Our Founder, Roy Larson spoke on the topic of "Bringing out the Best in People" and how this can increase production, and efficiency in your jobs. Our consultants apply this to their relationships with developers, stakeholders, clients, etc. to be a catalyst in projects and your organizations everyday performance.
Our Founder, Roy Larson spoke on the topic of "Bringing out the Best in People" and how this can increase production, and efficiency in your jobs. Our consultants apply this to their relationships with developers, stakeholders, clients, etc. to be a catalyst in projects and your organizations everyday performance.
1 Rethinking Trust by Roderick M. Kramer Despit.docxaryan532920
1
Rethinking Trust
by Roderick M. Kramer
Despite deceit, greed, and incompetence on a previously unimaginable scale, people are still
trusting too much.
For the past two decades, trust has been touted as the all-powerful lubricant that keeps the
economic wheels turning and greases the right connections—all to our collective benefit. Popular
business books proclaim the power and virtue of trust. Academics have enthusiastically piled up
study after study showing the varied benefits of trust, especially when it is based on a clear track
record, credible expertise, and prominence in the right networks.
Then along came Bernie. There was “something about this person, pedigree, and reputation that
inspired trust,” mused one broker taken in by Bernard Madoff, who confessed to a $65 billion
Ponzi scheme—one of the largest and most successful in history. On the surface, Madoff
possessed all the bona fides—the record, the résumé, the expertise, and the social connections.
But the fact that so many people, including some sophisticated financial experts and business
leaders, were lulled into a false sense of security when dealing with Madoff should give us
pause. Why are we so prone to trusting?
Madoff is hardly the first to pull the wool over so many eyes. What about Enron, WorldCom,
Tyco, and all the other corporate scandals of the past decade? Is there perhaps a problem with
how we trust?
I have been grappling with this question for most of my 30 years as a social psychologist,
exploring both the strengths and the weaknesses of trust. In the wake of the recent massive and
pervasive abuses—and with evidence of more scandals surfacing each day—I think it’s worth
taking another look at why we trust so readily, why we sometimes trust poorly, and what we can
do about it. In the following pages, I present the thesis that human beings are naturally
predisposed to trust—it’s in our genes and our childhood learning—and by and large it’s a
survival mechanism that has served our species well. That said, our willingness to trust often gets
us into trouble. Moreover, we sometimes have difficulty distinguishing trustworthy people from
untrustworthy ones. At a species level, that doesn’t matter very much so long as more people are
trustworthy than not. At the individual level, though, it can be a real problem. To survive as
individuals, we’ll have to learn to trust wisely and well. That kind of trust—I call it tempered
trust—doesn’t come easily, but if you diligently ask yourself the right questions, you can
develop it.
Let’s begin by looking at why we’re so prone to trust.
http://hbr.harvardbusiness.org/search/Roderick+M.+Kramer/0/author
2
To Trust Is Human
It all starts with the brain. Thanks to our large brains, humans are born physically premature and
highly dependent on caretakers. Because of this need, we enter the world “hardwired” to make
social connections. The evidence is impre ...
It’s a wonder to me why we bother to get to know these people, but we do, and it’s very difficult to cut them out of our lives once we’ve let them in. It’s easy to talk ourselves out of taking this step, but it’s necessary if we want to maintain healthy mental and emotional states. If you’re unsure, here are some ways to spot a toxic person in your life.
Credibility : An Important Ingredient to HaveKIGUME Karuri
LET US GO BACK TO THE CROSS ROADS AND SEEK TO BE CREDIBLE IN OUR DAYS. THIS IS AN IMPORTANT INGREDIENT LACKING IN ALL SPHERES OF OUR SOCIETY TODAY. VERY DIFFICULT TO GET CREDIBLE PEOPLE
Discover the neuroscience behind the physical and emotional impact leaders can have on their teams by having positive celebrations and intelligent conversations.
