This post was formerly titled, “Uncle Phil Said He’s a SICK F–K.” That phrase was one I was labeled with in a document submitted to the police by the brother-in-law of “Rev.” Jeremy Cheezum

1. “Rev.” Jeremy Cheezum Complicit in 11 Years of Lying, Abuse
This post was formerly titled, “Uncle Phil Said He’s a SICK F–K.” That
phrase was one I was labeled with in a document submitted to the
police by the brother-in-law of “Rev.” Jeremy Cheezum, whose four
children are the inspiration of this post. Those children’s aunt, uncle,
and grandfather, who are today prohibited by mandate of the court
from harassing me further, endeavored to have me imprisoned based
on false, filthy, and/or frivolous allegations. They employed
unscrupulous attorneys and exploited laws that are typically criticized
by conservatives as destructive to the family, conservatives, it’s worth
noting, like those of Pastor Cheezum’s evangelical Christian
congregation, which Montrose Mirror columnist Gail Marvel has
reported is mostly “young families with children.” Conservatives
criticize the laws for good reason: While advocates of these laws pay
lip service to child welfare, children are arguably the predominant
victims of the laws’ commonplace abuse. Among the ways children
are damaged is exposure to the twisted games that self-indulgent
adults play. Jeremy Cheezum

2. You Sick Fuck
This message was communicated to me by email on the first day of
what would become 12 years of legal harassment by the aunt and
uncle of the children who inspired this post. Their uncle Phil I had
never met. Their auntie Tiffany I knew better than I ever should have.
She had nightly lingered outside of my house for months and taunted
me with references to her body and underwear, apparently relishing
the attention. Then she lied to the police and the court to conceal her
misconduct when I learned she was married and demanded an
explanation—and she has lied over and over since (as testimony I’ve
included below shows plainly). The message above was sent after
Phil and Tiffany Bredfeldt had obtained a court injunction forbidding
me from responding to it. Sort of like a four-letter nyah-nyah. The
couple thought it would be cute to send a copy of the message to the
police, apparently to reinforce the idea that they were afraid for their
lives (because why wouldn’t you provoke someone you were afraid
of?). I was an aspirant kids’ writer with a puppy and a parent in
chemotherapy. Maybe the spoiled brats. Rev Jeremy Cheezum
Like many or most of those who visit this site and identify with its
accounts and criticisms of false accusation and abused and abusive
laws, I’ve been lied about a lot and for a long time, and the lies may
continue today.

3. I have no way of knowing.
What I do know, because I know I’ve been monitored for as long as I’ve
been lied about, is that there’s no one I’ve appealed to for help over
the years who can possibly be unaware of the truth today.
That includes Jeremy Cheezum,
today minister of Trinity Reformed
Presbyterian Church (TRPC) in
Montrose, Colorado. If mention of
his name attracts any of his
congregants to this post and site, so
much the better, because I think
they’re exactly the kind of forthrightly
ethical people who are offended by
the excesses of feminism and
MeToo movementeers.
I appealed several times to Rev. Cheezum for aid in gaining
relief from persistent false accusations made by his brother-
in-law’s wife, Tiffany Bredfeldt. I reckoned a pastor, a person
who might well identify himself as an evangelist of truth, would
be eager to serve the truth and promote peace.
Not only did I never hear from him, but his wife’s father, Dr. Ray
Bredfeldt, a Presbyterian deacon who got rich flacking health insurance,
volunteered to testify in court five years later to have me jailed while
my father lay dying and to have me forbidden, besides, from ever
sharing the truth with anyone in any way for the rest of my own life. He
wasted his time and years more of mine.

4. In my appeals to Pastor Cheezum, I had told him that cleaning up
Auntie Tiffany’s lies would be costly and that those lies had left me in
no position to foot the bill. The good reverend passed my appeals along
to his in-laws whose shyster lawyers represented them to the court as
extortion (and threatened a felony prosecution in federal court). The
allegation was baseless, and it was abandoned when I declined to be
intimidated and submit to their terms. Pastor Jeremy Cheezum
Their terms boiled down to disappear and die.
Here’s a synopsis of statements Fletcher Cheezum, Bailey Cheezum,
(Philip) Logan Cheezum, and Lydia Cheezum’s aunt gave in evidence to
the court or, in one instance, to the police only between 2006 and
2017. The story they tell isn’t the half of it, but it’s succinct, and its
contradictions are palpable. The children’s aunt has lied impulsively,
randomly, and wickedly and then lied to conceal the lying. (The
children’s uncle Philip, Rev. Cheezum’s brother-in-law, after whom one
of the kids may be named, was incidentally privy to all of these
statements and has supported them fully, including under oath.)
I’ve never met Rev. Cheezum or his kids. The children, however, I pity,
because I don’t think this conduct is a kind that should be role-
modeled. Some might consider deceiving law enforcement officials and
judges against the law.
Rev. Cheezum and his wife, Kim, like me a former teacher, have seemed
cool with it, and to me that’s worse role-modeling yet. And what a
simple Google search suggests is that their kids spend a lot of time with
Grampa Bredfeldt, a man who sought to have me shut up and locked
away to save face and expense (but who probably supports the
Cheezums generously. Presbyterian Church in America

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*My father starved to death in 2016, without dignity or grandchildren,
alone in a cramped room in a cut-rate nursing home, while the latest
series of prosecutions brought or motivated by the family this post
concerns was raging. I spent the last night of my dad’s life preoccupied
with another family’s dysfunction. These people have allowed their
disease to corrupt and diminish others’ lives for almost 14 years.
**My impression of Jeremy Cheezum’s reaction to this post (which may
give him more credit. Presbyterian Church in America