Dr. Tartt shares the untold secrets about where total package women 1) can meet good men 2) have multiple good men to choose from 3) how to get good men interested in you as a committed girlfriend/future wife. This is the best dating course on the market and will challenge you in ways you never imagined. The only choice you will have after watching this presentation is when to implement what you have learned to attract and date more eligible men you are excited about dating. Not all women date the same and you will be at the top of the priority list after graduating from Dr. Tartt's Love Class (Part Two is next...getting a commitment and dealing with the candy shop (sex in relationships)

1. Love Class For Total Package Women
How To Get Who & What You Want From Romantic
Relationships (Part One)
Dr. Alduan Tartt
Contributing Psychologist To:

2. Overview
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Why I’m Doing This Workshop
Dating Prerequisites
Mindset of Attracting Great Men
Strategy For Baiting, Hooking, & Securing Great
Men (first interaction, phone, date, exclusivity)
• Dating As His Wife
• Dealing With the Candy Shop

3. Mindset To Attracting Great Men
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Women Hold The Key To Men’s Greatness
Married Men Are Wealthier, Happier & Healthier
Divorce More Adversely Affects Men
Women Who Date Live Longer & Happier Lives
Than Women Who Refuse To Date At All

4. Mindset To Attracting Great Men
• Must be convinced of your own greatness
– Great attracts great
– Insecurity attracts insecurity & users
• Must be ready to give versus take love
– Ask yourself what you have to give versus
gain
– How will a man benefit from knowing you

5. Preparing To Date (Prerequisites)
• In order to attract love you must be 100% ready
to fully receive love which means getting rid of:
a) Fear of Being Hurt
b) Attachment To Past Hurt/Pain
c) Excessive Insecurity
d) Love Addictions To Unhealthy Partners
e) Questioning Your Worth

6. Strategy For Attracting Great Men
• In order to find a husband you should have a
dating strategy or a plan
– Simply wishing for a man is unlikely to work
• Must purposely position yourself around high
quality men
– Ruth Positioned Herself To “Meet” Boaz

7. Strategy For Attracting Great Men
Per research, the most effective ways of getting
more dates that can lead to marriage are:
•Asking For A Personal Hook-up
•Using Online Dating Sites
•Networking
•Re-Networking
- Dating Someone In Already In Your Cell Phone

8. Step 1: Be The Bait For Great Men
• Men ENJOY chasing women
– Chasing a great woman’s love and attention
makes us feel alive, invigorated and excited
• Be confident enough to initiate the chase by
being open to men flirting with you

9. Step 1: Be The Bait For Great Men
• We Are What We Think
– Focus all energy & thoughts on what you desire
versus what you fear or dislike
• Flirt, Fascinate & Flee Strategy
– The goal of the first interaction is arouse interest,
fascinate him to learn more and allow him the joy of
chasing you to earn more of your time, attention and
eventually your love

10. Where To Meet & Flirt With Men (Bait)
1) Become a Professional Networker
- Pronetworker.com
- Join Chamber of Commerce, Rotary Clubs, &
anything business related
- Join social groups that are co-ed
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Tennis, Bowling, Habitat for Humanity, Golf Lessons, Meet
Up Groups, National Urban League, Young
Democrats/Republicans, etc.
Volunteer at Men’s Ministry, etc

11. Where To Meet & Flirt With Men (Bait)
2) Harness The Power of Social Media
- Flirt on Facebook
- Network on Google + & LinkedIn
- Join Dating Sites (Match.com, Plenty of Fish, Black
People Meet, etc.)
- Be clever, classy, tactful & intentional

12. Where To Meet & Flirt With Men (Bait)
3) Always Be Ready & Look Your Best
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Look cute to go to the grocery store
Frequent downtown business food courts for lunch
If you like sports, watch it at the sports bar
Work out at best gym locations, take golf lessons
Attend business happy hours, networking events and
Christmas parties

13. How To Flirt With Men (Bait)
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Pick events and appearances selectively
Spot him and allow him to spot you
Use your inner voice attraction powers
Let your body language and smile speak for
you

14. How To Flirt With Men (Bait)
5) Be fun, a challenge & use subtle insults/jabs
6) Maintain control (tip vs. showing your hand)
7) Advertise your greatness (as a future wife)
8) Set your expectations high & don’t settle for less
than you desire

15. Be Fascinating & Arouse Eager Desire
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Be genuinely interested in him
Smile, laugh, be fun (be his anti-depressant)
Call him by a great name and ego stroke
Be a dynamic listener

16. Be Fascinating & Arouse Eager Desire
• Encourage him to talk about his dreams,
ambitions & future plans
• Talk in terms of his interests
• Make him feel important & be sincere about It
• Have a dynamic life filled with an active social
calendar already

17. Make Him Excited To Ask For Number
• Tease him about asking
• Issue a flirtatious yet strong challenge (take
control)
• Make him work (he likes it that way)
• Social media follow up is more of a norm
• Keep interaction short, dismiss him playfully &
“network” & “work the room” (It’s not a date)
• Observe from a distance & be subtle

18. Step 2: The Hook (Rules of Engagement)
The First Phone Call
•Research him before he calls
•Don’t answer after 10pm
•End conversation if he is rude or sexual
•Repeat being interested in him
•Be present & focused on him (avoid multi-tasking,
distractions, social media)
•End conversation early (with exceptions)

19. Step 2: The Hook (Rules of Engagement)
After First Phone Call
•Let him call you next/only return his call
•If he doesn’t call it could be because he is:
- Interested but not ready
- Not that interested
- Unavailable (work, already dating, etc.)
- Un-established
- Unsure of Fit/Chemistry

20. Step 2: The Hook (The First Date)
• Say “No” to the following first dates:
1) Drinks
2) House Calls
3) Poor Planning
• Allow him to make the plans
• Dress appropriately (tease but don’t show)

21. Step 2: The Hook (The First Date)
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Be on time (show respect for his time)
Reschedule if he’s late & doesn’t call
Prepare to fascinate & learn about him
Ask about his dreams & aspirations

22. Step 2: The Hook (The First Date)
• Tell Him That You Are Open To “Process” of
Dating (Not Finding A Husband)
• Do Not Tell Him That You Are Celibate (Too
early for that conversation)

23. Step 2: The Hook (The First Date)
• Allow Him Opportunity To Pay
- Except incidentals- tip, valet, popcorn, etc.
- Be worth the cost of the date
- Be appreciative, thankful & present
- Men rarely regret money well spent on
great company, fun and connection

24. We Want More!
Watch Part Two:
Part 3: The Catch (Dating As His Wife)
Part 4: Dealing With The Candy Shop (Sex)
Watch Part Two Now

25. Step #3-The Catch (Dating As His Wife)
Remain in Control of Your Time
a) Move to your rhythm not his
b) Don’t wait on his planning but be open
c) Your social calendar should be full to
avoid being too attention starved
d) Research indicates women are happiest
dining with 3-4 close girlfriends 1x monthly

26. Dealing With the Candy Shop
• One Chip At A Time (Keep Him Hungry)
– Kiss at door and go in the house
– Graduate your affection relative to his effort
– Say “No” more but tell him how he could have more in
time (keep him chasing)

27. We Want More!
Gain FULL Control Over Your Love Life
Covered In Part Two
Part 3: The Catch (Dating As His Wife)
Part 4: Dealing With The Candy Shop (Sex)
Enjoy Part Two Now ($27)

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