1. The Untold Story ofSister Big Bones

2. This is dedicated to the restoration and respect of our Sisters Big Bones who are looked over, stepped over, passed over and all the other overs. Only to see and find their smaller friend or friends getting all the attention that they themselves long for. One of the most noticeable side affects of having been looked over is the loss of her true Identity and the adoption of a false Identity. First it is the nature of a Woman wanting to be loved and to be paid some attention too. After being looked over so many times Sister Big Bones begins to compromise the standard by which she uses to select a suitable companion and simultaneously lowers the standard and the esteem in which she is held. Consequently creating a state of mind of desperatism.

3. (Her state of MIND - DESPERATISM) Desperation becomes the state of mind that she operates from. She then loses all respect for herself in search of the attention she's being neglected of. So in an attempt to make herself feel and look just as attractive she goes out and buys clothes that are way too small and too little and most of all too tight revealing the contour of her shape (that that was made sacred for one man's eyes only) desperately hoping to garnish the attention of any Man openly and making a mockery of herself and her sacred position and place that has been ordained by God him/herself. This horrific display of Sister Big Bones most not continue to exist. In the loss of Identity we find that it takes place on three levels of Identity.

4. Personal Identity Personal Identity is the most concrete way in identifying who you are as a person. Your Names are no longer Names of significance, Names that carry meaning and that points to certain attributes in your character. Current Names where passed on from slavery such as John, Lewis, McGee, Wilson and so on and these are not our Cultural Names which point to our personal identity. These are our former Slave Masters names his name, his Identity (and they were not given willingly). Upon arriving on the shores of America we quickly discovered we had no ties to our Native land, language or our cultural dress. We come from a society where we were distinguished by our tribe or village and the way we presented ourselves. We lived with Dignity and had a personal relationship with our Creator.

5. Cultural Identity Today nothing about us in the West shows pride in our Cultural Identity in fact many of us that share one drop of a slave's blood are doing the best we can to distance ourselves from that Cultural Identity and that's who we are. We have taken on a concept of Personal and Cultural Identity that is contrary to our ethnic background, make-up and ultimately Gods Plan. The women in the West won't be caught without makeup on, high hills or a dress without her legs or breast being exposed. That's the idea of beauty in the West consequently not just African American women but women in general have accepted this depiction of themselves to be the ideal concept of beauty. God has laid out the requirements in his Holy Books, the Quran and Sunnah of Prophet Mohammed (SAWS), Ingily (Isa-Jesus), Moses and the Torah. The religious community with regard to the education of what these religious institutions all have in common is that the modesty and integrity of our women should be maintained by their willingness to please God first, their husbands seconds and their children/family and all of humanity last.

6. Spiritual Identity No longer do we have that kind of Spiritual Identity that see's our Creator as one, nor do we see His creation as one. In our inability to see and regard ourselves in the proper manner that God has laid down for us, to see and respect each others differences as an opportunity to learn from one another is looked upon as a foreign idea that is indirect contradictory of the purpose for which false identities exist. God is One and his Creation is One. and should be respected in all forms.

7. I love me some Sister Big Bones, May Allah (God) reward our efforts.Your Brother Khashiff Amir SalahuDin.