1. Unqualified for Love
March 19, 2010
Defensive egoʼs that likely will never be qualified for love are
stuck in the ʻsheeple penʼ of going no where but butting their
heads against the self imposed gates rather than being like the sheep in dreams that
ʻjump over the fenceʼ into freedom. Many wonderful people are also only equipped to
function in survivable relationships that donʼt break any records of ʻhow to live and love
bestʼ. If ʻcookieʼ relationships are your cup of tea as desirable, thatʼs a choice.
Few regard deep love as a quest, or a common way of acceptable living. The majority
are qualified to be good pet owners, bill payers, fishermen, nice neighbors, say ʻhi to
peopleʼ and so forth. Over the years, out of thousands Iʼve met, less than a handful
exude love of themselves and the consequent ability to have unlimited love with
another. Also rare jewels, are ones who have a
relentless passion to uncover the love within them
for themselves. People tend to find comfort in being
uncomfortable with accepting themselves and the
love-hate relationship they have manifested.
People continue being like sheeple fenced in to
ʻgrazeʼ and, unconsciously wait for their ʻshearingʼ
by the world. Never do they take seriously the
opportunity to lose the fear of ʻsheep jumping over
the fenceʼ. Freedom of love really starts with letting
go of all the ʻmasksʼ that are easily accepted as
barriers by society and belief systems. To continue being ʻfenced inʼ
with ʻdoʼs and donʼtsʼ of love is to remain unqualified to venture into the
unknown treasures of how deep love can grow, and beyond.
Throwing the one quality that changes life for the better against a wall, is to endlessly
question the value of life and itʼs hidden meanings. Looking for gold in the desert or in a
dark forest with ʻhopes and dreamsʼ of finding it, is to fuel endless depression and false
hope. Love is gold but, much more plentiful yet elusive while being in other ʻzones or
frequenciesʼ of priorities. Love is too precious to be given to just anyone who doesnʼt
love themselves. Glimpses of love are ʻcarrotsʼ to remind one that itʼs there. Reality is,
one has to be qualified and, that means opening the heart with no
fears!
Yesss Self Love Center
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