This document provides information about the Catholic sacrament of penance and reconciliation. It discusses why Catholics continue to sin even after baptism, explaining that humans always stand in need of God's grace. It then covers the concept of sin and states of grace, the two types of actual sin, and the three conditions for a sin to be considered mortal. The document outlines the four elements of the sacrament of reconciliation - confession, contrition, absolution, and penance. It provides guidance on how to properly receive this sacrament, including examining one's conscience, confessing sins to a priest, expressing contrition, and receiving absolution and a penance. The importance of reconciliation is discussed as restoring one's
4. Original Sin is washed away
at baptism. So why do we
keep on sinning?
We are all born with a defect,
the inherited result of Adam’s
sin: at birth, we are already
separated from God, and
need to have this washed
away by Baptism.
This defect is like a division in
us that continues to influence
us in our choices and
actions… we always stand in
need of God’s grace.
Why does sin
matter ?
6. Sin cuts our relationship
with God.
We turn our backs to God.
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When the
relationship between
God and human
beings was
established there
was an uninterrupted
connection between
them. Humans give
honor and worship to
God and obey Him.
God gives us His
Sanctifying Grace.
It is like a good
phone connection
with uninterrupted
service.
STATE OF GRACE = the state of being in a solid
relationship with God; the connection with God
is not broken.
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SIN
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SIN causes a break and disconnection
in our relationship with God; a loss of
SANCTIFYING GRACE
10. We must be aware of what is
considered a sin which needs
to be confessed.
A review follows…
11. Actual Sin
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ACTUAL SIN are those sins which a person actually
commits. "Actual sin" is an act which is against the will
and law of God.
There are two kinds of “Actual sin”:
1. SIN OF COMMISSION – These are sins
we choose to do on purpose.
2. SIN OF OMMISSION – These are sins
which happen when we fail to do good
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There are two ranks of “Actual sin”:
1. MORTAL SINS - A bad sin against
the law of God; it deprives the sinner of
sanctifying grace. It cuts off our relationship
with God.
2. VENIAL SINS – A less serious offense against
the law of God; it does not deprive the sinner
of sanctifying grace.
Actual Sin
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There are three conditions which must exist for a sin
to be MORTAL:
1. It must be a serious matter; seriously wrong.
2. The person must know it is seriously wrong.
3. The person must want/will/choose to do it.
It is up to every Catholic, especially at your age, to
learn and know the difference between what is right
and what is wrong.
Actual Sin
14. God’s Promise
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So, with all this talk about sin, rebellion
against God, choosing to do wrong and
failing to do good….
…..is their any hope for human beings?
Even though we sin God is always there to forgive.
That is what God promises.
To bring us salvation and forgiveness of sin and
reconciliation with Him.
We are not doomed to be lost forever because of our
sin thanks to God sending us His Son, Jesus.
16. Penance is an outward
sign, instituted by Christ
to give Grace.
As a Sacrament…
17. “Whose sins you forgive are
forgiven them, and whose
sins you retain are retained.”
John 20:23
Jesus said to Peter…
18. Sacrament of
Reconciliation
To know what the 2 kinds of sin are
To know the 4 stages of the
Sacrament of Reconciliation
To understand how the Sacrament
helps people.
Let’s look at the Sacrament of Reconciliation
19. Reconciliation
Re = to do something again
Con = with
Cilia = an eyelash, or a delicate hair like
structure that resembles one
Ation = the action of doing something
22. So, how do you know you need
to go to Confession?
A well informed conscious; knowing right
from wrong and what behaviour is sinful and
which is not is important.
When we have sinned we say that “our
conscience begins to bother us”.
We are aware that we have sinned.
We have broken the Commandments.
23. So, how do I get ready for a
good Confession?
Once a month or every other month is
a good idea to examine our consciences.
Get quiet and ask yourself:
Have I sinned?
Have I done what I should not have done?
Did I fail to do something I should have?
24. Find out what times
Confessions are heard in your
parish.
Confessions are heard every Saturday from
3:00 pm to 3:40 pm at St. Martha’s Church.
You can call the rectory and make an
appointment to have you confession heard!
25. The 4 Elements of a Good Confession
Confession:
Contrition:
Absolution:
Penance:
admitting what you’ve done wrong
and telling sins to the priest.
feeling genuinely sorry for doing it…
expressed by saying an “act of contrition”
receiving God’s forgiveness In Jesus’
name
a task you agree to undertake to prove
you’re sorry/ make up the damage
26. The 4 Elements of a Good Confession
Confession:
Contrition:
Absolution:
Penance:
Each of these must be in your heart
and on you mind as you make a
confession.
27. How to make a good confession.
First, get quiet and make an Examination of
Conscience.
28. How to make a good confession.
When quiet….
Ask yourself how you have sinned since your
last confession.
A good way to do this is to think of the 10
Commandments or Seven Deadly Sins.
Or ask yourself what are the things that have
gotten you in trouble lately!
29. How to make a good confession.
You always have the
choice to go to confession
without the priest seeing
you, that is, behind a screen
or face to face.
30. How to make a good confession.
Enter the Confessional.
After the priest greets you in the name
of Jesus, make the sign of the cross and
say: "Bless me Father for I have sinned.
It has been (state how long) since my
last confession. These are my sins."
31. How to make a good confession.
Tell your sins simply and honestly to the
priest. You might even want to talk about
why and how you committed these sins and
ask the priest for advice or direction.
32. How to make a good confession.
Listen to the advice the priest gives
you and accept the penance from him.
Then make an Act of Contrition for
your sins.
The priest must hear you say the Act
of Contrition said by you out loud.
33. A good Act of Contrition expresses
sorrow for sin and asks God for help.
Which one do you know?
You can only be forgiven if you are truly
sorry and after you complete your penance.
34. How to make a good confession.
AN ACT OF CONTRITION
Oh my God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong
And failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance, to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Our Savior Jesus Christ
suffered and died for us.
In His name, my God, have mercy. Amen.
35. How to make a good confession.
After you’ve said the Act of Contrition
the priest will give you absolution.
Whether you can see him or not he will
raise his right hand over you and say the
Absolution Prayer.
36. How to make a good confession.
The Absolution Prayer
God the Father of mercies,
Through the death and resurrection of His Son,
Has reconciled the world to Himself
And has sent the Holy Spirit among us for the
forgiveness of our sins.
Through the ministry of the Church
May God grant you pardon and peace.
I absolve you of your sins
In the name of the Father, and of the Son
and of the Holy Spirit. Amen
37. How to make a good confession.
The Absolution Prayer
When the priest says:
“I absolve you of your sins
In the name of the Father,
and of the Son and of the
Holy Spirit. Amen”
he is blessing you. Whenever a priest
blesses you, you bless yourself as well.
38. How to make a good confession.
Always thank the priest after confession.
Leave the Confessional.
Try to perform your penance as soon as
possible even before you leave church.
39. How to make a good confession.
While saying your penance thank God for
His mercy and forgiveness
Try to promise not to commit these sins
again with God’s help.
Now that’s a good confession!
40. Importance of the Sacrament
of Reconciliation
What difference does it make?
What are you like after the Sacrament?
1.You have a closer relationship with God.
2.You are forgiven and restored to grace.
3.You have better self esteem: a peaceful, happy
conscience.
4.You are spiritually stronger to fight sin and evil.
5.You are reconciled with God & His Church.
41. Where does the Sacrament come from?
Jesus’ whole mission was about reconciling
people to God. He died in order to do this.
Jesus often healed
people by saying “your
sins are forgiven”.
Forgiveness of sin is
essential for us to be
healthy in mind and
spirit, if not in body.