This document discusses biblical perspectives on sexuality and sexual activity outside of marriage. It defines sexual additives as substitutes for intercourse that are used for fleshly satisfaction. Specific acts discussed include masturbation, oral sex, mutual masturbation, and pornography. The document encourages waiting for marriage to experience full sexual intimacy and warns that substitutes can impair future relationships and have health risks. Rationalizing such behaviors is discouraged, and the document advocates discussing struggles with others for accountability and healing.

1. X3Pure Series: Chapter 3
Sexual Additives
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2. God’s Pearl
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3. God’s Pearl
• Don’t cast your pearls before swine,
don’t give what’s holy to the dogs
(Matthew 7:6)
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4. God’s Pearl
• Don’t cast your pearls before swine,
don’t give what’s holy to the dogs
(Matthew 7:6)
• Swine: A coarse, gross and sexually
brutish sensual person
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5. God’s Pearl
• Don’t cast your pearls before swine,
don’t give what’s holy to the dogs
(Matthew 7:6)
• Swine: A coarse, gross and sexually
brutish sensual person
• The merchant sold all he had for one
pearl (Matthew 13:45)
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6. God’s Pearl
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7. God’s Pearl
• Drama creates a pearl
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8. God’s Pearl
• Drama creates a pearl
• God sees you as a pearl
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9. God’s Pearl
• Drama creates a pearl
• God sees you as a pearl
• God wants you to be respected and
he wants you to respect the act of
sex
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10. Sexual Immorality &
The Bible
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11. Sexual Immorality &
The Bible
• A little vague
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12. Sexual Immorality &
The Bible
• A little vague
• No fornication, adultery,
homosexuality
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13. Sexual Immorality &
The Bible
• A little vague
• No fornication, adultery,
homosexuality
• Kissing? Touching? Making out?
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14. Oral Sex
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15. Oral Sex
• Oral sex is sex
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16. Oral Sex
• Oral sex is sex
• Any sexual act is degrading if not in
marriage
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17. Oral Sex
• Oral sex is sex
• Any sexual act is degrading if not in
marriage
• If he’s not faithful to God, how can I
expect him to be faithful to me?
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18. Man-Made Substitutes
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19. Man-Made Substitutes
• Sexual additives: things that are not
sexual intercourse itself but are used
as flesh satisfaction substitutes
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20. Man-Made Substitutes
• Sexual additives: things that are not
sexual intercourse itself but are used
as flesh satisfaction substitutes
• Man-made
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21. Man-Made Substitutes
• Sexual additives: things that are not
sexual intercourse itself but are used
as flesh satisfaction substitutes
• Man-made
• Sexual Substitutes
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22. Man-Made Substitutes
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23. Man-Made Substitutes
• Masturbation makes you one with
yourself
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24. Man-Made Substitutes
• Masturbation makes you one with
yourself
• The things of the world are
considered foolishness with God
(1 Corinthians 3:19)
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25. Man-Made Substitutes
• Masturbation makes you one with
yourself
• The things of the world are
considered foolishness with God
(1 Corinthians 3:19)
• Masturbation does not help with the
purpose of sex
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26. Man-Made Substitutes
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27. Man-Made Substitutes
• They can impair your sex life later on
in life
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28. Man-Made Substitutes
• They can impair your sex life later on
in life
• Women have a hard time performing
in marriage when they have been
used to sexual additives
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29. Man-Made Substitutes
• They can impair your sex life later on
in life
• Women have a hard time performing
in marriage when they have been
used to sexual additives
• Training our mind
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30. Man-Made Substitutes
• They can impair your sex life later on
in life
• Women have a hard time performing
in marriage when they have been
used to sexual additives
• Training our mind
• Masturbation is 300 more time
addictive than sexual intercourse
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31. Man-Made Substitutes
• They can impair your sex life later on
in life
• Women have a hard time performing
in marriage when they have been
used to sexual additives
• Training our mind
• Masturbation is 300 more time
addictive than sexual intercourse
• The enemy always shows us front end
of something but not the back end
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32. Definition of Wrong
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33. Definition of Wrong
• Wrong: Not in accordance with what
is morally right or good with deviating
from truth or fact
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34. Definition of Wrong
• Wrong: Not in accordance with what
is morally right or good with deviating
from truth or fact
• Participating in anything that
