a man chooseth, so is he.Ralph Waldo EmersonWhen you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of actionyou should take - choose the bolder.William Joseph SlimHigh achievers spot rich opportunities swiftly, make big decisions quickly and move intoaction immediately. Follow these principles and you can make your dreams come true.Robert H. SchullerNothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide.Napoleon BonaparteSometimes its the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.Keri RussellThe most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears arepaper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and controlyour life; and the procedure , the process is its own reward.Amelia EarhartVacillating people seldom succeed. Successful men and women are very careful inreaching their decisions, and very persistent and determined in action thereafter.L. G. Elliott
  38. 38. An executive is a person who always decides; sometimes he decides correctly, but healways decides.John H. PattersonIts in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.Anthony RobbinsAn expert is someone who has succeeded in making decisions and judgements simplerthrough knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore.Edward de BonoWherever you see a successful business, someone once made a courageous decision.Peter DruckerThe best we can do is size up the chances, calculate the risks involved, estimate ourability to deal with them, and then make our plans with confidence.Henry FordWhen possible make the decisions now, even if action is in the future. A revised decisionusually is better than one reached at the last moment.William B. GivenOnes mind has a way of making itself up in the background, and it suddenly becomesclear what one means to do.A. C. BensonThe moment a question comes to your mind, see yourself mentally taking hold of it anddisposing of it. In that moment... you learn to become the decider and not the vacillator.Thus you build character.H. Van Anderson
  39. 39. When you have to make a choice and dont make it, that is in itself a choice.William JamesThere is a time when we must firmly choose the course we will follow, or the relentlessdrift of events will make the decision for us.Herbert B. ProchnowIt doesnt matter which side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most isgetting off. You cannot make progress without making decisions.Jim RohnQuotes on HappinessInspiring quotes and phrases are like vitamins to the soul.Happiness is within you. When you stop the chatter of the mind and expel your worriesand fears you find out that happiness surfaces from within you.Happiness is not something far away and unattainable, and its manifestation does notdepend on circumstances.Happiness is one of the most important treasures. It is within your soul. All you have todo, is dig it out and enjoy it.There is no need to search for happiness or to create it. There is no need to undergo allkinds of external experiences in order to enjoy it. It is always here, deep within your soul.Happiness is always here, but covered by thoughts, desires and fears.Happiness comes from within.Your attitude decides whether you are happy or not. You can change your attitude.Happiness is a state of mind. More correctly put, it is the state beyond the mind.
  40. 40. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy.Your thoughts and worries hide away your happiness.If you smile while you talk, you make people happy.A calm and detached mind is the gate to true happiness.Happiness is experienced after a problem has been solved, a fear has disappeared or afterrealizing a desire. At this moment the mind is released from it fears, worries and desiresand becomes quiet, letting the happiness emerge.Look at the happy side of life, and you will develop the happiness habit.Learn to laugh. This will make you feel better.Focusing your mind on everything that you do, increases your control over your mind,which makes it easier for the inner joy to manifest.Your inner nature is bliss and joy. Clean your mind of thoughts and worries and you willfind this treasure within you.When you wake up from deep sleep you feel happy. This is because the mind was quiet.If you are able to make your mind quiet during your waking hours, you will experiencehappiness.Each day do something to make you feel happy, until this becomes a habit.Cheerfulness is contagious. Choose cheerful people for your friends and you becomecheerful too.Sharing and accepting other peoples happiness increases our own happiness.