Have you ever wondered why some companies always stay small? Many times, I have seen private companies grow to around US$50 million in sales and pretty much stop there. I have a feeling one of the reasons is the CEO does not know how to work with managers under him. He likes to make all the decisions and will not delegate decision-making to his managers. This tends to stop growth at that US$50 million level. A few years ago, I prepared a presentation on this problem titled CEO PRIDE. I think it is still important today, so I uploaded it into SLIDESHARE. I talk about using the advantages of pride and avoiding the disadvantages. Have a look at it. If you have any comments on it, drop me a note.
Global Situational Awareness of A.I. and where its headedvikram sood
You can see the future first in San Francisco.
Over the past year, the talk of the town has shifted from $10 billion compute clusters to $100 billion clusters to trillion-dollar clusters. Every six months another zero is added to the boardroom plans. Behind the scenes, there’s a fierce scramble to secure every power contract still available for the rest of the decade, every voltage transformer that can possibly be procured. American big business is gearing up to pour trillions of dollars into a long-unseen mobilization of American industrial might. By the end of the decade, American electricity production will have grown tens of percent; from the shale fields of Pennsylvania to the solar farms of Nevada, hundreds of millions of GPUs will hum.
The AGI race has begun. We are building machines that can think and reason. By 2025/26, these machines will outpace college graduates. By the end of the decade, they will be smarter than you or I; we will have superintelligence, in the true sense of the word. Along the way, national security forces not seen in half a century will be un-leashed, and before long, The Project will be on. If we’re lucky, we’ll be in an all-out race with the CCP; if we’re unlucky, an all-out war.
Everyone is now talking about AI, but few have the faintest glimmer of what is about to hit them. Nvidia analysts still think 2024 might be close to the peak. Mainstream pundits are stuck on the wilful blindness of “it’s just predicting the next word”. They see only hype and business-as-usual; at most they entertain another internet-scale technological change.
Before long, the world will wake up. But right now, there are perhaps a few hundred people, most of them in San Francisco and the AI labs, that have situational awareness. Through whatever peculiar forces of fate, I have found myself amongst them. A few years ago, these people were derided as crazy—but they trusted the trendlines, which allowed them to correctly predict the AI advances of the past few years. Whether these people are also right about the next few years remains to be seen. But these are very smart people—the smartest people I have ever met—and they are the ones building this technology. Perhaps they will be an odd footnote in history, or perhaps they will go down in history like Szilard and Oppenheimer and Teller. If they are seeing the future even close to correctly, we are in for a wild ride.
Let me tell you what we see.
1 Rethinking Trust by Roderick M. Kramer Despit.docxaryan532920
1
Rethinking Trust
by Roderick M. Kramer
Despite deceit, greed, and incompetence on a previously unimaginable scale, people are still
trusting too much.
For the past two decades, trust has been touted as the all-powerful lubricant that keeps the
economic wheels turning and greases the right connections—all to our collective benefit. Popular
business books proclaim the power and virtue of trust. Academics have enthusiastically piled up
study after study showing the varied benefits of trust, especially when it is based on a clear track
record, credible expertise, and prominence in the right networks.
Then along came Bernie. There was “something about this person, pedigree, and reputation that
inspired trust,” mused one broker taken in by Bernard Madoff, who confessed to a $65 billion
Ponzi scheme—one of the largest and most successful in history. On the surface, Madoff
possessed all the bona fides—the record, the résumé, the expertise, and the social connections.
But the fact that so many people, including some sophisticated financial experts and business
leaders, were lulled into a false sense of security when dealing with Madoff should give us
pause. Why are we so prone to trusting?
Madoff is hardly the first to pull the wool over so many eyes. What about Enron, WorldCom,
Tyco, and all the other corporate scandals of the past decade? Is there perhaps a problem with
how we trust?
I have been grappling with this question for most of my 30 years as a social psychologist,
exploring both the strengths and the weaknesses of trust. In the wake of the recent massive and
pervasive abuses—and with evidence of more scandals surfacing each day—I think it’s worth
taking another look at why we trust so readily, why we sometimes trust poorly, and what we can
do about it. In the following pages, I present the thesis that human beings are naturally
predisposed to trust—it’s in our genes and our childhood learning—and by and large it’s a
survival mechanism that has served our species well. That said, our willingness to trust often gets
us into trouble. Moreover, we sometimes have difficulty distinguishing trustworthy people from
untrustworthy ones. At a species level, that doesn’t matter very much so long as more people are
trustworthy than not. At the individual level, though, it can be a real problem. To survive as
individuals, we’ll have to learn to trust wisely and well. That kind of trust—I call it tempered
trust—doesn’t come easily, but if you diligently ask yourself the right questions, you can
develop it.
