1. 30 / My Life Philosophy
Few words………….
When I retrospect on my Life as on date, as to what I have achieved in Life?, What sacrifices I
made to achieve something in Life?, What I could not achieve?, Why I could not achieve? etc.,
the first thing I realized was that, that I have led a Balanced Life. I followed certain
principles in my Life which enabled me to achieve balanced success in Life. I am sure that
whosoever tries to follow the same can also make his Life happy.
I inherited these principles from my late father. You are aware that the Web site titled
‘www.Spandane.com’ was dedicated to my Late Father who expired at the age of 58 years
after fighting with Diabetes for over 35 years. Although his Life span was quantified by
destiny, he led very cheerful life and remained active till his death. He managed his stress by
keeping himself occupied in some activity or the other. He was true ‘Karma Yogi’. His Life
Philosophy still inspires & offers solution to me in case of need.
Your Life should be like a square meal. Your destination of ‘Happiness’ in Life will be your
mind itself if you can manage to keep balance between your educational/occupational career,
family, health and friendship.
The word ‘Spandane’ means ‘Vibrations of mind.’ At times it is difficult to express this
feeling in words. However, I have made an attempt in the book titled ‘Spandane’ (written in
Marathi - English) to express my Life philosophy which matured over years of my
experience and my perception of this world.
My habit of expressing these vibrations in Articles, Photography, compiling Slide shows etc.
enabled me to enjoy my occupational and professional career.
1 Perspective:
One should look at the world with magnifying glass of the mind.
2 Adjustment:
One should always try to adjust with Life; otherwise he will be fish out of water.
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3 Race:
Slow & Steady approach wins the race.
4 Appreciation:
One should not hesitate to appreciate.
5 Point of view:
When you raise one finger, you should remember that three fingers are pointed at
you.
6 Quit:
One should know when to stop.
7 Direction:
One should always try to select the right path.
8 Relaxation:
One should know the Art of Relaxation.
9 Approach:
Open approach helps in life.
10 Saving:
Saving should be the first charge on income.
11 Approach to Life:
One should face Life realities with a smiling face.
12 Real wealth:
Wealth can purchase tangible good but not peace of mind.
13 Risk:
One must acquire the skill to take calculated risk.
14 Work ethics:
Any work should be carried out with involvement & sincerity.
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15 Signal:
One should not ignore signals.
16 Equilibrium:
Everyone should master the balancing act.
17 Education:
One should study regularly to avoid burning the mid night oil.
18 Barriers :
One should always try to break all out-dated barriers in life.
19 Communication:
One must constantly make an attempt to minimize communication gap.
20 Ladder:
One should not throw the ladder after reaching on Top.
21 Transaction:
We should not sell our knowledge for unethical acts.
22 Fault Finding:
One should leave the habit of finding fault with every matter.
23 Work ethics:
One should concentrate on one matter at a time.
24 Wining Stroke:
We cannot always get best of everything at every time.
25 Magic:
Every one is bestowed with magic stick, realization of which is essential for success
in life.
26 Approach:
Our hands should be clean irrespective of any act.
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27 Labour:
One should take pride in doing household chores.
28 Punctuality:
Your success in life depends on doing right thing at a right time & in right
proportion.
29 Retrospect:
One should form the habit of retrospection.
30 Self realization:
Your success in life depends on realization of one’s limitations.
31 Goal:
One should always set a noble goal in life & make an all out efforts to achieve it.
32 Pack Up:
Nobody knows as to when you will get the invitation to visit heaven.
33 Peace of Mind:
You should love what you get as you may not get what you want/love.
34 Success:
Success should be measured by not ‘what you have achieved’ but after considering
‘what you had to leave to achieve’?
35 Sacrifice is the other side of Love.
Many of these Principles or ‘The Guiding stars’ have been explained in brief in
the separate Article on ‘My Reflections’.