  41. 41. Choose happiness, concentrate on happiness and you will find it everywhere.Let the joy in your heart overflow and water everyone you meet.Pleasure comes from the outside, happiness from the inside.A good word to a friend or stranger can bring light into their day.When you have a positive frame of mind, you broadcast positive thoughts and feelings tothe world around you.Quotes on GoalsIn the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing dailytrivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it.Robert HeinleinNothing happens unless first we dream.Carl SandburgThe greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but thatit is too low and we reach it.MichelangeloDream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.GoetheGoals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement.Brian Tracy
  42. 42. Most of us serve our ideals by fits and starts. The person who makes a success of living isone who sees his goal steadily and aims for it unswervingly. Thats dedication.Cecil B. DeMilleOptimism is essential to achievement and it is also the foundation of courage and trueprogress.Lloyd AlexanderNothing stops the man who desires to achieve. Every obstacle is simply a course todevelop his achievement muscle. Its a strengthening of his powers of accomplishment.Eric ButterworthThough no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now andmake a brand new ending.Author UnknownWhoever wants to reach a distant goal must take small steps.Helmut SchmidtLet me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal: my strength lies solely in mytenacity.Louis PasteurObstacles are those things you see when you take your eyes off the goal.Hannah MoreChoosing goals that are important to you is one of the most essential things you can do inorder to live your dreams.Les Brown
  43. 43. There are those who travel and those who are going somewhere. They are different andyet they are the same. The success has this over his rivals: He knows where he is going.Mark CaineWhen you discover your mission, you will feel its demand. It will fill you withenthusiasm and a burning desire to get to work on it.W. Clement StoneLeaders arent born they are made. And they are made just like anything else, throughhard work. And thats the price well have to pay to achieve that goal, or any goal.Vince LombardiI feel that the most important step in any major accomplishment is setting a specific goal.This enables you to keep your mind focused on your goal and off the many obstacles thatwill arise when youre striving to do your best.Kurt ThomasThought is the sculptor who can create the person you want to be.Henry David ThoreauIf you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energyand inspires your hopes.Andrew CarnegieNo matter how carefully you plan your goals they will never be more than pipe dreamsunless you pursue them with gusto.W. Clement StoneQuotes on CourageLife shrinks or expands in proportion to ones courage.Anais Nin
  44. 44. Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappearand obstacles vanish into air.John Quincy AdamsCourage is doing what youre afraid to do. There can be no courage unless youre scared.Eddie RickenbackerExtraordinary people survive under the most terrible circumstances and they becomemore extraordinary because of it.Robertson DaviesCourage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.Winston ChurchillYesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win.Bernadette DevlinOnly when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.Dorothy ThompsonInaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want toconquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.Dale CarnegieAll our dreams can come true...if we have the courage to pursue them.Walt DisneyAll serious daring starts from within.Harriet Beecher Stowe
  45. 45. Conscience is the root of all true courage; if a man would be brave let him obey hisconscience.James Freeman ClarkeWith courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and thewisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity.Keshavan NairTo go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see everyday, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform.Theodore H. WhiteCourage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is moreimportant than fear.Ambrose RedmoonCourage is the ladder on which all the other virtues mount.Clare Boothe LuceQuotes on ConfidenceSelf confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings.Samuel JohnsonConfidence can get you where you want to go, and getting there is a daily process. Its somuch easier when you feel good about yourself, your abilities and talents.Donald TrumpIf you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. Withconfidence, you have won even before you have started.Marcus Garvey
  46. 46. Self confidence is the power that makes you dare, try and do.Remez SassonWhether you think you can or think you cant, youre right.Henry FordThe way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear.William Jennings BryanYou can determine how confident people are by listening to what they dont say aboutthemselves.Brian G. JettOnly those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.Robert F. KennedyWhat seems impossible one minute becomes, through faith, possible the next.Norman Vincent PealeThe world has the habit of making room for the man whose words and actions show thathe knows where he is going.Napoleon HillDo not attempt to do a thing unless you are sure of yourself; but do not relinquish itsimply because someone else is not sure of you.Stewart E. White
  47. 47. First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, I believe.Norman Vincent PealeHappiness and self-confidence come naturally when you feel yourself moving andprogressing toward becoming the very best person you can possibly be.Brian TracyIf my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.Jesse JacksonConfidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.Peter T. McintyreQuotes on HopeMost of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who havekept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.Dale CarnegieHope is the only bee that makes honey without flowers.Robert IngersollFar away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them but I canlook up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow them.Louisa May AlcottHope is both the earliest and the most indispensable virtue inherent in the state of beingalive. If life is to be sustained hope must remain, even where confidence is wounded,trust impaired.Erik H. Erikson
  48. 48. The natural flights of the human mind are not from pleasure to pleasure but from hope tohope.Samuel JohnsonThere is no medicine like hope, no incentive so great, and no tonic so powerful asexpectation of something tomorrow.Orison Swett MardenThe pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity inevery difficulty.Winston ChurchillHope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul and sings the tune without thewords and never stops at all.Emily DickensonEverything that is done in the world is done by hope.Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.Of all the forces that make for a better world, none is so indispensable, none so powerful,as hope. Without hope men are only half alive. With hope they dream and think andwork.Charles SawyerOur greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.ConfuciousYour hopes, dreams and aspirations are legitimate. They are trying to take you airborne,above the clouds, above the storms, if you only let them.William James