Let’s begin by looking at why we’re so prone to trust.
http://hbr.harvardbusiness.org/search/Roderick+M.+Kramer/0/author
2
To Trust Is Human
It all starts with the brain. Thanks to our large brains, humans are born physically premature and
highly dependent on caretakers. Because of this need, we enter the world “hardwired” to make
social connections. The evidence is impre ...
It’s a wonder to me why we bother to get to know these people, but we do, and it’s very difficult to cut them out of our lives once we’ve let them in. It’s easy to talk ourselves out of taking this step, but it’s necessary if we want to maintain healthy mental and emotional states. If you’re unsure, here are some ways to spot a toxic person in your life.
Credibility : An Important Ingredient to HaveKIGUME Karuri
LET US GO BACK TO THE CROSS ROADS AND SEEK TO BE CREDIBLE IN OUR DAYS. THIS IS AN IMPORTANT INGREDIENT LACKING IN ALL SPHERES OF OUR SOCIETY TODAY. VERY DIFFICULT TO GET CREDIBLE PEOPLE
Discover the neuroscience behind the physical and emotional impact leaders can have on their teams by having positive celebrations and intelligent conversations.
Have you ever wondered why some companies always stay small? Many times, I have seen private companies grow to around US$50 million in sales and pretty much stop there. I have a feeling one of the reasons is the CEO does not know how to work with managers under him. He likes to make all the decisions and will not delegate decision-making to his managers. This tends to stop growth at that US$50 million level. A few years ago, I prepared a presentation on this problem titled CEO PRIDE. I think it is still important today, so I uploaded it into SLIDESHARE. I talk about using the advantages of pride and avoiding the disadvantages. Have a look at it. If you have any comments on it, drop me a note.
Global Situational Awareness of A.I. and where its headedvikram sood
You can see the future first in San Francisco.
Over the past year, the talk of the town has shifted from $10 billion compute clusters to $100 billion clusters to trillion-dollar clusters. Every six months another zero is added to the boardroom plans. Behind the scenes, there’s a fierce scramble to secure every power contract still available for the rest of the decade, every voltage transformer that can possibly be procured. American big business is gearing up to pour trillions of dollars into a long-unseen mobilization of American industrial might. By the end of the decade, American electricity production will have grown tens of percent; from the shale fields of Pennsylvania to the solar farms of Nevada, hundreds of millions of GPUs will hum.
The AGI race has begun. We are building machines that can think and reason. By 2025/26, these machines will outpace college graduates. By the end of the decade, they will be smarter than you or I; we will have superintelligence, in the true sense of the word. Along the way, national security forces not seen in half a century will be un-leashed, and before long, The Project will be on. If we’re lucky, we’ll be in an all-out race with the CCP; if we’re unlucky, an all-out war.
Everyone is now talking about AI, but few have the faintest glimmer of what is about to hit them. Nvidia analysts still think 2024 might be close to the peak. Mainstream pundits are stuck on the wilful blindness of “it’s just predicting the next word”. They see only hype and business-as-usual; at most they entertain another internet-scale technological change.
Before long, the world will wake up. But right now, there are perhaps a few hundred people, most of them in San Francisco and the AI labs, that have situational awareness. Through whatever peculiar forces of fate, I have found myself amongst them. A few years ago, these people were derided as crazy—but they trusted the trendlines, which allowed them to correctly predict the AI advances of the past few years. Whether these people are also right about the next few years remains to be seen. But these are very smart people—the smartest people I have ever met—and they are the ones building this technology. Perhaps they will be an odd footnote in history, or perhaps they will go down in history like Szilard and Oppenheimer and Teller. If they are seeing the future even close to correctly, we are in for a wild ride.
