Session 14: X3pure Men’s Series
Recovery Target #4: Development
and Exploration of Genuine Faith
Review
Review
  • We need to move out of systems, or groups of
   people, or situations in which we are given love
   only if we act or behave a certain way, and move
   into systems, or groups of people, or situations
   in which we are loved no matter who we are or
   what we do.
Review
Review
 1. Psychologically examine our feelings, which means that we
 pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially
 feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came
 from.
Review
 1. Psychologically examine our feelings, which means that we
 pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially
 feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came
 from.

 2. Seek, establish, and engage in community, which means
 that we rebuild the interpersonal bridge that was broken for us
 at a young age because of conditional love.
Review
Review
 3. We accomplish this conversion of conditional love into
 unconditional love when we ensure that individuals and
 communities are unconditionally loving by exercising Truth,
 Trust, and Territory.
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith

   • Common Denominator
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith

   • Common Denominator
    - We all want to live lives free of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior, free
    of our addictions, and free to experience unconditional love in all of
    its many wonderful varieties.
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith

   • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
    from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith

   • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
    from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”

   • Experiencing unconditional love.
Development and Exploration of Genuine
Faith

   • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom
    from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”

   • Experiencing unconditional love.

   • Is your God a God of conditional love or
    unconditional love?
Romans
Romans
 • Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
  the commandment is holy, righteous and good.
Romans
 • Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
  the commandment is holy, righteous and good.

 • God wants us to save sex for marriage.
Romans
 • Romans 7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and
  the commandment is holy, righteous and good.

 • God wants us to save sex for marriage.

 • God wants us to abstain from Unwanted
  Sexual Behavior.
Romans
Romans
 • Romans 7:8-11 “But sin, seizing the
  opportunity afforded by the commandment,
  produced in me every kind of covetous desire.
  For apart from law, sin is dead. Once I was
  alive apart from law; but when the
  commandment came, sin sprang to life and I
  died. I found that the very commandment that
  was intended to bring life actually brought
  death. For sin, seizing the opportunity afforded
  by the commandment, deceived me, and
  through the commandment put me to death.”
Romans
Romans
 • “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue
  me from this body of death?”
Romans
 • “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue
  me from this body of death?”

 • Jesus Christ
Romans
Romans
 • The only answer to that pain is unconditional
  love
Romans
 • The only answer to that pain is unconditional
  love

 • That sense of being valued and cherished and
  loved beyond measure is the very nature of
  Jesus Christ.
Romans
Romans
 • Romans 8:1-4 “Therefore, there is now no
  condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,
  because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life
  set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the
  law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the
  sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the
  likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he
  condemned sin in sinful man in order that the righteous
  requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do
  not live according to the sinful nature but according to
  the Spirit.”
Faith
Faith
  • Ultimately, the greatest source of
   unconditional love is from God Himself. And if
   you’re willing to see God as unconditionally
   loving, then you can access God’s power,
   strength, support and love anytime you wish.
Faith
  • Ultimately, the greatest source of
   unconditional love is from God Himself. And if
   you’re willing to see God as unconditionally
   loving, then you can access God’s power,
   strength, support and love anytime you wish.

  • Begin to see God as unconditionally loving.
Steps
Steps
  • Read the Bible.
Steps
  • Read the Bible.

  • Pray Daily.
Steps
  • Read the Bible.

  • Pray Daily.

  • Find a Church.
Steps
  • Read the Bible.

  • Pray Daily.

  • Find a Church.

  • Find ways to serve God.
Farewell
Farewell
  • “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes
   from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God
   and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know
   God, because God is love. This is how God showed his
   love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the
   world that we might live through him. This is love: not
   that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son
   as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since
   God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No
   one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God
   lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”

X3 pure men's chapt 14a

  • 1.
    Session 14: X3pureMen’s Series Recovery Target #4: Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith
  • 2.
  • 3.
    Review •We need to move out of systems, or groups of people, or situations in which we are given love only if we act or behave a certain way, and move into systems, or groups of people, or situations in which we are loved no matter who we are or what we do.
  • 4.
  • 5.
    Review 1. Psychologicallyexamine our feelings, which means that we pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came from.
  • 6.
    Review 1. Psychologicallyexamine our feelings, which means that we pay attention, and are attuned to, our feelings, especially feelings of conditional love and where those feelings came from. 2. Seek, establish, and engage in community, which means that we rebuild the interpersonal bridge that was broken for us at a young age because of conditional love.
  • 7.
  • 8.
    Review 3. Weaccomplish this conversion of conditional love into unconditional love when we ensure that individuals and communities are unconditionally loving by exercising Truth, Trust, and Territory.
  • 9.
  • 10.
    Development and Explorationof Genuine Faith • Common Denominator
  • 11.
    Development and Explorationof Genuine Faith • Common Denominator - We all want to live lives free of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior, free of our addictions, and free to experience unconditional love in all of its many wonderful varieties.
  • 12.
  • 13.
    Development and Explorationof Genuine Faith • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?”
  • 14.
    Development and Explorationof Genuine Faith • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?” • Experiencing unconditional love.
  • 15.
    Development and Explorationof Genuine Faith • “How can our faith lives help us achieve freedom from of our Unwanted Sexual Behavior?” • Experiencing unconditional love. • Is your God a God of conditional love or unconditional love?
  • 16.
  • 17.
    Romans • Romans7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and the commandment is holy, righteous and good.
  • 18.
    Romans • Romans7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and the commandment is holy, righteous and good. • God wants us to save sex for marriage.
  • 19.
    Romans • Romans7.12 “So then, the law is holy, and the commandment is holy, righteous and good. • God wants us to save sex for marriage. • God wants us to abstain from Unwanted Sexual Behavior.
  • 20.
  • 21.
    Romans • Romans7:8-11 “But sin, seizing the opportunity afforded by the commandment, produced in me every kind of covetous desire. For apart from law, sin is dead. Once I was alive apart from law; but when the commandment came, sin sprang to life and I died. I found that the very commandment that was intended to bring life actually brought death. For sin, seizing the opportunity afforded by the commandment, deceived me, and through the commandment put me to death.”
  • 22.
  • 23.
    Romans • “Whata wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?”
  • 24.
    Romans • “Whata wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?” • Jesus Christ
  • 25.
  • 26.
    Romans • Theonly answer to that pain is unconditional love
  • 27.
    Romans • Theonly answer to that pain is unconditional love • That sense of being valued and cherished and loved beyond measure is the very nature of Jesus Christ.
  • 28.
  • 29.
    Romans • Romans8:1-4 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in sinful man in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit.”
  • 30.
  • 31.
    Faith •Ultimately, the greatest source of unconditional love is from God Himself. And if you’re willing to see God as unconditionally loving, then you can access God’s power, strength, support and love anytime you wish.
  • 32.
    Faith •Ultimately, the greatest source of unconditional love is from God Himself. And if you’re willing to see God as unconditionally loving, then you can access God’s power, strength, support and love anytime you wish. • Begin to see God as unconditionally loving.
  • 33.
  • 34.
    Steps •Read the Bible.
  • 35.
    Steps •Read the Bible. • Pray Daily.
  • 36.
    Steps •Read the Bible. • Pray Daily. • Find a Church.
  • 37.
    Steps •Read the Bible. • Pray Daily. • Find a Church. • Find ways to serve God.
  • 38.
  • 39.
    Farewell •“Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”