  49. 49. You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true. Youmay have to work for it, however.Richard David BachHope is the dream of a waking man.AristotleHope is the companion of power, and mother of success; for who so hopes strongly haswithin him the gift of miracles.Samuel SmilesQuotes on Inner-PeaceIf youre looking for inner peace from the outside world, youre not going to get that. Theinner peace starts with looking at you from the inside.Mary J. BligeInner peace is beyond victory or defeat.Bhagavad GitaWhen we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us. When ourcommunity is in a state of peace, it can share that peace with neighboring communities.The Dalai LamaWhen the mind is left without anything to cling to, it becomes still.Sri Ramana MaharshiThe life of inner peace, being harmonious and without stress, is the easiest type ofexistence.Norman Vincent PealeWhen your daily activities are in concert with your highest priorities, you have a credibleclaim to inner peace.Hyrum SmithWhen the restless activity of your mind slows down, when your thoughts stop rushinglike waves on a windy day, then you will start getting glimpses of the sweet taste of innerpeace.Remez Sasson
  50. 50. Spending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itself and createorder.Susan TaylorInner peace can be reached only when we practice forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting goof the past, and is therefore the means for correcting our misperceptions.Gerald JampolskyA quiet mind is all you need. All else will happen rightly, once your mind is quiet. As thesun on rising makes the world active, so does self-awareness affect changes in the mind.In the light of calm and steady self-awareness inner energies wake up and work miracleswithout effort on your part.Sri Nisargadatta MaharajLearn to be calm and you will always be happy.Paramahansa YoganandaWhen we are unable to find tranquillity within ourselves, it is useless to seek itelsewhere.Francois de La RochefoucauldConstant meditation awakens the ability to enjoy peace of mind while talking, eating,walking, working and throughout any other activity.Remez SassonMeditation gives you an opportunity to come to know your invisible self. It allows you toempty yourself of the endless hyperactivity of your mind, and to attain calmness. Itteaches you to be peaceful, to remove stress, to receive answers where confusionpreviously reigned.Wayne DyerThe more tranquil a man becomes, the greater is his success, his influence, his power forgood. Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom.James AllenPeace is not achieved by controlling nations, but mastering our thoughts.John HarricharanWhen you make peace with yourself, you make peace with the world.Maha GhosanandaEverything you do can be done better from a place of relaxation.Stephen C. PaulYou can hear the footsteps of God when silence reigns in the mind.Sri Sathya Sai Baba
  51. 51. Learn silence. With the quiet serenity of a meditative mind, listen, absorb, transcribe, andtransform.PythagorasThe real spiritual progress of the aspirant is measured by the extent to which he achievesinner tranquility.Swami SivanandaSpending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itself and createorder.Susan TaylorQuotes on Inner SilenceAn inability to stay quiet is one of the most conspicuous failings of mankind.Walter BagehotSilences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the neverneeding to say is what counts.Margaret Lee RunbeckSilence is as deep as eternity; speech, shallow as time.Thomas CarlyleSilence is the great teacher, and to learn its lessons you must pay attention to it. There isno substitute for the creative inspiration, knowledge, and stability that come fromknowing how to contact your core of inner silence.Deepak ChopraYou can hear the footsteps of God when silence reigns in the mind.Sri Sathya Sai BabaSilence is the mother of truth.Benjamin Disraeli
  52. 52. There are times when silence has the loudest voice.Leroy BrownlowThere are some virtues to not saying what you think all the time.Margaret AtwoodIn the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive anddeceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness.Mahatma GandhiWell-timed silence is the most commanding expression.Mark HelprinLearn silence. With the quiet serenity of a meditative mind, listen, absorb, transcribe, andtransform.PythagorasSpending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itself and createorder.Susan TaylorSilence fertilizes the deep place where personality grows. A life with a peaceful centercan weather all storms.Norman Vincent PealeLeisure is a form of silence, not noiselessness. It is the silence of contemplation such asoccurs when we let our minds rest on a rosebud, a child at play, a Divine mystery, or awaterfall.Bishop Fulton J. Sheen
  53. 53. We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friendof silence. See how nature-trees, flowers, grass-grows in silence; see the stars, the moonand the sun, how they move in silence.Mother Teresa  21 SUGGESTIONS FOR SUCCESS?  by H. Jackson Brown, Jr. 1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your success or misery. 2. Work at something you enjoy and thats worthy of your time and talent. 3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 5. Be forgiving of yourself and others. 6. Be generous. 7. Have a grateful heart. 8. Persistence, Persistence, Persistence. 9. Discipline yourself to save money, even on the most modest salary. 10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated. 11. Commit yourself to constant improvement. 12. Commit yourself to quality. 13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power, or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect. 14. Be loyal. 15. Be honest. 16. Be a self-starter. 17. Be decisive, even if it means youll sometimes be wrong. 18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life. 19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, youll regret the things you didnt do more than the ones you did. 20. Take good care of those you love. 21. Dont do anything that wouldnt make your mom proud.  WHAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT? Youll be a richer person for taking the time to read and practice this.
  54. 54. Life isnt about keeping score.Its not about how many friends you haveOr how accepted you are.Not about if you have plans this weekend or if youre alone.It isnt about who youre dating, who you used to date, how many people youve dated, or ifyou havent been withanyone at all.It isnt about who you have kissed,Its not about sex.It isnt about who your family is or how much money they haveOr what kind of car you drive.Or where you are sent to school.Its not about how beautiful or ugly you are.Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to.Its not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brownOr if your skin is too light or too dark.Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everybody else thinks youare, or how smartstandardized tests say you are.Its not about what clubs youre in or how good you are at "your" sport.Its not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will"accept the written you."LIFE JUST ISNT ANY OF THESE.BUT, LIFE IS about who you love and who you hurt.Its about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.Its about keeping or betraying trust.Its about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon.Its about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.Its about what judgments you pass and why; and who your judgments are spread to.Its about who youve ignored with full control and intention.Its about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.Its about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and spreading it.But most of all, its about using your life to touch or poison other peoples hearts in such away that could havenever occurred alone.Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what lifes allabout.
