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  How to Stay POSI IVE
            in a
TOUGH Work Environment
Ot
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                                                in nt
     Be r Pe                                  g
       ha op                               an nme
          vio le’s                       Ch iro
             r
                                         Env




Negative Work              Ouch!
                           YOU
                                             Past
 Environment                              Experiences



                                         De
             e                            te r
         ativ ew                         Th min
      eg d Vi
     N rl                                  eo ism
       o                                       ry
     W

                   Beware the Bullets!
Negative Work
               Environment

- Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead
- No one appreciates your contributions
- Too much work . . . not enough help
- Deadlines are unrealistic
- Longer hours . . . additional work
- Budget Constraints
- Competition is eating us alive
- Poor management / direction
- Job insecurity
Other People’s
                Behavior

                                 Gossips
 Bulldozers       Complainers

Patronizers         Whiners Negatives
        Snipers       Backstabbers
Clams
           Walking Wounded      Controllers
Sluffers      Brown Nosers      Exploders
Changing
     Environment
“The only person who always
 likes change is a wet baby”

CHANGE . . .
x Challenges our
  paradigms
x Alters the way we think
x Makes life more difficult
  for a while
x Causes Stress
x Is an ongoing fact of life
Past
    Ouch!       Experiences


                               Ouch!
        Ouch!                    Ouch!
                                    Ouch!
                       Ouch!



Ouch!



                   Ouch!       Ouch!
Negative
               World View




             Media
             Frenzy
             A recent Statistic:
Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,
      Look at what you are looking at !!!
Determinism
                   Theory


x   GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.
    (Inherited traits)
x   PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.
    (Upbringing)
x   ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss,
    the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this
    to me. (Surroundings)
Life’s Little Question



“Are some people just born positive

 thinkers
       . . . or is it their CHOICE?”
Choose the Right Luggage



               s
       B ullet
Do dge             Be Bulletproo
                                   f
The Problem With Dodging Bullets
      You’re going to get hit!
Choice #2
    Wear Bulletproof Armor
Bulletproof Armor
   Comes from
   SELF CHANGE
Putting on
 the Armor




    nge
Cha gs!
3T hin
How to Change Your Attitude


              ATTITUDE
            Changes happen
              personally
               from the
             INSIDE OUT!



 ATTITUDE
So . . . Accept Responsibility


             I am responsible . . .
               . . . for who I am
               . . . for what I have
               . . . for what I do




       E
ATTITUD
Step #2 Take Control




 Negative
                   YOU
world view




   ATTITUDE      FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!
How to Change Your Thinking


                THINKING

               Changes come
              from observing
                 logically in
               every situation




   THINKING
Observe Your Thinking
                                                 s
                                             t hi
                                                t
    Wh                                        le
   de a t c                                to
     fus an                              se e!
        et Id                        e fu m
          his o t
             ?   o                I r ok
                                     ho
This is all very                     Tomorrow it will
interesting                          look very different.
                         e
                      th            It s
                   at                   u
                                   him cks t
                be                           o
             to                         .        be
           e
      l ik
 I’ d
     …

                             THINKING
Manage Your Self-Talk
      If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…
      YOU’RE RIGHT!                       Henry Ford



This is going to be                  This is going to
 a wonderful day!                    be a crappy day!




 THINKING
How to Change Your Behavior

               BEHAVIOR

             Changes take
             true assessment,
             determination &
             discipline




  BEHAVIOR
Choose Your Behavior
                REACTIVE


     Stimulus              Response



                RESPONSIBLE

                   My               My
Stimulus          Choice         Response

BEHAVIOR
Steps Toward Changing Behavior

                                 The New YOU!

  BEHAVIOR


             4. Unconscious Competence

         3. Conscience Competence

      2. Conscience Incompetence

   1. Unconscious Incompetence
INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!
        Add POSI      +IVE Behavior
Replace the BAD HABITS!
• Spread a SMILE around
• Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives
•   Focus on the good of each day
•   Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”
•   Say “please” and “thank you”
•   Practice EMPATHY
•   Evaluate YOUR behavior
•   Never miss an opportunity to complement
BEHAVIOR
More POSI        +IVE Contributions
• Before you say anything to anyone, ask
  yourself three things
     1. Is it true?
     2. Is it harmful?
     3. Is it necessary?
•   Keep promises
•   Have a forgiving view of people
•   Keep an open mind with changes
•   Count to 1000 if necessary
•   See criticism as opportunity to improve
•   Cultivate your sense of humor
Remember to . . .
Watch your definitions -
 they become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -
 they become words
Watch your words -
they become actions
Watch your actions -
they become your destiny
The Choice is YOURS

 With a Bad attitude
you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude
  you can never have a bad day
+IVE Living
Choose POSI

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Staying positive

  • 1. + How to Stay POSI IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
  • 2. Ot he The Environment g in nt Be r Pe g ha op an nme vio le’s Ch iro r Env Negative Work Ouch! YOU Past Environment Experiences De e te r ativ ew Th min eg d Vi N rl eo ism o ry W Beware the Bullets!
  • 3. Negative Work Environment - Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity
  • 4. Other People’s Behavior Gossips Bulldozers Complainers Patronizers Whiners Negatives Snipers Backstabbers Clams Walking Wounded Controllers Sluffers Brown Nosers Exploders
  • 5. Changing Environment “The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” CHANGE . . . x Challenges our paradigms x Alters the way we think x Makes life more difficult for a while x Causes Stress x Is an ongoing fact of life
  • 6. Past Ouch! Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
  • 7. Negative World View Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%, Look at what you are looking at !!!
  • 8. Determinism Theory x GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) x PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) x ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings)
  • 9. Life’s Little Question “Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?”
  • 10. Choose the Right Luggage s B ullet Do dge Be Bulletproo f
  • 11. The Problem With Dodging Bullets You’re going to get hit!
  • 12. Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
  • 13. Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
  • 14. Putting on the Armor nge Cha gs! 3T hin
  • 15. How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT! ATTITUDE
  • 16. So . . . Accept Responsibility I am responsible . . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do E ATTITUD
  • 17. Step #2 Take Control Negative YOU world view ATTITUDE FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!
  • 18. How to Change Your Thinking THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation THINKING
  • 19. Observe Your Thinking s t hi t Wh le de a t c to fus an se e! et Id e fu m his o t ? o I r ok ho This is all very Tomorrow it will interesting look very different. e th It s at u him cks t be o to . be e l ik I’ d … THINKING
  • 20. Manage Your Self-Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford This is going to be This is going to a wonderful day! be a crappy day! THINKING
  • 21. How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline BEHAVIOR
  • 22. Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE Stimulus Response RESPONSIBLE My My Stimulus Choice Response BEHAVIOR
  • 23. Steps Toward Changing Behavior The New YOU! BEHAVIOR 4. Unconscious Competence 3. Conscience Competence 2. Conscience Incompetence 1. Unconscious Incompetence
  • 24. INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Add POSI +IVE Behavior Replace the BAD HABITS! • Spread a SMILE around • Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives • Focus on the good of each day • Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” • Say “please” and “thank you” • Practice EMPATHY • Evaluate YOUR behavior • Never miss an opportunity to complement BEHAVIOR
  • 25. More POSI +IVE Contributions • Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things 1. Is it true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary? • Keep promises • Have a forgiving view of people • Keep an open mind with changes • Count to 1000 if necessary • See criticism as opportunity to improve • Cultivate your sense of humor
  • 26. Remember to . . . Watch your definitions - they become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become words Watch your words - they become actions Watch your actions - they become your destiny
  • 27. The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day

Editor's Notes

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