Let me tell you what we see.
A sound and deep insight into building a sustainable DAO. All copyrights rest with Arca, published here for sharing knowledge and to keep as public memory.
NFT or Non-fungible tokens
Are identified as a unit of data stored in an electronic
ledger (blockchain technology), then validated to be a unique identifier that cannot be interchanged and are indivisible.
NFTs have bridged the gap between celebrities and fans, creators and collectors. A marketplace plays a very important role in the circulation of NFTs among every NFT enthusiast.
What is an NFT marketplace?
An NFT marketplace is a platform that acts as a medium or a meeting point for collectors and creators. Creators can come, list their NFTs on the marketplace. Whereas, for collectors, all they have to do is to come, bid, and buy their favorite NFT. Through this process, they come a step closer to their favorite celebrities, artists, or creators. For creators, it is a golden opportunity to get the real deal. Every time the NFT collectible is sold the creators a small percentage of profit as royalty.
Till we can control nature, let’s control how we respond to its everchanging nature.
This concept is for state governments of NE India to reduce losses of lives, livestock and materials - caused by annual flooding.
Jeevan Rath – the wheel that keeps spinning bringing relief and response to the most vulnerable
Collective efforts have left footprints stretching from Mumbai across India as volunteers and partners who supported migrant families, people stuck on the road and daily wage earners to reach home continue to reach families and children.
Stephanie Raison
2020...
We all saw the photographs in the media, and we heard some of the stories. A mass of people, many wearing only chappals on their feet, walking for hours under the sun, some carrying children, and sometimes not even knowing if they were going in the right direction.
Many of us watched this unfold via the small screen of our phone, enclosed by our four walls Tweeting Stay Home, Stay Safe. For millions though those walls soon collapsed and some of the hardest hit were in India’s financial capital, Mumbai.
After almost two months of the nation-wide lockdown to prevent the spread of COVID-19, more than 1,200,000 migrant workers who without daily wage jobs were unable to pay their rents in Mumbai. Without anywhere safe to stay they were heading home by train, bus, truck and often just on foot. Approximately 30,000- 40,000 migrants were leaving Mumbai daily.
Even at 10:30 p.m. messages continued to ping on the phones of development workers across Maharashtra. A powerful movement was being set in motion.
We at Hungry Wheels acted as catalysts and created JEEVAN RATH and continued to contributed as mobility partners too with some 55 organizations from across the Maharashtra State that had collectively decided that they were going to do something, together with one goal – to help those most in need through Jeevan Rath - relief on wheels with Hungry Wheels.
https://www.unicef.org/india/stories/jeevan-rath-wheel-keeps-spinning-bringing-relief-and-response-most-vulnerable
Jeevan Rath_ Hungry Wheels Response to Covid19vikram sood
After almost two months of the nation-wide lockdown,
with no access to jobs, unable to pay rent and fearing
for their lives, more than 1,200,000 migrant workers in
Mumbai, are heading home - either by trains, buses,
trucks and most times by foot. Approximately 30,000-
40,000 migrants have been leaving Mumbai daily,
without food and water, in a desperate bid for
survival.
UNICEF would like to appreciate and recognize HUNGRY WHEELS for their dedication and for giving
Jeevan Rath the ability to help as many migrant populations as possible in Maharashtra.
It would further like to commend Hungry Wheels for coming up with the concept of Jeevan Rath, the name of the campaign, as well as contributing the vehicles necessary for making it happen. They were the catalysts that this
movement needed.