  55. 55. Top 10 Keys To Success February 24th, 2008 (35,359 views) by Pinny Cohen I was reading through Automotive News last week and they were profiling a very successful dealer group owner named Rick Hendrick. He managed to build up a dealer empire of 60 dealerships, 80 franchises, and over $4.3 billion in revenue last year. But the path to there has been filled with hardship, including: a plane accident killing his son and several relatives, a felony fraud conviction, and leukemia. How did he manage, despite all of the challenges, to build up one of the largest dealer groups in America today? Rick swears by his 10 Keys to Success: 1. Optimism. Think positive. 2. Faith. Believe in yourself, God and your country. 3. Planning. Know what’s important each day; set your priorities accordingly. 4. Determination. Have the courage to stand alone when taking the big risks in life. 5. Vision. Think big, dream big, keep success in your mind. 6. Attitude. If you think you can’t, you’re right. Winners have positive attitudes. 7. Goals. Set goals. Plan how to achieve them. 8. Perseverance. Try and try again until the goal is achieved. Never give up. 9. Knowledge. Learn to accept your mistakes, but make them only once. 10. Enthusiasm. Choose work you like. Enjoy the challenges.Isn’t it great when successful people share their secret formula? I always like reading aboutother’s success stories, you never know when someone else has a great idea that can beadded to your personal success list.Success doesn’t just have to be defined by money, or your career; for example, there areplenty of successful mothers who raised wonderful children. To them, the definition ofsuccess might be very different than a CEO who just got a big deal signed.A great way to check if you are lining yourself up for success is to print up this list of keys tosuccess, post it on your wall, and take a look at it weekly or monthly. It will keep youmotivated and on your path to success.
  56. 56. The Key To Success In LifeI know the answer already, but let me ask the question anyway: Do you want torealize success in life? Who in his or her right mind is going to say he wants to bea failure, right. On the other hand, some people who answer yes in words say noby their actions. “Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth,”the Bible says (Proverbs 10:4).Talk is cheap. Realizing success in life requires that we conscientiously do thethings that enable us to avoid failure. And according to the verse above, lazyhands make one poor. Note that the verse is not job-specific. Lazy hands makeone poor, no matter what the person’s goal in life is. Similarly, “Diligent handsbring wealth,” no matter what you aspire to do.Some people are amazingly naïve about life. They seem to think that success inlife is happenstance. But this is an extremely competitive world in which we live.Even finding your so-called dream job these days is much harder than it used tobe. Regardless of your aspirations, however, you can become a success in life. It’scalled being diligent: doing what’s required to gain the competitive edge; nevergiving up; refusing to accept defeat; living a life of integrity.There is no substitute for diligence. You can attend multitudes of conferencesand listen to all the subject matter experts you want to, but if you persist to belazy, you don’t have what it takes to become a success in life (sorry about beingso brutally honest). You may be a person of faith and you can pray to God forsuccess all night long, but if you have lazy hands, you are destined for failure.Be it far from me to suggest that prayer does not work. But remember, the verseI quoted is from the Word of God. He is the one who says that lazy hands make aman or woman poor. All the praying in the world won’t compensate for laziness.Finally, please understand that when I talk about success in life, I am notnecessarily talking about monetary gain or climbing the corporate ladder. Thepoint is that regardless of the area in which you want to realize success in life—parenting, running a business, college life, etc.—the key to success is diligence.Unfortunately, my observation is that many people, including Christians, who talkabout realizing success in life are not willing to pay the price.