takes away from oneness is wrong
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35. Definition of Wrong
• Wrong: Not in accordance with what
is morally right or good with deviating
from truth or fact
• Participating in anything that
takes away from oneness is wrong
• The enemy comes to steal kill and
destroy but Christ came to give us
abundant life (John 10:10)
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36. The Everything But
Syndrome
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37. The Everything But
Syndrome
• Opening a present, rewrapping it and
opening it again
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38. The Everything But
Syndrome
• Opening a present, rewrapping it and
opening it again
• Shows physical benefits, but not the
physical responsibility
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39. The Everything But
Syndrome
• Opening a present, rewrapping it and
opening it again
• Shows physical benefits, but not the
physical responsibility
• Bonding happens with any form of
intimacy
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40. The Everything But
Syndrome
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41. The Everything But
Syndrome
• Go to God about your personal
boundaries
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42. The Everything But
Syndrome
• Go to God about your personal
boundaries
• Don’t put yourself in a place of
teasing yourself
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43. The Everything But
Syndrome
• The longer you wait, the longer you
value who you are
• Go to God about your personal
boundaries
• Don’t put yourself in a place of
teasing yourself
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44. Rationalizing
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45. Rationalizing
• When you partake in a sexual
additive you rationalize your fetishes
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46. Rationalizing
• When you partake in a sexual
additive you rationalize your fetishes
• Are you defending what you’re doing
or why you’re doing it?
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47. Rationalizing
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48. Rationalizing
• All of you is sacred and special
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49. Rationalizing
• All of you is sacred and special
• God knows the number of hairs on
our head (Matthew 10:30)
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50. Rationalizing
• All of you is sacred and special
• God knows the number of hairs on
our head (Matthew 10:30)
• You deserve a man who is going to
take on the responsibility of your
body
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51. Holy in Spirit & Body
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52. Holy in Spirit & Body
• We’re called to be holy both in body
and in spirit (1 Corinthians 7:34)
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53. Holy in Spirit & Body
• We’re called to be holy both in body
and in spirit (1 Corinthians 7:34)
• The spirit will be affected along with
your body
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54. Holy in Spirit & Body
• We’re called to be holy both in body
and in spirit (1 Corinthians 7:34)
• The spirit will be affected along with
your body
• When you fail to complete the sex
act in mind body and spirit, someone
is going to walk away not at peace
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55. Holy in Spirit & Body
• We’re called to be holy both in body
and in spirit (1 Corinthians 7:34)
• The spirit will be affected along with
your body
• When you fail to complete the sex
act in mind body and spirit, someone
is going to walk away not at peace
• Sex is supposed to bring joy,
pleasure, happiness, satisfaction &
fulfillment
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56. Obedience & Consequence
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57. Obedience & Consequence
• 1 in 5 people has had an STD
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58. Obedience & Consequence
• 1 in 5 people has had an STD
• You can contract an STD without
having intercourse
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59. Obedience & Consequence
• 1 in 5 people has had an STD
• You can contract an STD without
having intercourse
• You can’t get around not being
obedient
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60. Single Sex
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61. Single Sex
• Masturbation is the ultimate form of
Single Sex
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62. Single Sex
• Masturbation is the ultimate form of
Single Sex
• Single Sex: oxymoron
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63. Single Sex
• Masturbation is the ultimate form of
Single Sex
• Single Sex: oxymoron
• Be honest with your struggle
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64. Single Sex
• Masturbation is the ultimate form of
Single Sex
• Single Sex: oxymoron
• Be honest with your struggle
• Confess your faults that you may be
healed. The prayers of a righteous
man have much power (James 5:16)
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65. Mutual Masturbation
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66. Mutual Masturbation
• Preventing oneness from taking
place
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67. Mutual Masturbation
• Preventing oneness from taking
place
• Counterfeit way to have sex with
someone
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68. Chapter 4:
Sexual Additives Part 2
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69. Chapter 4:
Sexual Additives Part 2
• Pornography
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70. Chapter 4:
Sexual Additives Part 2
• Pornography
• Taking advantage of women who
have yet to realize their full value and
God’s intention for their life
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