Implementers/Collaborators:
321 education foundation, AIILSG, Alert Citizens Foundation, CASA Mumbai, Citizens Association for Child
Rights, CORO, CYDA, Doctors without Borders, Ecosan Services Foundation, Essar Foundation, Family Welfare
Training & Research Centre, FICCI Ladies Association of Mumbai, Geo Roti Ghar, Habitat For Humanity India, Hope
For Children Society, Hungry wheels, India Water Portal, Idobro, Maharashtra State Innovation
Society, Maharashtra State Pollution Control Board, Makaam Maharashtra, Maharashtra State Rural Livelihood
Mission, PriMove India, Project Mumbai, Red is the New Green, Red R, RISE Infinity Foundation, Rotary Club of
Bombay, Samagra, Sato, Lixil, Save the Children, SBM URBAN-Maharashtra, SOS Children's
Villages, SwaCh, Swayam Shikshan Prayog, The LIFE Foundation, The Resilient Foundation, Triratna Prerana
Mandal, UNICEF, Water Supply and Sanitation Department, World Vision India, YMCA Mumbai, Youth for Unity
and Voluntary Action (YUVA), Youth4work, SOPECOM
Donors:
Metro Shoes, Arghyam, United Way Mumbai, Glenmark Foundation, Tech Mahindra Foundation, Shapoorji Palonji,
National Stock Exchange Foundation and Gala.
Brand Elasticity and Architecture by vikram soodvikram sood
In the field of brand management, ‘Brand Elasticity’ is the extent to which an existing or a new brand can be extended across sectors, products or services.
It is the way brands within a company's portfolio can be monetised without increasing branding or marketing costs.
Copyrights: Vikram Sood
VUAR a technology for inclusive tourismvikram sood
TOURISM: IS TRAVEL FOR RECREATIONAL, LEISURE OR BUSINESS PURPOSES.
THE WORLD TOURISM ORGANIZATION DEFINES TOURISTS AS PEOPLE "TRAVELING TO AND STAYING IN PLACES OUTSIDE THEIR USUAL ENVIRONMENT FOR NOT MORE THAN ONE CONSECUTIVE YEAR FOR LEISURE, BUSINESS AND OTHER PURPOSES".
VUAR (Viewable Usable Augment Reality) concept as an enhanced and rich-media story-telling medium at historical monuments pan-India.
2009, Kyoorius Design Yatra. Created an active RFID based event networking platform for Design Yatra to track interactions create networking opportunities and quantify the financial impact of the world’s largest design conference.
A unique service I used to, and sometimes still offer to a select group of brands. Whereby I play the role of their external creative director, showing news ways to see and new ways to think to the companies internal teams. Which can get mired in operations.
2009, Kyoorius Design Yatra
Problem? How do you break-ice between introverts/ creative creators at an event of 2000 plus people?
Solution: Convert the entire space into a RFID mesh. Each participant wears a RFID wrist band.
Each participant's movement creates a Live Digital Painting, on multi-touch screens placed around.
One-click on the person's icon moving around the screen (on phone) reveals three key points to start a conversation, you can also request for a coffee catch-up, and schedule it.
This product is now being licensed out, do feel free to contact.
Enriching engagement with ethical review processesstrikingabalance
New ethics review processes at the University of Bath. Presented at the 8th World Conference on Research Integrity by Filipa Vance, Head of Research Governance and Compliance at the University of Bath. June 2024, Athens
12 steps to transform your organization into the agile org you deservePierre E. NEIS
During an organizational transformation, the shift is from the previous state to an improved one. In the realm of agility, I emphasize the significance of identifying polarities. This approach helps establish a clear understanding of your objectives. I have outlined 12 incremental actions to delineate your organizational strategy.
The case study discusses the potential of drone delivery and the challenges that need to be addressed before it becomes widespread.
Key takeaways:
Drone delivery is in its early stages: Amazon's trial in the UK demonstrates the potential for faster deliveries, but it's still limited by regulations and technology.
Regulations are a major hurdle: Safety concerns around drone collisions with airplanes and people have led to restrictions on flight height and location.
Other challenges exist: Who will use drone delivery the most? Is it cost-effective compared to traditional delivery trucks?
Discussion questions:
Managerial challenges: Integrating drones requires planning for new infrastructure, training staff, and navigating regulations. There are also marketing and recruitment considerations specific to this technology.
External forces vary by country: Regulations, consumer acceptance, and infrastructure all differ between countries.
Demographics matter: Younger generations might be more receptive to drone delivery, while older populations might have concerns.