  57. 57. Keys to Successful Living By Swami RamaSee also the list:Swami Rama ArticlesKeys to Successful LivingSwami RamaEveryone wants to be successful in life, but where are the keys to success? Do wehave to go out and search for those keys, or do we have those potentials alreadywithin ourselves? When we begin to examine life, we can see that it is divided intotwo aspects -- life within and life without; internal life and external life -- and we cansee that these aspects are of equal importance. Even if we have renounced theworld, gone far away from civilization, and live in the wilderness doing nothing butmeditation, we cannot ignore external life. We still have to see that we eat, do ourablutions, and perform our practices on time. So life in the external world is asimportant as life in the internal world. Even one who has renounced the world has tounderstand the word relationship properly, because life itself is actually relationship.The body is related to the breath, and the breath is related to the mind. The body,breath, senses, and mind all function together as a unit. So life virtually meansrelationship, and thus the art of living and being requires an understanding of onesrelationship to the external world and the relationships within oneself.All human beings have inner potentials, but many people are not aware of thosepotentials and do not know how to use them to have a successful life. Those who arenot happy internally can never be happy externally; those who are not happy withinthemselves can never make others happy. Those who do not love themselves cannever love others.If we are not happy, how can we be successful in life? Success lies in our happiness.The keys to happiness lie within us, but our modern education does not teach us howto find them. It is helpful to have a few formulas to practice in daily life to make itmore successful. I have not created these formulas; they are derived fromobservations based on experience. There are five points to remember: first, how todecide things on time; second, how to study personal habit patterns; third, how toconduct ourselves in the external world; fourth, what attitude to take; fifth, where tofind happiness. To attain success in life, one should learn and apply these five points.Deciding Things on TimeThe first point to understand is the philosophy and science of decision -- how tomake decisions on time. The most successful person is that person who knows howto decide on time. There are many extraordinarily brilliant people who understandthings very quickly, but when the time comes to make a decision, when anopportunity comes, they withdraw and are not able to act. They do not know how todecide. They know they should learn to decide on time, but they dont do it. Theyalways say, "Well, I knew it. I understood the key, but I did not act in time." Thoughthey may think correctly, and accurately understand the situation properly, theysuddenly lose confidence. This is a world of competition; someone else is alwaystrying to attain the same thing we are. So if we do not decide on time, someone else
  58. 58. will attain what we want. Time is valuable in the external world. A tender bamboocan be easily bent, but if we try to bend a mature bamboo, it will break. That whichwe have to do today, we should not postpone for tomorrow, but we should also notmake decisions in haste.We may have a setback if we make a wrong decision, but our mistakes will teach us.Many people avoid making decisions their whole lives, so their decisive faculty ofmind, the faculty of discrimination, becomes rusty and dies. Such people becometotally dependent on others. When we study the four functions of the mind -- buddhi,the faculty of decisiveness; ego, the principle of identity; chitta, the storehouse ofimpressions; and manas, the importer and exporter of sensations and experience --then we become aware of the power of the will. Will power is that something withinus that comes forward and says, "Do this. It will be helpful for you." Training theinternal functions helps us to understand the decisive faculty of the mind, withoutwhich we cannot be successful. [See also the article on the Four Functions of Mind]We should understand our capacities and potentials, and then we should expressourselves in the external world with full confidence, acting without any reservations.Thus there are three steps in performing an action: first, forming an opinion withinourselves; second, expressing our opinion to others; and third, executing our opinionin action.Understanding Habit PatternsThe main thing that one should learn in life -- and it is not taught in the home or inthe schools -- is self-analysis. We should learn to analyze ourselves. If we reallywant to understand ourselves, we can analyze our personality by understanding ourhabit patterns. This is not difficult. We should simply try to be consciously aware ofevery action we perform and realize that our actions are virtually our thoughts.Without thought there can be no action. Habit patterns and thoughts are revealedthrough behavior.There is a branch of psychology called behaviorism that is based on this concept. Butone should understand that external behavior alone cannot reveal everything about aperson. Laughter, for example, cannot be analyzed behaviorally. If I were to laugh,you might also laugh with me simply because I was laughing but withoutunderstanding why I was laughing. Your laughter is out of sheer reaction. Then youmight laugh a second time, this time at yourself because you did not understand whyyou were laughing and yet you laughed. You might also laugh a third time becauseyou finally understand what I was laughing at and you now also find it funny. Allthree times your laughter might seem the same to others, but each time it had adifferent motivation. So internal states cannot be understood through behavioranalysis alone. Only a small part of oneself and others can be understood throughobserving behavior. But knowing our habit patterns can help us to analyze andunderstand our personality.What is personality? The word "personality" comes from the root persona, whichmeans "mask." Our personality is a mask that we wear. We dont have to wear amask when we are by ourselves; we wear a mask to express ourselves to others.Our personality is a character, and that character is composed of certain habits. Eachof us has numerous habits; so when we want to understand our personality, weshould understand our habit patterns. A habit pattern is a conscious thought or
  59. 59. action that one repeats again and again. This creates a groove in the unconsciousmind and forms an unconscious habit. Unconscious habits are stronger thanconscious habits. All habit patterns are self-created. When we sit down and try tounderstand which of our habits control our life, we see that there are many deep-rooted habits within us. We should learn to study them. Once we become aware ofharmful thoughts and emotions that have created deep grooves in the mind, we canbegin to change them by creating new grooves. Then the mind will stop flowing tothe old grooves and start flowing to the new ones. In this way we can change ourhabits.You should also learn to execute your intentions. For instance, many people havevery good intentions to do something nice for their neighbors, and they think about itall the time, but then those thoughts are never executed, they are never allowed tobecome actions. We have many thoughts that have never been executed, and that iswhy we are miserable. If we learn to select those thoughts that are helpful and thenallow ourselves to execute them, that brings fulfillment, and life will be happy. Wecreate misery for ourselves when we do not bring our good thoughts into action. Oneof the French writers has explained this concept beautifully: "All good thoughts thatare not brought into action are either treachery or abortion." Good thoughts arethose that help others and that help us also. Bad thoughts are those that obstructour progress and create barriers for others.Deep-seated habits can keep you from doing that which you know would be good foryou to do. You become helpless because of the obsessions and addictions that arecaused by your habits. You may continue in a habit that you know is not good -- thatis neither healthy nor helpful and that should not be done -- because the habit hasbecome so deep-rooted that you are powerless to change your behavior. Societydoes not help you change your bad habits, and there are very few places where youcan get help. Many people who are in the penitentiary know that what they havedone is a crime, but the force of habit led them to act improperly. Their faculty ofdiscrimination within functions -- they understand what is right and what is not right-- but their deep-seated habits have motivated them to do something that is notgood, that is not acceptable. Actually, no one should be considered either a goodperson or a bad person. In traditional English law, when someone was punished, hewas told, "We are not punishing you for yourself. We are punishing you for your badhabits."Controlling the Primitive UrgesHabit patterns are very strong motivations in life; we should not ignore them. Weshould not create a defense mechanism and say, "Well, so what if I have this habit?"We should learn to study our habit patterns and work with our habits to changethem. There are very few basic habits, and they arise from four fountains: food, sex,sleep, and self-preservation. By understanding these four primitive fountains, we canunderstand our habit patterns, and then we can learn to change them and totransform the personality.Food is the first basic urge. If a husband tells his wife, "Dont overeat," she may say,"I overeat because of you. You dont pay attention to me, so I have to overeat."Sometimes when the sexual appetite is not dealt with properly, people overeat. Thisis the universal law of compensation. If we maintain a nutritious diet, we will nothave any problem from the primitive fountain called food. Food goes through the
  60. 60. body and then affects the mind, but sex originates in the mind and then is expressedthrough the body. If our mind is balanced and we have attained emotional maturity,then we can deal competently with the sex urge. For it is the mind, not the body,that deals with sex. The poor body cannot handle the rush, the flood, of mind, andso almost no one is sexually happy. To have a balanced sex life, one shouldunderstand that a calm, tranquil mind is very helpful.Sleep is another primitive fountain. We consider ourselves to be extremelyknowledgeable and highly advanced, but we do not know anything about how tosleep. It is very important to understand the anatomy of sleep. If you wanted to goto sleep right now, you could not do it because you need many accommodations tocreate the proper atmosphere for sleep, but yogis know how to go to sleepvoluntarily, remain conscious, and then wake up at the exact moment they haddetermined they would. People go to sleep just out of habit, but we should learn totrain our will so we can go to sleep or wake up anytime we want to. And when wesleep, we should be conscious. This is possible. There are methods for going to deepsleep, recording what is going on around us, and then waking up and rememberingit. Yogis know these methods and have demonstrated them scientifically. People donot need to sleep as much as they are in the habit of doing. We can go to the stateof deep sleep for just two hours and awaken totally refreshed. This has beenobserved by scientists who have done research on the anatomy of sleep. If we knowhow to sleep, we can give complete rest to the body and to the conscious mindanytime.The fourth fountain is self-preservation. Fear comes from the urge for self-preservation, and when fears are deepened, they create phobias. People are alwaystrying to protect themselves; they are always afraid. It is good to protect ourselvesfrom the physical world, but it is not good to protect ourselves from the mental world-- that is very dangerous. People should learn to face their inner fears and tounderstand why they are afraid. People always want to avoid unpleasant things, andso they never examine their fears. That is why they have innumerable fears withinthem. Most fears are unexamined, and they are imaginary; they are not valid. "Myhusband has not come home. Perhaps he has had an accident. Perhaps somethingawful has happened!" Why imagine only the negative; why not imagine the positivealso? "My husband has not come home. Perhaps he has won the lottery today.Perhaps he has become a millionaire!" People are in the habit of creating imaginaryfears, and when they dont come true, they forget them. They dont go back andanalyze those fears. Even when people know that their fear is imaginary, that self-created fear still makes them miserable.Even when people are in love, they are afraid of the beloved. "Perhaps she is angry.Perhaps I have done something wrong and made her unhappy." People are alsoalways afraid of their enemies. People form a strong habit of being afraid ofeverything. But when they learn to examine their fears, they realize that all fears areimaginary. Imaginary means there is an image within. We receive an image fromoutside, from our relationship, and then we create an image within; we have millionsof images within us. To be free from all fears, we must learn to face fearsomeimages and to examine them. Fears are extremely dangerous, but they are all self-created. Learning to live free from the fears that arise from the urge of self-preservation is very important.Living in the External World