Stakeholders for Amazon: Customers, regulators, aviation authorities, and competitors are all stakeholders. Regulators likely hold the greatest influence as they determine the feasibility of drone delivery.
Senior Project and Engineering Leader Jim Smith.pdfJim Smith
I am a Project and Engineering Leader with extensive experience as a Business Operations Leader, Technical Project Manager, Engineering Manager and Operations Experience for Domestic and International companies such as Electrolux, Carrier, and Deutz. I have developed new products using Stage Gate development/MS Project/JIRA, for the pro-duction of Medical Equipment, Large Commercial Refrigeration Systems, Appliances, HVAC, and Diesel engines.
My experience includes:
Managed customized engineered refrigeration system projects with high voltage power panels from quote to ship, coordinating actions between electrical engineering, mechanical design and application engineering, purchasing, production, test, quality assurance and field installation. Managed projects $25k to $1M per project; 4-8 per month. (Hussmann refrigeration)
Successfully developed the $15-20M yearly corporate capital strategy for manufacturing, with the Executive Team and key stakeholders. Created project scope and specifications, business case, ROI, managed project plans with key personnel for nine consumer product manufacturing and distribution sites; to support the company’s strategic sales plan.
Over 15 years of experience managing and developing cost improvement projects with key Stakeholders, site Manufacturing Engineers, Mechanical Engineers, Maintenance, and facility support personnel to optimize pro-duction operations, safety, EHS, and new product development. (BioLab, Deutz, Caire)
Experience working as a Technical Manager developing new products with chemical engineers and packaging engineers to enhance and reduce the cost of retail products. I have led the activities of multiple engineering groups with diverse backgrounds.
Great experience managing the product development of products which utilize complex electrical controls, high voltage power panels, product testing, and commissioning.
Created project scope, business case, ROI for multiple capital projects to support electrotechnical assembly and CPG goods. Identified project cost, risk, success criteria, and performed equipment qualifications. (Carrier, Electrolux, Biolab, Price, Hussmann)
Created detailed projects plans using MS Project, Gant charts in excel, and updated new product development in Jira for stakeholders and project team members including critical path.
Great knowledge of ISO9001, NFPA, OSHA regulations.
User level knowledge of MRP/SAP, MS Project, Powerpoint, Visio, Mastercontrol, JIRA, Power BI and Tableau.
I appreciate your consideration, and look forward to discussing this role with you, and how I can lead your company’s growth and profitability. I can be contacted via LinkedIn via phone or E Mail.
Jim Smith
678-993-7195
jimsmith30024@gmail.com
Employment PracticesRegulation and Multinational CorporationsRoopaTemkar
Employment PracticesRegulation and Multinational Corporations
Strategic decision making within MNCs constrained or determined by the implementation of laws and codes of practice and by pressure from political actors. Managers in MNCs have to make choices that are shaped by gvmt. intervention and the local economy.
Comparing Stability and Sustainability in Agile SystemsRob Healy
Copy of the presentation given at XP2024 based on a research paper.
In this paper we explain wat overwork is and the physical and mental health risks associated with it.
We then explore how overwork relates to system stability and inventory.
Finally there is a call to action for Team Leads / Scrum Masters / Managers to measure and monitor excess work for individual teams.
Specific ServPoints should be tailored for restaurants in all food service segments. Your ServPoints should be the centerpiece of brand delivery training (guest service) and align with your brand position and marketing initiatives, especially in high-labor-cost conditions.
408-784-7371
Foodservice Consulting + Design
Integrity in leadership builds trust by ensuring consistency between words an...Ram V Chary
Integrity in leadership builds trust by ensuring consistency between words and actions, making leaders reliable and credible. It also ensures ethical decision-making, which fosters a positive organizational culture and promotes long-term success. #RamVChary
Public Speaking Tips to Help You Be A Strong Leader.pdfPinta Partners
In the realm of effective leadership, a multitude of skills come into play, but one stands out as both crucial and challenging: public speaking.