  61. 61. How can one live successfully in the external world? It is very difficult to live in theexternal world, to put up with the world, to deal with the whims of many people, toplease everyone. So it is helpful to have a few principles to apply to the varioussituations and circumstances we find ourselves involved in. Then alone is it possiblefor us to be successful. We have numerous experiences every day -- some pleasant,some unpleasant. But there is one category of experience for which we long: thekind of experience that guides us, that motivates us to do something helpful forothers and for ourselves. But such experiences are very rare.We waste our time and energy. Even the time and energy that we think we arespending in pleasure we do not enjoy, because we do not really know how to enjoythe things of the world. But we can learn how to do this; all the things of the worldcan be enjoyed. The renunciates say, "Your world does not have anything. Its not agood world. All things are fleeting, all things are changing. All things are momentary,and nothing makes you happy. Why are you in this world? Why do you notrenounce?" But they are wrong. We can live in the world and learn to use the thingsof the world as means. As St. Bernard says, "Learn to use the things of the world,but love God alone." The things of the world should not be loved. Their nature shouldbe understood, and they should become means, but they should not be loved. Whenwe use them, we tend to get attached to them -- that is not healthy. We should loveGod alone, and we should learn that all the things of the world are to be used solelyas means for attaining the center of love. The Lord of life is called love. We shouldlearn to love our responsibilities and to discharge our duties lovingly, without anyattachment.Western students think that it is not possible to love someone without attachment.But perhaps the word attachment is not understood. Love is different fromattachment. In love we give -- we do our duties lovingly -- and that is entirelydifferent from attachment. Attachment is unauthorized. In attachment we becomeblindfolded and selfish. In attachment we expect all the time and we are neverfulfilled, and thus we become miserable. There is not one single thing that we cansay is really ours. We can have things -- and we should learn to look after themproperly -- but we should not try to possess them. In attachment people are afraid."This is mine. What will happen to me if it dies? What will happen to me if it isdestroyed?" People remain constantly under the pressure of the fear of losing whatthey have or of not gaining what they want. The whole problem of fear arises fromthese two sources.Most people are not aware that they are on a voyage. They are in the habit ofcollecting useless garbage, and it creates problems for them. People should learn tounderstand that needs and necessities are different from wants and desires. If weneed something, we should have it, but we should not uselessly want to haveunnecessary things. In studying the lives of great people, we find they share onetrait that has made them successful: they do not take what they do not need. Oncewhen Buddha was going as usual from door to door with his begging bowl to beg foralms, housewife shouted at him, "You idiot! You are so healthy, so strong, and sohandsome. You were a prince! Why did you renounce your home and start troublingus? Every day you come with your begging bowl. It has become too much for us."She was very angry because the whole city was full of renunciates, and there werevery few householders; it was a problem for the householders to feed all the monks.She became so angry that she picked up some filth and tried to give it to him. Hesmiled and said, "Mother, I dont need it." He started to go on his way, but one of his
  62. 62. disciples got angry and told the woman, "I am going to kill you for behaving like thiswith my Lord!" Buddha turned back to him and said, "You are not my disciple. Youhave not learned anything from me. If somebody wants to give you somethingundesirable, dont take it. If somebody says you are bad, dont accept such anegative suggestion." We should learn to understand this point, and then we can gothrough the process of life unaffected.But instead of remaining unaffected, people allow their cultural values to make themdependent on external suggestions. We are blasted by suggestions all the time, andthe power of suggestion is immense. If ten people say that we look ill, then we beginto feel sick. If someone says "You ugly person," then your whole day is ruined. But ifsomeone says "Oh, you look beautiful then you say "You have made my day." Youare already beautiful, but if nobody appreciates you, you dont believe in yourbeauty. You should learn to appreciate and admire yourself; you should learn tounderstand and come in touch with that beauty which is within you all the time. Youare already beautiful just as you are! You do not need others to tell you arebeautiful. You should not become dependent on others opinions; you should not tryto know yourself through others.There is a very dangerous characteristic in this culture: people make themselvesdependent on each other. People live on suggestions; they are swayed by whateveranyone says. People are in the habit of always wanting and expecting attention fromothers, and this is very dangerous, because then life becomes totally dependent onothers. This is the worst trait I have seen in Western culture. Wives nag theirhusbands and husbands criticize their wives because they expect too much fromeach other. When people become dependent on their relationships, when they expecttoo much from their relationships, then they are bound to suffer.When a girl goes to school, the thought that constantly lives in her mind is that shewill meet a good boy, get married, and be happy. But there is no Bible in the worldthat says marriage will make someone happy. Marriage does not make anyonehappy; it is only a means for happiness in life, and if this is understood, then it isvery good. But if one expects too much and thinks that marriage is the answer to allthe vital questions of life, then that person will find only disappointment. People growup with unreal expectations about marriage, and the philosophy of marriage is