Public speaking transcends mere eloquence; it serves as the medium through which leaders articulate their vision, inspire action, and foster engagement. For leaders, refining public speaking skills is essential, elevating their ability to influence, persuade, and lead with resolute conviction. Here are some key tips to consider: https://joellandau.com/the-public-speaking-tips-to-help-you-be-a-stronger-leader/
A presentation on mastering key management concepts across projects, products, programs, and portfolios. Whether you're an aspiring manager or looking to enhance your skills, this session will provide you with the knowledge and tools to succeed in various management roles. Learn about the distinct lifecycles, methodologies, and essential skillsets needed to thrive in today's dynamic business environment.
Org Design is a core skill to be mastered by management for any successful org change.
Org Topologies™ in its essence is a two-dimensional space with 16 distinctive boxes - atomic organizational archetypes. That space helps you to plot your current operating model by positioning individuals, departments, and teams on the map. This will give a profound understanding of the performance of your value-creating organizational ecosystem.
1. Sizing people Up
A veteran FBI agent’s user manual for behavior prediction
Robin Dreeke and Cameron Stauth
2. RobinDreeke is former headof FBIs counter intelligence
behavior analysis program
CameronStauthhas written26 books, he was editor in
chief for three magazines.
3. Few of the most serious problems in life are as
common as not being able to read people
accurately predict what theywill do.
4. Even good people feel the need to hide things,
because nobody’s perfect and everybody’s
vulnerable. A high percentage of people break
rules and lie when they are desperate.
5. Decent, moral peoplealso shade the truth
because each of us wants to be loved, and
sometimes we’reafraid that our true selves
aren’t worth it.
6. Peoplehide the whole truth for reasons that
are far darker- such as greed, manipulation,
power, control and deception. It’s particularly
likely whenpeople rise to positions of power,
even if it’s a petty form of power.
7. Trust is a lofty value. Trust is the active form of
faith. It demonstrates in real time and in the
real world – a belief that people will not only
try to do what they say they will, but also have
the competence and diligenceto make it
happen.
8. To functioneffectively, humans must be able
to predict what the others will do, and trust
them accordingly. But, if you hand your trust
like candy, you can lose the things you treasure
most.
9. When you are sizing people up, you learn a lot
about their character, traits, tendencies,
desires, affections, strengths, weaknesses, but
all that feeds into the single most attribute
that you’re invariably looking for :
trustworthiness.
10. The one thing you can almost always predict is
for people to act in their own best interests.
12. Predicting behavior isn’t rocket science, but it
is a social science, and requires you to apply
the right equationof logic, strategy,
skepticism, observational skills, and the ability
to accept unwelcome truths.
13. To find out if someoneis a good ally, talk to
them about theirimmediate goals, necessities,
concerns and passions, and see if they fit with
yours. The urge for partnership is a primal
need.
14. Unreliableand unpredictable people often try
to say the right things with the right words,
but are usually exposedby subtle signs of the
disconnect between their words and actions.
15. Effective communicators ask a lot of questions,
are easy to understand, don’t try to
manipulate, and are always looking for ways to
connect.
16. When you are sizing up people, your greatest
sources of information will be through
conversation. Conversationtells, speech tells,
non verbal tells from the rest of the body, and
factual information.
17. The reality is, very few people are looking to
hurt you. Theyare just trying to take care of
themselves and their families as you are- so its
against your best interests to judge them for
that.
18. 10 negativetells to watch for
1. Supervisors pass you over for a promotion and give it to someone else whom you work with
2. Your bosses point out ways you are different from them
3. Your bosses leave you out of meetings that your peers attend
4. People in power over you exaggerateyour trivial errors
5. Your immediate supervisor points to other departments where you might excel
6. Executives engage in negative non verbals while you are offering ideas.
7. Your boss asks you about rumors that you’ve done something wrong
8. Your organizations decision makers text or send e mails when talking to you
9. Leaders never say‘ I want you to succeed here’
10. People challenge your thoughts and ideas.
19. I’ve also found that as a rule, the farther
peoplego back into their lives, the more they
lower their shields.
20. One of the toughest demands of maintaining a
personal relationship in a business situation,
since business situations change far more
often than peopledo.