nottaught. What is the purpose of marriage? What is the philosophy of remaining single?If a single person does not know how to use his time positively, and if he has nopersonal philosophy of life, then he becomes perverted. Those who are unmarriedare not happy, and those who are married are also not happy. Marriage is like afortress: those who are inside cannot come out, and those who are outside arerushing to get in. So I have not seen anyone who is happy. This does not mean thatpeople should not get married; the institution of marriage is very necessary. If itcrumbles, all of society will crumble. This is a great discipline for human society.Developing the Proper AttitudeWhat should our attitude in the world be? It should be that relationships and all thethings of the world are means. The world has never given anyone enlightenment, butat the same time it is impossible for one to get enlightened if one does not live in theworld. What helplessness! The world does not give enlightenment, and yet we haveto live in the world. Therefore let us understand that the world should be a means forenlightenment. There are two ways of using the world for this purpose: first, you can
  63. 63. have the attitude that you will not allow the world to disturb you, so that you canthereby get enlightenment; and second, you can have the attitude that you can usethe world to help you, so that you can thereby get enlightenment. Both attitudesshould be applied. One should have the same attitudes toward relationships: "I willbehave in such a way with my spouse and children that they dont disturb my innerpeace; I will behave in such a way that they become helpful to me and that they alsogrow."You should first have the attitude that no matter what happens, you will not bedisturbed. Otherwise, when you get something, you become emotional andimbalanced, and when you dont get something, you become depressed anddisorganized. This means that you do not have the proper attitude behind yourthinking and behavior. Great leaders like Moses and Jesus had to face many seriousproblems, but they had the proper attitude. That attitude can be built only when youconsider all relationships in the external world and all the objects of the world simplyas means, not ends. Then it doesnt matter if today you expect something to becomeyour means, and tomorrow you see that it will not. When your attitude toward theexternal world is that all the things of the world are means, and not disturbances,then you can find happiness.Where Is Happiness?If happiness were external, Americans would have it. Americans have many things,but they are not happy. Many people are very nice to others, but they are not nice tothemselves. They have a mechanical way of behaving nicely with others, but they donot know how to be happy within themselves. They are creating a great conflict, asplit personality, by pretending to express a happiness that is not there. Happiness isnot in the external world; it is not attained through objects. People spend their wholelives wanting to have this and have that; they love objects, and they cannot lovewithout objects. But the day you learn to love without an object, that will be the dayof greatest happiness. When one learns to love God, that is love without an object.God is not an object; God is beyond all objects. So love without an object is love forGod.Happiness lies within you, and you should learn to use all things and apply all meansto attain that happiness. This inner happiness is in a dormant form; you have tounfold yourself to experience it. Therefore you should learn to be still, so that thegodly part in you can reveal itself to you. "Be still and know that I am God." What agreat promise! This is the greatest aphorism. Many Christians and Jews think thatthere is no meditation in the Bible, but this one sentence reveals the entirephilosophy of meditation.Every human being should learn to be calm and quiet, and to see God in others.Then you can be detached from the nongodly part, and you will be loving the godlypart. You are a shrine of God. I should love you because I should love God in you.Its good to love people because everyone is a temple of God. People do not worshipthe walls of a temple; their love is directed toward that which dwells inside it. Sowhomever you love, love God in that person.I pray to the divinity within you.
  64. 64. Do you know what are the keys that will make yousuccessful in life?You’ll discover the 10 keys to living a successful life below…1. Clear VisionHaving a clear vision of the kind of successful life you want is the fundamental step to achievingit. If you don’t even know what kind of successful life you want, you can never achieve it.Unfortunately, this is what happening with most people. Most people don’t know exactly what theywant in their life. They will tell you that they want to be successful, but they cannot give you theclear definition of what they mean.It is the same for those who say that they want to be rich. How rich do you want to be? You needto have a measure and a deadline for it.2. PersistenceWhat you need is persistence to achieve your dreams. Never give up even if you fail to achievethe goals you set. Do you know that Thomas Edison failed more than 10,000 times before hefinally succeeded inventing the light bulb?If you give up in the middle of the journey, you’re going to waste all the effort that you havepreviously poured in.Persistence is the key that you must master if you want to be successful in life.3. CommitmentHave the commitment of doing what you have set out. Most people know that if they want tomake more money, they will have to make more sales, but they just don’t do it.Just like you know that if you want to score A in a subject, you need to study and do exercise forthat subject. However, most student will just never do that.Therefore, you need to have the commitment to carry out or to take action to make yourgoals come true. If you are not committed, you will procrastinate and just let it be.4. Find A MentorLearn from someone who has already achieved the kind of results that you want in your life. Forexample, if you want to be rich, who are you going to listen to, your teachers and friends who tellyou that investing is risky? Or are you going to take the advice from successful investors such asWarren Buffett and Peter Linch?Don’t listen to the wrong advice given by those who are not successful. Your friends maycare about you but if they don’t know a thing about investing, don’t listen to them. Just be friendwith them but listen and take advice from other successful investors.

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