21. A good boss is totally mission oriented. He is
reliable at whatever he chooses to do, because
his personality is about competence and
diligence.
22. One of the most ironic ingredients of power is
that it grows faster when you let it go.
24. There is also a classic , unchanged factor at
play – the so called ‘curse of competence’.
Some peopleare actually punished for their
competence, because less competent workers
sabotage their success or dump their own
work on them.
25. Competenceshould be a quality to be judged
rationally but has become qualitative because
of antiquated techniques of judging it.
26. Even thoughlack of competence is a deal
breaker in most issues of trust, competence
without diligencecan be more insidious
because it will catch you off guard.
27. Diligence is one of our primary rudders. It
guides us through days of doubt, it course
corrects whenwe go off track, and it
contributes tremendously to the predictability
and reliability creates and reflects.
28. Diligent people work without drama, don’t
play politics, don’t get into last minute glitches
and don’t shirk responsibility.
29. The primary driver of character driven people
is not financial, it is sincerity, consistent
respect.
30. 10 negativetells for reliability
1. Unreliable people micromanagewithout offering help
2. Unreliable people disappear and play hard to find
3. Unreliable people have chronic punctuality problems
4. Unreliable people grab the credit of others
5. Unreliable people are careless about appearance
6. Unreliable people depend on others to fix their problems
7. Unreliable people have a hard time picking up new concepts
8. Unreliable people don’t keep adequate records
9. Unreliable people plan more than act.
10. Unreliable people don’t take their mistakes seriously
31. 10 positivetells for reliability
1. Reliable people carry themselves with genuine confidence
2. Reliable people speak with specifics
3. Reliable people are transparent about their mistakes
4. Reliable people welcome tough jobs and hard deadlines
5. Reliable people hit the ground running and then speed up
6. Reliable people are inquisitive
7. Reliable people accept blame graciously
8. Reliable people measure their contribution not by their sacrifices but by their productivity
9. Reliable people nonverbals remain stable in times of stress and strain
10. Reliable people don’t have enemies, they are their own best enemy.
32. The hardest element to isolate is the awkward
intersectionof thought and emotion. Human
beings are often dreamy and call it optimism,
or too fearful and call it prudence.
33. The changes that affect character most are
threats and temptations, which sometimes
occur simultaneously.
We see this happen in politics and business.
This is the powerparadox.
34. A history of honesty is usually considered one
of the most valuable indicators of strong
character and trustworthiness, watchout
because many business executives are adept
at telling the truth but rarelythe full truth.
36. In meetings, company guys usually remain
silent but are gung ho when the boss gives the
go.
37. Its hard to robustly trust anyone who has
direct power over you, because too much is at
stake to be complacent about it.
38. Humility is one of the things all of us want, but
don’t always likeit.
39. Fear is necessary to survive, and love is
necessary to thrive. The same cannot be said
of any other emotion.
40. Love in the broadest sense must be present for
trust.
Trusting and liking are nit at all synonymous,
but in all cases theyare simultaneously
present, simply because you cannot trust
someone if you dint like them.
41. Emotional stability exists on a continuumand
most peopleare adequately stable while
others have abundant emotional stability.
42. 10 negativetells about emotional stability
1. People learn to be helpless
2. People surrender their right to positive perceptions
3. People catastrophize
4. People show signs of permanent personalization of problems
5. People see them selves as victims
6. People have a sense of entitlement
7. People wait to be rescued
8. People think in blame terms
9. People are volatile
10. People are manipulators.
43. 10 positivetells about emotional stability
1. People show an abundance of appreciation
2. People are hard to scare
3. People are impeccably rational
4. People adhere to a code of trust
5. People offer you choices
6. People are happy with themselves
7. People have power but don’t love it or misuse it
8. People are flexible
9. People are calm
10. People don’t look for problems
44. Life rarely travels in a straight , unbroken line.
life unfurls at abrupt right angles created by
choices we make, to trust or doubt, to accept
or reject. These are the moments that define
us
45. With logic, discipline, and information, you can
spot flakes and phonies, defy the forces of
manipulation, get to the bottomof complex
situations.